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2:19 Tracy V. Wilson? Happy Friday. I'm Tracy V. Wilson.
2:21 Holly Frey? And I'm Holly Frey.
2:23 Tracy V. Wilson? We talked about Mary Golda Ross this week.
2:25 Holly Frey? Yes.
2:26 Tracy V. Wilson? Pros and cons to knowing so little about the details of her work as a mathematician and aerospace engineer. Cons, I felt like we were a little thin on details to include in the episode.
2:41 Holly Frey? That's the tricky bit.
2:43 Tracy V. Wilson? Pros, I did not have to figure out how to explain incredibly complex mathematics and engineering stuff.
2:52 Holly Frey? Right? Those are always tricky as heck for me.
2:54 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, there's, I did, I never took an engineering class, aside from my arithmetic difficulties that we have talked about. Once I got into mathematics, that was more about like geometry and interesting equations and stuff. I, I liked it a lot more than I did when I was a kid. And I did pretty well in classes like astronomy and physics and chemistry. But there's a, like a ceiling. I get to a point where I'm like, I don't understand this anymore.
3:22 Holly Frey? Yeah.
3:23 Tracy V. Wilson? I understood up until this moment, and now I have no idea what's happening.
3:28 Holly Frey? It's challenging.
3:31 Tracy V. Wilson? I can't remember if we talked about this when we talked about in the, in the "Hi" episode. Holly, have you been to the Museum of the American Indian in Washington DC?
3:41 Holly Frey? I feel embarrassed to tell you, I'm not sure.
3:43 Tracy V. Wilson? Okay. I mean, there's a lot of museums in Washington DC, so.
3:47 Holly Frey? I know it's recent enough that I should know.
3:49 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
3:50 Holly Frey? But I go to a lot of museums and my brain is a little scrambled from a lot of travel in the last several months. And I'm like, I'm not sure if I have a false memory of this or not.
4:01 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, sure.
4:03 Holly Frey? If I did, it was a brief run through and not like a long leisurely day, because then it would impress more memory upon me.
4:11 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, yeah.
4:12 Holly Frey? And there, there have been a couple of days where I was there in Washington DC and buzzed through three or four museums in a day.
4:19 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, yeah.
4:19 Holly Frey? So they, all of them get short shrift in that situation, but.
4:22 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah. So the company that we work for used to be owned, I'm saying this for listeners' benefit, uh, used to be owned by Discovery. And Discovery's headquarters were in Silver Spring, Maryland, which is effectively next to Washington DC. And so when I would need to go there for work, I often would. Uh, like if I needed to be there Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday, I would fly in on Friday and I would spend Saturday and Sunday going to museums and stuff. And one of the times that I did this, the Museum of the American Indian was one of the places that I went to. And I think I also went a second time, one time when you and I were there for a live show, which would have been more recent. It is one of my favorite of the Smithsonian museums.
5:06 Tracy V. Wilson? I have seen exhibits there that are really cool. There was one that was called Up Where We Belong, and it was about Indigenous people's influence on pop culture. And that one had an incredibly cool audio tour that went along with it. That was a lot of music by Indigenous recording artists. There's a thing that I think is part of the permanent collection that's all about the use of Indigenous imagery in advertising.
5:36 Holly Frey? Oh, yeah.
5:36 Tracy V. Wilson? Things that I've seen at that museum have wound up on the, the list for episodes of the show, some of which, this is, I mean, we've talked about how long our shortlists are. I've got stuff from visits to that museum from years ago that are still sitting on my to-do list, waiting to be done at some point. And then in addition to how, how great I think the exhibits in the museum are, uh, the, the restaurant.
6:03 Holly Frey? Oh, I did not go to the restaurant.
6:05 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, so it is, it is one of my favorite restaurants on the National Mall. I think it might be, it's hard to say because there are ones that I've, I have less of an experience with, but for, for a while I was like, this is my favorite place to eat on the National Mall. It is Indigenous-inspired cuisines, and there are different stations that you can go to that have Indigenous-inspired cuisine from different parts of the Americas. All of it really, really delicious. The time, I think this is the time that I was there, when we were there for a live show. I had gone to the Museum of the American Indian. I had looked at all of the, you know, the, the temporary exhibits that I had not seen yet. And then I had lunch in the restaurant.
6:50 Tracy V. Wilson? And then I went to the National Museum of African-American History and Culture, which was newly opened at that point.
