Whitney Wren's Reality

She's baaaack! Bunnie kicks off Season 9 with Whitney Wren, who’s here to spill the tea and clean up the mess (or make it worse). She breaks down the drama with Christen, the latest on her relationship with Tyler, and why she insists on living in a house full of dogs. Nothing is off-limits! Whitney Wren: TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@whitneywren1?lang=en|IG https://www.instagram.com/whitneywren1/?hl=en Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com http://www.dumbblondeunrated.com

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• 0:00Bunnie XO?

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• 1:25Bunnie XO?

  Is this thing on? Hi, babies. Welcome back to another episode of Dunblonde. Actually, welcome back to a new season. And I figured, what better way to open up season number nine than with a guest who's been on the show? But since she's been on the show, so much has happened. And the internet is so curious about her. Ms. Whitney Wren, baby.

• 1:47Speaker 02

  Hello, bitches.

• 1:49Bunnie XO?

  First of all, let's tell everybody how hungover you are.

• 1:51Speaker 02

  Yeah, I threw up right before I came here. I actually texted her and I was like, well, she was sick first. And then she texted me and goes, "I'm sick." I said, "Okay, me too," but I sucked it up.

• 2:01Bunnie XO?

  Dude, I fucking, I went through the neuro virus. You were just at our new bar last night.

• 2:08Speaker 02

  It was so good. It was so cute. Your whole, I'm like... Damn, that's a good picture.

• 2:14Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 2:15Speaker 02

  Batty up there.

• 2:15Bunnie XO?

  Thank you. I'm like, I have, I have the funniest TikTok I'm gonna do when we go there tonight because it's this huge fucking picture of me, right? And all you see is a big ass toe. And it's like, that's not the toe I wanna see. So I'm just gonna be there, I'm gonna be there like,

• 2:31Speaker 02

  What made you pick that?

• 2:32Bunnie XO?

  Gonna be pointing at it and then just zoom into the toe. I can't wait to do it.

• 2:35Speaker 02

  Why did I not notice the toe?

• 2:37Bunnie XO?

  Oh, everybody's gonna notice the toe now and I can't wait. It's gonna go viral. Can't fucking wait. But anyways, enough about me. We are here to talk about you, lady. So much has changed since the last time you were here. Last time you were on the show, you were here with your best friend Kristen.

• 2:51Speaker 02

  Yeah, I was.

• 2:53Bunnie XO?

  And for anybody who wants to listen to that interview, I forget, I think it's season six, season seven. Just look for Kristen and Whitney. You can get all their backstories. You can hear about how they grew up, all that stuff. This interview is gonna be all about the drama, okay? So, no backstories here, but I wanna just say, I love you. You know that I love you and I've always had your back and I hate having to see some of the shit you go through online. It really fucking sucks. And I think you handle it so good. Like, is it different now than when you were here last time? Like how you handle things? Like, does it hurt as bad or is it

• 3:34Bunnie XO?

  just kinda roll off your shoulders now? Or do you have to really like process it and take time and like deal with it?

• 3:40Speaker 02

  Yeah. It, it affected me so much to where like I had to actually go, I was gonna walk into a mental hospital.

• 3:48Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 3:48Speaker 02

  So it was to the point where I pushed my boyfriend away. I pushed all my friends away. Like, all I was worried about was making money. Which, shout out to you, coming here like the last time definitely changed my life cuz I give you credit to all the ideas for everything for the podcast and everything. So, thank you for that.

• 4:05Bunnie XO?

  I appreciate that.

• 4:06Speaker 02

  But, yeah, like genuinely,

• 4:11Speaker 02

  I just think being on social media is like one of the hardest things that you can really do. Like, obviously, it's not a nine to five and there's not really a lot that you can do like that way, but I just think that Now, after like seeing that I really don't have much friends anymore and then losing my boyfriend and everything was just put out like on social media, they're judging everything that you do, you say, you walk, you talk. I couldn't even walk outside and somebody not take a picture of me if I was with another guy or like anything like that. So it's just like, it gets annoying, but it definitely affected like my, my brain and the way I thought about things. I thought everybody was

• 4:52Speaker 02

  out to get me. Everybody wanted to hurt me or use me or everything like that. So, once I got medicine and stuff, I kind of stepped back and was like swallowed a lot and now I just focus on me and what I want to do and make myself happy.

• 5:08Bunnie XO?

  So you ended up not going to the mental hospital, but you did get help and they put you on medication?

• 5:14Speaker 02

  Mm-hmm.

• 5:14Bunnie XO?

  And are you feeling better now?

• 5:15Speaker 02

  Yeah, I feel better. I feel less irritated. I think I was very overwhelmed with everything that was going on with like the podcast and my friends were hurting me constantly and my boyfriend was up my ass 24/7. So it was just like everything was leading up to like me just breaking.

• 5:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 5:33Speaker 02

  And it just pushed everybody away and I mean, I eventually like see now, not everybody has the best intentions for me and my life, except for like my family and there's like one or two people that obviously support me and stuff, but yeah, I, I feel better now.

• 5:52Bunnie XO?

  Well, I'm glad to hear that, but let's, okay, so let's take it back for everybody who is following this story and who knows a little bit about everything. Um, last time you were on the show, you were here with your best friend Kristen. Um, you guys were really tight, it seemed like, you know, um, a lot of us don't know what went on behind closed doors or how your guys' friendship was behind closed doors, but you guys had a very public friendship and then also a very public breakup. And this was before you were even with Tyler. So we're going to get into even how you and Tyler got together and that whole situation. But first, let's talk about the BFF. What happened with you and Kristen exactly? Because I know everybody is so... Just invested in you guys is it's almost kind of sick.

• 6:36Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 6:36Bunnie XO?

  How and like I'll see grown women that are just like so you guys are like literally reality TV, which we're going to talk about the reality TV show too, because you motherfucker should have came with me.

• 6:48Speaker 02

  I know.

• 6:48Bunnie XO?

  But.

• 6:49Speaker 02

  Hey.

• 6:49Bunnie XO?

  It's all right.

• 6:50Speaker 02

  The future. There's always a future.

• 6:53Bunnie XO?

  There's always a second time around.

• 6:54Speaker 02

  That shit would be fun.

• 6:55Bunnie XO?

  Um, but yeah, so what happened with you and Kristen? Like, take me on that journey and tell me, you know, what happened when you guys left here? You guys started the podcast. Let's start from there. You guys started the podcast. You guys started doing really good.

