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0:05 George Kamel? Are you a cheap date? And is that a dig or a new badge of honor? Today, we're talking cheap date nights.
0:11 Rachel Cruze? Those quirky moments in life that you just, that bring laughter. It's what you need.
0:15 George Kamel? That's what you need.
0:16 Rachel Cruze? I like it.
0:16 George Kamel? They're in crippling debt, Rachel. I'm trying to help this couple out.
0:19 Rachel Cruze? They have $40. Why are you taking back your idea?
0:20 George Kamel? Don't pin this on me.
0:27 Rachel Cruze? Hey, guys, I'm Rachel Cruz.
0:29 George Kamel? I'm George Kamel.
0:31 Rachel Cruze? And this is?
0:32 George Kamel? Smart Money Happy Hour.
0:39 Rachel Cruze? Well, this is the show where two friends who happen to be money experts talk about what you're talking about. So everything from pop culture, current events, and money.
0:45 George Kamel? And as we get started, let's talk about what we're sipping on. It is a rye tie.
0:50 Rachel Cruze? Oh, instead of a Mai Tai.
0:52 George Kamel? Very clever.
0:53 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
0:55 George Kamel? We're going to give you our rating and reveal the cost per glass at the end of the episode, so stick around for that.
1:00 Rachel Cruze? All right, George, we've been married, Winston and I, for about, heading on to 16 years.
1:07 George Kamel? Wow.
1:08 Rachel Cruze? When this episode launches, we'll be close to it. What about you guys? You guys are?
1:11 George Kamel? We're heading towards eight.
1:12 Rachel Cruze? Towards eight, okay.
1:13 George Kamel? Barreling, I would say, towards eight.
1:14 Rachel Cruze? Do you say barreling?
1:16 George Kamel? Yeah.
1:16 Rachel Cruze? What does that mean?
1:17 George Kamel? It means we're, it's rough and tumble, and we're speeding our way through it.
1:20 Rachel Cruze? All the way through.
1:21 George Kamel? Yeah, life is crazy.
1:22 Rachel Cruze? I mean, you're having babies, moving houses.
1:23 George Kamel? It's a lot.
1:24 Rachel Cruze? Y'all are doing a lot. But do you feel like y'all's date nights have changed over the years? Like, when you think about, like, when you were, like, dating to newly married to now?
1:33 George Kamel? Oh, yeah. It feels like we were constantly, like, when you're first dating.
1:36 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
1:36 George Kamel? Every night's a date night.
1:38 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
1:39 George Kamel? And now that we're married with a kid?
1:41 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. I'm talking about, like, not frequency, like, types, like, the quality of the dates.
1:48 George Kamel? Quality, I would say.
1:49 Rachel Cruze? Or y'all were both professionals, like, when you guys were dating.
1:52 George Kamel? Thank you for saying that.
1:53 Rachel Cruze? You're welcome. You're so professional.
1:55 George Kamel? We were both working professionals.
1:56 Rachel Cruze? Yes, so y'all had, like, actual salaries and income coming in.
1:59 George Kamel? Yes.
2:00 Rachel Cruze? So do you feel like you had better date nights, or no?
2:02 George Kamel? I would say the... The quality has increased, but the frequency has decreased.
2:08 Rachel Cruze? Yes, and that's a reality.
2:10 George Kamel? And I feel like we're not trying, no one's trying to impress anyone anymore. So it's just like, what, okay, what's your go-to spot versus let's go somewhere fancy and get dressed up?
2:17 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yes, and try to like make it all creative, yeah. See, we started dating when we were like college students.
2:22 George Kamel? Oh, so you guys were like broke? What were you doing early on for dates?
2:26 Rachel Cruze? Um, we went to Chili's a lot.
2:28 George Kamel? So like UT Knoxville, I'm trying to picture the local Chili's.
2:31 Rachel Cruze? So there was a place in Knoxville, I think it's, it's just changed so much since we've been there. And it was called the Strip, and it was the, it was the road right outside of, like the campus line was like literally right behind it. So they could have bars and all this stuff on the streets.
2:49 George Kamel? It was built for the college essentially. They're like, this is gonna be.
2:51 Rachel Cruze? But it's like where, um, like Firehouse Subs was and like, um, there was a place called Sunspot. All the girls know that place.
2:58 George Kamel? Was that tanning?
2:59 Rachel Cruze? And, no, but there was tanning. I did a tan, that was, that was the generation of tanning beds, that was before spray tans.
3:05 George Kamel? What happens at Sunspot?
3:06 Rachel Cruze? Oh, Sunspot, it's where I had hummus for the first time.
3:09 George Kamel? I'm sorry.
3:10 Rachel Cruze? It was like a hip, it was like, it'd be like considered like a hippie spot from 20 years ago.
3:15 George Kamel? But they have tanning beds?
3:17 Rachel Cruze? No, separate, no, no, no, no, separate.
3:19 George Kamel? Scared me, I was like, how did this pass code?
3:22 Rachel Cruze? I'm eating hummus in the tanning bed, no, no, there was a tanning salon on the Strip. Anyway, I'll just say there was a Chili's on the Strip, this is where I'm getting. And the, yeah, we'd get chips and salsa and.
3:36 George Kamel? That's not free at Chili's.
3:38 Rachel Cruze? And then we'd get the, the chocolate molten cake.
3:40 George Kamel? Oh.
3:41 Rachel Cruze? That was like what we ate.
3:42 George Kamel? Chip, salsa and cake, so apps and desserts, water, that's a cheap date.
3:46 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, we did that a lot, and then Winston, I thought of this the other day, he made up a thing called hammock hunting. So he had one of those like outdoorsy hammocks from like REI, like camper hammocks.
3:59 George Kamel? All hammocks outdoorsy?
4:01 Rachel Cruze? No, there's some like.
4:02 George Kamel? Indoor hammocks?
4:03 Rachel Cruze? No, it was like frou-frou hammocks.
4:05 George Kamel? Oh, got it.
4:06 Rachel Cruze? This was like the kind you like roll up and put in a sack. Yeah, and he, we would like go around Knoxville and find like a fun, cool spot. Cause there's like, it's kind of mountain, like I don't know, Knoxville's kind of.
4:16 George Kamel? Like, oh, there's two trees pretty close together, that's our spot.
4:18 Rachel Cruze? And we totally, yeah, we'd go hammock hunting.
4:22 George Kamel? I didn't know, if you ever wanted to know. Who invented hammock hunting, Winston Cruz?
4:25 Rachel Cruze? What did you do? What was y'all's first dates?
4:28 George Kamel? Oh, gosh, I mean, probably like splitting a Chipotle bowl.
4:34 George Kamel? I feel like that's as romantic as it gets.
4:37 Rachel Cruze? Actually, very economical. That's smart. That's smart.
4:39 George Kamel? You know, we weren't making much money.
4:41 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
4:41 George Kamel? But we had love.
4:42 Rachel Cruze? There you go. That's all you need.
4:43 George Kamel? Gets you far.
4:44 Rachel Cruze? That's all you need.
4:45 George Kamel? Yeah, well, the way I look at it, making out is free. And so if you're looking at options on a spectrum.
4:50 Rachel Cruze? It's true.
4:51 George Kamel? Fine dining to a little kissy kiss. Sorry, this episode.
4:55 Rachel Cruze? Hammock hunting.
4:56 George Kamel? Not safe for homeschoolers. Just want to make that clear. We just got edgy a little. I mean, it's date night, right? There's romance involved. We can say it.
5:03 Rachel Cruze? Let's hope so. If not, there shouldn't be a second date.
5:05 George Kamel? Some people kiss. I don't want to be the first one to tell you that.
5:09 Rachel Cruze? We don't want to spoil it for everyone.
5:10 George Kamel? And two people love each other.
5:12 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh.
5:13 George Kamel? That's a good one. Well, there's a dozen relationship experts out there that say just because you're married doesn't mean you should stop dating your spouse.
5:20 Rachel Cruze? And what does also happen in relationships is conflict, obviously. And financial stress is one of those places that is very real when it comes to some conflict.
5:29 George Kamel? Date nights cost money, turns out.
5:31 Rachel Cruze? That's right.
5:31 George Kamel? And so do babysitters. That's the part they don't tell you.
