Ask, Tell, Confess: Red Flags & Glory Holes

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the gals dive into wild dating tales—think a hilarious Craigslist ad gone wrong and a disastrous first date that somehow involved a needle, an IV pole, and a blown tire. They also unpack the surprising history of glory holes, swap notes on dating red flags, and reflect on how past relationships shape the present. Bunnie opens up about her nine-year marriage and her husband’s dream of coaching football. Things wrap up on a playful note with a chat about nicknames for “tricks” and the art of keeping self-control in check. Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:00Bunnie XO?

  Hey guys, I need to ask you a question. I want to know, why in the hell are you not on Patreon? I don't think you guys even realize how much content we have on Patreon. Let me break it down for you. We have the Bunny XO Show, we have Meet the DeFords, we have Popaganda, we have more shows that we're adding, and not to mention, we have the visuals of the podcast. Not only that, we have four tiers that caters to everybody's budget and everybody gets the podcast. There's no more excuses. Head over to www.patreon.com/dumblonpodcast and sign up. Stop missing out. We have built a huge community over there, guys. I'm talking about hundreds of thousands of people over there.

• 0:41Bunnie XO?

  We even have live chats, live chats that I actually am talking in every single night. Last but not least, we give away gifts every frickin' month. I'm talking like signed stuff from Jay and I lives. You just never know what kind of surprise you're gonna get. It's like a Cracker Jack box. I love the community that we've built over there at Patreon. If you are already a Patreon member, I freaking love you, dude. Thank you so much. You guys are my babies for life, my writers. If I could, I would literally make out with each and every one of you. I love you guys so much, and that's a lot of kisses, actually. Gotta go bye.

• 1:35Bunnie XO?

  Hello, friend.

• 1:39Bunnie XO?

  Welcome to Ask, Tell, Confend.

• 1:54Bunnie XO?

  How was it? It was nice. I'm gonna give it eight. It's been awhile. Yeah. It's been a while. It's gone longer. Yeah, I could've. That's what she said. I think you can go longer. That's what he said. That's what she said. That's what they all said. Oh. Alright, so we did another test to see some of you guys' most horrible dating stories.

• 2:14Bunnie XO?

  And you guys definitely delivered.

• 2:16Speaker 01

  I enjoyed this one.

• 2:17Bunnie XO?

  But before we get into that, I had this one saved that I wanted to tell last week because I thought it was fucking hilarious. Has nothing to do with dating, but it's really so fucking funny.

• 2:28Speaker 01

  Give it to me.

• 2:29Bunnie XO?

  You guys ready?

• 2:30Speaker 01

  I'm ready.

• 2:31Bunnie XO?

  I am seeking somebody who will let me chase them. Age and gender doesn't matter. You can be real old or a lady or black, as long as you can go real fast.

• 2:43Speaker 01

  What?

• 2:43Bunnie XO?

  It doesn't matter when it happens, inside or outside, but you have to be fun to chase. You can't be on a bike because it's cheating. I want the chasing to last a long time and I want to be sweaty, but I have to catch you in the end. If I don't catch you, then you won't get paid, but you can't let me catch you and be easy about it. And if you do, you will not get paid. After the chasing, you should say something to me like, good running, or you're very fast and give me a high five. A one-handed high five or both hands high five, not because I told you to, but because you think it. Afterwards, you should post a picture of me on your Facebook and make me the, and make the picture, the caption say, he caught me. Let me know. Thanks.

• 3:29Speaker 02

  That's the coolest thing I've ever heard.

• 3:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. I thought it was inspiring. This person is serial, serial killer?

• 3:38Bunnie XO?

  I'm scared. I thought it was inspiring. I loved it. I thought that was almost like,

• 3:45Bunnie XO?

  like poetry. It was so good, right?

• 3:53Bunnie XO?

  Okay. I just had to read, I've been saving that forever, but that was an actual Craigslist ad that somebody had posted on Craigslist back in the day.

• 4:03Speaker 01

  Makes so much sense that is on Craigslist. Got it. All right.

• 4:07Bunnie XO?

  Can we bring Craigslist back?

• 4:08Speaker 01

  It gives Craigslist vibes. You remember when the, the, like the working girls would be paid by roses?

• 4:14Bunnie XO?

  Yes.

• 4:15Speaker 01

  How can I forget? She said, I liked lots of roses.

• 4:18Bunnie XO?

  I never had Craigslist. Craigslist.

