Michael Sonnenfeldt: The Most Successful Real Estate Deal of All Time and Building a Community of Billionaires

Sam Parr (@TheSamParr) talks to Michael Sonnenfeldt, founder and chairman of Tiger 21 - a peer-to-peer network for high net-worth wealth individuals - about how to build wealth and how to preserve it. ----- Links: * Michael Sonnenfeldt * Tiger 21 * Do you love MFM and want to see Sam and Shaan's smiling faces? Subscribe to our Youtube channel. * Want more insights like MFM? Check out Shaan's newsletter. ----- Show Notes: (01:40) - What is Tiger 21 (09:40) - First business (13:45) - Levels of wealth (33:30) - Ability to earn vs. ability to invest (34:50) - Why real estate (41:30) - Do you regret selling? ----- Past guests on My First Million include Rob Dyrdek, Hasan Minhaj, Balaji Srinivasan, Jake Paul, Dr. Andrew Huberman, Gary Vee, Lance Armstrong, Sophia Amoruso, Ariel Helwani, Ramit Sethi, Stanley Druckenmiller, Peter Diamandis, Dharmesh Shah, Brian Halligan, Marc Lore, Jason Calacanis, Andrew Wilkinson, Julian Shapiro, Kat Cole, Codie Sanchez, Nader Al-Naji, Steph Smith, Trung Phan, Nick Huber, Anthony Pompliano, Ben Askren, Ramon Van Meer, Brianne Kimmel, Andrew Gazdecki, Scott Belsky, Moiz Ali, Dan Held, Elaine Zelby, Michael Saylor, Ryan Begelman, Jack Butcher, Reed Duchscher, Tai Lopez, Harley Finkelstein, Alexa von Tobel, Noah Kagan, Nick Bare, Greg Isenberg, James Altucher, Randy Hetrick and more. ----- Additional episodes you might enjoy: • #224 Rob Dyrdek - How Tracking Every Second of His Life Took Rob Drydek from 0 to $405M in Exits • #209 Gary Vaynerchuk - Why NFTS Are the Future • #178 Balaji Srinivasan - Balaji on How to Fix the Media, Cloud Cities & Crypto * #169 - How One Man Started 5, Billion Dollar Companies, Dan Gilbert's Empire, & Talking With Warren Buffett • ​​​​#218 - Why You Should Take a Think Week Like Bill Gates • Dave Portnoy vs The World, Extreme Body Monitoring, The Future of Apparel Retail, "How Much is Anthony Pompliano Worth?", and More • How Mr Beast Got 100M Views in Less Than 4 Days, The $25M Chrome Extension, and More

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• 0:00Speaker 00

  What was the original fee? And what was the requirements? The original organization 20 years ago started with people who had created net worths of between 10 million and 100 million. And very quickly, the top end exploded with success. So it grew to a billion dollars. Wow. More recently, we've realized that our focus is on members between 20 million and a billion. And what I was going to say is the main difference between Vistage and YPO and Tiger 21 is the

• 0:40Speaker 00

  average net worth of Vistage and YPO members is probably maybe a 10th of that or fifth of that of Tiger R.

• 0:56Speaker 00

  How long ago did you start the company?

• 1:00Speaker 00

  About 21 or 22 years ago at this point. What was the original idea? It's really a simple idea. If you're an incredibly successful entrepreneur, could be building a business for 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, and then you sell the business, you think that it's the magic moment when you sell it. But actually, what happens is the day after you sell it, you have a lot of money, but you might be alone. You might have an assistant, but you don't have 1,000 employees. You don't have anybody laughing at your jokes anymore. You might even have to get your own coffee. And everybody around you thinks that you're wealthy and successful, but you've lost the

• 1:45Speaker 00

  platform that allowed you to feel successful. And all of a sudden, you're back at a new point. And the number one challenge that you have is to be a wealth preserver so you don't lose what you've made. Except that you don't know anything about preserving wealth. What you are is a great entrepreneur, or a great leader, or a great manager. And you're good at inspiring troops, but you don't have any troops anymore. So you have this dramatic shift. And it turns out that what it takes to be a great entrepreneur... Might qualify you to be a mediocre investor. When you're an entrepreneur, you focus on a single opportunity.

• 2:29Speaker 00

  You're highly emotional about it. You, you give it everything you can. When you're an investor, you have to be more dispassionate. You have to have a diversified portfolio and you have to have, you have to be unemotional about it. So the sum of it all is that there's a little understood transition, which a few very lucky, very successful people get to go through. And we wanted to study that, which is what we've done over the last 21 years to help people in that transition, get through it and on to a better place.

• 3:05Sam Parr?

  When you originally started the business, what was the, like, what was the product? Was it like YPO where it was a monthly group meetup? What was it?

• 3:13Speaker 00

  Sure. So you mentioned YPO, which is a fantastic organization. There's another similar organization called Vistage and they both are for CEOs. And if those are the great colleges, we're the one great graduate school. And so we have a lot of YPO members that graduate into Tiger 21 and a lot of Vistage members that graduate into Tiger 21. And just to give you an idea, the, the, last time I looked, both Vistage and YPO have about 50,000 members globally. It might be 60 now. I've lost touch.

• 3:54Sam Parr?

  Vistage has 50,000 members?

• 3:57Speaker 00

  And YPO each.

• 3:58Sam Parr?

  Oh, oh, oh, okay.

• 3:59Speaker 00

  Yeah, that's about 30,000 each, I think. Could be a little more. I haven't looked in a couple of years.

• 4:03Sam Parr?

  That's a huge company.

• 4:04Speaker 00

  Oh, these are huge businesses, sure.

• 4:06Sam Parr?

  Because Vistage charges like 50 grand a year, right? Or 25 grand a year?

• 4:09Speaker 00

  I think, I think Vistage is around 15,000 or 18. I don't have the exact number. Could be 20. YPO doesn't have a single price because depending on whether you go on the trips and there's different people pay different amounts, but.

• 4:25Speaker 00

  The big difference between those two, which are great organizations, is YPO is self-facilitated by its members, whereas Vistage and also Tiger 21, our groups are led by professionals. We have over 100 groups around the globe now, and so we have a cadre of over 40 professional chairs, might be 60, excuse me, 60 professional chairs, that we've trained exquisitely to lead these incredible groups. But the bottom line is that those are the two great organizations for CEOs and business owners, and when you decide as a rule for life that you want to get off of the merry-go-round,

• 5:09Speaker 00

  for whatever reason, the next decision point is best focused on with peers that you'll find in Tiger 21.

• 5:17Sam Parr?

