Bernard Lafferty: The Billionaire Butler | 204

Born into staggering wealth, Doris Duke lived a life that dazzled the public and confounded those closest to her. She was pursued by society figures, fortune hunters, and even a dictator or two. But in her final years, the real drama unfolded behind closed doors. As Doris’s health declined, a bitter power struggle erupted for control of her fortune, her legacy and her trust. At the center of it all was her controversial butler, Bernard Lafferty, whose intense devotion to Doris raised as many questions as it answered – and whose relentless battle for her millions would end up costing him dearly. Audible subscribers can listen to all episodes of Scamfluencers ad-free right now. Join Audible today by downloading the Audible app. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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• 0:00Scaachi Koul?

  Heads up to our listeners. This episode describes instances of domestic violence. Please listen with care.

• 0:13Scaachi Koul?

  Sarah, are there any inheritances due to you in the next decade or two perhaps you'd like to share with the class?

• 0:19Sarah Hagi?

  I mean, I hope not, because that means someone would be dead.

• 0:24Scaachi Koul?

  But it doesn't have to be someone you like.

• 0:26Sarah Hagi?

  I love anyone who would give me inheritance.

• 0:28Scaachi Koul?

  OK, well.

• 0:29Sarah Hagi?

  I mean, I've asked my mom for her wedding rings despite being famously divorced, but I really think I could pull them off.

• 0:36Scaachi Koul?

  Absolutely, you could.

• 0:37Sarah Hagi?

  Give me one, I'll think about it.

• 0:40Scaachi Koul?

  Well, I ask because today's story is about a great fortune that ruined almost all of one woman's relationships, but made one man's life a lot more extravagant.

• 0:53Scaachi Koul?

  It's April 1993, and Doris Duke is laying in bed in a private hospital suite in Beverly Hills. She's 80 years old, six feet tall, and weighs just 92 pounds. And Doris has really lived. She inherited a massive fortune at just 12 years old. She spent decades jetting around the world, palling around with people like scam flancers alum Imelda Marcos, marrying international playboys, and capturing the attention of the tabloids. But now Doris is out of gas. She's spent the last few years in and out of the hospital for various injuries, strokes, chronic anemia, and even depression. At this stage of her life, Doris depends on a small circle of people to help her maintain

• 1:36Scaachi Koul?

  even a shadow of her former lifestyle. And no one is more important than the man at her side, her loyal butler Bernard Lafferty. Bernard is in his late 40s with a round face and a blonde ponytail and a diamond stud in his left ear. He's one of the only people Doris feels that she can really trust. That trust is why Doris has invited someone else to the hospital today, her lawyer. Doris wants to change her will and name Bernard as the executor of her estate. This is a big decision. Bernard won't just run a $1.2 billion charitable foundation. He'll also receive a $5 million fee, plus half a million dollars a year for life.

• 2:20Scaachi Koul?

  Sure, Bernard didn't finish grade school and he can barely read or write. But Doris has been burned again and again by friends and confidants who keep letting her down. She trusts Bernard and she's confident in her decision.

• 2:34Sarah Hagi?

  You know, every time I hear a story like this, I wish to have the vibe of someone like Bernard, maybe where like, someone will just want to give me millions of dollars.

• 2:43Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. Again and again, Sarah, you and I wish we could be better scam artists through this show. It just hasn't happened yet.

• 2:49Sarah Hagi?

  Even if I tried my best to manipulate someone, I couldn't ever get this far.

• 2:53Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, me neither. Well, Doris is sure, but other people might have questions. That's why her lawyer asks if he can film Doris signing the papers. He wants to make sure that there's evidence that she's making this decision with a sound mind. But Doris says no. She's never liked being photographed, and she definitely doesn't want the world to see how old and frail she is now. So instead, the lawyer asks if she knows where she is. She names the hospital and answers to the lawyer's satisfaction. They raise her bed to the upright position, the lawyer places the new will on her lap, and Doris signs. For more than 60 years, Doris's fortune has loomed over her as a corrupting force, warping relationships and poisoning intimacy.

• 3:38Scaachi Koul?

  Bernard is simply the last, most successful person to stake a claim to it. And while Doris believes she's finally settled the question of her estate, she's actually set the stage for a legal battle that will threaten to eclipse her legacy long after she's gone.

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• 4:47Scaachi Koul?

  From Wondery, I'm Sachi Cole. And I'm Sarah Hagee. And this is Scamfluencers.

• 5:01Scaachi Koul?

  Doris Duke was a mysterious socialite, born into unimaginable wealth and privilege, pursued by society figures, fortune hunters, and even a dictator or two. But in the final fraught years of her life, Doris became the center of a tug-of-war between two of her closest confidants, her butler, Bernard Lafferty, and her adopted daughter. Though Bernard emerged victorious, his ruthless pursuit of Doris's favor and her fortune left his reputation in shambles after her death. In the end, it's Bernard's fight to hold on to the money and his sanity that drives his story to a tragic end. This is Bernard Lafferty, The Billionaire Butler.

• 5:45Scaachi Koul?

  Doris Duke might have chosen Bernard Lafferty to execute her will, but there's really only been one truly important man in her life: her father. James Buchanan Duke, known as Buck, was a larger-than-life industrialist with a swashbuckling reputation and a ruthless business instinct. He made his fortune by pioneering the mass production of cigarettes. By the time Doris is born in 1912, Buck is 55 years old and her mother is 43. So Doris has old parents. Buck is a workaholic, but he's also a devoted father to his only child. He builds her a palace on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan. He's fiercely protective and has Doris watched constantly by private guards. For her part,

• 6:29Scaachi Koul?

  young Doris is the ultimate daddy's girl. She writes him letters that he slips into his pocket before work and kisses several times throughout the day.

• 6:39Sarah Hagi?

  Would it shock you to tell you that I was this little girl once? And my dad wasn't even building me a palace. It would not shock me, honestly. That feels right and pure.

• 6:51Scaachi Koul?

  But in 1925, when Doris is just 12 years old, Buck suddenly collapses. And while they have the best doctor's money can buy, it's not enough. Buck recognizes that he's leaving Doris with more than a huge fortune. Soon, she too will face all the same sycophants and opportunists who will want a piece of it. So on his deathbed, he gives Doris advice that will define the rest of her life. Trust no one.

• 7:19Sarah Hagi?