6:58 Tracy V. Wilson? I basically went and had a second lunch at that restaurant. Yum. Which was also really good. We love second lunch. So, yeah. Anyway, I love the Smithsonian museums. We have already talked about being angry and upset about the way the executive branch is treating the Smithsonian museums. And then, of course, at the moment that we are recording this, the government is still shut down. And so all of them are temporarily closed, which is also upsetting. Yeah. Other stuff about the episode. This appearance that she did, that Mary Golda Ross did on What's My Line. Uh huh.
7:40 Tracy V. Wilson? At first, I thought this might have been maybe nervousness about being on television. But then I read other accounts of friends of hers that described her this way. She was so soft spoken. Her voice was just so soft and gentle that the first thing that she said when she was sort of introducing herself on that show, I was like, I feel like I need to listen more carefully whenever you're talking. You leaning towards your screen. Yeah. But yeah, other people described her similarly. There was also a quote from Dr. Norbert Hill, who I think spoke at her funeral. I had a hard time getting details about that.
8:23 Tracy V. Wilson? I did find some write-ups of it, but not like a, you know, full order of events of the day. But this is a quote that was sort of relevant, but not directly about her, that I saved for this behind the scenes. And so he said, quote, "We've had indigenous engineers since time immemorial. We were able to build things and make things. And we got amnesia about it, about who we are as a people, building teepees and canoes, the snowshoe, and irrigation systems in Arizona. There are certainly a lot of contributions that the Cherokees have made. We've lost that in the narrative, the ability to say, you're a modern day engineer, just like your ancestors." And I love that.
9:05 Holly Frey? So the discussion of the tear dress in this immediately made me think of a very popular style of dress that is still made like among retro seamstresses called a patio dress.
9:19 Tracy V. Wilson? Okay.
9:20 Holly Frey? It was originally not called a patio dress. It was called by an outdated, no longer acceptable term for indigenous woman. And it's interesting because looking at pictures of tear dresses, they look very similar. And I ended up in my own little side quest rabbit hole of like our patio dresses, which are sometimes also called Fiesta dresses, depending on where you're at and, and what pattern you're using. I'm like, were those based on these, but they actually predate tear dresses, but they're also based on older indigenous garments. So I feel like there's this through line across multiple tribes and cultures trying
10:04 Holly Frey? to replicate dresses that some sources will even tell you the dresses that were being used as inspiration for patio dresses were based on indigenous dresses that were actually based on European dresses. And so it becomes this circle of like, I don't know where the beginning of this style exists.
10:29 Tracy V. Wilson? Right. Yeah. Well, and that was part of what they were challenged by when they were trying to like, create something that, that felt appropriate as like Cherokee traditional dress. Because there are indigenous nations that do have a culturally specific style of clothing that was being worn prior to the arrival of Europeans.
10:53 Holly Frey? Yeah.
10:53 Tracy V. Wilson? And the Cherokee also had some ways of making netting and beading and things like that, that were culturally specific. But like, when it came to garments that people were wearing. The way that that it was explained by the Cherokee writers that I read who were talking about the creation of the dress like this, it was like you're making a garment out of the skins of the animal that you're also using the meat from. And it just, it was not something that was like, this is a Cherokee method of making these coverings for your body.
11:24 Holly Frey? Right.
11:24 Tracy V. Wilson? And then once trade goods from Europe were introduced, a lot of people started wearing things that were very similar to, you know, what the European people were wearing. And so it felt culturally appropriate to have a dress that looked like a European person's garments.
11:45 Holly Frey? Yeah.
11:45 Tracy V. Wilson? Because that's what people had been wearing, including before being forcibly removed to Oklahoma. But it also needed to feel like it was something specifically Cherokee. And, and so, yeah, it does have that kind of circular, like, okay, what, what, what had Europeans introduced? How had Cherokee people made it their own? How does that feed back into reestablishing a cultural identity after, you know, centuries of deliberate erasure and deliberate attempts to force the Cherokee to assimilate with white culture? Like, all of this feeds in together with creating a garment and then saying, okay, this has roots to us and is also something that is our cultural dress today.
12:28 Holly Frey? And also very similar to a product very popular in the 1950s amongst white ladies.
12:37 Tracy V. Wilson? We also stressed in the episode that like, this is something that the Cherokee in Oklahoma were doing. The Cherokee in North Carolina, or, you know, on the East Coast, like, have, they're, they're related. But this was something that was happening in Oklahoma that as far as I know, the Cherokee in North Carolina were not part, part of that part of it. In the sixties and seventies and they're making this dress. I also watched an hour, the hour, the, the video that we referenced. I watched the full hour of it and just like rapt attention of the creation of these dresses and how they were made and
13:17 Tracy V. Wilson? different fabrics that they can be made from and the challenges of working with fabrics that don't just tear from the selvage edge like that.