• 7:08Speaker 02

  I was doing a lot for her to like be successful. And one thing about me is I always want to see my friends rise up with me. I never want to see anybody fall. So I,

• 7:22Speaker 02

  I think after that, we started the podcast. It was really good in the beginning because it was like, we were motivated to want to make episodes and have people on and stuff. And then towards like the middle of it, it was kind of just me doing it. And I started to get a little bit frustrated because I don't like doing something and you're going to get 50 50, we're going to put in the same effort. So I was losing that a little bit. So it started to get me irritated in her. Plus she got, she started getting with Jacob. And

• 7:55Speaker 02

  I had to motivate her to get up, to do things constantly, like we had a very, very close relationship, like very close. Like I loved the fuck out of her. Like she was my like ride or die. Like I would do anything for her. And I think it kind of got a little bit like

• 8:13Speaker 02

  different after her and Jacob got together. So she kind of started, she's a very like one on one person. Like if you're, you have to just be one person. She doesn't really have a lot of people around her like that. So.

• 8:25Bunnie XO?

  She's like out of sight, out of mind.

• 8:26Speaker 02

  Yes. So then when she moved out, we started the podcast, did all that. And then she got with Jacob. Ever since then, I was kind of like very just like. Her personality changed. She wasn't as like clingy to me. So that changed me because like we were like this.

• 8:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 8:44Speaker 02

  So um after that, like her and Jacob got together, I kind of backed off a little bit because she started like pushing me away. So I was like, it's fine.

• 8:52Bunnie XO?

  Did she push you away because Jacob didn't like you?

• 8:56Speaker 02

  I don't think Jacob liked me the whole time.

• 8:57Bunnie XO?

  Why do you think he doesn't like you?

• 8:59Speaker 02

  Cause I knew he was, he's just very, like I love them now together. I'm happy for them. Um, I just didn't like the way that I see through people very easily. I can look at somebody and I swear to God, I'm psychic. I can look at somebody and just feel because of how much I wanted her to succeed and like I loved her so much and I saw everything Rocky put her through, she went through with Connor. Her being depressed, I had to go pick her up from her house, like everything just was, I was just now getting her to like where she could stand up on her own. And then Jacob steps in and he, I mean, not to be like that, but he didn't have followers. He didn't have money. He didn't have like,

• 9:44Speaker 02

  he was with Rachel. So it was just kind of like messy. And I did, I was just very standoffish with him because I didn't like the past of him, but I obviously accepted him. I was like, he's a good guy, whatever. Regardless of his past. So with them being together, kind of just like, I don't know if he just didn't like me because he's, I knew I saw and I would like, I'd never really made comments. It was just kind of like, why would you do that? Or like, why would you let him do that? So I think he knew that I knew and like I loved her so much that it seemed like obsessive. Because I wanted to be around her all the time. Like she just made me happy.

• 10:25Speaker 02

  So I think he kind of just never really liked me. I never, we went on vacations and stuff and he never even had conversations with me.

• 10:32Bunnie XO?

  Do you think maybe she was telling him stuff without you around, which is why he was like that?

• 10:37Speaker 02

  Maybe. But I don't, there was never like, I'm very honest and very blunt. So if you have a problem there, you're You have something wrong and you gotta tell me or else I won't care.

• 10:48Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 10:48Speaker 02

  I'll still do the same shit. And then after me and Tyler, when me and Tyler got together, she got even weirder. And like, I don't know, everything just like fell apart. Like it just with the podcast, like, she claimed that we were just more business partners, but I was still in her phone every day checking up on her. Hey, how are you? How was the baby? Are you good? Are you sick? Do you need me to bring you anything? Do you want food? Do you want water? Everything like that. Like, I was like this, because I wanted her to be my friend so bad. And I don't know why. I just think like, I've never been around somebody that's so genuinely fun and like funny and like we get along very well. So everything just switched. Her personality completely changed when she got with Jacob.

• 11:32Speaker 02

  So ever since then, like I kinda just, yeah. But like even hanging out with her recently, the last times we were hanging out, she's so different. She doesn't really laugh like. So it kinda just got to where the baby came and then she tried to say like, I'm growing away from you. And then it, I don't know. I just, I'm very, I'm a very good friend. So sometimes like things I don't see in front of me. I just want to make people better and I don't know. Everything changed.

• 12:05Bunnie XO?

  Well, you make jokes about it online and every, there's kind of a rumor that swirls around online. Like, were you in love with Kristen? It wasn't ever like.

• 12:15Speaker 02

  No. In the beginning, in the beginning, I think like we would, she would make out with me all the time.

• 12:21Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 12:21Speaker 02

  But I don't know if it was like, just her, we would just be drunk and stuff. But we never hooked up or anything. Like it never got to that. She's straight. I'm, I'm, I'm not into girls like that anymore. So it was never like that. But I just, I think I fell in love with our relationship, our friendship. Because it was so easy to be myself. Yeah. And I've never really had a sister like that.

• 12:45Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 12:45Speaker 02

  I have my two younger sisters, but they're like thirteen and ten. So it's like, I was never close with that. And then I get weird about like abandoned men and stuff like that. So when she just left, I was kinda just like, I get, I get angry when people push me away.

• 13:02Bunnie XO?

  So you guys have this huge explosion online. Why do you feel like she attacked you the way she did? Like, what set that off?

• 13:10Speaker 02

  With which, which time?

• 13:12Bunnie XO?

  I mean, there was, there's a few, so I mean, let's talk about them. Like, what, what is your side of the story with the situations that she presented online to everybody?

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• 13:52Speaker 02

  Um, with like, the last few times we talked, she was very like, I don't like, doesn't want me to be around you, doesn't want you to be around the kids and stuff like that. That's where I was like, okay, this is fucking weird. Like, I would never, ever do anything to put you or your family in danger. But I do not like that he made towards my front. He was, he was, that, that's just something I do not agree with.

• 14:24Bunnie XO?

  Are you talking about the situation with?

• 14:25Speaker 02

  Yeah, I just do not agree with that.

• 14:27Bunnie XO?

  Like, what happened in that situation?

• 14:29Speaker 02

  Okay, so this is actually what happened. It's her birthday. We go out, Kristen stays home because she's pregnant. We go out to Dylan Scott concert. We all left, we go to the bar drunk. He was drunk. He kept picking her up. And like, she had a skirt on, I kept like, pulling her off of him, like, because it was just, I'm, I do not like that shit. I'm sorry, but if, if that were Tyler and another girl or something like that, I would, no. And especially me, that's like, my best friend sitting at home pregnant, and you're gonna do that in front of my face with another girl?

• 15:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:02Speaker 02

  So then we get in the car, and they get in the backseat, and she kept like, tapping, like, get him off me, get him off me. So he's like, sitting there, they're next to each other, he kept putting his hand all over her and kissing her neck, and I'm watching this whole thing, like,

• 15:17Speaker 02

  It makes me so upset because

• 15:18Bunnie XO?

  He was actually kissing her neck.