  Listen, I'm not one to criticize a man on his deathbed, but if I were to edit his statement, I think that's a scary thing to say to a 12-year-old. I mean, she should be more aware of who she should trust, but "trust no one" is scary to hear.

• 7:34Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, it's pretty brutal. Doris is devastated by her father's death. And afterward, her life becomes even more sheltered. Doris's mother, Nanaleen, takes complete control, and the two of them don't really get along. By Doris's late teens, Nanaleen wants her to focus on finding the right husband, while Doris wants to follow her own passions, like clog dancing. By this point, Doris is a real prize, and not just because of her fortune. Here's a photo of her in her early 20s.

• 8:06Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, I'm familiar with her just because she's like a big name, and I feel like her name's on buildings and stuff and foundations and whatever. But I had no idea she was this beautiful. This is like a photo of an old-timey actress.

• 8:19Scaachi Koul?

  She's a hottie.

• 8:20Sarah Hagi?

  She's a hot woman. This is a beautiful, black-and-white portrait of her in a stunning dress. Like, if you showed me this and said she was a famous actress, I'd be like, of course she was.

• 8:29Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, she looks amazing. And in 1933, when Doris is 21, she finally gains access to the first part of her inheritance: $10 million, or nearly $250 million in today's money. And two years later, she finds a way to follow her passions and piss off her mom. His name is Jimmy Cromwell. Jimmy is a good-looking, bed-hopping, divorced socialite whose family lost its fortune in the Great Depression. He's 16 years older than Doris, with short hair, a square jaw, and a very high impression of himself. Here's a picture of Jimmy from around this time.

• 9:07Sarah Hagi?

  It's a photo of him in a boxing ring. He's wearing those short shorts. He looks quite fit. I mean, yeah, he's a handsome guy. I could see why she'd be into him.

• 9:16Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. Well, Doris and Jimmy get married in 1935. And Sarah, it's a disaster. On their wedding night, he asks her for an allowance. During their marriage, they travel the world and fight the entire time. Jimmy tries and fails to start a political career. And worst of all, Doris gives birth prematurely to a daughter, who dies after just 24 hours. By 1943, Doris has had enough. She moves into a hotel in Reno to establish residency so she can file for a divorce. By the beginning of 1944, Doris is 31 years old, divorced, and finally free. She jets off to Cairo to work as a war correspondent

• 10:00Scaachi Koul?

  and an OSS agent. But once World War II ends, Doris falls into a familiar pattern of bad relationships. She marries an international playboy, but dumps him for cheating. Then comes a decade-long relationship with a Mexican jazz pianist. The relationship is volatile. She has him followed by a PI when she thinks he's cheating, and she stabs him in the arm during an argument in Honolulu. The relationship finally ends after he assaults her for closing a record company that she'd opened for him. Throughout all of this, Doris struggles to find herself. She tries to be a dancer, a musician, an actor. But even with her limitless resources, she can't quite make any of these work.

• 10:43Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, I feel like people who are born into extraordinary wealth, people who never need to work again, the thing they need to do is to actually find something to do, or they will fall into these patterns. Unless someone has a purpose, something that's keeping them busy most of the days, they will just end up making every mistake possible.

• 11:04Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, people need direction. Well, after her breakup with the pianist, Doris finds solace in a friend, a gay interior designer named Eduardo Tirrell. With Eduardo's help, Doris throws herself into restoring and redecorating her properties. But eventually, the two start clashing over creative and logistical choices. And Doris is drinking heavily by now, sometimes as many as three bottles of wine at dinner. She's depressed one moment, then manic the next. Eduardo tells her that he wants to leave to pursue a career as a Hollywood set designer. But he's in a lot of debt, so Doris easily convinces him to stay to finish working on her estate in Newport, Rhode Island.

• 11:46Scaachi Koul?

  And somehow, this friendship ends more tragically than any of Doris's romantic relationships. One day, in October of 1966, Eduardo gets out of the car to manually unlatch the gate at the end of Doris's driveway while she waits behind the wheel. What happens next is unclear, but the car ends up lurching forward, smashing through the gate, and crushing Eduardo. When the police arrive, Doris is so consumed by grief, she's incoherent. It's a huge scandal, and the rumors swirl that Doris killed Eduardo to prevent him from leaving. Friends and family of Eduardo's later say she was furious with him, and the press speculates that perhaps Doris was drunk behind the wheel.

• 12:28Scaachi Koul?

  Eduardo himself had complained about Doris's drinking to their mutual friends.

• 12:34Sarah Hagi?

  You know, this is an actual way people die and have died. It's not totally uncommon. But regardless, I do think this is one of those things that will raise suspicion because it is such a freak accident. And she had, I guess, this really up-and-down relationship with someone she was very close to.

• 12:51Scaachi Koul?

  Ultimately, the police rule his death as an accident. And in the days that follow, Doris starts writing checks. She donates $25,000 to restore Newport's historic cliffwalk. That's nearly $200,000 today. She also sets up the Newport Restoration Foundation. Whether or not Doris caused Eduardo's death, she throws her money at the problem. Doris has spent her entire life trying to recapture the intimacy she shared with her father, but everyone she's loved has eventually left her. And now, in her mid-50s, Doris is lonely and searching for meaning. And that makes her more vulnerable than ever.

• 13:32Scaachi Koul?

  It's February 1984, and Shandy Hefner is marveling at ornate tiles, beautiful paintings, and Islamic art from Damascus. But she's not in Syria. Shandy is in the Damascus Room of Doris's Hawaiian palace. This world is a far cry from the one Shandy came from. Born Charlene Gail Hefner in 1953, she grew up in an upper-middle-class family in the suburbs of Baltimore. After high school, she ran away from home to find herself, traveling around the world before becoming a Hare Krishna and landing in Hawaii, where she lives in something like an ashram. But Shandy seems to have gotten tired of commune life. In the past few years, she appears to have developed a taste for the finer things,

• 14:15Scaachi Koul?

  like traveling to Oahu for polo matches. Some people chalk this up to jealousy. In 1980, Shandy's sister Claudia married the activist investor Nelson Peltz, introducing Shandy to the lifestyles of the rich and famous, like Nelson's mentor, junk bond king and scamfluencers alum, Michael Milken. And Shandy appears to be specifically interested in getting to know Doris. She recently befriended the artistic director at a dance studio where Doris has taken classes, and asked him about Doris. He's actually the one who brought her to the Dukas estate today. She was supposed to wait at the gate for him, but instead, she came into the house. And now, she's chatting with Doris herself.