• 4:20Speaker 01

  Okay. Craigslist was like the best thing in the entire world because it was a little bit of everything. You could buy a couch or a woman.

• 4:29Bunnie XO?

  Okay. Meetups. You can meet up in a car and if you wanted to post right now, hey, I'm gonna be at Walmart at 4:45 and I wanna fuck. Somebody show up.

• 4:38Speaker 01

  Someone's showing up.

• 4:39Bunnie XO?

  10 people are showing up. Somebody's fucking.

• 4:41Speaker 01

  There's nothing happening.

• 4:43Bunnie XO?

  And they don't care. Like, or if there's somebody who's like, my fantasy is to have a glory hole.

• 4:47Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 4:47Bunnie XO?

  Somebody will be like, I know where glory holes is.

• 4:49Speaker 03

  Raise your hand.

• 4:50Speaker 01

  No.

• 4:51Speaker 03

  I said.

• 4:57Speaker 03

  Thought you raised your hand.

• 4:58Speaker 01

  I was green with it.

• 4:59Speaker 03

  Okay.

• 5:00Speaker 01

  No, that you're gonna get a glory hole.

• 5:02Bunnie XO?

  No, somebody's gonna write you back and say, there's a glory hole at the wall in this bar. Meet you there.

• 5:07Speaker 01

  What?

• 5:08Bunnie XO?

  Do you know what a glory hole is?

• 5:09Speaker 03

  Yeah. A hole, then you put it through and then you don't know what's on the other side.

• 5:15Bunnie XO?

  Can you imagine?

• 5:16Speaker 03

  I have a crazy story.

• 5:17Bunnie XO?

  The restraint you would have to have to be the dick sucker on the other side?

• 5:21Speaker 03

  I'd push it out and then like look through to see him.

• 5:24Bunnie XO?

  What if you just fucking bit it? And you would never know who fucking bit your dick off. You know what I'm saying? Like, you would never know.

• 5:34Speaker 01

  It's like the movie Teeth.

• 5:36Bunnie XO?

  You would never know. And the cop's gonna be like, who bit your dick off? And you're gonna be like, I don't know, I stuck it in a hole.

• 5:40Speaker 03

  You could literally take a knife and just.

• 5:42Bunnie XO?

  Bro, you could inject somebody with something.

• 5:44Speaker 01

  Happened. Like, I wonder if like, you know, like a revenge type thing.

• 5:49Bunnie XO?

  Where did glory holes fucking originate from? Should we ask chat? I, that's just crazy to me. Like, where the fuck did they even originate from?

• 5:56Speaker 01

  I think this was like a long time ago, though. Like, I truly feel like glory holes have been around a significant amount of time.

• 6:02Bunnie XO?

  Hey, Sunny.

• 6:03Speaker 01

  Pyramid.

• 6:04Speaker 04

  Hey there, bunny. Always good to hear from you. What's on your mind today?

• 6:07Speaker 01

  When did she get an accent?

• 6:09Bunnie XO?

  We're going to Europe.

• 6:17Bunnie XO?

  So I have a question for you, Sunny.

• 6:24Speaker 04

  Is and ready to help with whatever European adventure planning or curiosity you've got.

• 6:29Bunnie XO?

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• 8:11Speaker 04

  Ah, well, that's definitely a bit of a colorful history question. So the concept of glory holes actually goes back quite a long time in history. And they seem to have appeared in places like public bathhouses as early as, you know, the early 20th century or even before. They're one of those things that kind of originated underground in various subcultures and then just became more known over time. So it's a bit of a quirky piece of history.

• 8:39Bunnie XO?

  Would you ever stick your wiener in a glory hole?

• 8:43Speaker 04

  Well, that's definitely a pretty personal ques- Oh my god. Can I help you with something else?

• 8:51Bunnie XO?

  No, it's alright. We just wanted to know where glory. Who was, was there ever a famous glory hole?

• 8:59Speaker 04

  Yeah, no worries at all. It's always okay to be curious. As for a famous glory hole, well, they're not exactly the kind of thing that gets official fame, but some places have a bit of an underground reputation. For example, some adult venues or certain nightclubs in big cities have had kind of a notorious reputation over the decades, but it's more like urban legends than any officially famous spot. So it's definitely a quirky bit of subcultural trivia.

• 9:29Bunnie XO?

  Dodge that question.

• 9:31Speaker 01

  Yeah, PR trained, I get it.