5:33 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that's another great one.
5:35 George Kamel? Sometimes the babysitter was more expensive than the actual date.
5:38 Rachel Cruze? I know. I know. Do you pay babysitters differently depending on like their age? Like if they're like a young working professional versus a high schooler?
5:46 George Kamel? Uh, they, I mean, the high schoolers charge less. That's the nice part, but I also have less trust in them, to be fair.
5:53 Rachel Cruze? And you've got little, like little, little ones.
5:55 George Kamel? Yes.
5:56 Rachel Cruze? So, yeah, that's fair.
5:57 George Kamel? But I feel like no one told me, in my mind, babysitting was still $10 an hour. And in reality, it's 20, 25 an hour.
6:05 Rachel Cruze? I know.
6:05 George Kamel? And so that adds up. If you're gone for four hours, you go downtown, a little two hour dinner. You race back, that's still like four hours, right there.
6:11 Rachel Cruze? Hundred percent.
6:12 George Kamel? Hundred bucks.
6:13 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yeah. We have a babysitting line item in our every dollar budget because of it. Because stuff happens and you're like, okay, gotta get a sitter.
6:19 George Kamel? That did help me stomach it, to have it in my every dollar budget, to just say babysitting. Then I went, no, no, no, we planned $200 this month for babysitting. I don't need to feel like I got scammed here.
6:28 Rachel Cruze? We're getting to that stage where like you don't have to have a babysitter anymore.
6:32 George Kamel? Cannot wait.
6:32 Rachel Cruze? We're almost there and that's crazy.
6:34 George Kamel? That's a good life. Well, in a survey of more than 2,000 people in long-term relationships, 44% worry that discussing finances will lead to disagreements.
6:44 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
6:44 George Kamel? Interesting. So they don't even want to talk about it because they don't want to go there. It's like a minefield.
6:48 Rachel Cruze? Which is such like a counterintuitive thing because going there and the hard conversations is where you create intimacy and like deep connection.
6:57 George Kamel? And it's where you figure out, oh, I should actually marry this person or we are not compatible.
7:02 Rachel Cruze? Compatible with it. Yeah. But I'm like, that's how you decide. Don't stay shallow, people.
7:07 George Kamel? No, no, no.
7:07 Rachel Cruze? Get in there. Get in there.
7:08 George Kamel? Brush it under the rug and hope for the best.
7:10 Rachel Cruze? Just cross your fingers.
7:11 George Kamel? That's a strategy.
7:12 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, that's what I have learned. The places in marriage are like, oh, I don't want to bring that up. That's what you need to bring up. That's the exact thing. Because then it does create.
7:20 George Kamel? It will come back to haunt you.
7:21 Rachel Cruze? And it could create a little friction, a little tension, but through that is where intimacy is created.
7:26 George Kamel? Don't you miss the days when you didn't have a fight and you could like, you had a scoreboard like, we haven't fought ever? You know what I mean? Like when you're first dating?
7:34 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
7:35 George Kamel? I don't think we had a single disagreement for six months.
7:38 Rachel Cruze? That's impressive, George.
7:40 George Kamel? Because you're trying to just, you know, be very agreeable and winsome and charming.
7:45 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
7:46 George Kamel? I turned that down real quick. Once, once things got serious, once I put a ring on it.
7:51 Rachel Cruze? You said, once you put a ring on it, then the real George came out.
7:54 George Kamel? Listen, an engagement is the true test because you turn into completely different people. I'm not going to say true colors because marriage and weddings turn you into something that you really aren't. It's the most stressful thing to plan.
8:07 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, yeah.
8:08 George Kamel? And so it just brings out a lot of stress. There's a lot of pressure, a lot of opinions.
8:11 Rachel Cruze? Do you have a lot of fights in that?
8:13 George Kamel? Um, I wouldn't, we were all aligned. It was more the boundary fights.
8:16 Rachel Cruze? Guy, though. Like a dude like Winston, I feel like was kind of like, sure.
8:20 George Kamel? Get the flowers. I'm like, well, have you got three bids?
8:22 Rachel Cruze? He's like, I don't care. I don't know. I feel like you would have opinions.
8:25 George Kamel? Yeah, my opinions are more on the financial side.
8:28 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
8:28 George Kamel? The Middle Eastern in me goes, I'm not getting hosed by this vendor.
8:31 Rachel Cruze? And you're going to get in there.
8:32 George Kamel? Have we got three bids and pin them against each other?
8:35 Rachel Cruze? We're going to bring them all together, have them fight it out.
8:38 George Kamel? I just did that with painters and boy, oh, boy, what a bloodbath that was.
8:43 Rachel Cruze? You pinned them against each other?
8:45 George Kamel? Yeah.
8:46 Rachel Cruze? Stop it.
8:46 George Kamel? It's not pinned. I didn't pin them, but I got a few bids.
8:49 Rachel Cruze? And you told Harry, you said, hey, Chuck over there charged me this. Hey Chuck, did you lie at all?
8:55 George Kamel? No, I didn't lie. I just said, hey, you're, you know, we, we, we got it covered. Found a, found a better quote. Appreciate your time.
9:03 Rachel Cruze? And then they come back? Were you doing that on purpose to like?
9:05 George Kamel? No.
9:06 Rachel Cruze? Try to see if they would lower the price?
9:07 George Kamel? But it does work.
9:07 Rachel Cruze? It does.
9:08 George Kamel? If they want the job.
9:09 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
9:09 George Kamel? They might be willing to negotiate. So that's the haggler in me.
9:12 Rachel Cruze? Wow, George, you sound like a delight.
9:14 George Kamel? I'm exhausted.
9:15 Rachel Cruze? You are exhausted.
9:16 George Kamel? I know I'm not on the table, but never marry me. It's not a life.
9:19 Rachel Cruze? I know I'm not available.
9:21 George Kamel? You want to sign up for.
9:22 Rachel Cruze? But just don't do it. Just don't do it.
9:24 George Kamel? So like you said, it's through this financial transparency, this intentionality that couples are able to build intimacy and trust, which is what the entire relationship is built on. And you grow closer when you prioritize money and dating together as a couple.
9:36 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, for sure. And I think the creativity in dating your spouse and all of that, you know, there's some fun ideas out there. And so we're going to go over some of them because a lot of people are looking to save money. You have a budget for the date nights and it's not a free for all, right? You're like, okay, we have a certain amount. How can we be creative about this? Well, we're going to dive into some more creative ideas and Georgia's marital advice, which is priceless, but.
9:59 George Kamel? The way you said that was condescending at this.
10:02 Rachel Cruze? Before we dive into that, we have a new sponsor, George, on the show.
10:06 George Kamel? Yes.
10:07 Rachel Cruze? Which I'm really excited about.
10:08 George Kamel? It's not every day you get a new partner.
10:10 Rachel Cruze? I know.
10:10 George Kamel? To help keep the show alive.
10:11 Rachel Cruze? But this is Fairwins. So Fairwins is incredible because they are a credit union. They are not a bank. And where you keep your money is really important. And more people are realizing this than ever because when you work with these massive banks, it's so hard to like build relationships, get a person.
10:29 George Kamel? You're just a number.
10:30 Rachel Cruze? It's really difficult. Yeah. So if you're budgeting and saving and working your way out of debt, your bank shouldn't be working against you. It should be working for you. It should be on your team and make your life easier. And so that is why we love Fairwins because again, they are not a bank. They are a credit union, which means that they are owned by people they serve.
10:48 George Kamel? I love that. Give the power back to the people. And here's the best part, they're not gonna. Lets you experience terrible junk fees with your account.
10:56 Rachel Cruze? That's right.
10:57 George Kamel? And then they're online, so you can access this from anywhere in the country. It's the best.
11:01 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
11:01 George Kamel? And their whole mission is showing people how to win with money, not making money off of your debt. And so they've partnered with us at Ramsey to support people who are serious about taking control of their finances. And they have a custom smart checking and savings bundle designed specifically with Ramsey fans in mind. So it's simple, practical, lines up with the baby steps.
11:18 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, so it's super easy to get started, you guys. Winston and I did it, and it was honestly way more easier than I was expecting. Like even when we were doing it and signing up for our account.
11:27 George Kamel? You might say it was a breeze.