• 14:58Sarah Hagi?

  You know, it's crazy that people kind of make a career out of finding the richest person they can befriend. It's a whole type of lifestyle where it's like watercooler talk around a yoga studio and you find a rich person.

• 15:14Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, it's an interesting gig if you can figure out how to do it. Shandy might be a surprise visitor, but she and Doris get along incredibly well. They bond over their shared love of dance, animals, and nature. They exchange phone numbers and start hanging out almost every day. At the end of the summer, Doris invites Shandee to Duke Farms, her estate in Somerville, New Jersey. Shandee accepts. From that point on, the two women spend nearly every moment together. They travel together to Russia and then to Romania for a rejuvenation cure. Back home, they tend to Doris's many animals and they shop frequently, buying everything from clothing to jewelry to expensive horse saddles.

• 15:56Scaachi Koul?

  Shandee and Doris become close, so close that it sparks rumors that the two women are lovers. It doesn't help that Doris usually tells people that Shandee is her niece, which is kind of a classic cover for mistress around this time. For what it's worth, Shandee and Doris both deny these rumors. But Shandee and Doris are eccentric. They allegedly inject themselves with sheep's cell placenta every day to stay young and engage in channeling sessions. During one of these sessions, Doris allegedly becomes convinced that Shandee is the reincarnation of the daughter she lost in 1940. Eventually, Shandee says that she needs to return to her ranch in Hawaii to take care of her own animals. But Doris allegedly promises to, quote,

• 16:41Scaachi Koul?

  "Take care of you and all of your animals for the rest of your life." From here, Shandee's influence grows, especially over Doris's staff. She helps Doris hire a new accountant and a new head of security, men who previously worked for her sister's husband, Nelson. Later, Shandee claims that she's just helping to streamline things for Doris. And sure, it's possible that Doris wanted the staffing shakeups, but it seems to give Shandee significant power over Doris's life.

• 17:11Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, I mean, this type of rich woman like Doris obviously reminds me a lot of our previous subject, Lillian Bettencourt. But there's something so significant about like, her father saying, "Trust no one," being such an important thing to happen to her and then seeing her frequently just trust anyone, it seems, you know? And also, like, if someone has the best intentions for you, they're not going to make every choice for you.

• 17:36Scaachi Koul?

  Right. It's all a little fishy. And in June of 1987, a little over three years after Shandee met Doris, Doris's longtime butler leaves. This is a critical role. Doris's butler essentially functions as her personal assistant. And Shandy actually knows someone who's both qualified and available. Bernard Lafferty. Bernard briefly worked for Nelson and Claudia. And while they fired him for having a drinking problem, the couple still like him and want him to land somewhere. Bernard also worked for Elizabeth Taylor, as well as the singer Peggy Lee. So Shandy knows that he gets along with rich women of a certain age. She must feel confident in Bernard because she recommends him to Doris.

• 18:20Scaachi Koul?

  Bernard turns out to be a perfect fit. Doris likes him because he's soft spoken and helps her with fine motor tasks like sewing and embroidery. Shandy seems to like him because he's fun to gossip with. In just a few years, Shandy has gone from communal living to queen of the castle. And now she has a trusted ally by her side. But her new best friend is about to start making moves of his own.

• 18:46Scaachi Koul?

  It's July of 1987, just a few weeks after Bernard started working for Doris. And Doris's head chef, Thomas Ryback, is weighing a question from his boss. Should she keep Bernard around? Thomas is in his late 30s with kind brown eyes and a long oval face. He's worked in fine dining for years with ambitions of developing a celebrity clientele. He's worked for Doris for about three years, which in Doris's Duke time is an eternity. Doris isn't easy on her staff and there is constant turnover. The fact that Thomas has lasted this long means Doris trusts his opinion. But he's not sure what to tell her about Bernard. Recently, he and Doris's head of security found Bernard naked and flopped over a chair,

• 19:29Scaachi Koul?

  passed out and surrounded by empty bottles of Duke Farms liquor. Bernard was immediately taken to the hospital to dry out, and Doris put him in rehab. This wasn't out of character for her. Doris has a reputation for being both incredibly stingy and willing to go to extreme lengths for people and causes she cares about. And while she's in a charitable mood at the moment, she's not sure if she wants to bring Bernard back when he finishes rehab.

• 19:56Scaachi Koul?

  Over the past few weeks, Thomas has found himself rooting for Bernard. He's learned that Bernard grew up in Ireland, was orphaned before he turned 17, and moved across the Atlantic to live with his only surviving relative in Philadelphia. From there, Bernard landed a job at the swanky Bellevue Stratford Hotel. He worked his way up to managing some of the hotel's restaurants, before eventually working for celebrities like Peggy Lee and Liz Taylor. Bernard has the kind of success story that Thomas can't help but root for. On top of that, Thomas really appreciates that Bernard balances out Shandee. Shandee is a vegetarian and animal lover with very strong opinions about food, so she can be kind of a nightmare for the kitchen. Thomas just wants to keep his head down and work without too much interference.

• 20:41Scaachi Koul?

  And Bernard can act as a literal buffer between the kitchen and the dining room. So Thomas tells Doris to give Bernard another chance. She agrees. And when Bernard finishes rehab at the end of the month, he returns to the estate.

• 20:55Sarah Hagi?

  I don't think it's necessarily insane to have someone come back to work after rehab. It seems pretty fair to give someone a second chance. But Doris's life is just, it's so chaotic, the way that only a rich person's can be. And you peel back these layers and you're just like, what is happening?