• 9:33Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I love it.

• 9:34Speaker 01

  I have a Craigslist story.

• 9:36Bunnie XO?

  Let's go.

• 9:36Speaker 01

  Jason had, Jason, cut this if you don't want me talking about it. Jason's.

• 9:41Bunnie XO?

  Jason, do not cut this. Your fucking history is to be exploited always.

• 9:48Speaker 01

  So Jason had like, what was like an uncle, like a gay uncle and it wasn't an actual uncle, but like a close enough friend that he called uncle. And when he would come visit, they would like stay at a hotel and Jason was like, oh, he's going to go work Craigslist. And I was like, what do you mean he's going to work Craigslist? He was really into meeting truckers on the road and he found, he would find them on Craigslist and go get fucked.

• 10:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, lots of truckers find sex on the road.

• 10:19Speaker 01

  A lot of gay truckers.

• 10:21Bunnie XO?

  Huh?

• 10:21Speaker 01

  A lot of gay truckers.

• 10:22Bunnie XO?

  Oh, for sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah. A lot of them.

• 10:26Speaker 01

  Yeah, that was like the place to be Craigslist.

• 10:28Bunnie XO?

  Sorry, I just burped in your ear, Jaime. Okay, good. I'm going through it over here, guys. Well, I didn't mean to get the whole Craigslist thing going, but I just had to tell you guys. I just, it was. Well, I don't have a Craigslist story. Okay, sorry. Go ahead. So you've got, we've got worse dates, right?

• 10:44Speaker 01

  Yeah, after, after you read yours, I feel like we need to read the text that Tosh got about.

• 10:51Bunnie XO?

  Oh, fuck. I gotta call her and ask for permission.

• 10:54Speaker 03

  What happened to exploiting?

• 10:59Bunnie XO?

  Jason knows how we operate, but I gotta ask her.

• 11:02Speaker 01

  Please.

• 11:03Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah, yeah. No, I'll get it. She just sent them to me the other day, too, because I didn't get a chance to read them to Jay. All right, go ahead.

• 11:09Speaker 03

  All right, this lady went on a walk on the beach of Lake Michigan for their first date, stepped on a used needle buried in the sand, brought it and her to the hospital. Walking into the hospital, her date was hit in the head by a swinging IV pole. He got six stitches in his head. I got a whole panel of labs to test for everything. On the way home, he ran over a nail and the tire blew. We didn't go on another date, but became pretty good friends and still laugh about it almost 30 years later.

• 11:39Bunnie XO?

  What? Okay, new fucking fear unlocked.

• 11:42Speaker 03

  That's also like final destination.

• 11:43Bunnie XO?

  A fucking needle in the beach? That's why I don't take my shoes off on the beach.

• 11:48Speaker 01

  You didn't know that?

• 11:49Bunnie XO?

  No, bitch. How would I know that?

• 11:51Speaker 01

  No, I just meant like a lot of like the beaches back home, like my mom and dad, when I was a kid, that was like so known, like you don't just tromp through there because there's needles in the beach.

• 12:01Bunnie XO?

  I've never heard of that in my entire life.

• 12:03Speaker 01

  Okay, well, Santa Cruz apparently has a lot of needles.

• 12:05Bunnie XO?

  Golly, that is so scary.

• 12:09Speaker 01

  I don't know. I thought that was common knowledge. Just realized.

• 12:11Speaker 03

  I did not know.

• 12:12Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 12:14Speaker 03

  I didn't know that.

• 12:15Speaker 01

  But what a scary thing. Anything could be in the beach, like anything could be in the sand.

• 12:19Speaker 03

  And the ocean, too. Have you seen the sand worms?

• 12:23Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 12:24Speaker 03

  Oh, you haven't seen sand worms?

• 12:26Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 12:26Speaker 01

  I don't want to. No, thank you. That doesn't exist.

• 12:29Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 12:30Speaker 01

  Not in my universe.

• 12:31Bunnie XO?

  Do they go in through your feet?

• 12:33Speaker 03

  Oh, no, they're like giant. People pull them up out of the sand.

• 12:36Bunnie XO?

  Are you kidding?

• 12:37Speaker 03

  I'm finding a video.

• 12:40Bunnie XO?

  Oh, son of a fuck.

• 12:41Speaker 01

  Absolutely not. I feel like that was a very dramatic pullout. They're gonna be like this big and she's gonna be like, it was like a water hose. Yeah.