11:28 Rachel Cruze? So head to fairwins.org/Ramsey and open your account today. All right, George, we've got a few scenarios in the old fishbowl.
11:36 George Kamel? Love it.
11:37 Rachel Cruze? We're gonna pick out.
11:37 George Kamel? Good use out of that fishbowl. That was worth the investment.
11:40 Rachel Cruze? I love the fishbowl, because it kind of keeps you on your toes. You never know what's gonna...
11:44 George Kamel? It's like improv. You gotta stay with it.
11:46 Rachel Cruze? Do you want to go first?
11:47 George Kamel? Sure.
11:47 Rachel Cruze? You want me to?
11:48 George Kamel? All right, here's our first scenario. And we're gonna try to give the people some good advice. Here's the scenario. An empty nester couple has been married for 30 years. They've been consumer debt free for 10 years, and they just paid off the house.
12:02 Rachel Cruze? Amazing.
12:03 George Kamel? Together, they bring in $9,500 of income next month with minimal cost of living expenses. Now the house is paid off. How should they celebrate?
12:12 Rachel Cruze? Oh.
12:12 George Kamel? Take a trip, a shopping spree? What do you think?
12:15 Rachel Cruze? I'm going trip. All day.
12:17 George Kamel? I'm going both.
12:19 Rachel Cruze? Wow, Mr. Spender over here.
12:21 George Kamel? Well, I mean, look at this. They're in Baby Step 7, paid for house, making 10 Gs a month.
12:26 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
12:27 George Kamel? Let's live it up.
12:28 Rachel Cruze? So well, let's wait like two to three months, save up some of that.
12:31 George Kamel? Yep.
12:31 Rachel Cruze? And then just go and enjoy.
12:33 George Kamel? Yeah, because it sounds like they have a lot of expendable income. So let's say they save up 10 grand. Here's my pitch.
12:38 Rachel Cruze? Okay, go.
12:39 George Kamel? They go to Paris, and they buy her a Louis in Paris.
12:43 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh. Look at this guy.
12:45 George Kamel? Combining the shopping spree with the trip.
12:48 Rachel Cruze? That's fun. You know what? I think getting a piece of something, a jewelry, a purse, something that's gonna last a long time to mark moments in life, I think is really special.
12:57 George Kamel? Yeah, because then you use the purse, but it's reminding you of that amazing trip.
13:01 Rachel Cruze? Of what happened. George, you win this one. I don't say that very often.
13:04 George Kamel? And can I say, I want to do this with Whitney. That's why it was on my mind. Not anytime soon, sweetheart, but one day. Don't get any ideas.
13:13 Rachel Cruze? Don't get your hopes up, Whitney, but.
13:16 George Kamel? But that sounds fun.
13:17 Rachel Cruze? That's so great. Okay, it's going to Europe. Is it, are y'all like itching to go?
13:20 George Kamel? Very much so.
13:21 Rachel Cruze? You are. I feel like everyone's going. Do you feel like that?
13:23 George Kamel? Well, our friends just went to London, had an amazing time. Another friend went to Italy. It looked incredible. And so now I'm just kind of jonesing.
13:30 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
13:31 George Kamel? As they say.
13:31 Rachel Cruze? That's so funny. I don't have that itch.
13:33 George Kamel? Where do you want to go?
13:35 Rachel Cruze? The beach.
13:36 George Kamel? Oh, okay. Any beach?
13:37 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, just give me some ocean and a.
13:42 George Kamel? And a raitai.
13:43 Rachel Cruze? I was like, I can't remember what it was called.
13:45 George Kamel? Yeah, you're not as, uh, you're not as like adventure, like you want to just chill.
13:49 Rachel Cruze? I know.
13:49 George Kamel? Good book, good scenery. You're not looking.
13:51 Rachel Cruze? And I'm going to be honest, and I think it's the kids that are holding me back, George.
13:55 George Kamel? Wow. Hey, kids, when you watch this episode one day, know that you're holding back your mother from living her best life.
14:00 Rachel Cruze? I feel like going like on a 10 day, that's hard. I mean, that's hard. I know people do it a lot with kids.
14:06 George Kamel? Yeah.
14:06 Rachel Cruze? That just feels like a lot.
14:07 George Kamel? Empty nesters, you could go away for two or three weeks.
14:09 Rachel Cruze? So that's what I'm saying. So when we dropped Charles off at college, I'm out of here. I'm out of here. Hola.
14:16 George Kamel? Where are you going?
14:17 Rachel Cruze? I don't know. I'm just gonna go to a different country and I'm gonna just enjoy it.
14:20 George Kamel? One that speaks Spanish, I assume.
14:22 Rachel Cruze? Chao. I'll go to Italy.
14:24 George Kamel? Perfect. Some bonjour thrown in there?
14:27 Rachel Cruze? Some bonjour, yes. I will.
14:29 George Kamel? A little salam alekum?
14:31 Rachel Cruze? See?
14:31 George Kamel? We are not going to the Middle East, apparently.
14:35 Rachel Cruze? Take me there.
14:36 George Kamel? Morocco?
14:37 Rachel Cruze? I'll go anywhere.
14:37 George Kamel? You would love Morocco.
14:38 Rachel Cruze? I believe it. You know where I want to go? Um, Dubai.
14:43 George Kamel? Oh, really?
14:43 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. Won't that be cool?
14:46 George Kamel? Okay.
14:47 Rachel Cruze? I feel like that would be fun.
14:48 George Kamel? I feel like it's just like Middle Eastern Miami.
14:50 Rachel Cruze? When the Real Housewives went, I was like, that looks super cool.
14:53 George Kamel? I feel like there's, there's not as much culture there.
14:56 Rachel Cruze? No.
14:56 George Kamel? As other, it's just a melting pot of, you know, rich people, essentially.
15:00 Rachel Cruze? And I'll be like this.
15:00 George Kamel? Rach was like, swing me up.
15:02 Rachel Cruze? Well, my Amazon sunglasses doing this.
15:06 George Kamel? You could fake your way through Dubai. I could see that.
15:08 Rachel Cruze? I could pretend.
15:09 George Kamel? That's fun. Okay, I think we got it. They need, they need a long getaway for the empty nesters.
15:13 Rachel Cruze? Wow, are we living vicariously through these empty nesters that are on Baby Step 7? Maybe. All right, let's go back to the beginning, George, with the scenario. Take that plane and go back in time.
15:22 George Kamel? Oh, it's a plane. I didn't, I didn't think planes made that sound when they make a U-turn.
15:26 Rachel Cruze? I don't know. An engaged couple is a month away from their wedding. They're cash flowing it responsibly with a little help from their parents. But they're feeling lost in the details of wedding planning and want to reconnect before the big day. They have a budget of a hundred dollars. Any ideas?
15:45 George Kamel? Hundred bucks. Oh, you're not gonna like mine.
15:49 Rachel Cruze? I'm so simple. Or low maintenance, whichever you want to call it. I know mine.
15:54 George Kamel? Have people said you're low maintenance?
15:56 Rachel Cruze? I don't know. I just, well, what I'm about to say is pretty low maintenance.
15:59 George Kamel? Okay.
16:00 Rachel Cruze? You're gonna say, don't spend it.
16:02 George Kamel? No, no, I'm gonna, they definitely need a break.
16:03 Rachel Cruze? Okay, okay.
16:04 George Kamel? Like, wedding planning is super stressful.
16:05 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
16:06 George Kamel? You're probably just on the, there's a lot of fear and stress and unknowns.
16:09 Rachel Cruze? They want to reconnect. They need to go have fun.
16:13 George Kamel? Yes.
16:13 Rachel Cruze? So more than just a dinner.
16:15 George Kamel? I think they need to do an experience they've never done before and take a little risk with it.
16:19 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
16:19 George Kamel? Like a Groupon.
16:20 Rachel Cruze? Like, go trapeze.
16:22 George Kamel? Yes.
16:22 Rachel Cruze? Swinging or something.
16:24 George Kamel? A Groupon for trapeze. That's as risky as it gets.
16:26 Rachel Cruze? I know. How funny would that be? Go roller skating.
16:30 George Kamel? I would make sure to get life insurance before doing this, by the way.
16:33 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, that probably is true. Yeah, don't break a leg. Oh, how horrible would that be? Like a meet the parents situation.