• 21:13Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, this should all be a little easier. At first, Thomas is happy to have Bernard back. But almost immediately, he notices that Bernard seems different. Shandee and Bernard are now disappearing off into corners, just the two of them. It feels like an alliance is forming, and that perhaps Bernard is making a play for more power. Then, one night after dinner, Bernard comes into the kitchen carrying plates and tells Thomas that, quote, "Miss Hefner's complaining." According to Bernard, the food is too cold. Thomas is shocked. He's worked for Doris for years and he's never received this type of complaint. Besides, there's not a ton of room for error. Shandee is exactly a groom on, and with her dietary restrictions,

• 21:58Scaachi Koul?

  he's reduced to mostly serving her low-calorie, high-fiber bland foods. Thomas reheats the meal, but he's suspicious. He thinks Bernard waited to serve the food until it got cold. It's not a crazy thought. There are always power struggles between the staff. It's possible Bernard is siding with Shandee and trying to make Thomas look bad to put him out of Doris's favor. As the summer wears on, Bernard keeps bringing back the food. And Thomas becomes even more sure that he is being sabotaged. Eventually, it gets so bad that Doris's head of security pulls Thomas aside to ask a sensitive question. He tells Thomas that Doris is so concerned about the quality of the food

• 22:39Scaachi Koul?

  that she suspects Thomas may be on drugs, and she wants him to submit to a drug test. Thomas agrees, and the test comes back clean, but he's still furious. He's just trying to do his job, and it feels like Bernard and Shandee are pushing him out. Just before Labor Day, after weeks of arguing with Bernard, Thomas quits. Thomas regrets ever recommending Bernard's return. He's lost a major client in Doris, but he's also relieved to escape this increasingly toxic dynamic. But everyone else around Bernard, Shandee, and Doris isn't so lucky. And the three are about to grow even closer.

• 23:20Scaachi Koul?

  It's November of 1988, about 14 months after Thomas quit. Shandee and Doris sit in a light-green station wagon pulling up to a drab, gray country courthouse in Somerville, New Jersey. It's less swanky than the places they usually go, but today, they're doing something monumental. Doris is legally adopting 35-year-old Shandee.

• 23:42Sarah Hagi?

  Oh.

• 23:42Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. Well, Sarah, the ceremony itself is pretty weird. Shandee formally renounces her biological parents, and she changes her legal name to Shandee Duke Hefner, neither of which is actually required.

• 23:57Sarah Hagi?

  No, this is cra- this is not happening. There's not an adult adoption happening right now. This is wrong.

• 24:04Scaachi Koul?

  It is happening. I know you're not happy about it, but it is happening. But I'll tell you what is required, is convincing the judge that she is not being adopted for financial reasons, which is tough, because Doris has been a shrewd businesswoman when it comes to her father's wealth. And at this point, she's worth an estimated $800 million, or over $2 billion in today's money.

• 24:27Sarah Hagi?

  Oh my god. Wait, so why else would she be getting adopted if it's not for money? Like, literally, what else would you want as an adult for someone to adopt you?

• 24:35Scaachi Koul?

  I mean, you know, love of the game. To be fair, Shandy doesn't necessarily need the money. She's already been named executor of Doris's estate. And since this will come up later, I should say that this doesn't necessarily mean she's inheriting everything. Being the executor means that after Doris is gone, Shandy will be in charge of managing Doris's charitable foundation, the main beneficiary of her fortune. The job also comes with a generous fee. But the adoption is still a big deal. After Doris lost her baby, she never had any other children. And so now, Shandy becomes Doris's only real descendant.

• 25:14Sarah Hagi?

  Does she know she can adopt a baby or a child? That's also a thing you can do, like, someone in need? I don't know. Just spitballing out here, you don't have to adopt your 35-year-old friend.

• 25:24Scaachi Koul?

  She wanted to adopt her 35-year-old friend.

• 25:26Sarah Hagi?

  Oh, my god.

• 25:28Scaachi Koul?

  Well, the ceremony is intense for Doris, too. The judge asks if she understands that the adoption, quote, "creates a relationship between you and Ms. Hefner as if she were born to you in wedlock." Doris says that she does. Then the judge adds, quote, "including the right of inheritance." And Doris says yes. The whole thing is pretty crazy, and even decades later, no one can actually agree on how it happened. Of course, Shandy says it was Doris's idea, but other observers believe Shandy coerced Doris into the adoption. And some of Doris's staff say that, actually, it was Bernard's idea. They say that one night, after Shandy and Doris got into a fight in Newport, Doris fell and hit her head. After she went to the hospital, Bernard started telling her how awful it would be if she

• 26:13Scaachi Koul?

  didn't have an established next of kin. Sure, Doris does have a half-nephew who would technically fulfill that role, but who's keeping track? Now that she's been adopted, Shandy likely feels a new sense of security. In the eyes of the law, she is a duke. Shandy appears to have consolidated almost total control over Doris and Doris's money. But she's about to face an unlikely threat: her former best friend, Bernard Lafferty.

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• 27:45Scaachi Koul?

  It's February 1991, just over two years since Doris adopted Shandee Hefner. And Dr. Harry Demopolis is sitting at home in New York when he gets a frantic call from Doris. Harry calls himself a longevity specialist. And he has a lot of celebrity clients like Sylvester Stallone and Clint Eastwood. And those might seem like red flags, but Harry is a real doctor who has contributed to cancer research. Harry has known Doris for about a decade, and he considers her a friend as well as a client. So when she begs him to come to Los Angeles to help her, he goes. When Harry arrives at Doris's Beller Mansion, things are dire. Doris is paranoid, and she tells Harry that Shandee tried to kill her.

• 28:27Scaachi Koul?

  Things have clearly gone downhill between Doris and Shandee since the adoption. Doris asks Harry to test her blood, along with other items from her Hawaii estate, for traces of poison. Bernard is by Doris's side the whole time. Over and over, he tells Harry, "Oh, doctor, we just escaped." When Harry runs the test, they come back negative. But Doris has her sherry from Hawaii tested separately, and that test comes back positive, showing traces of an anticoagulant that's also used as rat poison.

• 29:02Sarah Hagi?

  Listen, anything could be happening right now because this guy can be a total crock of shit doctor who thinks everything is poisonous, or sees a trace amount of something that's already an ingredient and says it's poison.

• 29:14Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah.

• 29:14Sarah Hagi?

  I really don't know what's happening right now, but I do feel like Doris is probably paranoid for a reason.

• 29:20Scaachi Koul?

  Well, things are pretty chaotic, and Doris tells Harry that she wants to dis-adopt Shandy.

• 29:27Sarah Hagi?

  What, she's gonna give her back?

• 29:28Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah.

• 29:28Sarah Hagi?

  To someone? Like, what does that mean?

• 29:30Scaachi Koul?

  She's gonna put this woman in her mid-30s in a cardboard box and leave her outside the fire station.

• 29:35Sarah Hagi?

  Exactly. So good.

• 29:37Scaachi Koul?