• 15:20Speaker 02

  Yes, making out on her neck, biting her neck, like, and I'm sitting there watching and grabs me and I said, okay, I'm done. Like, I'm done. I pull her off, I put her to the front, and then he was so drunk, he didn't remember. So the next day, I called Kristen and I was like, I was like, this, I didn't, I wanted this to come from me because I don't know if remembers it or not. But I said, I called, and I said, you need to tell her. Or you need to call, and he needs to apologize to you, he needs to apologize to your boyfriend, and he needs to apologize to Kristen. Cause all of that, I'm watching. I had to see all of that. And I don't want to see that and not say anything.

• 15:57Bunnie XO?

  And if Kristen found out from somebody else and you didn't tell her, then it would be.

• 16:01Speaker 02

  Yeah. So all of that, like, it all came out and

• 16:06Speaker 02

  still talked about it. He talked about it constantly, like, it bothered her for a long time. And they're all mad because she came out and talked about it, but she won't admit it because she doesn't want people to be mad at her. But at the end of the day, it's just, I don't, I don't put up with that shit. I don't, like, I hate when people always say, you cheated, but you cheated. No, like, I broke up with him and then whatever happens after that, happens after that, but I just didn't like that, that all that happened in front of me and I had to be the one to say something and then he gets mad at me for the shit he did.

• 16:41Bunnie XO?

  Right. Well, that's usually how it is with dudes. Yeah.

• 16:44Speaker 02

  And so I called him out about it, and he wants to try me about my relationship, but I, I snapped and I was like, you're not going to sit there and talk about my relationship when you did that to a pregnant girl. And ever since then, she shouldn't talk to me again.

• 16:58Bunnie XO?

  So you feel like she definitely chose you?

• 17:01Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 17:01Bunnie XO?

  I hate that.

• 17:02Speaker 02

  Yeah. I mean,

• 17:04Bunnie XO?

  If Kristen called you right now and was like, hey, I'm sorry.

• 17:07Speaker 02

  She already had.

• 17:08Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 17:09Speaker 02

  Yeah, that, we were, and I was going to get into that too. She's, we've, we've talked. She knows I'm not like me and that's her man, so I can't do anything about that.

• 17:19Bunnie XO?

  So when's the last time you guys talked?

• 17:21Speaker 02

  Today.

• 17:22Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 17:22Speaker 02

  I texted her and I said, I posted a bunch of TikToks of us. But I still love her. I still care for her. I am happy for that she's the baby and stuff. I just sucks that I couldn't really be like a part of it.

• 17:33Bunnie XO?

  Has she apologized to you?

• 17:35Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 17:35Bunnie XO?

  You know, hey, let's be friends again.

• 17:37Speaker 02

  I said sorry to her too, just for overreacting and stuff, but.

• 17:40Bunnie XO?

  Good. I'm glad you guys talked.

• 17:42Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 17:43Bunnie XO?

  Cause I I'm seeing both of you guys hurt, you know, like you can tell she doesn't like being without her best friend either. And I feel like every girl, it doesn't matter how much you love your man, you want your friends around too. You know, and it's hard to just be in just a relationship with your man and your baby every single fucking day. She needs like some sort of like outlet.

• 18:01Speaker 02

  That's what I say. I'm like, I'm, I love my friends. I love having girl time. Like

• 18:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:05Speaker 02

  It's so much different. That man doesn't like understand half the shit that girls go through, like a period. Like they don't even know what that feels like.

• 18:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 18:14Speaker 02

  So it's like.

• 18:14Bunnie XO?

  Let alone fucking postpartum, which she, did you ever think that maybe she was going through postpartum? With all that shit and it really.

• 18:20Speaker 02

  I was there for her, trying to help very, very much. She never really talked about it with me. We started to get distant. Like she really like opened up.

• 18:28Bunnie XO?

  She probably didn't even realize she was going through it because you know, she is so young and just had a baby. So that shit could have just been affecting her mentally and she didn't even know it. She could just be like just now coming out of it, you know?

• 18:39Speaker 02

  She, she says that she doesn't like, like she, I was just very overbearing, I think with how much I wanted to take care of her. Just even the last, like even after the baby, I was on, I was, I was in her phone, like, I want to come see him. Like, I want you to be there. Like, I want to take care of you. Like, it was just like an instinct to like, want to be there for her. And she kept just like pushing and pushing and pushing away. So I kind of just, I gave up.

• 19:01Bunnie XO?

  Which hurt you more though, too?

• 19:03Speaker 02

  Yeah. And another thing too is my own boyfriend was like, you do not need to be friends with her. Like she treats you like shit. So it was like, I was.

• 19:13Bunnie XO?

  You guys both let boys get in the middle of it?

• 19:16Speaker 02

  I just, and then plus with the podcast too, it just that was the only time we would see each other. We were, we were planning dinners and stuff. We would go and do stuff together constantly. And then it just kind of like the baby and I was like, we can do stuff together, like, but I think the Tyler thing too kind of messed her up. I don't know because she would definitely make like comments and.

• 19:42Speaker 02

  I love Tyler. I've always loved Tyler. I wanted to be with Tyler the first day I fucking met him. So it sucked that I seen them together and like I wanted them to be together and they didn't want to be and then they did and then then I wanted him because he's just a great person and he can be stubborn sometimes, but.

• 20:01Bunnie XO?

  So take me on that journey with you and Tyler. You guys, because last time you weren't here, I don't, last time you were at, you weren't with Tyler. I don't even think you guys were talking.

• 20:09Speaker 02

  She Kristen was with Tyler.

• 20:11Bunnie XO?

  Okay, so Chris, I see, I didn't know that. I don't think you guys even talked about that on the podcast.

• 20:14Speaker 02

  She didn't really want to talk about it. Like, I don't think she wanted to be with him like that.

• 20:18Bunnie XO?

  How long were they together for?

• 20:19Speaker 02

  Eight, eight, nine months.

• 20:21Bunnie XO?

  Oh, wow. So they were together for a minute.

• 20:22Speaker 02

  But she was seeing other guys and he was seeing other girls.

• 20:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Was that ever weird for you that he was with her before you?

• 20:30Speaker 02

  The whole time.

• 20:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 20:32Speaker 02

  But I never, like, I'm not insecure. Like, I don't get bothered like that.

• 20:35Bunnie XO?

  No, it's not insecurity, but at the same time, it's kind of like girl code, you know? It's like, fuck.

• 20:40Speaker 02

  I know, I know. I tried like not to for so long. I was like, I just, I can't help it. Like, I, I don't know, like, I just love who he is and what he does and what he stands for. So it just hurt. And I asked her, I pulled her aside too, like before, because we did that TV show thing.

• 20:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Which, what happened with that? Let's go on that journey before the Tyler thing.

• 20:59Speaker 02

  I have no idea.