  So basically, the original premise, and you can tell me if that's still the premise, is you have a small group of peers, I don't know how big the group is, you can tell me.

• 5:28Speaker 00

  12 to 15 people.

• 5:29Sam Parr?

  So 12 to 15 people, and you meet of some type of cadence, like four or some weeks?

• 5:34Speaker 00

  Monthly, full day a month.

• 5:36Sam Parr?

  And you have a coach, or what do you call your coaches?

• 5:39Speaker 00

  Facilitators. Chair, they're the chair.

• 5:42Sam Parr?

  You have a chair who leads these discussions, and what was the original fee? And what was the requirements?

• 5:48Speaker 00

  The original organization 20 years ago started with people who had created net worths of between 10 million and 100 million, and very quickly, the top end exploded with success, so it grew to a billion dollars.

• 6:07Sam Parr?

  Wow.

• 6:08Speaker 00

  And more recently, we've realized that our focus is on members between 20 million and a billion, and what I was going to say is the main difference between Vistage and YPO and Tiger 21 is the average net worth of Vistage and YPO members is probably maybe a tenth of that, or fifth of that of Tiger 21. If you do the math, we have a hundred and forty billion dollars under management. We don't manage it. Our members manage it by themselves. We're not a money manager. But collectively, we have about twelve, a little under twelve hundred members.

• 6:51Speaker 00

  So it's a little over a hundred million dollars per member.

• 6:55Sam Parr?

  That's crazy. And what's the price now?

• 6:58Speaker 00

  The membership is about thirty-three thousand dollars a year. That's, that's, we, we try and have a kind of one price. So the only thing you pay is a single membership fee. Unless you come to the annual meeting, there's lots of other events that are included. But because there's hotels and all that kind of stuff, if you come to the annual meeting, there's an additional charge of a couple grand.

• 7:22Sam Parr?

  So I, I can't do the math in my head, but like, that's like over a hundred million in revenues.

• 7:28Speaker 00

  No, no, no, no, no. So it's about a thousand. It's very, it's a very simple business model. It's about twelve hundred people that are paying a little more than thirty thousand dollars. So it's about thirty-five or forty million dollars.

• 7:41Sam Parr?

  Oh, I thought you said twelve thousand members. My bad.

• 7:44Speaker 00

  Twelve hundred. And, and that's what it costs to run.

• 7:48Sam Parr?

  That's crazy. And what's crazy is twenty, ten million today is a lot, is a significant amount of money. Twenty years ago, ten million was obviously a significant more than it is now. How do you, how did you find your first folks?

• 8:04Speaker 00

  So I was in a Vistage group, which had about fifteen members. And in a dramatically weird coincidence, in nineteen ninety-eight, six of us sold, five or six of us sold our businesses. We were all in that Vistage group because we were business owners trying to be better managers, owners, CEOs. And we loved the group. And so after our businesses were sold, we didn't want to leave the group, but we found over about a six-month period, we were going to meetings trying to figure out how to make your CFO and your sales team and your production more efficient. But we didn't have that anymore. We were just business, we had sold our businesses.

• 8:47Speaker 00

  So I frankly said, wow, I'd like to be spending time with peers, but what I want to be learning is how they're going through this transition of becoming a wealth manager and how they can help each other be more successful managing through that transition. And that was the roots of Tiger 21. What was your first business? My first business? The one, or sorry, the one that you sold. The first business that I sold, I developed something called the Harborside Financial Center with a partner. We were 50/50 partners. I was 25, he was 57. It was the largest commercial renovation in the country at the time. We bought a rundown warehouse that

• 9:31Speaker 00

  had been the largest building in the world in 1929, when it was built, eclipsed a few years later by the Pentagon. But it was an industrial warehouse on the waterfront in Jersey City, directly across from the World Trade Center. And I had the idea, literally when I was 17, because I worked there when I was 17, that it was just 3,000 feet from Wall Street. And what was happening is, that was in the age of large computer centers. And so you had all the downtown Wall Street firms building computer centers. And if they didn't want to be in Manhattan, they would go to a faraway campus on a suburban, you know, somewhere in suburbia. And people felt like they weren't in suburbia. They felt

• 10:15Speaker 00

  they were in Siberia. It was too far from the mothership. And I had the idea that if you could put some of those computer centers into this huge industrial warehouse, it would be five minutes from the parent, under the Hudson, through the PATH train. And in three minutes, you could get back to whatever the parent company's parent was. And that was sort of the original insight that this old industrial building. Had floor loads and ceiling heights that would accommodate raised floors for computer centers and the weights that you needed, the weight loads, the floor loads. And that was basically the idea.

• 10:55Sam Parr?

  And that's the thing that you sold before?

• 10:57Speaker 00

  Yeah, I sold that when I was 30. Then I did another business that was basically a real estate merchant bank that acquired a lot of distressed real estate when the real estate market crashed in the late 80s. I don't know if you remember that. The stock market crashed in 87. The real estate market followed. And so I was able to acquire a couple hundred properties from banks that had gone under and the federal government had taken it over. And when I sold that business in 1998, I said, I don't want to have to go back to work. I want to know how to preserve money. How do people who've sold their business,

• 11:40Speaker 00

  how do they think about what they're going to do so that they don't take stupid risks and find out they've lost it all?

• 11:46Sam Parr?

  Has, uh, building Tiger 21, you kind of, was Tiger 21 supposed to be a business?

• 11:54Speaker 00

  No, it's actually, it's been a labor of love for me.

• 11:57Sam Parr?

  But, you know, oddly, was it able to create more wealth than the other things?

• 12:03Speaker 00

  No, it's, uh, it's, it's, it hasn't at all. Basically, for 20 years, I put every penny back into Tiger of revenue because I wanted to hire some of the best people in the world and the best teams and get it right. But there's a lot of inherent value in it, there's no question, because we have extraordinary members and the value of our franchise has to do with our members and the team we've put together was incredible. But I, I realized that in order to scale the business to fulfill its potential, I needed more senior help.

• 12:44Speaker 00

  And in order to attract that senior help, I needed people who were interested in equity. So having a private equity partner made it easier to attract world-class talent who would own part of the equity.

• 13:00Sam Parr?

  You're kind of in an interesting position, which is like you know, or you work with a significant amount of wealthy people. And you have like some interesting insights. Where, what have you seen are kind of like the levels of wealth that someone, where like they see changes in their life?