  After she talks to her lawyers, she tells Harry that she can't actually do that, but she can disinherit her and remove Shandy as the executor of the estate. Doris knows just who she wants to replace Shandy in the role: Harry himself. From the outside, this looks sketchy, but Harry is actually a really good candidate for the role. He's educated, he cares about Doris, and he's known her for a long time. So, a few weeks later, in March of 1991, she names him as the co-executor of her estate alongside a bank. This part is pretty normal. Financial institutions are often designated to help administer large estates. Harry visits Doris several times over the next few months, and she seems to be doing a lot better.

• 30:22Scaachi Koul?

  To his relief, removing Shandy seems to have solved some of Doris's health problems and depression.

• 30:30Scaachi Koul?

  Doris becomes incredibly dependent on Harry during this period. She gives him the nickname "D-Mop" and insists that staff put his calls through immediately. But, as the summer of 1991 winds down, something shifts. Doris becomes more reluctant to answer his calls, and when she does pick up the phone, she seems distant. One day in October, Doris tells Harry, quote, "I don't want to see you. I've heard from two sources that you're saying bad things about me." Eventually, he learns who the sources are: Doris's accountant, Erwin Bloom, and Bernard. They've been telling Doris that Harry is a manipulative quack, and it soon becomes clear why. Erwin replaces Harry as Doris's executor,

• 31:14Scaachi Koul?

  while Bernard is written directly into the will, securing himself a $98,000 annual income for life.

• 31:22Scaachi Koul?

  Harry is dismayed. He was one of the few people who really had Doris's best interests at heart. And now, all he can do is watch as Bernard tightens his grip on Doris and her fortune.

• 31:37Scaachi Koul?

  With Harry out of the way, Bernard is firmly in the driver's seat. And for a while, things seemed good. Doris appears energized again, and her friends comment on how attentive Bernard is. He even does her hair. But eventually, Doris's energy fades again. And rather than going back to Hawaii for the winter, Bernard decides that he and Doris should go to Los Angeles to see a doctor. But not Harry. The new doctor is named Roland Atiga. He previously treated Ferdinand Marcos, and one of Doris's housekeepers later describes him as, "A sniveling little Machiavellian worm." Roland backs up Bernard's claim that Shandy was trying to poison Doris.

• 32:19Scaachi Koul?

  Doris's deteriorating health now has an explanation. But this only makes Doris even more paranoid and gives Bernard even more control. We don't know the details of Bernard and Roland's relationship, but we do know that Doris pays Roland over $100,000 for a treatment everyone refers to as "blood cleaning." And she loans him about $400,000 to help with some back taxes. But Doris's health doesn't improve. So when she and Bernard travel to Vietnam a couple of months later, in February 1992, Roland comes with them. This way, he can continue treating her for weakness and marked depression. There's a photo from around this time. Sarah, can you describe it?

• 33:02Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, it's a black and white photo of Doris, Bernard, and someone named Nuku on one of those touristy boats. She's wearing big sunglasses, a scarf over her head. And Doris, for someone that old, she looks like she's having a really nice time.

• 33:18Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, I mean, even though Doris is sick and frail, Bernard is always there to hype her up. While they're on the trip, Doris decides she wants to cut out her accountant and put Bernard in charge. Bernard is delighted. Once they get back to the US, Doris installs Bernard as co-executor of her estate alongside her nephew, Walker Inman Jr. The following day, Doris undergoes a facelift, eyelift, and cheek implants with Bernard's support, of course. But at almost 80 years old, Doris is too frail for the extensive surgeries, and she falls and breaks her hip. Throughout it all, Bernard intercepts calls from Doris's friends, assuring them that, "Miss Duke is doing well. She's getting better."

• 34:02Sarah Hagi?

  Ugh, that really makes me sad. She is clearly being isolated, and it's really quite nuts that someone of her stature and who has the amount of resources she does could be this frail.

• 34:16Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. Well, then, finally, in April 1993, Doris, under Bernard's care, decides to draw up one last will. This is the moment we opened the episode with, where the lawyer asks Doris if she knows where she is. It's a reasonable question, because between the surgeries and various medical treatments, Doris isn't in great shape. She's emaciated and can barely walk or eat. But she is still committed to leaving Bernard in charge. Or at least, that's what Bernard says later. This should be a final moment of victory for him, but he's about to hear from someone he thought was out of the picture: Doris's estranged daughter.

• 35:01Scaachi Koul?

  On April 6, 1993, literally the day after Doris signs her final will, Shandy is back at the courthouse in Somerville, New Jersey. It's the same place where she was legally adopted by Doris, but at this time, Shandy is there to sue the woman who is legally her mother. Two years ago, Doris left with Bernard for a dentist appointment and never spoke to Shandy again. Instead, Shandy received a call from Doris's lawyer, instructing her to leave the Hawaiian estate and never come back. Shortly after that, Shandy was cut out of the will. The public hasn't exactly been kind to Shandee either. About a year ago, a journalist published a book about Doris with an entire chapter devoted

• 35:44Scaachi Koul?

  to Shandee, titled "Daughter Dearest." It's likely a reference to "Mobby Dearest," the movie depicting actress Joan Crawford as a manipulative, abusive tyrant. In the book, Shandee is portrayed as the ultimate fortune hunter, using her faux spirituality and even her sexuality to coerce Doris into subservience.

• 36:06Scaachi Koul?

  Going up against Doris Duke is pretty daunting. Doris has nearly endless resources, and she's happy to wait out her many enemies. But Shandee is desperate. In her lawsuit, Shandee claims that Doris promised to provide for her financially for life in exchange for being her constant companion and managing her estates. Shandee says that she sold Doris's gold for her, purchased a plane, hired a bodyguard to protect her from kidnapping, managed the farm, and reorganized the staff. Shandee describes her time with Doris as "an act of charity." She also claims that she saved Doris's life several times, including once plunging into the frigid Atlantic to save Doris from drowning.

• 36:48Scaachi Koul?

  Doris has been the subject of tabloid speculation for years, and now her dirty laundry is being aired in public. But Shandee doesn't come away unscathed either. In the lawsuit, Shandee claims that she and Doris led a sedate, tranquil life together. But a former member of Doris's staff tells The Washington Post that the two women fought constantly, with arguments that usually resulted in broken dishes. The staffer says that Shandee, quote, "out Leona Helmsley, Leona Helmsley."

• 37:19Sarah Hagi?

  Damn, I mean, once again, we're seeing a bombshell lawsuit expose everything. I kind of believe they were both equally crazy.