• 12:54Speaker 01

  Excuse me?

• 12:57Speaker 01

  Hold on, it keeps going.

• 13:03Speaker 01

  Yeah, can you see that?

• 13:05Bunnie XO?

  Why? What's their purpose?

• 13:09Speaker 01

  I don't know. Um... Don't like that.

• 13:13Bunnie XO?

  Don't like it at all, bro.

• 13:15Speaker 01

  Nope.

• 13:15Bunnie XO?

  Go ahead, memes. You're next. My Craigslist story still trumps everything.

• 13:20Speaker 01

  It did, because that was fantastic. This is okay.

• 13:23Speaker 03

  Yeah, I don't know how you beat that.

• 13:27Speaker 01

  This one says that... This was a quick and... Um, um, this was quick and easy, but... This one said that there was one time she went on a date and I was asked to leave the restaurant because he was crying when his ex walked in.

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  Huh, I'm having fewer headache days this month.

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• 15:13Bunnie XO?

  Oh, hell no. Are you kidding?

• 15:17Speaker 01

  Why were you asked to leave?

• 15:20Bunnie XO?

  Because he was crying so much, so they were asked to leave, both of them.

• 15:25Speaker 01

  Oh, I thought she was just asked to leave.

• 15:27Bunnie XO?

  Why are we crying?

• 15:28Speaker 01

  Why are we crying?

• 15:29Bunnie XO?

  Because his ex walked in. Okay, okay. Sorry, I'm slow. I feel like, one, that's a fucking huge red flag. Like, if your dude cries at the sight of seeing his ex, like-

• 15:41Speaker 01

  Like, leave, run.

• 15:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, like, never talk to that man again. The majority of these men aren't over their exes anyways.

• 15:48Speaker 01

  Like, hell no.

• 15:50Bunnie XO?

  No matter how mu- if a man, if you go on a date with a man, and the first thing he says to you is, "My ex is crazy," he's not over her.

• 15:57Speaker 01

  Nope.

• 15:58Bunnie XO?

  He is still in love with her. Run as fast as you fucking can. Because that man, one, is fucking, probably, I hate using the term, but probably a fucking just narcissist. And, two, literally, will always just, if that girl wants him back, well, it's just gonna be a love triangle, yeah.

• 16:17Speaker 01

  Absolutely. I'm so thankful, Jason and I had, like, really crazy breakups right before meeting. Like, crazy breakups that just, like, made us fall for each other even harder, I feel like. It was traumatic.

• 16:31Bunnie XO?

  That sounds fucking terrible.

• 16:32Speaker 01

  It was great.

• 16:33Bunnie XO?

  You guys trauma bonded?

• 16:34Speaker 01

  Yeah, it was kind of like a trauma bond almost, but like, in a great way. It was like, we were able to compare how crazy our exes actually were, like, but in legitimate ways. Like, both of our exes were fucking psychotic humans. And we bonded over the fact that we were good humans that found each other over the fact that our exes were so crazy.

• 16:54Bunnie XO?

  Jessica said, "So picture, it's Sicily, twenty and something, penthouse overlooking the beach. Rose petals all over the place with the sounds of nineties usher playing." Oh, it's perfect for this fucking ending. "In the background, y'all just reached climax, and boom." He says, "Oh, by the way, I have herpes, but I'm being treated and I wore a condom 'cause I love you." Has herpes.

• 17:21Speaker 01

  Oh my god.

• 17:22Bunnie XO?

  What? So it's only fitting, bleep that out, but that it's like a huge rumor that like is very vocal about how he has herpes. I don't know if it's true or not, but give it a go.

• 17:31Speaker 01

  Wow.

• 17:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 17:32Speaker 01

  I need to know whether that's true or not.

• 17:34Bunnie XO?

  Ask chat. I'm not asking chat about, I don't care about. Fucking loins, okay? That is not on the top of my to do list. Um, but yeah, so one, glad he wore a condom.

• 17:49Speaker 01

  But.

• 17:50Bunnie XO?

  Two, very scary that he didn't tell you that before.

• 17:54Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 17:55Bunnie XO?

  I understand we live in fucking a world where, you know, shit happens and people have, you know, incurable STDs. If you have an incurable STD, you need to share that with your partner, though.

• 18:08Speaker 01

  Isn't it illegal not to share with somebody?

• 18:09Bunnie XO?

  I think so.