16:37 George Kamel? I would not do something too physical. You're right. I take it back.
16:40 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, don't do that.
16:41 George Kamel? Mini golf?
16:42 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, safe.
16:43 George Kamel? Very few mini golf injuries.
16:44 Rachel Cruze? Super, super safe.
16:45 George Kamel? I probably should Google it now. There's like, there's a thousand mini golf injuries.
16:48 Rachel Cruze? Do Topgolf. That's, I think that's more fun.
16:51 George Kamel? Really?
16:53 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. You just swing it as hard as you can.
16:55 George Kamel? I don't know. Yeah, but then you have to be able to hit the ball. See, with putt-putt, it's just short range, so anyone can do it.
17:01 Rachel Cruze? I guess. But there'll probably be like a bunch of kids running around.
17:04 George Kamel? Yeah, but Topgolf is stressful to me.
17:06 Rachel Cruze? Wow.
17:07 George Kamel? There's loud music, you know what I mean? You got, people, everyone's watching you. I feel like mini golf, no one cares. If you're bad at mini golf, who cares?
17:15 Rachel Cruze? Okay, that's fair.
17:15 George Kamel? But if you keep hitting the air at Topgolf.
17:17 Rachel Cruze? I'm not gonna lie, too. I'd go get, I'd use that hundred bucks, go get a cocktail before, a little app, a little appetizer and a cocktail, go have fun, and then go to Chipotle after.
17:28 George Kamel? I like that. Oh, new idea. You ready for it?
17:31 Rachel Cruze? Mm-hmm.
17:32 George Kamel? Low-key dinner, maybe fast casual, because you have a hundred bucks. And then go to your favorite bookstore. You both pick a book for the honeymoon that you have to read.
17:42 George Kamel? You would love, you love reading a book on the beach.
17:45 Rachel Cruze? I do, but I want to pick my books.
17:46 George Kamel? Yeah, you pick the book.
17:47 Rachel Cruze? You used to go through an entire book that someone else gave you.
17:50 George Kamel? No, no, you get to pick the book.
17:52 Rachel Cruze? No, I thought you said you pick the book and exchange it.
17:54 George Kamel? No, that's weird.
17:55 Rachel Cruze? Like, I thought I pick a book for Winston, he picks a book for me, and then we switch.
17:58 George Kamel? Oh, that would actually be cute, but again, you would hate that.
18:00 Rachel Cruze? Oh, but you're just saying you just go buy a book.
18:02 George Kamel? I would say a couple that loves and trusts each other, this is good for them. Maybe for the cruise. Low maintenance Rachel has to have a certain book.
18:09 Rachel Cruze? When I read, it just feels like really precious time, and I want to make sure it's a book that I've, like, researched, that I've got recommendations.
18:14 George Kamel? You're one of the people who says, "Give up on the book if it's not good," right?
18:18 Rachel Cruze? No.
18:19 George Kamel? You're a see-it-through kind of gal.
18:20 Rachel Cruze? I'm a see-it-through it kind of gal.
18:22 George Kamel? Wow.
18:23 Rachel Cruze? And it's unfortunate sometimes. Sometimes I should put it down.
18:26 George Kamel? You think the author knows or cares that you didn't finish it?
18:29 Rachel Cruze? No, it's more about me and, like, finishing the checkmark of...
18:33 George Kamel? Oh, okay, like a personal challenge as the achiever in you.
18:36 Rachel Cruze? Get through it, get through it.
18:37 George Kamel? I respect that. My other caveat that I would personally do is go get, like, a mall massage. You know, the guys in the mall.
18:44 Rachel Cruze? Oxytocology, yes.
18:46 George Kamel? And it's cheaper. You don't have to do a full 60-minute, you can get a 20-minute, 30-minute.
18:49 Rachel Cruze? So the only thing with that, though, is you're not reconnecting with the fiance.
18:54 George Kamel? I don't think we need reconnection.
18:55 Rachel Cruze? That's what they said they needed in this situation.
18:57 George Kamel? That's what they say. What they really need is a massage.
18:59 Rachel Cruze? They want to reconnect.
19:01 George Kamel? They can go next to each other, they can talk if they would like.
19:04 Rachel Cruze? You bother everybody, though. And not if you're in the face chair.
19:08 George Kamel? Yeah, that is annoying. The guys don't care, though.
19:11 Rachel Cruze? They don't care. It sounds relaxing. What else is relaxing? Living in Cozy Earth pajamas, which I have for every, every night. I would say the last four months of my life have been in Cozy Earth. I'm in Cozy Earth pajamas with Cozy Earth sheets. How cozy can you get? How cozy can you get? No, it's amazing, though. They're athleisure wear, they're pajamas, they're bedding. Everything about it is like great quality, so comfortable and so soft. And the socks. That's some Winston's.
19:46 George Kamel? I love the no-shows. What can I say?
19:47 Rachel Cruze? You and Winston both.
19:48 George Kamel? We're keeping it alive. Is he a no-show guy?
19:50 Rachel Cruze? Uh, we're his no-show. Yeah, his were no-shows. Yes. Yes.
19:54 George Kamel? Honored.
19:54 Rachel Cruze? And it says Cozy and then Earth on the other foot.
19:57 George Kamel? That is cute. Sometimes I mix them up by accident.
19:59 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that's what I was gonna ask.
20:00 George Kamel? It says cozy and cozy, or Earth and Earth, or Earth cozy.
20:02 Rachel Cruze? Uh-oh, what do you do?
20:03 George Kamel? I'm OCD, so I have to switch it.
20:05 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
20:06 George Kamel? Once I realize I did that.
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20:35 Rachel Cruze? All right, your turn.
20:36 George Kamel? All right.
20:40 George Kamel? A couple in their early 40s has kids age four, seven, 11, and 14. God bless.
20:45 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
20:46 George Kamel? They are working on baby steps four, five, and six, so they're out of debt with the emergency fund, but they feel like there's no end in sight when it comes to saving for kids' college funds. Not to mention, one will need a car in two years. One of them just received an unexpected $250 bonus from a client, and they want to invest some or all of it in a date night. What should they do?
21:06 Rachel Cruze? I love this.
21:07 George Kamel? Well, a babysitter alone is gonna cost you $250 for those four kids.
21:10 Rachel Cruze? No, they got a 14-year-old. They don't need a babysitter.
21:12 George Kamel? Okay. Hey, if you, if you trust the 14... Now, if it's a girl that's 14, I trust them.
21:17 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
21:17 George Kamel? A 14-year-old boy, depends on the boy.
21:20 Rachel Cruze? Depends on the boy. That's fair.
21:22 George Kamel? Just wanna put that out there. $250, that's a nice date night then.
21:25 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. You know what's crazy, though? If you go, if you live in a larger city like in Nashville, and you go to a nice restaurant, it can be $200.
21:34 George Kamel? That's gone.
21:34 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
21:35 George Kamel? That doesn't include parking.
21:37 Rachel Cruze? No point.
21:39 George Kamel? The valet. Think about the valet.
21:41 Rachel Cruze? Unbelievable. You gotta tip well. Okay, so what would you do?
21:47 Rachel Cruze? I'd go out. I'd, I'd.
21:50 George Kamel? Yeah, I would probably research like the latest and greatest restaurants in my area and choose the one that I would never go to normally, but just know like.
21:57 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, that's good.
21:58 George Kamel? Imagine this was money that never crossed my hands and someone gifted it to me.
22:01 Rachel Cruze? I know. I, I think that with 250 bucks, I would do that.
22:05 George Kamel? And in Nashville, you could throw a rock and hit one of these restaurants.
22:08 Rachel Cruze? I know. Isn't that wild?
22:09 George Kamel? Lot of great restaurants.
22:10 Rachel Cruze? Yes. Okay, I, I'm with you, George, on it.
22:13 George Kamel? I, yeah, I think go to the, the hoity-toity restaurant.
22:15 Rachel Cruze? If it was $2,500, obviously, then.
22:18 George Kamel? Don't spend it all in one night.
22:20 Rachel Cruze? That's right. Then I would be like, all right, let's think about, because I, because by the time you do a nice dinner out, and let's say it's like, um, 100 bucks or 150 bucks, and you got 100 bucks left, you know, and we love compound interest, we love all of it, but it's, the truth is, 100 bucks, one time, like.