• 21:00Bunnie XO?

  So you guys went, okay, because I remember we sent you guys a contract.

• 21:04Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 21:04Bunnie XO?

  And then that's, and this is, this is, nobody knows this.

• 21:08Speaker 02

  That was in January.

• 21:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, the nobody knows this. So I sent the girls over a contract and Kristen actually took that contract and took it over to somebody's house and had it all circled and like made, pretty much was making fun of it, which is why I got upset with Kristen because I was like, or like, but then I had to remember that I'm dealing with somebody who's way younger than me and this is her first time, you know, ever doing any sort of deals and stuff like that. Um, and that's where my, my, um, what else happened? Something else happened.

• 21:40Speaker 02

  And Jay.

• 21:41Speaker 03

  Called a few people.

• 21:42Speaker 02

  MJ.

• 21:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, well, oh, and MJ, I don't know what happened.

• 21:45Speaker 02

  She said she told MJ or something.

• 21:47Speaker 03

  Yeah, she was like calling people and telling them about the contract.

• 21:50Bunnie XO?

  It wasn't just MJ though.

• 21:51Speaker 02

  Cause I didn't do that, cause I didn't want disrespect.

• 21:54Bunnie XO?

  It wasn't just MJ, it's somebody in you guys' circle and I'm not gonna give her up. Because I just would never do that to her. She's always been sweet to me, but um, she came with receipts and sent me like screenshots and like, it was like, and I just couldn't, to hear Kristen talk that way and be so fucking disrespectful. Well, I was just like, you little bitch.

• 22:11Speaker 02

  She won't say shit to your face.

• 22:13Bunnie XO?

  Right, which is fine, and I don't, and now I did not have a problem with Kristen, like, we're fine, but in that moment, I was like, I'm offering you.

• 22:20Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 22:20Bunnie XO?

  Something that's gonna really help you guys out and like not try to fuck you guys. And then that's, you know, whatever. So you guys ended up signing something with somebody else.

• 22:30Speaker 02

  Uh-uh.

• 22:31Bunnie XO?

  No, you guys didn't.

• 22:32Speaker 02

  I did mine, I did, I started it all.

• 22:34Bunnie XO?

  You what?

• 22:35Speaker 02

  I started it all. Oh, you're talking about the reality show?

• 22:37Bunnie XO?

  The reality show.

• 22:38Speaker 02

  So that was Tyler's parents, like, met somebody and they.

• 22:42Bunnie XO?

  Cause I remember you guys were making videos in some lawyer's office and I was like, this guy looks like a fucking car salesman.

• 22:48Speaker 02

  They reached out to us and they're like, hey, you guys moved to Alabama for two weeks, like, filmed some, some shit, bro. They had cameras on us the whole time, like, in our cars, they had the GoPros, they had everything, like, it was like real deal.

• 23:00Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 23:04Speaker 02

  And then, like, we would do like the TV, like the TV show shit where you sit down and do like confessions and all that stuff, like, we did that shit for two weeks straight, and I performed and did all this shit, and then it's nowhere to be found. But they're, they're still like texting us in group chats saying like, it's coming, the sizzle reel's coming, it's been two years, bro. A bitch has got pregnant and had a baby by the time that this thing hasn't even edited yet.

• 23:27Bunnie XO?

  And you guys have like no rights? Has anybody looked over the contracts?

• 23:31Speaker 02

  Three percent each of us.

• 23:34Bunnie XO?

  You guys.

• 23:35Speaker 02

  Yeah, and it was gonna be like.

• 23:36Bunnie XO?

  Mimi's over there dying laughing. You guys should have came with us.

• 23:40Speaker 02

  The experience, cause I don't need money, but like, it's just. I wanted to be, I always liked to act or

• 23:47Bunnie XO?

  Demand what you're worth, though, and that's what I've always tried to instill in you girls. Like, don't, if somebody comes to you and offers you 3% of your brand, are you fucking kidding me?

• 23:57Speaker 02

  Now, looking back, I'm like, yeah, cuz Taylor was, Taylor Holder was arguing with the guy for a while because he's like, I'm not gonna be in it. I wanna be in this because my friends want me here. But he's like, I'm not signing this shit for this man. Like, he was pissed. Cuz he's done a show before.

• 24:14Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 24:14Speaker 02

  So he's like, this is bullshit. So then now, all of a sudden, it's just gone. There's 12 days of footage. I'm talking like, sleeping. Like, me and Tyler were sneaking around that whole week. Nobody knew that we were together. And I wish we had that footage cuz it's like, basically like, us like, falling in love and everybody finding out. And it's just not, it's just non-existent.

• 24:34Bunnie XO?

  Can you hire a lawyer to get that footage?

• 24:36Speaker 02

  We probably could, yeah.

• 24:37Bunnie XO?

  I don't know why you guys wouldn't. Hire a lawyer to get that footage and look over the contract that you guys signed.

• 24:42Speaker 02

  I'm gonna tell, I'm gonna tell Tyler. Cuz his mom was the one that like, had everything arranged, basically.

• 24:47Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 24:47Speaker 02

  And then all of a sudden, now it's just missing.

• 24:48Bunnie XO?

  Not shitting on Tyler's mom, but that was a fucking, just a weird situation. Like, they had you guys doing all sorts of like, social media for it. Like, it was crazy.

• 24:58Speaker 02

  And then all of a sudden, it's gone. And they wouldn't let us post like, some of the stuff that we were doing. Like, we went and like, skeet shot, like, and did like, the duck hunting stuff, and we did water balloon fights. We did sumo wrestling. Like, it was so much fun. And it's missing. So it's like, it sucks cuz I don't wanna watch it.

• 25:15Bunnie XO?

  I do know TV takes a long fucking time, though. So if they really are-

• 25:19Speaker 02

  But we didn't have a sizzle reel. Like, there was nothing even like, presented just at all.

• 25:23Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah, that's insane. I would definitely get a lawyer involved and try to find out what's going on because that's just-

• 25:30Speaker 02

  Cuz we could use it, we could take it and give it to somebody else, and they could edit it and post it.

• 25:34Bunnie XO?

  Absolutely. That, or you guys could fucking do it yourselves and put it out on fucking YouTube.

• 25:38Speaker 02

  Seriously, at this point, I would've had to edit it 15 times.

• 25:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, literally. Yeah, I would definitely try to get that footage and see if you guys can get it. But you guys always have, you always have to sign one bad deal to appreciate the next.

• 25:48Speaker 02

  And it sucks because it's, I'm going through like, three things right now. Cuz I'm not, I don't put up with people's shit anymore. I'm done. Like, I don't, that's why I don't like signing anything with anybody. Cuz they just have the rights to you. And like, if I change my mind, like, I don't wanna say it. I'll tell you after.