13:26 Holly Frey? The tearing from the selvage edge gave me such a like, I don't, I don't know what I would call it. Is it nostalgia? Is it chuckle? I don't know. But I mean, did you ever bump up against the arguments over pro tearing fabric versus not?
13:42 Tracy V. Wilson? I don't think so.
13:42 Holly Frey? When you were doing any sewing, because people feel strongly about this issue
13:49 Holly Frey? in the sewing world. Some people love it because they feel like, great, if you tear across the cross grain, you know, you're getting essentially, theoretically, I should say, a straight.
14:02 Tracy V. Wilson? Right.
14:03 Holly Frey? Cut, air quoting cut, but not all fabrics are loomed exactly perfectly that way and they won't.
14:10 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, sure.
14:11 Holly Frey? You will actually end up with an angled piece. Or one of the other things that can happen is as you're ripping it. And also you have to be kind of good at it to get it like a clean tear. But sometimes as you're doing the tear, the threads that make up the grain of the fabric will get a little warped in the process and people get squeamish about that. Like there are, if you're in, say, a costume shop, let's just say is a theoretical example. And someone chooses to, like they're making something that has like a million ruffles and they choose to start tearing the fabric instead of cutting it.
14:51 Holly Frey? Some people will be totally cool with it and some people will lose their minds and act as though you are doing the most Cro-Magnon thing you could possibly do with a piece of fabric, which is no slight to Cro-Magnons, they just didn't have scissors yet.
15:08 Holly Frey? It's very funny to watch that divide open up amidst a bunch of stitchers.
15:14 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, yeah.
15:15 Holly Frey? And watch how vehemently each side will make their case that the way they do it is the proper way.
15:21 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
15:21 Holly Frey? I just find, I'm very, you know, we roll with stuff in our sewing room.
15:26 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
15:27 Holly Frey? Whatever way you like to do it is the correct way for your project.
15:31 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, I have definitely had the experience of trying to tear a really inexpensive, inexpensive is the wrong word, a cheaply made piece of fabric and had that go very wrong.
15:46 Holly Frey? Yeah, sometimes if there's a gap, if the thread count is not very high on those grain threads, it will make a right turn and tear up the grain instead of directly across the whole way.
15:58 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
15:58 Holly Frey? And that's not fun. That'll mess up your plan in a hurry. So.
16:01 Tracy V. Wilson? Yep.
16:02 Holly Frey? That goes back to that whole technique thing a little bit. You gotta be fast, confident. You gotta tear with confidence.
16:09 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
16:10 Holly Frey? And not all fabrics will do it either.
16:13 Tracy V. Wilson? I don't think I have anything else to say about Mary Gold or Ross. Uh, I know almost nothing about her personal life beyond her giving apricots to people as gifts.
16:22 Holly Frey? I mean, that's all I need to know. She's a cool lady.
16:24 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, yeah.
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19:05 Tracy V. Wilson? Hey, everybody. It's Tracy from Stuff You Missed in History Class. That's Alan Goya, a planning engineer at AT&T. He's talking about Intuit Dome, home of the Los Angeles Clippers, where every seat, screen, phone, and transaction is connected with AT&T fiber and 5G, defining the fan's experience. And Alan's master plan made it all possible.
19:26 Speaker 05 It was going to rival anything that was already built. And that takes quite a bit of people and different teams to all be on the same page.
19:33 Tracy V. Wilson? That includes field services manager Drexel Jones. His team made sure it all came together and held up on game day.
19:40 Speaker 06 Through what Alan's whole crew designed, we connected the event visitors to the world.
19:46 Tracy V. Wilson? And after years of hard work and collaboration, it was opening night.
19:49 Speaker 06 To actually see the whole stadium light up and data is flowing is a beautiful thing.
19:54 Speaker 05 What the fans experience is incredible. It gave me a lot of pride.
19:57 Tracy V. Wilson? AT&T, connecting fans to what they love. Connecting changes everything. AT&T.