• 13:22Speaker 00

  You know, like so many things, I could give you one number or another, but it's really a state of mind. You know, you, you have people who are retired and they get X dollars. And then you have other people who are retired and they get 10 X dollars. And yet the one who's achieving or receiving the lower amount might be more evolved and emotionally balanced because of meditation or work they've done. You know, the most interesting thing is there's endless studies that show that up to,

• 14:03Speaker 00

  that whether you ask people who earn 70,000, 700,000 or 7 million dollars a year, how much more do you have to earn to be happy? And the number is something like 20%. No matter where you are, the average person just needs just a little more to be happy, which tells you about the unfilled nature of human ambition.

• 14:29Sam Parr?

  I've read a bunch of stuff like that. And if, well, the one that I remembered it and I could be wrong. It was like 2X. So it was like, maybe it was for net worth. So like if your net worth is a million, you're like, well, I would feel a lot better if it were two. But then they talked to people who was 100. And most people would say like, man, if you have 100 liquid, like it's going to be a little bit hard to screw up. But even they were like, yeah, but if I had 200, I think I would finally feel more comfortable.

• 14:53Speaker 00

  You know, the fact is that wherever you are. You have the illusion that if you had a little more, it would make your life a little easier. But sometimes if you have a little more, it's a burden because now you have to manage it. And when you say it's a burden, what I mean is intellectually, you have to work harder to make sense of it. And in that sense, it is a burden. It's like a job. It's just in the nature of things that the grass always seems greener on the other side. And that's part of why I say, a lot of this is just a mindset. And there's another part which is really important as well. You know, it doesn't matter whether we're talking about 3 million or 30 million.

• 15:33Speaker 00

  If you take somebody, if you take two people who've worth 3 or 30 million, and one had been worth 50 million and lost 20, and now they're worth 30. And another had been worth 20 million and made 10, and is now worth 30. Those two people are worth 30 million. You could use the example with 3 million as well. But the person who got to 30 million by losing 20 feels absolutely devastated. And the person who got to 30 million by making another 10 feels generally quite positive or proud of themselves. It's the same 30 million. So it's a lot of things that are specific to the individual that generates the psychology.

• 16:15Sam Parr?

  There was that one article that came out that's total nonsense. It came out years ago. It said like, you don't get significantly happier after a certain amount. And the amount they said was crazy. It was $70,000 a year. But of course, this was like 15 years ago. And I thought that was crazy. I'm like, I don't think that's true. But, and I was like, I do think there is like a number where it's like, all right, maybe like there's like a threshold here where you could definitely continue to get happy, but like there's a baseline.

• 16:48Sam Parr?

  I always thought, I'm like, I think you will always want more money. But today, maybe like, if you have, if you're in like the 10 or 15 range liquid, I'm like, maybe there's like, alright, maybe life won't change significantly more after that. Because like, you know, like, that's, you could screw that up, but like, you gotta kind of screw up majorly and, but, I don't know, that's kind of what I always thought.

• 17:16Speaker 00

  The 70, the 70,000 is a number that shows up in literature, meaning, um, below 70,000, every increment that you get closer to it, if you were earning 30,000 and you get to 50, 50 to 60, anything up to 70,000 increments have dramatic increases, because it's just kind of obvious, it's basic needs, you need to put a roof over your head, you need to put square meals on the table, you might need a car, and at 70,000, you can pretty much afford most of those things, not in the lap of luxury, but you can afford those things, below it, it's really, really tough, uh, so that's kind of, it might be 90,000 today with inflation, but it's somewhere in there, and I don't mean to trivialize

• 18:00Speaker 00

  the difference between 70 and 90, but everything above that, um, you know, for every level that you have, you can just spend more and create the same sense of being overextended if you're not disciplined, and it's the rare person who generates excess, uh, capital and doesn't change their lifestyle, so no matter how much they have, they keep spending more, because if you can keep that gap of not needing what you have, that gives you a cushion, uh, that's rare and really, uh, something remarkable for those who have it.

• 18:35Sam Parr?

  Have you met people who have done that, who have been, let's say, worth hundreds of millions of dollars, but still live like, uh, don't even live nearly like that?

• 18:43Speaker 00

  Well, you know, the most classic example would be Warren Buffett, who still lives in a 30 or 50 or 100,000 dollar home that he bought in, uh, the Midwest where he lives, um, in Omaha, uh, and, um...

• 19:00Speaker 00

  You know, it's really hard to have one person comment on another person's health. You wonder what's all that money for? But now he's given half of it or something to charity and there's tremendous benefit gained from the money he's given to charity. But, you know, it's one thing to live within your means that's responsible. It's another thing to be so disconnected between your wealth and what you're living that there's something going on inside and, you know, I'll leave it to the shrinks to figure it out. But it's kind of hard to understand why a person who might be working 60, 70, 80 hours

• 19:43Speaker 00

  a week as if there's no tomorrow and then they might be worth a certain amount of money, but they're living on 100th of it as if they had 100th less. You know, they had 1% of the wealth that they do. What are they hiding from? There's lots of answers. They're all dependent on different people.

• 20:03Sam Parr?

  Most of the people I hang out with, so I'm 32 years old. I started an internet company. My co-host Sean is a little, a year or two older than me, also started an internet company. And the majority of our friends are in like the late twenties, early forties age and like all mostly, except for a few, in the internet. And so like I run in this like very like internet-y young circle. And the vibe that I get from Tiger is that it's a little bit older and more like traditional businesses or maybe finance or real estate who have, who have kind of knocked it out the park. Is, is, is Tiger 21 mostly, am I, am I categorizing it correctly or do you guys actually have like a lot of young folks?

• 20:46Speaker 00

  Only because of, only because of how we've grown. And when you have, you know, 1,150 or 60 members, the answer is the average age has fallen over the history from the high 50s to the low 50s. But in order for it to do that, given that a lot of people stayed, most of them. Our new members are in their thirties and forties. So we have a lot of internet folks. But the reason they're joining Tiger as opposed to something else is when they're sitting around, they're not just sitting with internet folks. They're sitting with people who have, you know, real, real estate experience and experience running businesses, uh, you know, in the, uh,

• 21:31Speaker 00

  in, in the, in the world that isn't just from the internet. And the reason we're so excited to have, uh, folks that are in the crypto space or the internet space is precisely because they're understanding, uh, these new technologies that are going to transform the world in a way that many of our members wouldn't otherwise. So it's this combination that makes, uh, some of our meetings so electric.

• 21:56Sam Parr?

  Have you noticed a difference between, like, let's just say Group A is like these people who are, made their money in the internet, made their money in only like three or eight years, uh, all selling this internet stuff. So, you know, like not real stuff that you can touch versus, let's say, like the small business owner who like scaled something over 20 or 30 years and then eventually sold it or made cash flow along the way versus the tech person who was probably poor for a long time. And then suddenly, boom, they're not had, because they sold their business and they weren't ever profitable. But have you noticed a difference in those people's attitude or the problems they have?