• 26:02Bunnie XO?

  Okay. So, let's talk about this relationship with Tyler. You guys start filming this reality show. You guys are falling in love behind the scenes. Did Kristen know? Like, who knew?

• 26:16Speaker 02

  To be honest, I think Krish is the only one that knew.

• 26:20Bunnie XO?

  I feel like Krish harbors tons of secrets for everybody.

• 26:23Speaker 02

  And he don't say shit.

• 26:24Bunnie XO?

  I know. He's such a little OG. He's really sweet.

• 26:27Speaker 02

  He's been through a lot. He's young, so.

• 26:30Bunnie XO?

  I hope he can find a girl that just like loves the shit out of him because he deserves it.

• 26:34Speaker 02

  Yeah, he's funny.

• 26:35Bunnie XO?

  Oh, and Kaden, where the fuck has Kaden gone?

• 26:37Speaker 02

  Fucking making music, I think.

• 26:40Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:40Speaker 02

  He calls me randomly and I'm like, you look different.

• 26:43Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, he just texted me the other night. He's like, are you at your bar? I'm like, no. I'm like, where did you? I wanted to be like, where have you been?

• 26:49Speaker 02

  Yeah, seriously. He'll call me randomly and be like, miss you. And I'm like, thanks.

• 26:52Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 26:53Speaker 02

  Miss you too. Where have you been?

• 26:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, like he doesn't even post on TikTok anymore or anything.

• 26:58Speaker 02

  But, um, no one really knew. Okay, so I had another boyfriend for like two weeks.

• 27:06Bunnie XO?

  The guy with the fish necklace?

• 27:07Speaker 02

  No, different one.

• 27:08Bunnie XO?

  Okay. She said no.

• 27:10Speaker 02

  It was Jesse, the horse rider.

• 27:11Bunnie XO?

  Okay, yeah, I remember him.

• 27:12Speaker 02

  Guy, yeah.

• 27:13Bunnie XO?

  But it was only two weeks. Why did it seem so much longer?

• 27:16Speaker 02

  She tried to ask me all three days after I met him. I was like, whoa.

• 27:21Speaker 02

  You live in fucking BFE. You gotta chill. So I was dating him at the time and I went to Gulf Coast Jam and Tyler, like Tyler's always like, he's always made comments about like my ass and like how hot I am and stuff. So it was like,

• 27:34Bunnie XO?

  Not Tyler. That's sweet little Tyler.

• 27:40Speaker 02

  He, he wanted to show me his little reality show. He was flirting with a girl on TV and I was like, oh, he's cute, whatever. Like, and then from there, I think we kind of just were hanging out. He would fly down to me and like hang out with me, but he would show me like more how much of a gentleman he was. Like he, me and him weren't even together. He drove me 10 hours to Alabama and we drive back. Like he like was just very caring. Like he cares about other people more than himself. So like I would notice that because I mean, obviously we were friends for like two years before that, but nobody knew. And.

• 28:17Speaker 02

  When we all went to this Luke Combs concert and he came, but I don't think that we talked about us being together at all. Like we didn't, we, I just didn't want to sneak it into existence yet because like I didn't even know. So I was with my other ex Tate at the Luke Combs concerts and he was all jazz.

• 28:34Bunnie XO?

  Tate's all over the fucking internet right now too.

• 28:36Speaker 02

  I know. Yeah, I saw that.

• 28:39Bunnie XO?

  He better not because I, I don't know. I like, I like his girl Lindy.

• 28:42Speaker 02

  Oh, she's hot.

• 28:43Bunnie XO?

  She's fucking gorgeous.

• 28:44Speaker 02

  She don't like me, but she, I, I love her. I still watch her stuff. She's so cute.

• 28:47Bunnie XO?

  And I think she's got a great personality.

• 28:48Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 28:49Bunnie XO?

  You know?

• 28:49Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 28:50Bunnie XO?

  Like, cause she just.

• 28:51Speaker 02

  So that night, nobody knows this, but me and Tyler made out in the pool. We didn't talk about it after.

• 28:56Bunnie XO?

  While you were there with Tate?

• 28:57Speaker 02

  After that, yeah. But me and Tate, like, we weren't like, like, we just, we, I've known him for so long. Like, we were always on and off. Like, we just kind of like would hook up and like not date and stuff.

• 29:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 29:07Speaker 02

  But that night, me and Tyler made out, but we didn't talk about it. We didn't tell anybody. We literally just didn't. And then it didn't happen again. So till the show, Rock the South, he went up to one of my, my friends and was like, tell her I like her. Just to see what she would say. That ever since then, like, we were like inseparable. And then that's when my like, so we were together for nine months, I want to say. And we were talking about like getting married. So that kind of scared me a little bit, but I also like, like the thought of like being married and like doing things together, but I'm also very, because I lost my dad, I definitely have like a wall still with anybody.

• 29:52Speaker 02

  And just like not fully giving myself to somebody and making them my partner. Like I just don't have this idea in my brain of like, they're going, like, I always have like, they're gonna leave. They're gonna leave. Like, I just immediately just always have this thought in my head, like, they're not gonna stay forever. So why am I gonna share all of this? Like even thinking about sharing a bank account with somebody, I just like, like it doesn't reach my mind. Just like, there's no way. It's not possible. So like, he was like wanting to get married. Like, we were going to, he was gonna propose to me. And it kind of scared me a little bit. So, and then mentally, like, I was going through the stuff with Kristen. There's just so many things that were like, the big new house. I had fucking 10 dogs. Like, it was just, everything was building up and I would just, I just needed to just. Like just farted a lot. Like it was just like

• 30:37Bunnie XO?

  Spazzed the fuck out.

• 30:38Speaker 02

  Yes, and then I started mentally go insane and he is young. He hasn't really been through a lot. Like I've lost, I mean, a few people in my life. People have died. I've gone through the divorces. I've gone through drugs, porn, fucking addictions. Like I've seen it all. So for me, like, things trigger me fast. So when somebody's overstimulating me so much, it starts to piss me off and I get very angry and upset and I I don't know what to do with myself. Like it makes me wanna like actually wake up and just kill somebody. Like I, it drives me insane. So I told him, I was like, you need to go home, focus on yourself. Like, I still wanna be with you, but he just didn't understand me.

• 31:17Speaker 02

  And it's hard. I don't even understand me, but I knew I needed to get help. And he wasn't helping me by not, by questioning, questioning my like mental stability. Like I was already gonna fall. I don't wanna bring you with me. So I broke up with him and I sat in the car writing a text to him because I, I tried to break up with him a week before because I was like, I don't know what to do. I either have to leave you because you don't understand me, or I have to like literally go to a hospital for you to understand how fucked up I am right now. Like you're not understanding.

• 31:49Bunnie XO?