20:09 Holly Frey? We talked about Marjorie Merriwether Post this week, who I'm very fascinated by because she does seem like one of those early instances of someone with more money than she needs who decided she would use it to help other people, which I admire. And also who encouraged other people that were similarly blessed with wealth that they needed to also step up and do the same thing. I love that she's like, this construction project might be a money pit, but I don't want to put all these guys out of work and make an entire big problem because a lot of people are employed by my project. I love that. I love that about her. There are some very funny things. Apparently, when she built Mar-a-Lago,
20:54 Holly Frey? which she envisioned as this amazing place, she was going to host parties. She did have some times where she actually got overwhelmed by it. Like, they would invite 200 people at a time to come and stay there and like... Go to a full array of activities, you know, kind of the way we see in films of Old English country houses, having everybody come and visit for a week or whatever, and they have a full schedule of of activities and balls and meals. And apparently, at one point, she had invited a bunch of people and some of them in brought their kids, which they had not told her ahead of time. And so there were more people than they had planned for. And then an illness broke out amongst the party group. And so they were having to like, separate people into different bedrooms and all of the rooms were filled and more guests were still coming.
21:40 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, no.
21:41 Holly Frey? But they managed it. Somehow, they managed it. Marjorie Merriwether Post was a serial monogamist.
21:49 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
21:51 Holly Frey? It's interesting. There's a book, a biography of her that I read that was written by Nancy Ruben Stewart in 1995, although she wrote an article about her in 2023 for Saturday Evening Post, where she references a lot of things that Marjorie's children and grandchildren have commented on over the the decades about her and about like their disagreements of her assessments of things, but also their, you know, love of her. And she she was a person that really helped a lot of people, you know, in their family and outside of their family. And, you know, anybody that they were connected
22:31 Holly Frey? to when they fell on hard times could come to her for help and always get it. But they also talked about how she just thought you were supposed to be married. That was what was up. You needed to be coupled up. And so even after she had broken up with Herb, her fourth husband, and that whole scandal, at one point.
22:58 Holly Frey? There were rumors that she was going to get remarried, which she dismissed. But apparently among the family, they had said something about it. And she was like, yeah, but I'm lonely. Like, I'm in this huge house by myself. Like, why wouldn't I get married again? Even though at that point, you know, she's, she's into her late 70s, early 80s. So she just, she loved the companionship of marriage. And I, it seems like it was a, she had a sense of personal failure at never having had what she perceived as a successful marriage.
23:27 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
23:28 Holly Frey? Even though her marriage to Davies lasted 20 years. I mean, it lasted a long time.
23:33 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
23:34 Holly Frey? But, um, yeah. Also, all these rich people were just switching up spouses periodically. Like, I don't mean in any kind of like, we're doing a spouse swap, but it would be like, we got divorced and then at a party a couple of months later, I met this other person and they were married to somebody else, but they got divorced and then we got married and then that person got married to another person. It's just wild.
23:54 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
23:55 Holly Frey? Point of trivia, Edward Close, her first husband, is, if I did the math right, the grandfather of Glenn Close. Yeah.
24:06 Tracy V. Wilson? I wondered when I got to the name Close in the outline, if there was a relation there. And then I was like, surely not.
24:12 Holly Frey? There is. There is. Um, yeah. Man, it's fascinating. There are also some interesting, there's so much that I had to leave out because she, I didn't get into any of her collecting.
24:25 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
24:26 Holly Frey? Because she did collect a lot of amazing stuff, like, you know, tapestries from France that were made by the same weaving company that had made tapestries, you know, for the royal palaces, like, pieces of fine china that she collected when she was in the Soviet Union.
24:45 Tracy V. Wilson? Mm-hmm.
24:46 Holly Frey? Pieces she collected all over Europe on her travels, pieces she collected from around the United States when she traveled. Like, she just had an eye for jewelry and art and sculpture and was very smart about acquiring things.
25:00 Tracy V. Wilson? Mm-hmm.
25:01 Holly Frey? And using them, which is pretty interesting, right? They didn't just go into storage. They were included in the designs of her homes. They were part of the way she arranged things. Her fine china got used. Um, and she had very specific ways she liked it to be arranged and displayed on the table with very specific flowers that she wanted to have if she was using any given set of china, which is all pretty interesting. Now I want to go to Hillwood. I've never been.
25:28 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
25:29 Holly Frey? It looks beautiful.
25:31 Tracy V. Wilson? I've never been.
25:31 Holly Frey? Let's go.
25:32 Tracy V. Wilson? That tree and flower lines walk that her friends made, sounds really lovely to me.
25:39 Holly Frey? I feel like that is a really, really good indicator of who she was as a person. That her friends were not like, you know, it's her 70th birthday, let's buy her something ostentatious and huge.
25:53 Tracy V. Wilson? Right.