• 22:34Speaker 00

  Well, there probably, you know, as many differences as there are people, but there's some fundamental truths that I think you're pointing at. You know, um, when I went to business school at, uh, MIT forty some years ago, you know, if you were doing a marketing exercise, they'd say, come up with a product that you could sell to a thousand people. And today, if you go to Stanford to a marketing course, they say, come up with a service you could sell to a billion people, literally a billion people. That's what Facebook does and some of the other, uh, major social media. So scaling. Is not just a difference in size. We have a dramatically more frictionless economy.

• 23:19Speaker 00

  The nature of internet and technology allows businesses to scale. That's why we have unicorns today, but we almost never did in the past. So when you think about life expectations, people who started out 30 or 40 years ago had an expectation that they'd be, they'd have to put their nose to the grindstone for 30 years before they'd hit a payday. Not all of them, but some of them. And of course, there are many different types of wealth. I distinguish between people who are workers versus people who have some kind of God-given talent, a singer, a basketball player, an actor, a rapper. These are people not who are building businesses, but have God-given talents.

• 24:04Speaker 00

  Of course, they have to work hard to hone those talents. But it's very different when your wealth is created from your own talent than when you have to scrimp and save, you know, to make a payroll and, and get everything done. But then if you compare that to people who are creating wealth today, first of all, they can do it in three to five years. You have unicorns in, you know, three to five years or not much longer. And so, one of the big differences is that if you were 58, 20 years ago and you sold your business, you probably were retiring because you spent 30 years doing something and that was your first sale. But today, if you sell, you might be 30, or 35, or 38.

• 24:49Speaker 00

  You're not retiring, you're going on to the next thing. So the, I think the biggest difference is this kind of expectation of what a life looks like. You know, a generation ago, a really successful entrepreneur had one, or maybe two serial successes. Today, a successful entrepreneur could have three, four, or five, or multiples because he or she has figured out how to manage a couple at the same time. Elon Musk is not the only person who has multiple businesses. He's certainly the most visible, but it's much more a creature of today. It happened in the past, but just much less so.

• 25:32Sam Parr?

  When I was selling my business, I would talk to some bankers and I would talk to some friends and advisors. And a nice amount were like, yeah, sell it and get paid and like, you know, you don't have to worry about money anymore. And that's wonderful. And then the other group of people though were like, man, starting something that works is really, really, really hard. And a lot of people sell a business and want to start it again. And they don't realize like, you know, like there's some luck involved and it's just actually really, really challenging. And sometimes you get confident and you think, oh, I can just do it again. And so if you don't have to sell it, never sell it. And I've lately fallen in the category of like, if you don't have a lot of money, sell a company if you if

• 26:15Sam Parr?

  that means that you're like financially secure. But then after that, oftentimes try not to sell anything ever. Like to see if you can just like run it or get it to run it on its own or hire people because it's quite hard to get getting something going is such a pain in the butt. Do you fall? Do you tend to, when you're talking to your members, do you? What do you think most like, which of those categories do you think is actually a little bit more true or more common? And

• 26:43Speaker 00

  I think you're on to something really important. And it's kind of like all of the above. One of the biggest learnings is that most people who sell their first business have no idea that it feels like having the rug pulled out from underneath you because you see a big dollar amount and and you're so focused on the sale that it's the everything else that's kind of the shock. And the most important one is the momentum or the platform that you don't even realize how valuable it is. So, you know, one of the things we really talk about is before you sell, you really have to think about not just the pros,

• 27:25Speaker 00

  but the cons. And, and particularly in an environment like today, forget that the markets are down this year, in a low interest rate environment, when you sell, you know, a typical industrial building, obviously, you're talking about other, other types of metrics, but it used to be a typical meat and potatoes business would sell for seven or eight times earnings. And, you know, if you take a business that was making, I'll use an example, $3 million, and you sold it for $20 million, and you paid the taxes, now you have 16 million

• 28:04Speaker 00

  But if you buy bonds at 2%, you're now making $320,000 on that same capital that was generating $3 million before. You've lost 90% of your earning power. And we call that sticker shock. And 90, I would say the vast majority of people who sell their first business go through sticker shock because they haven't really thought through that the passive earnings on the profits of the sale will generate dramatically less income than the business itself did. Now, of course, the positive is that when you get, when you sell that business, you don't have all the risks of that business.

• 28:49Speaker 00

  And maybe the business had risks that could put it out of business. So a good sale allows you to take chips off the table, and that has a lot of benefits. But I think you're really, you know, you're on to the central issue around selling businesses because particularly if you hold on to the business, you don't have a tax liability. I'm not against taxes in general. I'm just saying that it eats into some of the value. Whereas if you continue to own the business, the full value is working to make the business larger and larger. So when you're thinking about risk, I think the greatest service that we do is help some

• 29:33Speaker 00

  of our members think about the things they hadn't thought about when they're thinking about selling. Like what? Well, just what we're talking about, this sticker shock, this, this sense of, do you really want to lose the platform that you have? And will you have enough capital? Because we've had many examples of people who think when they sell the business, it's going to be easy street, but when they don't realize the loss of income that occurs when you're taking dollars from a sale and putting it into passive assets. Or worse, in order to generate income like they had before, they take risks they don't understand in investments.

• 30:17Speaker 00

  Because investing can be a lot harder. You know, when you own a business... It's kind of like being on a dog track. A dog track, you have a fence to your left and a fence to your right. Somebody shoots a gun behind you and you can only go forward. You know, if you're a paperclip manufacturer, or you sell rocks, or frankly, even an internet service, you have one direction. You want to be the master of whatever your business is, and that's really hard. But intellectually, when you're an investor, how can any one person understand all the markets? And if you're starting out with no fundamental understanding of the markets, because you've just been running a business, one of the real shocks is most people think the hard part is making the money,

• 31:01Speaker 00

  and then, once you have the money, you're on easy street. But from an intellectual challenge point of view, many of our members find the challenge of managing the wealth that they've created is actually intellectually more challenging than the business, because the business might have come naturally to them. They might have had an idea and they just pursued it to its good ends.

• 31:25Sam Parr?

  When I sold, I mean, I didn't know it, this was only a year, a year and a half ago, or a year and a couple of months ago, I didn't know anything, like, I, I mean, I knew nothing. Like, I didn't know, like, when people said that they're going to short a stock, I was like, I don't know what shorting means. And they say they're going to go long. I'm like, don't know what that means. And so, like, it was, and people, like, you know, friends and family were like, "Well, what are you going to do with your money?" And I'm like, I don't, I don't know anything. Like, I, I think people are surprised that your ability to earn is not often correlated with your ability to, like, invest.