  You're just going through a really hard time.

• 31:50Speaker 02

  I was horrible. Like I couldn't even like, I looked happy and like, that's why I'm already so confused because I just looked so happy. And I just, I cannot, I couldn't do it anymore. Like I love Tyler so much that I couldn't bring him down with me. And I sat in the car with, I actually talked to Kristen for a little bit. Kristen was like, you should probably break up with him. And I talked to you saying, said the same thing. And then.

• 32:13Bunnie XO?

  Ended up switching on you?

• 32:15Speaker 02

  Yeah, we'll talk about that too.

• 32:17Bunnie XO?

  We're gonna bleep her name because she doesn't even deserve the notoriety. I met her that one time and I did not love her energy.

• 32:24Speaker 02

  A lot of people didn't.

• 32:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 32:25Speaker 02

  But I was the only one that did. So that fucked me over too. But after that, I sat with her and I'm bawling my eyes out and I'm like, dude, I don't know what to do. Like he didn't want me to break up with him. Like he was trying to convince me not to. And I was like, I can't control myself. Like I don't know what, I'm gonna, I wake up, I was crying to him for a good month, every day because I was so mean to him. And I was like, I don't know what's going on with me. I was like, I don't know how you haven't even left me yet. Cause I'm so, I was so mean to him and I didn't know why. And so it was my anxiety. I have OCD. I have PTSD. I have everything you could name like in my brain and nothing to, no one to talk to.

• 33:04Speaker 02

  So I ended up just like, just, I went fucking, I don't even know.

• 33:11Bunnie XO?

  You're like, let me just drop this bomb right here.

• 33:14Speaker 02

  Right there. And nobody knew. Cause I just, it was just one day. I just flipped a switch and I was like, I'm done. Like I can't. And I went haywire. I went.

• 33:21Bunnie XO?

  You just reached a breaking point.

• 33:23Speaker 02

  And like, I didn't want to see him because I didn't want to hurt him. So that's what happened with the cops, the cop call, whatever.

• 33:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 33:28Speaker 02

  I told him not to show up at my house. Like I was, I was so fucked up that I could not like mentally see him. I didn't want to, I didn't want to give him back his stuff because I, I wanted to be with him. It just, I needed to get right first. So. I ended up doing that. A lot of chaos happened. Um, fuck with the police calls and, and then a lot of shit's going down with my family and.

• 33:51Bunnie XO?

  And then let's just, for the people who don't know what's going on, all of this was playing out on social media.

• 33:56Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 33:57Bunnie XO?

  So like literally every breath you took was just.

• 34:01Speaker 02

  Oh, my phone call, my police call was posted online. I was so fucked up. I literally, that, that was like, that was like when my anxiety was at its peak and I just was, I didn't know what to do. Like I physically had no other option. Cause I was so scared of everything that was going on in my brain and with, with life and I, it's everything. I don't even remember half it. I blacked out for most of the time.

• 34:25Bunnie XO?

  You probably had selective memory because it was, everything was so traumatic. I mean, I know the shit we were seeing online too. We were like, holy fuck.

• 34:33Speaker 02

  That's why nobody liked me because of how much I was acting out and I knew what I was doing.

• 34:37Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 34:37Speaker 02

  But like.

• 34:39Bunnie XO?

  No, it wasn't about you acting out. I was just, all the hate that you were getting, it was just not, that's why I think I even text you. Like, are you okay?

• 34:45Speaker 02

  And I went online and told everybody, like, I'm mentally unstable. Like, what do we not understand? Leave me alone.

• 34:51Bunnie XO?

  I think it's because people don't see you actually like slitting your wrists that they don't believe you. It's like the, the masses will just pick and pick and pick and pick until they draw blood. And then when they draw blood, it's like they attack dude. And it's, it's.

• 35:04Speaker 02

  And they don't, they don't give a shit.

• 35:05Bunnie XO?

  They really don't. And that's the one side of TikTok that like, everybody's like, so how do you feel about this band? And I'm like, I don't, I'm, I don't care. I'm indifferent either way because TikTok is such a stepping stone and it's amazing for some things, but on the other side.

• 35:18Speaker 02

  Advertising for me, that's my.

• 35:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, but on the other side, it's, I've seen it just ruin people's lives and like tear them down. And I mean, those shit that you and Kristen and fucking Tyler and all of them go through, like in that circle is crazy.

• 35:35Speaker 02

  The craziest part is like, aside from us being online, there's so many people that I know in real life that do the same shit. And they don't get hate for it because they're not online.

• 35:44Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 35:44Speaker 02

  But it's like, I see like people stealing people's baby daddies. They're not, they're not getting fucked over. Like they're not getting, who cares?

• 35:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 35:51Speaker 02

  Who gives a shit? But like, because it's online, it's just such a big deal. Like you.

• 35:55Bunnie XO?

  Well, it's because you have people that are at home that, and this isn't me being rude. It's just people that don't.

• 36:00Speaker 02

  They stay at home moms.

• 36:02Bunnie XO?

  And it's like they're living their lives vicariously through you guys, which to me, a thirty and forty year old woman, living their lives through you guys is already fucking weird to me. I would never do that. Like I'm forty five years old. I love you like a little sister and I'm proud of you for what you do, but I'm not gonna like live my life through you.

• 36:21Speaker 02

  I look at myself and I'm like, how the fuck? Like they'll literally take like my, like screenshots, like my Snapchat and like zoom in and be like, she's wearing those kind of nails on that day. That means that they fucked. Like it's just.

• 36:30Bunnie XO?

  That's how I know about the fish necklace thing. I saw like a video popped up and they're like, he has the same fish necklace on as her. And I'm like, are you kidding me? There's so many times I want to just talk shit on these T pages and be like, are you guys fucking okay?

• 36:44Speaker 02

  No.

• 36:44Bunnie XO?

  Who needs a hug? I'm handing them out, you know, but you just can't because then you feed their fuel and.

• 36:49Speaker 02

  And it's funny because what actually really gets me really is the T pages that have mental.

• 36:59Speaker 02

  Like they're going through mental shit by posting my life. Like you're going through shit because you're getting hate for posting what the fuck I'm doing.

• 37:09Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 37:10Speaker 02

  That's weird. Like, imagine how I feel.

• 37:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 37:13Speaker 02

  This is, you're posting what I'm doing? Imagine how I feel.

• 37:17Bunnie XO?

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• 39:29Speaker 02

  I get the double the hate, but thank you for posting, man. Gives me clout, but like.

• 39:36Bunnie XO?

  It's hurtful all around. So, so let's go back to this. Uh, you made the phone call to the cops when Tyler showed up at your house and you asked him not to. When you were in the house, your ex was in there with you?

• 39:47Speaker 02

  Hmm.

• 39:47Bunnie XO?