25:53 Holly Frey? They were instead like, let's build a beautiful place that she can walk and that other people could also walk because that's what she wants. I feel like that's a good indicator that she was.
26:04 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
26:04 Holly Frey? Not a monster.
26:05 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
26:06 Holly Frey? Fingers crossed.
26:10 Holly Frey? Yeah. One of the other things that does come up in all of those, those quotes from her family after her passing is that she was not good at dealing with things she did not like.
26:21 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, sure.
26:22 Holly Frey? She wouldn't like address things head on and like try to fix it. She would just cut it out of her life. Something I'm embarrassed to tell you, I feel a certain kinship to. But like even with her husband, her second husband, when she found out he was cheating, she didn't say like, hey, you're cheating. Here's the thing. It was, I'm about to step onto a boat and go away for months. By the way, we're getting divorced. Goodbye.
26:49 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
26:51 Holly Frey? Cause she didn't want to have the conversation about it. She just wanted to say how it was going to be and, and leave and not.
26:57 Tracy V. Wilson? Right. This reminds me a little bit in a slightly different way of a relationship that I ended immediately after my birthday party was over and all the rest of the guests had left. Cause I didn't want to deal with it prior to the birthday party, but it needed to be dealt with.
27:16 Holly Frey? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She just wouldn't have dealt with it. She would have moved out the next day while that person was like at work or on an errand.
27:24 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah. I didn't have that option.
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28:01 Tracy V. Wilson? Guess who's back in the house? The old gays return for season two of Silver Linings, their hit podcast from iHeart's Ruby Studio in partnership with ViiV Healthcare. Just wait until you hear what hosts Robert McMillan and Jess A. have in store this time around. They strut back down memory lane navigating life, love, loss, and everything that shaped them along the way. And as usual, someone just might break into song. From leather bars to bathhouses, dance floors to drag brunch, nothing stays off limits. These are the kinds of insights that can only come from experience. So, listen to your elders, honey, and discover the silver linings you can take with you. All sass, zero filter, and decades of perspective from four friends proving that queer joy
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31:06 Tracy V. Wilson? There are various people that come up on the show where like I really feel like I have the same mindset about something or I really empathize with them in a particular way. And I do not have that with the need for her to be married.
31:23 Tracy V. Wilson? Because way earlier in my life, I came to the decision that a bad relationship was way worse than no relationship and I would much rather have no relationship if that was the option, like those are my choices.
31:37 Holly Frey? Oh, yeah.
31:38 Tracy V. Wilson? And so sort of feeling like she needed to be in a marriage is just like not, it's not a thing where I am in sync with her thinking on that.
31:47 Holly Frey? Well, I think too, right?
31:51 Holly Frey? She wasn't a person who like,
31:56 Holly Frey? got into a marriage that she knew was not gonna be great. Every time she started one of her four marriages, she felt very in love with that person. They all seemed like they were great starts. Oh, sure. And she did roll out as soon as she was in any way wronged by it. Yeah, or felt like it wasn't working for her. But she, you know, keep in mind, she was very beautiful. She was very charming. She was super smart, self-possessed, had more money than anybody she was gonna meet just about. I mean, it's funny because there are a lot of write-ups about her that, you know, like the, the brief versions where they're like,
32:37 Holly Frey? she was the richest woman in the United States, or one of the richest women in the world. I'm like, she was one of the richest people in the world. Like, You're right, right. You don't need to specify by sex or gender in this instance because she was a millionaire when she was a teenager, like a multimillionaire. Right. In the 19 teens. Yeah, in 19 teens dollars of multimillionaire. Yeah. Yeah, she, she was richer than most people ever. So she knew, that was another thing. She knew she was never gonna meet somebody who was her equal in that regard. Like, there was just no, the odds were incredibly low to nil. But she did seem to very much like love, love and truly fall in love with these people and she charmed them.
33:22 Holly Frey? There, the story of when she met her husband Joe Davies for the first time is like, everybody in the room saw it happen. Like, where they were all, they all kind of knew, like, alright, well, his marriage is gonna end cuz he just fell in love with this woman at first sight. Like, even his kids were like, whoa, okay, our lives just changed. Like, they all recognized that they had a really intense attraction to one another and a devotion to one another. So it's, it's interesting. I know, I don't think she was willing to put up with not a good relationship. She just was a romantic in many ways. And thought she wanted to be with somebody and have that, you know, magical connection.
34:05 Holly Frey? Even though, I mean, I think that's probably what led her to not realize that her last husband.