22:35 George Kamel? It's not the make or break.
22:36 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, it's not a make or break at that point, so.
22:38 George Kamel? One other thing they could do, which this 250 bucks is not enough to do this necessarily, but staycation, where like Wendy and I stayed at a Nashville hotel.
22:47 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that's fun.
22:48 George Kamel? For just one night. So we did a date night into the hotel stay and just came back the next morning and it was wonderful.
22:53 Rachel Cruze? And so great.
22:53 George Kamel? Kind of be a tourist in your own city.
22:55 Rachel Cruze? Yes, I like that too.
22:56 George Kamel? So if you can make that happen, I don't know, if you can find a cheaper hotel.
22:58 Rachel Cruze? Or like an Airbnb for a night or something?
23:00 George Kamel? Yeah.
23:01 Rachel Cruze? Love it.
23:03 George Kamel? Done.
23:04 Rachel Cruze? Check. All right, next situation. Oh, a married couple 15 years is expecting their second child while saving for their $1,000 ba, um, emergency fund, baby step one. They've decided to opt out of Christmas this year with a few exceptions of a small gifts for their three-year-old, but their budget is zero. What can they do to invest in each other as they embark on the baby steps journey in the new year?
23:29 George Kamel? So this is the free category?
23:31 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
23:31 George Kamel? Also, I don't know, you could opt out of Jesus's birthday.
23:36 Rachel Cruze? I would opt out of Christmas if I'm them. I'm expecting my second baby.
23:38 George Kamel? But they're opting out of buying gifts for the family and each other and all that stuff. I'm down with that.
23:43 Rachel Cruze? I think that's great.
23:44 George Kamel? A little reset.
23:45 Rachel Cruze? I think that's really healthy.
23:47 George Kamel? So what could they do for free? They got a baby on the way.
23:50 Rachel Cruze? Go hammock hunting.
23:52 George Kamel? Hammock hunting. I don't know many pregnant women. They're like, put me in that hammock. That's where I want to be.
23:59 Rachel Cruze? It's true. That's true.
24:03 George Kamel? Free.
24:04 Rachel Cruze? Okay, I'm going to say it. This is so simple. But it could be them. We've been married 15 years. And if we had a three year old and I was pregnant,
24:13 Rachel Cruze? like have a night with no devices and get the cards out and play a card game.
24:17 George Kamel? Oh, that's fun.
24:18 Rachel Cruze? Like, that's what I would do. You easily, I know her. If I'm pregnant, 15 years married with a three year old, all you want to do is just at the end of the night, check out. You're like, oh, exhausting, absolutely exhausting.
24:31 George Kamel? Don't take them on a walk. That's not what they're into right now.
24:35 Rachel Cruze? Not going to go hiking. So, yeah, like, what's like a game just outside after the three year old's in bed? And not get on the phone. I think that's the key. Put down the technology and just hang out.
24:46 George Kamel? I love that. Can I tell you what I did with Whitney? This was free and very entertaining.
24:50 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
24:52 George Kamel? We were at Whole Foods and I was like, let me get like a pint of ice cream or like a little treat.
24:55 Rachel Cruze? Sure.
24:56 George Kamel? So spending like four or five bucks. But they had this special cart for people that can't walk. And so she's facing me in the cart as I push her around the store. And it was the, we had the best time.
25:11 George Kamel? It felt like I was doing something illegal, but I was like, no, that she's very pregnant. She cannot walk. She's got some, you know, conditions here. And so we just pushed her around and she had a great time looking at all the items. It was so fun. I took videos of it like an influencer, like I'd place it on the.
25:28 George Kamel? It was the best. We laughed so hard.
25:30 Rachel Cruze? I love it.
25:31 George Kamel? Because we were just staring at each other the whole time. Like, imagine like a baby in the cart, but it's your wife.
25:37 Rachel Cruze? With a baby inside of her.
25:39 George Kamel? Exactly.
25:39 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh.
25:40 George Kamel? So technically, there was a baby in that cart.
25:42 Rachel Cruze? That's so good.
25:43 George Kamel? So, you can do that for free. You don't even have to buy anything. Just find a fun cart.
25:48 Rachel Cruze? See, I'm not gonna lie, George, those quirky moments in life that you just, that bring laughter, it's what you need.
25:54 George Kamel? That's what you need.
25:54 Rachel Cruze? I like it. That's so good.
25:56 George Kamel? It doesn't have to cost money.
25:58 Rachel Cruze? Oh, my gosh.
25:59 George Kamel? Just costs you some creativity.
26:00 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, but one thing that costs a little bit of money, less than $9 a month, is a Delete Me subscription.
26:07 George Kamel? That is worth it. Put that in the budget.
26:08 Rachel Cruze? It is. So Delete Me is incredible, you guys. It is a company that goes in and removes your data, especially from online data brokers that go and collect data. And these data brokers then sell your data to other companies and other people. And that means your name, your address, your kids' names, your phone number. All of that is leaked out to all of these different companies. And you can get spammed, you can get scammed, especially like phishing and all of that.
26:35 George Kamel? Oh, yeah, with a PH.
26:37 Rachel Cruze? With a P, yeah, with a PH.
26:38 George Kamel? Let's make it very clear.
26:39 Rachel Cruze? And it's really, yeah, it's just, there's so much happening with our information online. So the more your information is removed, the better off your life is. And that's where Delete Me comes in.
26:48 George Kamel? Exactly. And the report is amazing. Every few months, I get the report. And so far, they've removed me from over 240 of these data broker sites, saving me 94 hours of time.
26:57 Rachel Cruze? Gosh.
26:58 George Kamel? And for that, I am grateful.
26:59 Rachel Cruze? We love it.
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27:08 Rachel Cruze? Beautiful. All right, thank you.
27:10 George Kamel? I'm really enjoying this drink so far.
27:12 Rachel Cruze? I like it a lot. Okay, you go next.
27:15 George Kamel? All right.
27:19 George Kamel? A young couple in their mid twenties has been married for three years after dating for two years in college. They have different financial goals. One wants to pay off their student loan debt before having kids. The other doesn't feel like debt is an issue. What kind of date night could also lead to a helpful discussion slash compromise about money goals? This is the old Trojan horse date night.
27:41 Rachel Cruze? Oh, what do you do?
27:42 George Kamel? Hey, you wanna go out to eat? So let's talk about your feelings about debt.
27:46 Rachel Cruze? Let's get down to the bottom of it. The old bait and switch. We're like, hey, let's dream something. Oh, is this a Financial Peace University class happening?
27:54 George Kamel? Oh, look at that. That's what's on Netflix? That's crazy. Yeah, this is a tough one. Do you just be honest and say, hey, we need to talk about this, but to do it, let's go out somewhere out of the house to talk about it?
28:06 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I would.
28:07 George Kamel? But don't sneak it on them in the middle of the date.
28:09 Rachel Cruze? No, no, especially if you know your intention is to be talking about it. So I think I always like a heads up on hard conversations. Like if there's gonna be something and it's like, hey, I wanna talk about something. Do you have like the mental capacity to like talk through something that could be kind of, I'm like, do I, do I not? And like, I don't know. So like the heads up is really helpful.
28:30 George Kamel? Helps you emotionally prepare.
28:32 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, yeah. And just to say we have a lot of life ahead of us and there's like a subject or two I wanna chat about. Are you good with that? I don't know. I think the heads up is nice. Do you or do you like a?
28:42 George Kamel? A hundred percent. Yeah, I like the heads up and I like the, I like as much clarity as possible. So don't just tell me, hey, I wanna talk about something serious and then leave it at that.
28:51 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that's true. That's scary.
28:52 George Kamel? That'll, that will drive me insane.
28:54 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, that's fair. Totally.
28:56 George Kamel? So just tell me, hey, I know we, we haven't been on the same page about money. Here's what I'd like to do. Let's get out of the house. Let's have some fun and let's talk through it and see if we can find a game plan that works.
29:05 Rachel Cruze? Yep.
29:06 George Kamel? That makes me feel a lot better. In fact, I was at a coffee shop. I had a day off, went to a coffee shop and there was a couple next to me and he had an iPad with this EveryDollar budget.