• 37:30Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, tough to figure out who's at fault fully here. Shandee may have dealt a blow to Doris's image, but she's facing an uphill battle. In that same Washington Post story, an anonymous member of the Duke family downplays the possibility that Shandee will get a settlement, saying, quote, "I think Doris will turn it over to her lawyer and say, 'Crush her.'" Shandee is bracing for a long fight with Doris, but she doesn't realize that all hell is about to break loose, because Doris's time is running out.

• 38:03Scaachi Koul?

  It's October 27th, 1993, almost seven months after Shandee filed her lawsuit. Bernard is by Doris's side at her Los Angeles home, along with her longtime maid and some medical professionals. Doris is just a few weeks shy of her 81st birthday, but nobody is in the mood to celebrate because she is on her deathbed. Over the summer, Doris had double knee replacement surgery, but one of her knees became infected, triggering a spiral of health problems. Now Doris has a feeding tube implanted in her stomach and a tracheotomy tube to assist with breathing. She's also receiving a lot of morphine. Later, there are disagreements about Doris's final wishes. Some people claim Doris said that she doesn't want to go on living.

• 38:48Scaachi Koul?

  Others claim that she was planning to go back to Duke Farms to recover. In an affidavit, one staff member later alleges that Bernard received a package of morphine and said, quote, "Miss Duke is going to die tonight." However it happened, more medication is administered, and Doris dies in her sleep at around 6:00 a.m. the next morning.

• 39:10Sarah Hagi?

  Obviously, this is suspicious, but there could be a universe where this is kind of something Doris asked for and that, you know, this kind of stuff does happen where someone wants to choose when they end their life if they're already that sick. But who knows? Who knows? I guess it really depends on what Bernard does later.

• 39:28Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, and almost immediately Bernard starts making strange decisions. Within hours of her death, he oversees Doris's cremation. Soon after that, he flies to Hawaii to scatter her ashes in a private ceremony with no family in attendance. This is all very weird because Doris had told several of her friends that she hated the thought of being cremated. She said that she wanted to be buried at sea. And even though Bernard does seem devastated, he's also very ready to enjoy his new lifestyle. As the executor of Doris's estate, he's just inherited $5 million, plus a lifetime annuity of half a million dollars a year.

• 40:09Scaachi Koul?

  And this is in 1990's money, which means that $5 million would be worth more than $11 million today. Soon after Doris's death, Bernard has her jewelry appraised at Christie's. He also continues drawing his $100,000 a year salary as Doris's executive assistant, even though she is dead.

• 40:32Scaachi Koul?

  A few months later, in January 1994, an earthquake hits Los Angeles. Bernard uses it as an opportunity to renovate Doris's mansion, including fixing up the primary bedroom and spending tens of thousands of dollars to widen the doors to the garden. As executor, Bernard is supposed to be running Doris's charitable foundations and overseeing how her money is allocated. He is not supposed to spend the money on renovating her house. But then again, he also doesn't have permission to live there and sleep in her bedroom, which he is doing anyway. Basically, the properties belong to the Duke Foundation, not to Bernard. They're meant to be donated, open to the public, or sold, so the proceeds can fund charitable work.

• 41:16Scaachi Koul?

  And that earthquake isn't the only thing that shakes the Duke estate. In early 1994, Shandy files another lawsuit, this time directly challenging the will in Manhattan Surrogates Court. A few months after that, Dr. Harry files his own lawsuit, challenging Bernard's role in the will. Three of Doris's former employees also sue Bernard and the estate for harassment and breach of contract. Bernard is swimming in legal trouble, and his behavior grows more erratic. In June 1994, Bernard drives Doris's Cadillac through a red light and hits a light pole in four cars before crashing into the Whiskey A Go Go nightclub. We don't know for sure, but it's likely that he was drunk at the time of the accident.

• 42:00Scaachi Koul?

  A housekeeper had been driving Bernard around, but the two of them got into an argument, and Bernard was left to get home by himself. Instead of taking responsibility, he asked the estate to buy him a new car and hire him a personal chauffeur.

• 42:14Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, that's like, definitely not the reaction you're supposed to have when you get into that kind of car accident. And if maybe I was questioning like, how much Doris enabled him, like, it still just doesn't matter. Like, he could do whatever he wants, I guess.

• 42:29Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. And Bernard's money management is just as chaotic. At the end of 1994, he estimates he spent $60,000 on antiques, but the real number is $650,000. He also takes out a loan for more than $825,000 from the New York bank that handles Doris's estate. Bernard doesn't seem to care about any of this. He's too busy hitting the town with his old boss, Elizabeth Taylor. Outside observers don't know Bernard is gay, so they often assume that he is her boyfriend. Sarah, can you describe this picture of Bernard from around this time?

• 43:07Sarah Hagi?

  Yes. Okay, first of all, you know when you can't even see a full ponytail and you know there's like a crazy ponytail situation happening?

• 43:15Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah.

• 43:16Sarah Hagi?

  That's what's happening with Bernard. He is wearing some type of suit. His hair is pulled back into a low ponytail. He looks like he indulges, let's say. And he's wearing one of those red AIDS awareness ribbons that people would wear a lot in the 90s.

• 43:33Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah.

• 43:34Sarah Hagi?

  It's pretty funny also seeing this photo of him like around the time when people really knew who he was and to assume that, you know, maybe they were together. Because this is so clearly a gay guy, you know?

• 43:48Scaachi Koul?

  It is the gayest man to ever exist. Well, everything comes to a head in January 1995 when a nurse named Tammy Payette submits an affidavit in surrogate court claiming that Bernard conspired with Doris's doctors to murder her. These explosive accusations send the tabloids into overdrive with headlines like, "Did the butler do it?" And, "Liz Taylor has a new man, he's a murder suspect." Not long after she levels this claim, Tammy is discredited, and rightfully so. She's been stealing from her employers and is deemed an unreliable witness against Bernard. Even though Tammy isn't a credible source and no charges were ever filed against Bernard, the damage has been done.

• 44:30Scaachi Koul?

  Hollywood gossips never forget, and the accusations linger. The story of Bernard and Doris shifts depending on who's telling it. And every single angle looks different. But one thing is clear. Bernard is in for a fight, trying to convince the world he was only ever in it for the friendship.

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• 46:57Scaachi Koul?