34:13 Holly Frey? If he was, I mean, we don't know. The, the words never came out in any kind of like, I identify as.
34:19 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, sure, sure.
34:20 Holly Frey? A closeted homosexual, or he was bisexual, or whatever.
34:24 Tracy V. Wilson? Right.
34:24 Holly Frey? I don't think that ever crossed her mind for a second, because she was like, I am in love with this person and he's in love with me.
34:31 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
34:32 Holly Frey? And even though there were instances later on where people were like, remember that time where you said he was weird around that waiter?
34:39 Tracy V. Wilson? Oh, sure.
34:40 Holly Frey? And he acted too familiar, because he was hitting on him. And she was like, really? Like, she just didn't, she didn't have any.
34:47 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
34:47 Holly Frey? Any sense of it.
34:49 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah, I kind of went like poking around for more detail about that after reading the outline this morning, because I was kind of curious. And I also was like, okay, well, like, what, what ages of young men are we talking about here in the, the pictures that
35:06 Holly Frey? Right.
35:06 Tracy V. Wilson? showed, like, what, what is, what is the nature of what we're talking about here? And my cursory reading of it made it sound like that he, he genuinely did have feelings for her in some way.
35:20 Holly Frey? Yeah.
35:20 Tracy V. Wilson? And, and that, like, also, he was involved with men, so.
35:24 Holly Frey? Yeah, I mean, that's the thing. It makes me think he, he was probably bi. But again, you don't want to assign that to anybody.
35:32 Tracy V. Wilson? Right.
35:32 Holly Frey? Because we don't know.
35:33 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
35:34 Holly Frey? But he seemed very into her. I mean, he pursued her.
35:38 Tracy V. Wilson? Right.
35:39 Holly Frey? So, mysteries, mysteries. So, she was so good at keeping things private, that there are big chunks we don't know about, right? Like, her divorce.
35:49 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
35:49 Holly Frey? From Hutton is still.
35:51 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
35:51 Holly Frey? shrouded in a little bit of mystery.
35:54 Tracy V. Wilson? It's that combination of not having the inner thoughts of either of them really on this. And then also, like, the continual evolution of how we talk about these things in society, which is constantly changing and evolving.
36:08 Holly Frey? 100%.
36:10 Holly Frey? Anyway, she fascinates me.
36:11 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah.
36:12 Holly Frey? I do love that she proselytized to all of her wealthy friends to be like, you, the way you make best use of your money is to spread it around and give money away all the time. Use it for good, for good aims. Try to make the world a better place with your money. You can still keep making money for you, but you gotta also do these things if you really want to live right. And I'm like, I, I love you.
36:34 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah. Yeah. I feel like we're living in a society where there is way too much wealth concentrated with a few specific people who have way too much power over the lives of the rest of us. So I do like the fact that, that she was not focused on like getting more and more and more and more and more to the exclusion of attempting to, to do good for other people in the world.
37:02 Holly Frey? Yeah. Even as she got older, her, you know, large lavish parties often came with, by the way, are you donating money? Which I love. I love it. Anyway, may, may we all live with the sense of duty to help others with what we have.
37:21 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah. Speaking of donating money, we're recording this a couple of weeks in advance. Will the government still be shut down when this episode comes out? Who can say? Will people have gotten their SNAP benefits in November? Who can say? What we can say is that we know there will still be a need for people to have food. And so if you have the ability to donate to your local food bank or a food rescue organization or some organization that is helping to keep people fed, if you're able to do that, it's a great time to do it.
37:52 Holly Frey? One of my very favorite ways to support the community is to always, always, we do a big, usually Thanksgiving, we do a donation and then we tie a nerdy Star Wars thing to Mardi Gras season where the idea is that while we're all feasting, we should also be giving to places that feed people. Whatever organization feels right to you, local organizations are great. I mean, we all have plenty. That's like my life motto.
38:22 Tracy V. Wilson? Yeah. I feel like there's a lot going on in the world and a lot that people can want to contribute to and just everything's harder when people are hungry.
38:29 Holly Frey? Yeah. If you've ever been hungry, you know.
38:34 Holly Frey? It sucks. We should help people not, not have to feel that and not be ashamed when they need help. Make the world better. If this is your weekend, I hope you find a way to make the world better. If it's not your weekend, I hope whatever your job is, does not burden you in a way that makes you feel like the world is worse. I hope that everybody treats each other kindly. We all take care of one another. We will be right back here tomorrow with a classic episode and then on Monday with something brand new.
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