• 31:59Speaker 00

  Just the opposite. That's, that's what I'm trying to say. You can be a great entrepreneur and a really lousy investor. And, you know, just to give an expectation for people who might be listening, how long do you think it takes to go from being a successful entrepreneur that is a mediocre investor, where you were a year ago? How long do you think it takes till you have sort of a modicum of confidence that you know what you're doing as an investor?

• 32:29Sam Parr?

  I mean, years. I don't know. I mean, I've been studying it now for a year and a half, and I feel like I don't know much.

• 32:34Speaker 00

  Five years. Five years. Yeah. And that's if you're really working at it.

• 32:40Sam Parr?

  What I just did was put, so I, are you familiar with HubSpot?

• 32:43Speaker 00

  Sure.

• 32:44Sam Parr?

  So they're the ones who bought us. So I own HubSpot stock, and then the rest was just mostly a Vanguard Total Index Fund and some real estate and real estate funds. What, with your folks, what do you, what's like the asset allocation of like, what you've seen, what's like a fairly successful?

• 33:04Speaker 00

  Sure. So I want to, yeah, I want to be really, we're not an investment advisor, but I do track the asset allocation of our members and can simply report on it, which is-

• 33:15Sam Parr?

  Yeah, you guys put out this annual report. That's awesome. I love that.

• 33:18Speaker 00

  So the, the asset allocation, very roughly, is traditionally, real estate has been king, with about 28% of the assets, maybe 27.

• 33:29Sam Parr?

  Does that include primary residents?

• 33:32Speaker 00

  No, generally not. It's, it's mostly investment real estate.

• 33:37Sam Parr?

  And does that mean they own it, or they're in a REIT?

• 33:39Speaker 00

  It could be they're in a REIT. More likely, they either own a building, or they own a limited partnership in a real estate fund of some sort. Second would be public equity, about 26, 20, anywhere between 24 and 26%.

• 33:58Sam Parr?

  That's so much lower than I thought.

• 33:59Speaker 00

  Exactly. And private equity, and this is unique to the Tiger community. Our private equity has, for the last couple of years, been more than public equity. It's now a little neck and neck, but private equity is around 21 to 24%. And what's so remarkable is if you take those three numbers, the private equity, public equity, and real estate, it adds up to 70-plus percent. Those are the risk-on assets. So our members are relatively long-term bullish on investments. Even when they think we're going into a recession, they still are over 70% invested in-

• 34:39Speaker 00

  When I say risk on assets, that's what the, you know, the investors say are assets that are risky and have to do with business-like qualities. Then fixed income until, you know, now is at a historical low point, about seven, 7%. It was as high as 12 or 14 in prior years. And crypto and gold creeping up 1% or 2% assets each. And cash at 12%. Our members' cash has stayed relatively fixed over a long period of time. The biggest, it typically fluctuates between 11% and 13%.

• 35:19Speaker 00

  But in the pandemic, March of 2020, it spiked to 20%, which statistically is off the charts. That's how concerned our members are. But generally, in the 12% range is, is what our members are looking at in cash. What do they love about real estate so much? I mean, and? It's the gift, it's the gift that keeps on giving. And first of all, their terrific tax attributes of real estate because of depreciation. But, you know, when most people think of an investment asset and they buy a company, that company is subject to competitive forces every single day.

• 36:02Speaker 00

  It's why most operating businesses don't lend themselves to multi-generational families. Of course, there are exceptions and some very important ones. But real estate is a much more tolerant asset for multi-generation. Or, or if you own certain natural resources, you know, if you own timberlands, those are good to pass from generation to generation. Because when you own a great piece of real estate, you know, the joke is your child can be, let's say, less than brilliant and still know how to collect the rent. And even in your own lifestyle, if you own a great piece of real estate, the tenants have to pay the rent even when you're playing golf.

• 36:47Speaker 00

  But when you're running a complicated technology company or something else, you've got to be out there and working every day. Your team has to be really, really good. And I'm not in any way suggesting real estate. It takes a different kind of unique smarts. It's not an easy game, but it's very different. One way to think about it is if you took the whole economy. I don't know if you remember the Dewey Decimal System of libraries, but if you broke the economy into all of its sectors, and one of those sectors was real estate, and nine other sectors, medical and education, everything else, high spec, high tech, aerospace, etc. If you took those nine other categories,

• 37:28Speaker 00

  real estate is more different than those other nine, than any of the other nine are to each other because of this durability, this multi-generational capacity of real estate.

• 37:42Sam Parr?

  We always make a joke that people, they get offended about this, but I'm like, it's kind of a compliment. We always say that real estate has the highest number of dumb rich people. And that was kind of like my strategy.

• 37:53Speaker 00

  Dumb like a fox. In other words, they may not people who have the same intellectual pursuits that you are.

• 38:00Sam Parr?

  Right.

• 38:00Speaker 00

  But they can go and smell an opportunity and sniff out where there's a problem in a way that most other business owners don't. And that's why I say it's very deceptive because they're a breed apart. But that's become a little less so in the last generation because as real estate became more securitized with different types of ownership and debt that went to Wall Street, it became more of a Wall Street game. So it's a little more today a Wall Street game than it was 20 years ago.

• 38:35Sam Parr?

  Yeah, and the kind of the strategy that my wife and I had was, let's just try to get somewhat wealthy with tech stuff and have that continue to make cash flow and, you know, selling companies and pile a lot of it into real estate. Because that's something, because like with my business, we had to send an email every day. But if Gmail changed, like it could go out of business. A building that I own, I could lose a fair amount of money on it, but like there's, it's still a thing that someone will purchase even if it's at a huge loss. But it's not going to go to zero. Whereas my company, it definitely could. Like if I owned a conference business and a pandemic hit, like which I did, like it literally made $0. Whereas this land that I own that I'm looking at right now, like,

• 39:19Sam Parr?

  that's probably not going to go to zero.

• 39:22Speaker 00

  You know, none of these things are as simple as we'd like. I think you're making some really excellent points. But if you owned retail or movie theaters or airports in the pandemic, that went to zero too if you had any leverage on it. So it's not that real estate-

• 39:42Sam Parr?

  I'm being hyperbolic, but like in general.

• 39:45Speaker 00

  I totally get it. It's not that it's without risk, but as an asset category, it's a long-dated asset.

• 39:54Speaker 00

  I can't find this client info.

• 39:56Speaker 02

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• 40:10Sam Parr?