• 18:10Speaker 01

  I think it's very, because I remember that incident that happened with you with that guy. He found out that he had an STD after, like, like, thank god. No, no, I know. Thank god you never met him, because that could have been one of those situations where the guy never told you.

• 18:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:25Speaker 01

  And that has to be illegal.

• 18:27Bunnie XO?

  These dudes be out here dirty dicking it left and right, so you just gotta be careful.

• 18:31Speaker 01

  Dirty dicking.

• 18:32Bunnie XO?

  Just strap up, no matter what, strap up.

• 18:35Speaker 01

  Yeah. It doesn't feel better without it, don't just put it on.

• 18:39Bunnie XO?

  To me, I don't think condoms really make that much of a difference.

• 18:42Speaker 01

  I think that's such an excuse. Jaime.

• 18:45Bunnie XO?

  I do.

• 18:47Bunnie XO?

  You don't like them?

• 18:51Speaker 01

  No, they're just raw dogging out here.

• 18:53Bunnie XO?

  Not all the time. So I have a question, is it that it doesn't feel good to you or that you don't feel as close to them? I mean, it'd be, never really thought about it, I just.

• 19:06Bunnie XO?

  Want to go with B?

• 19:11Speaker 01

  What about you, Jaime, does it feel different?

• 19:13Speaker 02

  It definitely feels different, but yeah, I mean, wear one.

• 19:16Bunnie XO?

  Somebody told me that wearing a condom, somebody told me one time, wearing a condom is the equivalent of taking a shower with a coat on, with a raincoat on.

• 19:28Bunnie XO?

  Stop.

• 19:29Speaker 01

  It's like we're in a poncho at Universal.

• 19:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah. Literally. How do you feel? How do condoms feel for men?

• 19:36Speaker 02

  I mean, it just, if you still feel the warmth, you just, it doesn't feel as slimy in there, I guess. Slimy is a bad word, sorry. It doesn't feel as

• 19:42Bunnie XO?

  Wet.

• 19:43Speaker 02

  Wet and warm.

• 19:44Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Inviting.

• 19:46Speaker 02

  Yes, it's very inviting without it.

• 19:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Gotcha.

• 19:49Speaker 02

  But I never considered what you said with the whole emotional attachment with no condom. I'd never, never even thought.

• 19:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 19:57Speaker 01

  Interesting.

• 19:58Bunnie XO?

  Wow. Should we cut that part?

• 20:00Speaker 01

  I couldn't, no.

• 20:01Bunnie XO?

  Is that a little too deep?

• 20:02Speaker 01

  That was great. Yeah, I could never imagine like just fucking around in my twenties, like I, like mind, I would have never had a mindset like that. Ever. Ever. I mean, I was a teenager. I met him when I was a teenager, so.

• 20:16Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 20:16Speaker 01

  My whore days were like very young.

• 20:20Bunnie XO?

  Started later.

• 20:22Speaker 01

  I did not.

• 20:26Bunnie XO?

  I haven't stopped. No, I'm just saying. I'm just kidding. Totally kidding. I'm married now, going on a fucking decade, dude. Our anniversary is this month, like what?

• 20:34Speaker 01

  Oh my gosh.

• 20:35Bunnie XO?

  Nine years with that guy? Like, come on, dude. Fucking.

• 20:40Speaker 01

  Can you believe it?

• 20:41Bunnie XO?

  Old, the role locked me down, bro. Like, who would have thought?

• 20:46Speaker 01

  If there's anyone to do it, it was gonna be him.

• 20:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, well, it's because I'm scared of him. He's the only man that I'm scared of. Literally, he is the only man that I'm like, okay, whatever you say. Yeah, no, I love that man though, but I can't believe nine years.

• 21:01Speaker 01

  Long fucking time.

• 21:02Bunnie XO?

  Mm-hmm. Every anniversary, I ask my husband though, I'm like, are we really doing this again? You know, like, are we doing this? And he's always like, yes, you fucking weird bitch. Stop asking me this.

• 21:17Speaker 01

  Every year. We still good?

• 21:19Bunnie XO?

  Every year. I'm like, listen, this is your time to exit. Anytime you want to go, just let me know.

• 21:25Speaker 01

  Anniversary?

• 21:25Bunnie XO?

  That'd be me. I'm like, hey, do you still like me or you hate me?

• 21:28Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 21:29Bunnie XO?