  Okay, why was he in there with you, Whitney?

• 39:49Speaker 02

  Okay.

• 39:52Speaker 02

  So, 4th of July, we go to the bar, okay? He shows up. He's there hanging out with his friends.

• 39:58Bunnie XO?

  Which by the way, he is not hot.

• 39:59Speaker 02

  No, he's, no.

• 40:00Bunnie XO?

  Okay, I'm like, you are way too beautiful for that dude.

• 40:03Speaker 02

  He put me through a lot of shit too. I think it was more like an out to make it feel like, like a validation type of thing. Cause I knew he was gonna come back to me like anytime I wanted. And I don't know why I hurt Tyler like that, that was just dumb.

• 40:16Bunnie XO?

  But you were having what sounds like, kind of like a nervous breakdown.

• 40:20Speaker 02

  Oh, it was terrible.

• 40:20Bunnie XO?

  You just lost your best friend.

• 40:22Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 40:22Bunnie XO?

  You are dealing with a fucking heavy lawsuit, which is scary.

• 40:26Speaker 02

  Everything was just like not working.

• 40:28Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 40:30Speaker 02

  And then it got worse from there, so um.

• 40:33Bunnie XO?

  She's like, that's not it.

• 40:34Speaker 02

  No, here's like, here, God.

• 40:36Bunnie XO?

  Wait, we're figuring out why, I don't wanna say his name, but Fish Boy. Why Fish Boy was in the house.

• 40:41Speaker 02

  So, that day from the bar, we leave, okay? Let me just, I'm not gonna point fingers, but there was somebody that basically invited him to the house. Did I say no? No, cause I don't care, I'm single now, like what the fuck, I don't care. And I wanted like validation, I think, whatever. We ended up.

• 40:58Bunnie XO?

  An ego stroke.

• 40:59Speaker 02

  There was four of us that went back to the house and then, um, that was just the first day. And like, it's, for me, I like to have like a backup plan. Like, so whenever like something goes wrong, I always have like a backup plan. And he was like, my backup plan, cause I was just like, I don't know, dumb.

• 41:20Bunnie XO?

  I talk about that in my book, I used to triangulate men all the time.

• 41:24Speaker 02

  And just keep them around, like it just was like a, like a, come on.

• 41:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 41:28Speaker 02

  So.

• 41:33Bunnie XO?

  Here boy, here boy.

• 41:34Speaker 02

  Yep, and uh, he was there and

• 41:40Speaker 02

  two days later, we go on the boat. The only other person that has driven my boat, I bought this boat, okay, this is my boat, but I don't drive it. I have other men drive it for me. So because I didn't have a boyfriend at the time, I called my ex because I knew he could drive a boat. He drives a boat. We go out during the day, whatever.

• 42:02Bunnie XO?

  Was it just you two?

• 42:03Speaker 02

  No, it was like a huge group of us.

• 42:05Bunnie XO?

  Were you guys hooking up at all?

• 42:07Speaker 02

  No. No.

• 42:13Bunnie XO?

  There's cameras on you, Whitney.

• 42:15Speaker 02

  Yeah, I think everybody knows by now, yeah. Um, it was just once, it was just once, it was like a recollection type of thing. Had to like

• 42:23Bunnie XO?

  Selective memory kicking in.

• 42:24Speaker 02

  Remember it. And then I remember why I broke up with him too.

• 42:29Bunnie XO?

  Oh no.

• 42:31Speaker 02

  Yeah, the third day after the boat, I was like, I need someone to clean the boat the fuck, I'm not gonna go home and clean the boat myself. So he comes back, cleans the boat. Tyler's texting me throughout that day that morning. He flew all the way down from Alabama to, to get his stuff, okay, then he had like a passport and maybe like a bunch of clothes. And he wanted this damn dog crate that he gave to me, I was like, fuck it. I said, do not show up to my house, I will call the cops on you. Like, I don't care, like, it was just like, it was a boundary thing, I think, because I knew he was trying to overstep my boundary and for me, I get anxiety when people don't respect me.

• 43:05Bunnie XO?

  I understand that.

• 43:06Speaker 02

  So he was like, I'm showing up to your fucking house, blah blah, I'm like, no, the fuck? So he pulls up. I knew he was coming, so I think I had kept my ex there just in case anything happened. Did I want Tyler to know that he was in there? No, but I knew he, either way, he was gonna find out, I mean, what am I gonna lose? I already broke up with him, so it was like, I had nothing to lose at that point.

• 43:30Speaker 02

  The only reason that he knew that he was in there was because my ex walks in the fucking garage just playing with the dogs and there's no, there's a full window, just open. And he's, I guess Tyler was just looking in there. I was like, dude, fucking moron. So then, um, the cops came, whatever, they tried to, like, they were asking me if I wanted to, like, press charges on like, uh, like the trespassing or whatever. And I was like, no, because I know he's gonna come back. Like, I know I'm gonna be with him again. I just was going through shit. So, um, yeah, he was in the house. I called, I ended up calling because I was like freaking out. Because I, I, bro, at this point Tyler was like on edge too. See, he's like that too. He gets a little...

• 44:14Speaker 02

  So, he's on edge. He, he brings him and Taylor over. I thought that someone was gonna fight somebody because he sat outside my house for like two and a half hours. I was like, what are you looking for?

• 44:23Bunnie XO?

  We love Taylor, by the way. Shout out Taylor.

• 44:25Speaker 02

  Yeah, we love Taylor. We, we, I thought he was gonna leave when I gave him the passport. No, he didn't leave. He just sat outside, so... I think he was gonna stay. He was probably gonna sleep outside.

• 44:37Bunnie XO?

  You were gonna, you were breaking his heart.

• 44:39Speaker 02

  I know, I did.

• 44:40Bunnie XO?

  And he loves you.

• 44:41Speaker 02

  I apologized, I think, more, more times than I, than I...

• 44:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 44:47Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 44:48Bunnie XO?

  So, you guys go through this big debacle with the police call, the breakup, and then Tyler kinda starts living his best life online. And like, I don't know...

• 44:58Speaker 02

  He was still on my phone the whole time.

• 45:00Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 45:00Speaker 02

  He was still like texting me. We did try to, I tried to get back with him after, like, my meds start kicking in. So this is like...

• 45:10Bunnie XO?

  Love that.

• 45:11Speaker 02

  August.

• 45:11Bunnie XO?

  I love that for you.

• 45:12Speaker 02

  I'm like, fuck. I'm like, I need him back. So like, eh, like mid-August, I had a show. Um, he was supposed to show up.

• 45:19Bunnie XO?

  You guys have been broken up for how long? How long's mid-August?

• 45:22Speaker 02

  Two months.

• 45:22Bunnie XO?

  Two months, okay. So yeah, he had already been having his little...