  One more thing about the selling versus not selling, because you have a way bigger sample size. A, do you regret selling your companies? And B, the thing about selling, like, let's say that you sell a business and you make 30 million, you pay taxes, now you're left with 20. To make 20 million, like you could build a business for five or 10 years, sell it and make that. To make 20 million from cash flow, annual cash, that's really freaking hard. Like, you gotta, I mean, your taxes are higher because it's income versus capital gains. But, and then, I mean, it's just like, it just seems like selling a business is probably the easier of the two,

• 40:54Sam Parr?

  and it's still not easier, it's still not easy, is the easier of the two to accumulate like your first bit. Would you agree with that or no?

• 41:02Speaker 00

  Well, it's, the problem is that it's better to think of it as a shift in risk. Because when you made the decision to sell for 30 million, the example you just gave. What you've done is you've taken a lot of risk on the table. So the chance of losing that 30 million now goes down radically. It's much less once you've turned it into cash. But the chance of getting to 60 million might have gone down also because you lost the engine of growth. So it's, you know, do you want to sleep well or do you want to eat well? Are you long-term greedy or short-term greedy?

• 41:44Speaker 00

  But there's no question that when you sell your business, in my opinion, more often than not, it's, it's not number dependent, it's risk dependent. You want to take risk off the table. You don't want to, you don't want to have the risk, just as you said, of losing your business anymore so you can take your chips off the table and diversify it over a number of investments. But it's going to be much harder if the business was a well-functioning, growing business to get to that. You've, you've increased the hurdle rate before you can get to that next level of 60 or 80 or 100 million dollars.

• 42:21Sam Parr?

  Do you regret selling your two things? And Tiger? Or, sorry, you didn't sell it.

• 42:26Speaker 00

  First of all, I'm still the chairman and majority owner of Tiger, but it's run as if I'm 50/50 partners. And Tiger would be a great example. I'm 66 and the, when I sold Tiger, the risk that I was most concerned about, because I'm a cancer survivor, is longevity and sustainability if something happened to me. So our board said I was the number one risk. And because I love this business, I said, well, how do I, how do I, how do I reduce that risk? Well, the first thing is I bring in a co-owner. And the second is we bring in a world-class CEO.

• 43:07Speaker 00

  And in order to bring in that world-class CEO, I needed to bring in a co-owner. So Tiger is immeasurably stronger today from a team point of view and an ownership and a resilience point of view. It is still my legacy. I'm the founder, it was my idea. But I never went into it for money and I'm not sure. Sure that I would have done any better on my own. I think I think the the diversity of ownership and the addition of a team that we built into a world-class team is just dramatically different than I could have created on my own. So I have no regrets whatsoever with Tiger.

• 43:47Speaker 00

  And with the other businesses, it was interesting. I sold my first project that I mentioned to you when I was thirty. And

• 43:56Sam Parr?

  What did you start? Can you say what you sold it to us? So we have context?

• 43:59Speaker 00

  I mean, it was it was a project that I was a partner in, but the project got sold for over a hundred million dollars. And the and that was in nineteen eighty-seven.

• 44:09Sam Parr?

  So that was pretty life-changing, I'd imagine.

• 44:11Speaker 00

  Totally life-changing. But the point is that

• 44:17Speaker 00

  what I remember is not so much the dollar amount. What I remember is it was heralded as the most successful real estate project in metropolitan history in terms of financial return. And so, but but it took me a couple of years to kind of find myself again because I went from being one of the top hundred developers in the country. I also had the advantage. I had a partner. The project was my idea, but selling was his idea. And he never would have got into that project if he hadn't been my partner. And I never would have sold it if I hadn't been his partner.

• 44:56Speaker 00

  And we sold at the end, at that point, a hundred percent, ninety-nine percent of what we were worth was tied up in that project. And if somebody had got hurt or killed in construction, you know, it could have it could have wiped us out. And so we sold and we closed in January of eighty-seven. And in October eighty-seven, the market crashed. And real estate followed after that. And we had been one of the top hundred developers. And we might have been one of five developers in the whole country that had lots of capital and no buildings to weigh us down with the problems from the market crash. So that gave us an extraordinary opportunity to get back in at the bottom.

• 45:41Speaker 00

  And I did that by creating a company that bought distressed real estate from banks and went on to buy close to a billion dollars of what became a billion dollars of assets.

• 45:52Sam Parr?

  When, when people, one of the surprising things when I kind of started, when I sold was, I had never heard of this thing called an asset-backed loan, which is like, basically, one example of that is when rich people buy a home, you'll hear that they bought like a five or 10 million dollar home in cash. And oftentimes, what that really means is they're using this thing called an asset-backed loan. So basically, if you have a stock portfolio of 10 million dollars, and it's like in a Vanguard index fund, or some basic thing like that, you can borrow like 60 or 75% of that at a given, a very, very low interest

• 46:31Sam Parr?

  rate, as low as 1%. What were, what were some, what are some surprising things that people who come into money after selling their company, that they, that they see? And you're like, like when I, when my banker told me about that, I was like, are you kidding me? This is like, this is how people do it? This is amazing. What are some other things that kind of fit in that category?

• 46:52Speaker 00

  So I'm sorry, but I would never do that. Most Tiger members, yeah, most Tiger members wouldn't for two reasons. One, I don't have any debt. I wouldn't want any debt. Debt can be very corrosive at exactly the wrong time. You know, the market has just gone down. For people who are levered, they could have been wiped out. If you want to be here for the long term and preserve wealth, I would argue you want as little debt as possible.

• 47:18Sam Parr?

  I'm not suggesting that's a good idea.

• 47:19Speaker 00

  No, no, no, I understand.

• 47:20Sam Parr?

  It's an interesting option that people have, like they can use to pay taxes.

• 47:24Speaker 00

  Sure. But the other, the other part of it is that 1% can be illusory, because the rate can go up if it's a floating rate. And if you have a spike in interest rates, and you made assumptions that you were borrowing at that low interest rate, and then it goes up, you can really wreak havoc with your balance sheet. So I, one of the things that most Tiger members enjoy when they reach a level of wealth, is the ability not to have debt hanging over them. Now, having said that, Who are the best managers of debt? Well, private equity firms and real estate is the place where most debt is.

• 48:08Speaker 00

  So people who've spent a career managing debt understand the power of it. But they just understand that at some point you want to reduce risk and take chips off the table. I think the other thing is something you said before. Not everybody fully appreciates why they became successful. Because for every person who had a plan, somebody else was lucky, let's say. Doesn't mean that they didn't have a plan, but fundamentally they're lucky. And it's just a statistical thing. The, the number of people who've had two successes is dramatically smaller than the number of people. It's a bell curve of who's had one success.