29:15 Rachel Cruze? No.
29:15 George Kamel? And they were like working through their, their budget and it was the most romantic, sweetest thing.
29:21 Rachel Cruze? Stop it, really?
29:22 George Kamel? Yep. I didn't want to say anything.
29:24 Rachel Cruze? You should, you know what? You should have encouraged them at the end as you were leaving.
29:28 George Kamel? I didn't want to be creepy and be like, "Hey, I see you using EveryDoll. Mind if I take a peek?"
29:32 Rachel Cruze? Just be like, "Hey, I overheard you talking about money and like, good for y'all." Not a lot of couples do that. That's really awesome. You know, good that would have felt to them?
29:38 George Kamel? I think we did chat at the end and they were like, "Oh."
29:40 Rachel Cruze? Okay, so you did?
29:41 George Kamel? Yeah, I think he was like, "Hey, like, I saw you next to us. I didn't want to like be weird." Like, he didn't want to be weird and I didn't want to be weird.
29:48 Rachel Cruze? So he recognized you, George?
29:50 George Kamel? That's what happens.
29:50 Rachel Cruze? How'd you feel? The ego go, "Mm."
29:53 George Kamel? My head exploded.
29:55 Rachel Cruze? I'm just kidding, I'm kidding.
29:56 George Kamel? My target demo is guys doing their EveryDollar budgets in coffee shops. I'm like, "Yeah."
30:01 Rachel Cruze? That's a...
30:01 George Kamel? Let's get those meetups happening. Cause that guy's not sports betting.
30:06 Rachel Cruze? For sure.
30:07 George Kamel? He's too busy planning his unborn child's 529 plan.
30:10 Rachel Cruze? A hundred percent, a hundred percent.
30:12 George Kamel? I love it.
30:13 Rachel Cruze? That's great.
30:14 George Kamel? Are we on to the last one?
30:15 Rachel Cruze? All right, this is it, George.
30:16 George Kamel? All right, make it a good one. Don't screw it up.
30:19 Rachel Cruze? A couple's in the middle of baby step two, so they're getting out of debt and they're paying off $150,000 in student loan debt. And they have $25,000 to go, but they're feeling weary, discouraged, and kind of numb toward one another in the middle of the grind. They need a date night to reconnect but don't want to spend more than $40. Thoughts?
30:41 George Kamel? Oh, well, the word reconnect was there, so I feel like we can't do something passive, like go to the movies.
30:47 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, we need to like, look at each other and talk about how hard this is.
30:52 George Kamel? Here's an idea: happy hour.
30:55 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that's good. Yes.
30:56 George Kamel? Very affordable.
30:57 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
30:58 George Kamel? Find a place that has like $5 drink specials or something.
31:01 Rachel Cruze? Sports bars are my new thing.
31:02 George Kamel? Really?
31:02 Rachel Cruze? Yeah. I really love a sports bar these days.
31:05 George Kamel? So many TVs.
31:06 Rachel Cruze? I know, and I love it.
31:07 George Kamel? It's like sensory overload. Have you been to a Buffalo Wild Wings?
31:10 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
31:11 George Kamel? What is going on in there?
31:12 Rachel Cruze? I don't know, but there's like...
31:13 George Kamel? Why do I need to watch seven things at once?
31:15 Rachel Cruze? Cause there's a lot of sports happening. But then you get mozzarella sticks, you got nachos.
31:19 George Kamel? You just want bar food.
31:20 Rachel Cruze? I like the food. Like, the food is just, it really is. And so, I'm saying, I was gonna say, there's a place called Jonathan's here in Franklin.
31:26 George Kamel? Yes.
31:26 Rachel Cruze? And we went and they had a great happy hour. I want to say like their apps, like part of their apps had like a separate menu, but like, their beer and wine, buy one, get one free. Like, it was just a great value for what we were gonna spend. And we went at like five, cause we have kids and we're like gonna eat early. I thought, where, where have we been? Have we been sleeping on this place? So.
31:44 George Kamel? That's a good one.
31:45 Rachel Cruze? That, that's a, that's a great genre of restaurants to get some bang for your buck. And also it's lively, it's loud, get some energy around you, you know? Instead of like a silent, like, mm.
31:56 George Kamel? Yeah, you don't want to sit in your feelings too much.
31:59 Rachel Cruze? And just like the, like the ambiance, it's like, mm. You know, just like really silent.
32:04 George Kamel? Is that the sound that's happening?
32:05 Rachel Cruze? You know, there are those restaurants, it's like very.
32:08 George Kamel? Oh, where it's like you feel bad talking?
32:09 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, it's just really like, ah, I don't know.
32:11 George Kamel? Yeah.
32:12 Rachel Cruze? So the loud and the cheering.
32:13 George Kamel? But it's a sit down.
32:15 Rachel Cruze? I know, I'm going sports bar.
32:16 George Kamel? Like order at the counter, no server.
32:18 Rachel Cruze? I'm going sports bar, yeah.
32:20 George Kamel? They're in, they're in crippling debt, Rachel, I'm trying to help this couple out.
32:22 Rachel Cruze? They have forty dollars, do you know how much you can give for forty dollars at a, at a, at a happy hour? It's your idea, why are you taking back your idea?
32:28 George Kamel? Don't pin this on me, I'm just saying, you can do a happy hour at places that aren't a sit down with a server.
32:35 Rachel Cruze? Chipotle does not have happy hour.
32:37 George Kamel? I never claimed Chipotle was the place to go. Mojo's Taco, a great local Nashville spot. Order at the counter, sit down, they bring you the food. Bada bing bada boom.
32:48 Rachel Cruze? That's fair, that's fair.
32:49 George Kamel? You tip less.
32:52 Rachel Cruze? Fair.
32:52 George Kamel? I'm trying to save them some money here.
32:53 Rachel Cruze? All right, George, I hear you.
32:54 George Kamel? And I still love the hack, always skip the dessert.
32:58 Rachel Cruze? What, what is it?
32:59 George Kamel? Skip the dessert and go get your favorite pint of ice cream.
33:01 Rachel Cruze? Are you hearing my excitement in my restaurant versus your restaurant?
33:03 George Kamel? I cannot tell you what it does to my body to hear random chanting and cheering and hooting and hollering.
33:11 George Kamel? It's like a mild panic attack every time that happens. Like, why?
33:16 Rachel Cruze? I love it.
33:17 George Kamel? We're not wild animals, why are we hooting and hollering like this?
33:21 Rachel Cruze? It's so exciting.
33:21 George Kamel? At eighteen year old children.
33:23 Rachel Cruze? So exciting.
33:24 George Kamel? Who did this for a scholarship.
33:25 Rachel Cruze? B O L S, B O L S, go, go, let's go. When the entire restaurant's screaming that, does it not just like bring you to heaven a little bit?
33:34 George Kamel? I would ask for a refund if that happened at any restaurant I was in. I was like, hey, this was not the vibe, reset.
33:39 Rachel Cruze? All right, well, good thing we aren't married, George.
33:42 George Kamel? Good thing. Winston, bless your ministry. Does Winston hoot and holler at sports?
33:49 Rachel Cruze? No, no, no, I do.
33:52 George Kamel? Okay, you're the, there's always one in any marriage. I feel like Winston's very, he would be bothered by loud people.
33:58 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, he, yeah, yes, he, yeah. He would be more on your boat than mine. And I'm a, I'm a, I'm a vocal reactor, so I'm like a-
34:07 George Kamel? Oh, you love-
34:08 Rachel Cruze? I'm a, I'm a gasper, I'm a-
34:10 George Kamel? That makes sense. You live for the drama.
34:12 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, it's very exciting. Get too close to a car, you know?
34:16 George Kamel? Oh, you're that person. At every turn in the car, you have to make a loud sound.
34:21 Rachel Cruze? Winston's always like, do you know how long I drove without you in the car? Like, I've, like, I've driven, you know? Sometimes you miss a parking spot.
34:28 George Kamel? How many wrecks has Winston been, been in?
34:31 Rachel Cruze? Hmm.
34:33 George Kamel? That were his fault?
34:35 Rachel Cruze? I don't know if he has been in a wreck.
34:37 George Kamel? Then I don't think you need to warn him.
34:38 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I know.