  It's May 22nd, 1995, and inside the Grand Stone Building that houses Manhattan Surrogates Court, Judge Eve Preminger is sick of Doris Duke. Eve has strawberry blonde hair and a friendly smile, but she is serious about her work. She's one of two judges who oversees this court, and she's tired of the Doris Duke circus. It's only been about 18 months since Doris's will was filed, but there have been so many legal challenges that Eve is totally underwater. Eve is frustrated with all of this, but she's especially done with Bernard. A few months ago, she assigned an investigator

• 47:41Scaachi Koul?

  to look into Bernard's spending since Doris's death, in order to determine whether he was fit to serve as executor. And the investigator found a laundry list of outrageous expenditures and misappropriations, including Bernard continuing to draw his executive assistant's salary, securing loans from the same bank administering the estate, and misallocating funds to renovate the house he isn't supposed to be living in. Judge Eve is so fed up that she doesn't even bother holding a hearing. Instead, she writes a scathing decision from her chambers, declaring that Bernard is "basically illiterate, financially irresponsible, and in the throes of an alcohol addiction." She says Bernard's reckless personal spending

• 48:25Scaachi Koul?

  is endangering the charitable work Doris's estate is supposed to be doing, supporting museums, wildlife preservation, and even Elizabeth Taylor's AIDS Foundation. Doris Duke was complicated, but she was passionate about the causes she believed in. Sarah, can you read an excerpt from the judge's decision?

• 48:43Sarah Hagi?

  Yes, it reads, "There is nothing ordinary about this estate. Ms. Duke intended that her assets create one of the largest vehicles for dispensing charity in the world. The court has a responsibility to ensure that her determination to benefit the public be fulfilled, and that the estate is administered without waste or mismanagement."

• 49:04Sarah Hagi?

  As much as Doris did whatever with her money while she was alive, it seems like at least one thing she knew is that she wanted her money to go somewhere good and to help people when she died. And it's obvious Bernard has not been doing that. So it's kind of nice to see that there's a true grown up in the room for once.

• 49:22Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. And so Eve removes Bernard as executor, but she's far from finished. She still has to adjudicate the question of whether Doris was of sound mind when she signed her will and whether her doctor intentionally hastened her death by giving her an overdose of morphine. And as it turns out, she hasn't gotten rid of Bernard at all. A few weeks later, his lawyers appeal Eve's decision. They argue she should have held a hearing and that Bernard's drinking and personal spending are none of the estate's business. The appeals court partially agrees. It blocks Bernard's removal, but orders that the bank, with Eve assigned as temporary executor, should still be involved in administering the estate.

• 50:04Scaachi Koul?

  Eve resigns herself to the fact that Bernard isn't going away anytime soon. But there's someone else who's been waiting patiently on the sidelines, someone who's spent years fighting for a piece of Doris's fortune. And she is about to get exactly what she wants.

• 50:22Scaachi Koul?

  It's December 29th, 1995, about seven months after Judge Eve first attempted to remove Bernard as executor of Doris's estate. Shandee is back in court, settling her own claim. She's working with the other surrogate's court judge, the one not named Eve, and she's about to sign an agreement that will award her the first $800,000 of a staggering $65 million settlement. It's pretty surprising that Shandee is getting anything at all. Doris was very explicit in her will. Sarah, can you read an excerpt?

• 50:55Sarah Hagi?

  Yes. It says, "I'm confident that my father, who created certain trusts for my lifetime benefit, would not want Shandee Hefner to have any interest in such trusts, even if I had wanted her to have such interests, which I do not." Oh, wow. What could be more clear? She's like, "I don't care about anything that you think you might know. My dad would be rolling in his grave if Shandee had a cent for me."

• 51:21Scaachi Koul?

  Well, Shandy has kept fighting through this humiliation. She's endured multiple depositions, and each time, she's had to watch her old friend Bernard arrive with a bodyguard and a chauffeur decked out in Doris's jewelry, including a five-carat diamond earring and a diamond watch. But Shandy has one critical advantage. Everyone in this situation looks terrible, and the people running Doris's estate need to repair their reputations. There's been a lot of press about the fight over Doris's will, including a very revealing article in Vanity Fair and several pieces that basically accuse Bernard of murder. Shandy has been threatening to write a tell-all book,

• 52:01Scaachi Koul?

  but she agrees to hold back and remain silent for a price. Shandy is on a roller coaster. She's finally gotten the money she's been seeking, but Bernard is still the executor of Doris's estate, at least for a few more months. In April 1996, Bernard finally agrees to step down. He hands the reins to a group of trustees, including Dr. Harry. The following day, armed guards put Bernard's belongings in boxes and escort him out of Doris's Beverly Hills mansion. For Shandy, this is probably a mixed bag. Sure, she gets to see Bernard publicly humiliated, but questions still linger about his role in some of Doris's smaller charities.

• 52:44Scaachi Koul?

  And in the end, he doesn't exactly suffer. As a part of the settlement, Bernard walks away with $4.5 million in executor fees, and he retains his half a million dollar a year payments. He might be out of Doris's mansion, but he relocates to a $2.5 million house in nearby Bel Air, complete with his own butler and personal assistant. Shandy doesn't get to enjoy her victory for long. Just a few months later, in July, she sued herself by an ex-boyfriend who once worked for Doris as a bodyguard. The ex sues her for half of her $65 million settlement. And the language he uses in the lawsuit might sound familiar. Sarah, can you read some of it?

• 53:27Sarah Hagi?

  Sure. He says that he served as Shandy's companion, confidant, cook, bodyguard, and that she had promised to share her expected inheritance with him, and that her breach of agreement led to humiliation, mental anguish, and emotional injuries.

• 53:43Sarah Hagi?

  Man, these people are really willing to give away all their dignity for money.

• 53:48Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah.

• 53:49Sarah Hagi?

  It's like, these are the most disgusting, undignified people. It's like, people do have a price, it turns out.

• 53:54Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, they do. And we don't know exactly how this lawsuit was resolved, but there's no evidence of a trial or a settlement. It's likely that Shandy's legal team simply outmatched him. A year later, in November 1997, Shandy learns that Bernard has died in his sleep from a heart attack at 51, likely related to his drinking and regular use of various medications. After his death, it's revealed that Bernard left whatever remains of his fortune to the Doris Duke Foundation. Bernard's former employer, Elizabeth Taylor, helps organize the memorial, attended by his other former employer, Peggy Lee. Shandy does not attend. Since Doris's death, Shandy has kept a low profile.

• 54:37Scaachi Koul?