• 48:51Speaker 00

  And for people to have three and four successes gets down into the, you know, one in a thousand entrepreneurs or something. And I think that many people systematically overestimate their own skills when they've been successful. And there's a real comeuppance that after they sell their first successful business, they assume they'll be successful in the next one. And they get their clock handed to them, as I did when I was 30. It was a very painful lesson, but it was the most valuable lesson. Well, I sold this amazing project when I was 30. And then I started a business in the real estate information.

• 49:34Speaker 00

  This is before the internet, you know, pretty much what Zillow is today, where you can look up any house and get a price on it. We created a business that was a precursor to Zillow before there was an internet.

• 49:47Sam Parr?

  How much of your, of your net worth from the previous thing? Did you invest into this new thing?

• 49:52Speaker 00

  Oh, I probably risked somewhere between 20, on the order of 25%, something like that. And so one of the biggest, one of the biggest. Learnings is when you sell a business, you know, many people think they're great investors because when they own a business, if they make an investment, they have to talk about it at a cocktail party. And if they lose money on an investment, it gets swept under the carpet because the business itself is profitable. So it covers up those losses. So many people who've been successful entrepreneurs don't realize how poorly they are as investors

• 50:36Speaker 00

  because they've never been battle tested without the benefit of the company providing, you know, the fill if you make a mistake. So I think, I think the, one of the biggest mistakes that people who sell business make, and it's what you said before, is that they're, that they assume they can do it again and again. And only a portion of people who've been successful once are going to be successful twice.

• 51:02Sam Parr?

  We're talking about earning money. What about spending money? Like something that I ask myself is, I'm quite frugal. And I say, like, I don't want to buy this, this, and this because it costs too much money. And I just don't, it just, and some stuff like owning, you know, a lot of like objects in my home, it kind of just stresses me out because I feel like I gotta take care of it. But then there's other things like flying nicely, or staying at fancy hotels, where I was like, I don't want to spend money on that. And then I was like, well, you know what? That actually makes me happier. Like, this is fun for me. I should spend because that, I feel like-

• 51:37Speaker 00

  You know about the marshmallow test?

• 51:38Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 51:39Speaker 00

  Delayed gratification?

• 51:42Sam Parr?

  Yeah, delayed gratification.

• 51:43Speaker 00

  So should I tell it for your listeners?

• 51:45Sam Parr?

  Yeah, go for it.

• 51:46Speaker 00

  It's a very famous, very famous test that was done at Stanford in the, I think, 50s or early 60s. And, you know, they put a table of 12 three-year-olds or four-year-olds out, and they put one marshmallow in front of each of the kids. And they said, look, I'm going to step out of the room. If you don't touch the marshmallow while I'm gone, when I come back, I'm going to give you another marshmallow. And only one or two of the kids could wait. For the person 20 minutes to come back, they just had to eat the marshmallow in front of them. Those one or two could handle delayed gratification. And it turns out that they tracked many kids who went through this, and the very few who

• 52:31Speaker 00

  could delay gratification were more successful in school, more successful in life, and more successful in business by various measures over the next 30 to 50 years of their life. It's a remarkable study. And it has to do with what I was saying before. When you're an entrepreneur, as apparently you were, you had to delay gratification because you were putting money into your business, you couldn't, you couldn't do all the things others who were making a lot less but didn't have a business were doing. And delayed gratification, the discipline of delayed gratification, is at the core of entrepreneurial success. But frankly, when you're a movie star, or a rock star, or a baseball pitcher, or a

• 53:15Speaker 00

  basketball player, delayed gratification isn't so much at the core of your success because you don't need to scrimp and save, you need to practice and be well. So when people sell, you know, there's a syndrome where somebody's been very successful, but they've been delaying gratification so long that they only open up one step at a time. They still are driving a Chevy, they still are wearing a certain kind of suit, they're wearing a Timex watch, but they go on a great vacation. Or they go on a mediocre vacation, but they're wearing a really expensive watch. You find when people have sold their business, they open up slowly because they wanna, they

• 53:56Speaker 00

  wanna be smart, and they don't wanna waste, and they have to find that new balance. But you know, we have a rule at Tiger, which I think is the most important rule, it's called the 2% rule. If you've been lucky enough to sell a business, one gauge you can think about is if you're solely Uh, living on the investments in your portfolio. If you can live on 2% of your assets or less, then you're in a safety zone. And obviously, some people have the good fortune to earn a lot more than 2 or 3 or 4% on their assets. So they can live on a little more. But once you start living on more than 2%, you're actually starting to stress the ability to preserve capital.

• 54:41Speaker 00

  And my guess is if you, if you went to a whole bunch of 25-year-old kids and said, you know, if you inherited a million dollars, how much could you spend a year and preserve the money? You'd be shocked. A lot of kids would say, I don't know, 100,000 or 200,000 a year.

• 54:57Sam Parr?

  Way too high.

• 54:58Speaker 00

  It's 20,000 a year. And that learning is really fabulous.

• 55:02Sam Parr?

  I, uh, there's this, um, funny, cool subreddit, subreddit, a Reddit, a forum that I go to. And it's called Fat Fire. You know, you know what fire is? Like fires, like financially independent, retired early. Fat, and typically fires like people who wanna save like a million dollars and live off like 50,000 a year. Fat fires people who wanna like earn a huge, you know, a much larger amount and live somewhat lavishly. And on that subreddit, the number is like 3%. So it's a little bit higher than 2%, but like 3%. I think there was a thing called the Trinity Study. And they said like 4%. Frankly, I think that sometimes is too high. But like, I, I kind of buy in the 3% range. And, um, anyway, there's this one book. Have, have you ever heard of this guy named Felix Dennis?

• 55:47Speaker 00

  No, I don't think so.

• 55:49Sam Parr?

  He's amazing. He's kinda, he's dead now, but he's kinda like a combination of Mick Jagger and Richard Branson. So he was this, he was this British entrepreneur. And he was kind of flamboyant like Richard Branson and like did a bunch of stuff. But he was like Mick Jagger in that he was like kind of a degenerate. Like he loved drugs and hookers. And he was like, he wrote about like his escapades. When he got older, he was like, I had a drug problem and I was never married. So I was just like sleeping around. And so he's kind of like a fun guy to read about. But he's got this book called, uh, How to Get Rich. It's kind of poorly titled in a way that it's like embarrassing to talk about, but it's quite a good book. And he was like, he, he eventually founded, um, Micro Warehouse, which was a publicly traded company. But he also started Maxim Magazine. He was a publisher. So he made all of his money in magazines.