34:39 George Kamel? I think he's got it under control.
34:40 Rachel Cruze? I know, I know.
34:41 George Kamel? Uh, I did do that once, but then I actually hit a car. Yep. And I told her I broke my leg. Instantly, I said, my leg-
34:52 George Kamel? I was totally fine, but my brain told the rest of my body, hey, bro, your leg is gone. It's disappeared. It's somewhere back there.
35:02 Rachel Cruze? Stop it, are you serious?
35:03 George Kamel? Yeah. Fender bender. And I made her late for her nursing exam.
35:11 Rachel Cruze? Oh, no.
35:12 George Kamel? Yep, and I never fixed a bumper.
35:13 Rachel Cruze? Did she tell you to slow down at any point?
35:15 George Kamel? Um, I think it was one of those that you hit the red light, and you're, you're like waiting for the person to go right, and they had plenty of time, so I thought, surely they, they turned by now.
35:25 Rachel Cruze? Oh, man.
35:25 George Kamel? The coast was clear to take a right on that red, and they had not moved. And I just decided to go right into them.
35:34 George Kamel? It's fine. It's fine.
35:37 Rachel Cruze? It happens.
35:37 George Kamel? That's why I drive used cars, less concerning.
35:39 Rachel Cruze? So what I liked about these scenarios is they were very realistic, and they all knew their numbers. Like, there was something about like-
35:46 George Kamel? Very aware.
35:47 Rachel Cruze? Very aware, and I think that's the key, that's where the budget comes in.
35:50 George Kamel? It's like the opposite of a Hallmark movie. Realistic and aware.
35:55 George Kamel? That's what I would hope for from the next Hallmark movie.
35:58 Rachel Cruze? Yes, well, so yeah, there's just something about when you know what you have, you can spend it, whether it's going to Paris and buying a Louis, or going to the sports bar on happy hour, like, but you know what's going on. So your capacity to enjoy the situation is so much greater because there's not guesswork involved. So that's what I loved about it.
36:15 George Kamel? And what I loved is nobody mentioned going into debt for any of this. They did it with the cash they had on hand. They chose reality and went, here's where we're at. We're $150,000 in debt. We can't go take a trip right now, but we can afford to go split an entree at our local fast casual spot.
36:33 Rachel Cruze? Go to that Chipotle.
36:34 George Kamel? Live it up. I just saw a hack. Some lady got a chicken Chipotle bowl and made like 12 tacos out of it.
36:42 Rachel Cruze? I believe it.
36:42 George Kamel? Big brain thinking right there.
36:44 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, that's pretty good. That's pretty good.
36:45 George Kamel? So yeah, get creative. You don't need to lose all intimacy and connection just because you can't afford a crazy date night.
36:51 Rachel Cruze? Totally.
36:51 George Kamel? So don't let that stop you. And honestly, ChatGPT, a great way to go, hey, here's my budget. Here's what I'm thinking. Here's where we live. Give us some options under this amount.
37:01 Rachel Cruze? That is so true.
37:02 George Kamel? Use technology to your advantage.
37:03 Rachel Cruze? Yes, that's so smart. That really is. And creative things that you just wouldn't have thought of.
37:07 George Kamel? Yes.
37:08 Rachel Cruze? That it will give you.
37:09 George Kamel? And I do think the rewiring your brain to try new things, new experiences, creates like new connections.
37:14 Rachel Cruze? That is like a scientific thing. I remember Les Parrott.
37:17 George Kamel? Yes.
37:17 Rachel Cruze? He used to talk about this and he said there were studies done. And when you actually do something physical, like we laughed about the trapeze thing, but I feel like he even talked about that. But yeah, playing mini, I don't know, doing something that is different, it actually creates this whole new experience and it's actually very bonding.
37:33 George Kamel? Yes.
37:34 Rachel Cruze? That's why, you know, on The Bachelor, do you want to?
37:36 George Kamel? Uh, I won't claim to have seen it, but I have seen it.
37:39 Rachel Cruze? I'll be honest, I haven't seen it in a few years. And I was a diehard, as you know, for ye, I, I watched it for like 15 years straight. And then I've gotten off the wagon. But that's why they said, if they ever did a, like a scary date, like bungee jumping or something together, they actually created a deeper bond with that person they were on the date with. Doing like something kind of scary and like adrenaline was created.
38:03 George Kamel? Yeah.
38:04 Rachel Cruze? Um, than someone they just like went on a picnic with. So something to be said.
38:08 George Kamel? So forget your picnic, boys.
38:09 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, go bungee jumping. Get reconnected.
38:12 George Kamel? Skip the basket, go for the bungee. That's what I always say. Okay, I feel like we, we made an episode today.
38:19 Rachel Cruze? We did it. Alright, before we get to our guilty as charged segments, let's talk about our rye ties. It takes me forever to think about the name of it, but...
38:29 George Kamel? The rye tie, R-Y-E-T-A-I, it costs $2.83 per glass. It's got orgyte, which is like an almond liqueur. It's got pineapple juice, lemon juice, rye whiskey, this one's a hundred proof, and Angostura bitters. Very nice.
38:45 Rachel Cruze? What's an a- so a Mai Tai is the normal. What's in a Mai Tai?
38:48 George Kamel? Um, I wanna say rum, pineapple juice.
38:52 Rachel Cruze? Okay, so they switched the rum for whiskey, so that's why it's rye, rye tie, instead of Mai Tai.
38:59 George Kamel? Nailed it award, goes to you today.
39:01 Rachel Cruze? Thank you very much.
39:03 George Kamel? I've never heard of this drink, but I would make this at home. I'm going 10 out of 10.
39:07 Rachel Cruze? I think I am too, George.
39:08 George Kamel? And mixologist Michael did tell us to drink it fast, cuz it's got that like little tiny sonic ice in there.
39:13 Rachel Cruze? I like that ice though. Okay, but I will say, it does remind me of summer. So I would be, I would want water involved, like out at a pool.
39:21 George Kamel? Yes.
39:21 Rachel Cruze? Or at the lake, or the ocean. I don't know if I would just drink it at a restaurant, though. I think the pineapple-
39:27 George Kamel? I would need to be sitting outside.
39:28 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, the pineapple throws me.
39:29 George Kamel? Outdoor seating required.
39:30 Rachel Cruze? Outdoor seating required. Love it.
39:32 George Kamel? Are you an outdoor or indoor, if they give you the option? Even on a really hot day?
39:36 Rachel Cruze? Yes. I love it. I love it so much.
39:39 George Kamel? Okay, I don't wanna sweat while I eat, you know what I mean?
39:41 Rachel Cruze? That's what Winston says, yeah.
39:43 George Kamel? I feel like Winston and I are oddly similar.
39:48 Rachel Cruze? Wouldn't you like to sit outside?
39:49 George Kamel? Um, yes, if the weather's decent.
39:53 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
39:53 George Kamel? And now with a baby, we gotta think about, can the baby handle the heat? Cuz I can handle the heat just fine.
39:59 Rachel Cruze? But can Mia, the little babe?
40:01 George Kamel? So you're 10 out of 10?
40:02 Rachel Cruze? Yeah, I am.
40:03 George Kamel? No notes, Michael, congratulations.
40:05 Rachel Cruze? Well done, Michael.
40:06 George Kamel? Get the recipe in the show notes, give it a try this weekend if you're of age, drink responsibly. I mean, I don't need to add that disclaimer, but I feel good doing it.
40:14 Rachel Cruze? That felt right, that felt responsible.
40:16 George Kamel? I feel like better than everyone.
40:17 Rachel Cruze? I feel like you like own something that you just need everyone to be like, hey, listen.
40:21 George Kamel? I said what I said.
40:22 Rachel Cruze? Yes.
40:22 George Kamel? And for you teetotalers, just get a mocktail version. You can skip the rye whiskey, you'll be fine.
40:28 Rachel Cruze? There you go. We've not gotten a lot of hate, though, recently.
40:31 George Kamel? No, people understand, like, we'll, we'll do a mocktail after this and we'll live to tell the tale.
40:37 Rachel Cruze? All right, now it's time for
40:39 George Kamel? Guilty as Charged.
40:41 Rachel Cruze? And this is where we ask each other a guilty as charged question every week. And if we're guilty, we take a sip. All right, are you ready, George?