  Literally, like, this is, this is make or break. Which one do you want to do? And he's always like, let's fucking do it. He's like, now he just answers me and is like, yes, baby, this is forever. You know, whereas before he'd be like, let's do another three years. And I'd be like, let's, let's do one and see how it goes. And he'd be like, let's do another five. And I'd be like, okay, fine.

• 21:46Speaker 01

  Have you guys made a new plan? Like a new, like, five year?

• 21:49Bunnie XO?

  No, we're kind of flying by the seat of our pants right now because he's Jelly Seacrest.

• 21:54Bunnie XO?

  I think, I think we have indirectly made another five year plan, but it involves babies and settling down. And he fucking has decided he wants to coach fucking football. And I'm like, you will never be able to sit at home. He gave one pep talk.

• 22:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, one pep talk and he's ready to be a coach. He's already got a whistle. Yeah, literally. And I'm like, bro. He's got a clipboard. I love my husband, but I'm like, I'm to the point where I'm just like, listen, I know we're gonna have babies, but you go do you. And I got the kids on the home front and I will hop on tour with the kids when I can. And like, you know, I don't, because he feels like when we do have a child or children, I keep saying babies. But he feels like he needs to settle down and he needs to slow down. And I'm like, why? Like, we don't need to do that. Like, keep going and we'll be fine.

• 22:46Speaker 01

  This life with kids is one of the coolest things ever.

• 22:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:48Speaker 01

  One of the coolest things in the entire world is raising a child through this kind of lifestyle.

• 22:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I bet.

• 22:55Speaker 01

  I can't stress that enough.

• 22:57Bunnie XO?

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• 24:05Bunnie XO?

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• 24:47Bunnie XO?

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• 25:14Speaker 03

  Um, she said, not me, but my friend. This guy kept hitting on her for eight months, even though she was pregnant at the time. She eventually said, fine, figuring she could get one final good meal before the baby's born. He took her down the bumpiest road in the city and her water broke.

• 25:29Bunnie XO?

  Oh, no.

• 25:30Speaker 03

  He called me from the hospital. I was the birth coach. I get there. He took my job. Beautiful baby girl, and they have been married for 28 years and two weeks.

• 25:38Bunnie XO?

  Oh, that's beautiful. That is sweet. I love that.

• 25:44Speaker 03

  Wait, how was that the worst date ever?

• 25:45Bunnie XO?

  Wait. Yeah, that wasn't bad.

• 25:49Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 25:50Bunnie XO?

  I got one. I got one. Kendra said, he took me to a strip club and all the girls knew him by name and called me flavor of the day.

• 26:02Bunnie XO?

  Ladies, that is another red flag. If your man hangs out in strip clubs, he ain't shit.

• 26:07Speaker 03

  What?

• 26:08Bunnie XO?

  There's nothing wrong with going to an occasional strip club once or twice a year.

• 26:12Speaker 03

  On the first date.

• 26:14Bunnie XO?

  My ex, it's in the book. My ex fucking literally hung out in strip clubs all the fucking time. And the our first Christmas, he wanted to go spend it at the Rhino in Vegas. And that's all I'm gonna say because that turns into a really big story in the book, but that is the biggest red flag when a man has to have validation from strippers. Like, I love strippers. I fucking love strippers. I love you guys. This is not me talking against you. It's me talking about men. If you're trying to be in a relationship with a man who just wants nothing but validation from strippers and going to strip clubs, that man ain't shit and he will never be shit and he ain't gonna be shit.

• 26:58Bunnie XO?

  So do not ever settle down with a man who spends his entire life in a fucking strip club. No.

• 27:04Speaker 02

  Did you open presents? Did you open presents?

• 27:07Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I opened a lot on that day. You guys will have to read. You guys will have to read the book. Wait, you gotta wait. You have to read the book to find out what happened, but it was.

• 27:17Speaker 02

  Just out of Christmas.

• 27:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it was Christmas Eve. It was our first Christmas Eve together. Yeah.

• 27:22Speaker 03

  Wow.

• 27:22Bunnie XO?

  Yep. Okay. I mean, I used to live in strip clubs in my twenties. I worked in them, you know? I love strip clubs, but I don't love dating men who are always in strip clubs. Cause I've done it a few times and it just never works out. They're just big old tricks. Nobody wants to date a big old trick. You know what I'm saying?

• 27:41Speaker 01

  I feel like your special power, if you were to ever have a superpower, would be able to like spot tricks.

• 27:47Bunnie XO?