  Meanwhile, the Doris Duke Foundation has flourished. Its assets now exceed $2 billion. The $65 million awarded to Shandy and the $5 million plus to Bernard were mere drops in the bucket of a vast fortune. And the very public fallout after Doris's death doesn't seem to have tarnished the foundation's legacy, which awards millions of dollars in grants each year to artists, environmental causes, and scientific research.

• 55:07Sarah Hagi?

  This is one of our classic, kind of favorite things, where we realize that, like, being rich kind of sucks. Oh, this is just, what a miserable life.

• 55:18Scaachi Koul?

  Doris was so rich, like, so rich. It had a lot of money and had a lot of influence in, like, these sort of arts endowments and stuff like that in the States. And I still didn't know a lot about her until we started working on this episode. It's just interesting how many rich people there are in the US and all these fights that people have over their money, and it doesn't even cross the path of the regular person.

• 55:40Sarah Hagi?

  Yes, of course. I mean, I feel like it's such an American thing where you hear these names and they're attached to buildings and foundations. And you kind of just don't really think twice about it, but behind every one of those is a potential Doris Duke.

• 55:54Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, I think there is something to be said about like, rich people seek a certain kind of company. And there are scam artists who know how to kind of masquerade in the exact thing that they need, which is someone who's like, kind of familial or paternal or sort of tends to them and like, gives them whatever they want and anticipates their need, like Gary the bad guy in Veep, or you know what I mean? Like, they just sort of know how to talk to people and be present for these sorts of people who are living like, above society.

• 56:24Sarah Hagi?

  Mm-hmm.

• 56:24Scaachi Koul?

  It's its own weird skill. I mean, this guy couldn't read or write, and look what he did.

• 56:28Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, it is really a skill. Some people just got it, you know what I mean? Some people just have it and they have it in spades. And I feel like Bernard is one of those people. I think it's easy to say that she just shouldn't have trusted anyone, but the problem with this is that you have to trust some people who can give you proper advice. If you have good people in your life and you have a way to know who's full of shit and who's not, which is life experience, then you're likely not going to be in these situations. But someone like Doris was kind of set up to have this type of failure.

• 57:01Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah. I mean, so you don't agree with her dad's advice of trust no one?

• 57:06Sarah Hagi?

  No, not at all. You have to trust someone. You're not smart enough to trust no one. Nobody is.

• 57:11Scaachi Koul?

  I think maybe part of the problem is like, she didn't trust herself. Like, she, I think, was in a position where she was so used to people telling her what to do and how to do it. When you have that much money, you're not actually responsible for anything. You're not a custodian of your own life, for your own interests. And so, when you have that much money, he's saying like, don't trust anybody, but he wasn't telling her, like, you have to trust yourself. And so, of course, she's looking for all these people who are going to help her, including this like, Hare Krishna white lady.

• 57:38Sarah Hagi?

  In some ways, the scam starts at the top, which is that we enable rich people. And also, that we live in a world where the idea is to make your life more complicated the more money you get, where it's like, well, I'm rich, so clearly I have to have a butler and a young woman I adopt, and so and so and so. It's like- There has to be a better way. There just has to be a better way. I need to find the rich person who is kind of like not stupid this way, because I don't think it's real.

• 58:07Scaachi Koul?

  I feel like this story has solidified my belief that everybody should have a mandatory five-year period where they work retail or service.

• 58:15Sarah Hagi?

  Mm-hmm.

• 58:16Scaachi Koul?

  And it doesn't matter how much money you have. You either have to be in a restaurant or you have to fold clothes at an Abercrombie for five years.

• 58:23Sarah Hagi?

  Yes, it should be a rumspringa. It should be a type of rumspringa that is embedded into society where it's like you have to have a job where people view you as worthless. And that is when equality will be real. No, but I agree. I'm always so shocked when someone seems so worldly, but they have like zero life experience, zero radar to know what anyone is really like or what their intentions can be. And of course, you know, here's the thing. Rich people never want to believe that people want to know them because they're rich. But fundamentally, it is kind of true. Like, you should just assume everyone who knows me wants to know me for my money. I'm just going to pick the best ones. Like, don't try and prove otherwise and create these bonds with these crazy people.

• 59:03Scaachi Koul?

  Yeah, I've always assumed you've only been in it with me for the cash.

• 59:07Sarah Hagi?

  Sachi, the second I find someone that I could be friends with because they're rich, you won't know the name Sarah Haggie anymore. I'll abandon you.

• 59:15Scaachi Koul?

  OK, so I'm glad you said it on record.

• 59:19Scaachi Koul?

  OK, well, then I assume you would be willing to be adopted by a Doris-type figure.

• 59:23Sarah Hagi?

  Hmm, no. I don't want the paperwork. I don't want... I still like my life. Like, I don't want to be someone's child like that. Ew, it's weird. It's so weird. I'm sorry, like, that's gross and weird.

• 59:36Scaachi Koul?

  This is the problem, Sachi. You don't want it enough. You don't want it enough.

• 59:39Sarah Hagi?

  Yeah, you know what? Maybe I don't.

• 59:51Scaachi Koul?

  This is Bernard Lafferty, The Billionaire Butler. I'm Sachi Cole.

• 59:55Sarah Hagi?

  And I'm Sarah Haggie. If you have a tip for us on a story that you think we should cover, please email us at [email protected]. We use many sources in our research. A few that were particularly helpful were Doris Duke's Final Mystery and A Hostage to Fortune by Bob Collicello for Vanity Fair; Seeking the Soul of the Billion Dollar Butler by Paul Lieberman for the L.A. Times; and the book, The Richest Girl in the World: The Extravagant Life and Fast Times of Doris Duke by Stephanie Mansfield.

• 1:00:25Scaachi Koul?

  Charlotte Miller wrote this episode. Additional writing by us, Sachi Cole and Sarah Haggy. Eric Thurm was the story editor. Fact checking by Kalina Newman. Sound design by James Morgan. Additional audio assistance provided by Augustine Lim. Our music supervisor is Scott Velazquez for Freeze on Sync. Our managing producer is Desi Blaylock. Janine Cornolo and Stephanie Jens are development producers. Our associate producer is Charlotte Miller. Our senior producers are Sarah Enni and Ginny Bloom. Our executive producers are Jenny Lauer Beckman and Marshall Louis for Wondery.

• 1:01:06Scaachi Koul?

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