40:48 George Kamel? All right.
40:48 Rachel Cruze? Have you or someone else ever planned a bad date night that totally backfired?
40:54 George Kamel? Oh, gosh.
40:57 Rachel Cruze? Oh, man.
40:58 George Kamel? I feel like my trauma response would make me delete that from my brain Men in Black style.
41:02 Rachel Cruze? 100%.
41:03 George Kamel? But I do, I'm tempted to call my wife and tell her, hey, what was the worst date we ever had?
41:07 Rachel Cruze? This would be fun. Shall we?
41:10 George Kamel? Please.
41:12 Rachel Cruze? Okay, go. You go first.
41:13 George Kamel? Here's my caveat.
41:14 Rachel Cruze? Yeah.
41:14 George Kamel? Whitney has never answered a phone call from me in her life.
41:17 Rachel Cruze? Okay, how about this?
41:18 George Kamel? So the chances of her answering today, I swear she has a setting on her phone that like screens my calls only. Like, there could be a spam call and she'll answer for fun.
41:29 George Kamel? All right, call Winston.
41:31 Rachel Cruze? Okay, am I going first?
41:32 George Kamel? Yep.
41:33 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
41:37 Rachel Cruze? Hey, babe.
41:38 George Kamel? Hey, babe.
41:39 Rachel Cruze? Hi, we're in a Smart Money Happy Hour recording.
41:43 Speaker 02 Oh, this feels familiar.
41:44 Rachel Cruze? Oh, yeah.
41:47 Rachel Cruze? We're calling you. All right.
41:48 Speaker 02 Okay.
41:49 Rachel Cruze? It's a guilty as charged question. I couldn't think of one. So George is gonna call Whitney as well, but...
41:54 Speaker 02 You're asking me if I think you're guilty or if I'm guilty?
41:57 Rachel Cruze? Uh, both of us, but are we guilty? Have, have you or me ever planned a bad date night that totally backfired?
42:06 Speaker 02 Uh, I forgot to use a gift card recently.
42:08 Rachel Cruze? Oh, that is...
42:09 Speaker 02 I had a gift card in my back pocket.
42:10 Rachel Cruze? That is true. Yeah.
42:13 George Kamel? Where was it?
42:14 Rachel Cruze? We went to the restaurant with the gift card and we walked...
42:18 George Kamel? You never used it.
42:19 Rachel Cruze? And Winston never swiped. He, well, he left. He was like, I didn't use the gift card.
42:23 Speaker 02 I was just so, I was so caught up in conversation with Rachel, I just was on autopilot.
42:29 Rachel Cruze? So sweet.
42:30 George Kamel? Can you tell us the restaurant?
42:31 Speaker 02 I'm not sure. I'm not sure I've blown anything up. I've got a decent track record, but...
42:36 Rachel Cruze? I know. I can't think of one either.
42:39 Speaker 02 I'd have to really be trying like way outside of dinner.
42:43 Rachel Cruze? It'd be like a food poisoning situation or something that went bad.
42:46 Speaker 02 Date night.
42:48 Speaker 02 Night with kids at our age is just like pretty low bar.
42:51 Rachel Cruze? True.
42:52 Speaker 02 So you can't really mess it up.
42:54 Rachel Cruze? Yep. Okay, I agree. All right.
42:56 Speaker 02 So I'm gonna say not guilty.
42:58 Rachel Cruze? Huh, that feels good. All right, you're the best. Love ya. Bye.
43:05 Rachel Cruze? There you go, George. Okay.
43:06 George Kamel? Okay, I got one and it's almost too damning on my part. That I'm almost unwilling to share. And here's what Whitney said. I said, can you answer the phone live for Smart Money Happy Hour? This is the classic Whitney response. Would love to not, but I will lol.
43:25 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
43:25 George Kamel? She's not made for the spotlight like me.
43:27 Rachel Cruze? Well, I thought, okay.
43:30 George Kamel? She doesn't need the affirmation of strangers like I do.
43:35 Speaker 03 Hello.
43:37 George Kamel? Hey, babe.
43:39 Rachel Cruze? Hey, girl.
43:40 George Kamel? Hey, girl.
43:41 Rachel Cruze? Hey, girl.
43:42 George Kamel? Okay, so here's the question. I need you to answer honestly, unfiltered. Have I ever planned a bad date that totally backfired?
43:51 Speaker 03 Planned a bad date? Hmm, I feel like our first date was.
43:56 George Kamel? Yeah, that was bad.
44:00 Speaker 03 So it would be because basically, uh, George kind of just tried to back out last minute and so like, well, if you don't even wanna go, I think he thought I didn't wanna go. So he was giving me a way out, but by doing that, I was like, okay, so you don't wanna go? So it was like a weird.
44:19 George Kamel? I was a grown man at this point for context. I was not seventeen. All right, continue.
44:24 Speaker 03 But I think it's because we work together, so you're trying to just like give me a way for to not be weird.
44:28 George Kamel? Pretty awkward dating your coworker. I think we can all admit that. Okay?
44:31 Speaker 03 And then we did live on opposite parts of town and so it was gonna take longer to get there. And so like last minute, you were just like, can you meet me there? And I think I had car problems or something, so I had to have a friend come get me to take me to the date. And I was expecting you to come pick me up. So it just started off really. Like, I was like, wow, this guy's awful. But the date was amazing. Like, I feel like we like talked for four hours and then George ended up being nice and drove me home. So.
45:01 Rachel Cruze? Wow.
45:02 Speaker 03 It made up for itself, but it started off very rocky. Yeah, like I'm surprised I even went.
45:08 George Kamel? Okay, no, I think we've heard enough. Thank you. Love you.
45:11 Speaker 03 Thank you.
45:11 George Kamel? Love you so much.
45:12 Rachel Cruze? Whitney, bye.
45:15 George Kamel? Okay.
45:17 Rachel Cruze? I'm surprised I even went.
45:19 George Kamel? You got your money's worth out of that one, guys. So, yeah, I am the worst.
45:25 Rachel Cruze? Hey, so you didn't even go pick her up?
45:28 George Kamel? Listen, it's all water under the bridge.
45:31 Rachel Cruze? Would you have done it differently today?
45:33 George Kamel? 100%.
45:34 Rachel Cruze? Okay, so it really was like an ignorant?
45:36 George Kamel? I also asked her out over Snapchat for the first time. So I wasn't batting a thousand, guys. I was on the struggle bus, trying to get the plane off the ground.
45:44 Rachel Cruze? You know, you're about rejection, right?
45:45 George Kamel? Yeah.
45:46 Rachel Cruze? You're buffering rejection.
45:47 George Kamel? But once the plane was off the ground, smooth sailing, we didn't land upside down, no doors flew off. It was great. I was very charming, we had great conversation.
45:57 Rachel Cruze? Okay.
45:58 George Kamel? Yep.
45:58 Rachel Cruze? There you go.
45:59 George Kamel? That's what we need to know about me.
46:00 Rachel Cruze? Okay, there you go. Well, I think you're guilty. I think I am.
46:04 George Kamel? No, no, Winston's crushing it.
46:11 Rachel Cruze? So guilty.
46:13 George Kamel? That was fun for at least everyone but me.
46:15 Rachel Cruze? So good. Oh, you guys.
46:17 George Kamel? #Vulnerable. #LiveAuthentic.
46:22 Rachel Cruze? #Authenticity.
46:24 George Kamel? That's right.
46:24 Rachel Cruze? Should be your next tattoo, like in Greek or something.
46:27 George Kamel? Feel better, guys, especially the single guys out there. Just know, I did it worse, and there's still hope for you yet.
46:32 Rachel Cruze? There you go, that's good. If you guys have a guilty search question, make sure to DM us at Rachel Cruz and at George Kamel. We get them. We get some DMs, and I love it.
46:40 George Kamel? I love it, and I screenshot them, and I send them to our producer and say, "Deal with it."
46:46 Rachel Cruze? So good. Well, if you enjoyed this episode, you're gonna love our episode, "Men vs. Women: Who Handles Money Better." We'll make sure to link it for you, or click right here, and it's gonna be great. So make sure to subscribe to the channel as well, so you don't miss an all-new episode of Smart Money Happy Hour.
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