• 56:34Sam Parr?

  And he was like, so I'm gonna die soon because I've got cancer and I'll die with like a $600 million net worth, but if I could do it all over again, my goal would have been to make 20 or 30 million dollars by the age of 35 and not focus on money making ever again and only focus on like the people I cared about. But like a boxer who's punch drunk, I went back into the ring every time because I was addicted to it, even though it didn't always bring me the most amount of fulfillment and happiness.

• 57:04Speaker 00

  I just want to share three reactions to that. The first is, there was a bandleader from the late 60s or early 70s who was being interviewed a few years ago, and the announcer said, you know, "You were the first band to make a million dollars a month. No band had ever made that much money. What'd you do with all that money? You guys must be rich." He said, "Well, we spent about 70% on wine, women, and drugs and wasted all the rest."

• 57:32Sam Parr?

  Ah.

• 57:33Speaker 00

  But the thing with Mick Jagger is what you don't see is he like works out six hours a day. He eats a food regimen that's like second to none, and here's a guy who's-

• 57:47Sam Parr?

  Maybe Keith was a better example.

• 57:49Speaker 00

  Yeah, well, that's important because even with Richard Branson, with his, whatever your persona is, you know, he knows how to lever from a marketing point of view. He puts like nothing into a business and others invest around his name, so his risk is very low. These are people who are real geniuses at what they do. But the thing that you didn't mention is philanthropy. Like, how does people create meaning? I think that people who've created a certain amount of wealth and then say a higher percentage of what I'm gonna make, I'm gonna give back to causes that I believe in and try and make the world a better place.

• 58:34Speaker 00

  I think that's a really important way to get meaning. So that guy who made 600 and said, "I should have just made 30," maybe he should have just been a little more philanthrop- And and looked around the world and said, I can make an impact in a positive way.

• 58:49Sam Parr?

  Have you heard of this book called, you got a ton of books behind you. So maybe you have, it looks like you read a lot. There's this book called um. Die dying with zero. It's by this hedge fund guy named Bill Perkins, and I've just started reading it. But it sounds like the premise of the book is basically like. Uh, spend like if you're gonna give, instead of giving away money when you're dead. Like, give your kids the money now. So if they want to buy a home or do something like, maybe you can. Enjoy it together. If you want to leave money to a certain cause, just give it now. Because you'll be able to see, you'll be able to see it and you can all get a little more joy out of that.

• 59:25Speaker 00

  Sure. Well, that that was the biggest debate. You know, for many years, Warren Buffett said, I'm leaving a big foundation when I die. And. He said, because I'm growing my capital so quickly. That by leaving it in my portfolio, I'll leave so much more. And Bill Gates. Made the argument with him, yes, but what's the value of a life saved today? Versus a life only saved thirty years from now when you die. And some things aren't financial calculations. So the point that you're making is there's a lot of value to being philanthropic. Both with your time and your money earlier on and not just uh later on. And I think.

• 1:00:08Speaker 00

  One of the things that uh is really important is many entrepreneurs. Have a lot more than money. They have skills and insights and contacts. That they can lever philanthropically. So I do believe uh in being as active as possible. Uh, to make, climate is my number one issue. And so I'm involved in climate. Both politically, philanthropically, and in the way I invest. And that's given me a lot of feeling, at least of I'm doing as much as I can.

• 1:00:38Sam Parr?

  Well, last two questions. First, um.

• 1:00:43Sam Parr?

  The interesting thing about your business, Tiger 21, is from an outside, it seems like the vast majority of the value is your like eight or 10 person or 15 person, your group, which means I would think that there's a lot of pressure, not pressure, but there's a lot of faith that the facilitator, like you need that facilitator to be good. And if your facilitator stinks, then that could potentially ruin the experience. Which almost is like your business is almost decentralized. Like, you know, customers will have drastically different experiences potentially, regardless of what's happening at HQ. How are you, how do you make sure your facilitators are good and are providing a valuable experience?

• 1:01:27Speaker 00

  So I think what you're searching for is kind of a classic example of would you rather own 300 gas stations or one oil refinery? If they're both worth the same amount of money?

• 1:01:40Sam Parr?

  Well, the answer is obvious on that one, I think.

• 1:01:42Speaker 00

  Which is what?

• 1:01:43Sam Parr?

  Multiple. I mean, it's like you don't want, you don't want, you don't want all your, you don't want one big ass customer. It would be nice to have 100 more that are equal.

• 1:01:51Speaker 00

  But the fact is, if you have 300 gas stations that have all the same label on them, the same name, you have a brand exposure that if something bad happens in one of them, it could affect people's demand for the other. So our only asset is our people. Both our team, our chairs that facilitate the groups and our members. And we spend, we have like a private university. We spend fortunes of time screening the facilitators and then providing lots of opportunities for the facilitators to learn from one another. Our facilitators come in from, we call them chairs of the groups.

• 1:02:31Speaker 00

  They come in from all over the world to learn best practices from each other. And we track all of the relevant metrics to see which groups are performing well, which groups are not performing well. And of course, the most important thing is that We have zero tolerance for anything less than high integrity and maintenance of confidence. If somebody, if a member or a chair ever violated that, they would be out in a second. So I'd say that maybe besides the core asset being our team and our members,

• 1:03:11Speaker 00

  the thing we protect the most is our brand by being really true to what it stands for. And I don't think we've ever compromised on trying to put members first. That's kind of what we're about. I'm a member first. Most of the value that I've gotten out of being a member of Tiger has been being a member. The fact that I've owned today a little more than half the business is almost irrelevant to the value that I've gotten by being a member and all the opportunities that I share with all the other members that come my way as a member.

• 1:03:46Sam Parr?

  Well, you're awesome. The reason I wanted to talk to you was because I know of Tiger. I've thought about joining. I've got friends that are part of it, and I love the business model. My business was tangentially related, but not quite the same thing. It was community-based, and I hadn't read or seen too many interviews with you. And so I'm happy that we got to talk because I wanted to kind of explore this. But you're cool as hell. I appreciate you taking the time. This is awesome.

• 1:04:14Speaker 00

  Thanks so much for having me. It was a pleasure.

• 1:04:17Sam Parr?

  If people want to, do you use Twitter or anything? If people want to find you, you want to point them anywhere?

• 1:04:24Speaker 00

  I'm on LinkedIn. I don't use Twitter. I don't use Facebook, but I'm available through LinkedIn. And it's kind of easy. It's [email protected].

• 1:04:39Sam Parr?

  Hell, yeah. Thank you, man. I appreciate it.

• 1:04:41Speaker 00

  Thank you.