  Sniff out the trick. A hundred percent. I saw one today.

• 27:49Speaker 01

  Yes, you sniff the tricks out.

• 27:51Bunnie XO?

  I mean, I think that might be trauma. I don't know if that's a special talent.

• 27:56Speaker 01

  No, I feel like superwoman.

• 27:58Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Well, I can just tell there, there's a certain type of man that spends money on women. And listen, shout out to all my girls who are getting that money. Get that fucking money. But I don't want to settle down with a motherfucker who's out paying bitches. And I know that sounds like a contradiction because it's like you were a working girl. Why wouldn't you want to marry a trick? I've never understood, and I have girlfriends who are like close friends who are with, some of them married their tricks. I could never do that. It was just always business to me. I would always look at that person like a business transaction.

• 28:31Speaker 01

  I feel like once you fall into that though, it's easy to continue to fall into that.

• 28:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 28:35Speaker 01

  So it's like you, like you, you always kept it business.

• 28:38Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. I always separated church from state. I was like, no. I wanted the felon and the drug dealer and then the tricks were just business, you know? Not that that works out for you guys. It happened to work out for me. Okay. It was a very un-fairy fairy tale, but nine times out of 10, that doesn't work out either. So. Don't listen to me, guys. I don't even know why I have a microphone in front of my fucking face.

• 28:59Speaker 02

  I got a question. Is there like a common first name of like tricks?

• 29:03Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 29:04Speaker 02

  Like Jeff?

• 29:04Speaker 01

  That's a great question.

• 29:06Speaker 02

  Or like Phil?

• 29:07Bunnie XO?

  It's normally like that. Yeah. It's normally like a Mike.

• 29:09Speaker 02

  A Mike?

• 29:10Bunnie XO?

  Mikes are for sure. Sounds like a huge trick. Mikes are for sure big ass tricks. John, and I mean, they're called Johns. So, you know, like. Yeah, but it's always like very regular names. I mean, we could look at my phone book. Hold on. And that was another thing, when that clip went viral, everybody's like, why do you still have the same phone number? And I'm like, bro, I have, one, I have multiple phones. Two, I hate changing my phone number. I don't like it. And three, I have enough fucking self-control that when something calls my phone, I don't have to answer or respond. There's people who will never hear from me again that still text me and continue to text me and I will never fucking reply. You know, so I don't know. It's just weird. It's weird to me that you guys don't have enough fucking self-control.

• 29:53Bunnie XO?

  But let's, uh, take a gander here. Let's type in some moneybags and see what pops up.

• 29:58Speaker 01

  That's how she determines how many moneybags is how much money.

• 30:04Speaker 01

  Yeah, did, okay, what's the most moneybags?

• 30:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, what's the highest moneybag? Three is the highest moneybag. What does that equate to? That equates to this motherfucker spends money. As opposed to like one bag. A dollar amount. Uh, I mean, you can't do that. It's very so much.

• 30:19Speaker 01

  What they're willing to pay.

• 30:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it like, that means that they're gonna give me my highest rate is what it was. Okay, so let's see.

• 30:28Bunnie XO?

  We have, we have, we have Brad, Brad, Brad.

• 30:35Bunnie XO?

  A lot of Brad's.

• 30:37Speaker 01

  Oh, good.

• 30:41Bunnie XO?

  Chad.

• 30:45Bunnie XO?

  David, David, David, Frank, Frank.

• 30:54Bunnie XO?

  See, it's all those names.

• 30:56Speaker 01

  Very stereotypical.

• 30:58Bunnie XO?

  Very stereotypical names.

• 30:59Speaker 01

  Because I feel like they maybe always felt like they like blended in.

• 31:03Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 31:05Speaker 01

  Yep. Do you think anyone ever give you fake names?

• 31:07Bunnie XO?

  No, cuz I checked their IDs. Yeah. You can't.

• 31:11Speaker 01

  She said, "Background check."

• 31:15Speaker 01

  We both went.

• 31:16Bunnie XO?

  Listen, the game is gritty, but the bitches are pretty. It's just how it goes, baby. It should be a t-shirt. It was, in my clothing line.

• 31:27Bunnie XO?

  It was. Actually, Pimp C said that. It's a Pimp C quote. And on that note, we're outta here. I love you guys. Don't ever take any advice from us, okay? Thank you. Bye-bye.

• 31:43Bunnie XO?

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• 32:28Bunnie XO?

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