• 45:25Speaker 02

  He was telling me he wanted to get back with me, whatever. Like, I went and saw him.

• 45:29Bunnie XO?

  Is he in Montana, boy now? Because why is he hanging out with them all the time?

• 45:31Speaker 02

  I think Jade is there.

• 45:35Speaker 02

  They're all like, they're wilding out. I mean, shit, let me tell you, they're having their fun.

• 45:41Bunnie XO?

  Good. They deserve to, as they should, as they should.

• 45:44Speaker 02

  I mean, you're in Montana. What the fuck else you gonna do?

• 45:46Bunnie XO?

  Is Jaden in Montana too?

• 45:47Speaker 02

  No.

• 45:48Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay.

• 45:49Speaker 02

  I think he just likes.

• 45:49Bunnie XO?

  Jaden just likes to.

• 45:50Speaker 02

  Name.

• 45:51Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 45:51Speaker 02

  He likes that they're all attractive.

• 45:53Bunnie XO?

  He likes to make a guest appearance.

• 45:54Speaker 02

  Yeah, he's like, he knows that they're all attractive. They can get whoever they want. Um, so mid, okay, so like mid-August, we're, he's supposed to come to my show. He ends up going to Vegas and lies to me and doesn't tell me. He ends up getting with somebody, calls me, and that's the first time I, he knew about my ex, so I was like, okay, he gets all past.

• 46:15Bunnie XO?

  So this whole time you weren't hooking up with anybody else?

• 46:18Speaker 02

  Mm-mm.

• 46:18Bunnie XO?

  You, so that last time?

• 46:20Speaker 02

  That one time, I was like, I'm never doing that again. Never did that again, because my ex went online and was like, yeah, I fucked her, but I was like, okay, you're disgusting.

• 46:27Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 46:28Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 46:28Bunnie XO?

  Don't you hate dudes like that?

• 46:29Speaker 02

  Yeah, I like you. You're literally a drunk. Like, stop.

• 46:33Bunnie XO?

  But I mean, any dude to be like, hey, I fucked this girl and go online and say that, like, that's so gross.

• 46:38Speaker 02

  Yeah, I'm like, mm. So, that's the, that's the first time I ever heard of him getting with somebody. And I was like, fuck.

• 46:45Bunnie XO?

  It hurt?

• 46:46Speaker 02

  Yeah. I cried for like a week. And I was like, okay, well, I can't really be upset because.

• 46:49Bunnie XO?

  How did you find out? Because he didn't?

• 46:51Speaker 02

  He called me and told me.

• 46:52Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay. So he was ready. He was like, hey bitch, here's a heart.

• 46:55Speaker 02

  He's like, hey bitch, yeah.

• 46:58Speaker 02

  Instead of coming to your show, I actually fucked somebody. So, thank you.

• 47:01Bunnie XO?

  Oh, he fucked her?

• 47:02Speaker 02

  Yeah, I was like, wow, I get.

• 47:04Bunnie XO?

  Who was it?

• 47:05Speaker 02

  No idea. He said he didn't know who it is.

• 47:07Bunnie XO?

  Good for Tyler.

• 47:08Speaker 02

  I was like, period. I was like, was it good?

• 47:10Bunnie XO?

  Good for Tyler. He got his little heart broke and was like, you know what? I'm gonna go find out that.

• 47:15Speaker 02

  He got me back.

• 47:16Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 47:16Speaker 02

  So then after that, um, some shit went down with him and Kristen with the whole, like, um, he.

• 47:24Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, because he was hanging, because didn't Romeo somehow get in the mix too? Like, where did he fucking come from? And then like Tyler and Romeo were there at the same time? I don't remember. Everything kind of like.

• 47:34Speaker 02

  Pissed me off. Everything he was doing was just trying to piss me off. And I was like, dude, you're doing a great job.

• 47:38Bunnie XO?

  But him, are him and Jacob friends?

• 47:41Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 47:41Bunnie XO?

  Tyler and Jacob? And are him and Kristen friends?

• 47:44Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 47:44Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 47:46Speaker 02

  Um, so I guess Tyler, I'm guessing, didn't tell them, he'd never really told anybody like that he was still talking to me, because he, he's really.

• 47:57Speaker 02

  He likes his image and that's fine. I, I, he's young and like he, he cares what people say about him. He does. Especially his parents and especially his friends and like even when we were together, his friends always had something to say about me and blah, blah, blah, which they still do. Like last night we had to have a talk with Jayden because he was like, I don't care if you guys are together, but just work it out. But, which I understand.

• 48:23Bunnie XO?

  Well, they, they're probably looking out for their friend.

• 48:25Speaker 02

  Oh, for sure. Yeah, no, I respect that, but don't be, don't be a dick. Like, you know, like if he wants to be with me, he's gonna be with me. Don't be a fucking asshole. You don't need to shoot him like shit. Like, he's gonna make himself happy whether he's with me or not.

• 48:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, obviously he's tried to move on. You guys are both trying to move on and you keep coming back to each other.

• 48:40Speaker 02

  So. The situation that I was, I blocked Tyler, I was like, I am fucking done, was when he went to Kristen and told her that I was begging him to talk. Begging him to talk to me or else I was going to kill myself. And she went online and said that. And I, I was, that was when I was like going through so much shit and she sat there. Knowing. How much I was going through and I sat there and did the same thing with her. At the beginning of when we were friends, I was so distraught. I was like, bro, this bitch did not just fucking go online and say that. Disgusting mental health, that my mental health's fake and all this bullshit. I was like, whatever.

• 49:24Speaker 02

  And then she also said I was pregnant or something about. Me saying I'm pregnant to keep him around when.

• 49:33Speaker 02

  Come on. You know, he's still talking to me every fucking day. Like, let's not, let's not be surprised. Like, but I was just so upset about, like, one, I.

• 49:40Bunnie XO?

  Was there a pregnancy?

• 49:42Speaker 02

  No, I thought, but I took a test. I never said I was pregnant. I literally just said, hey, like my boobs are, I'm gonna take a test. And then somehow fucking goes around everywhere. But I asked, and she was living with me and she gave me a pregnancy test and it was negative. And I sent it to him and I was like, hey, like. That, I don't know if like, it's just early to say or something, but like, I'm just letting you know, like I haven't had my period, whatever. So I sent it to him. And he was fine. Like, he didn't like make a huge deal about it. And then like, two weeks later, I was like, hey, I'm still feeling the same way. Um, I think my birth control was just messed up or whatever, but.

• 50:15Speaker 02

  When we had hooked up, when we weren't together, that was when I was kinda scared a little bit, so. But that's, I guess he just used that against me and was like, you know, she's fucking only talking to me because she thinks she's pregnant. Like, that shit's not funny. I, like, to me, I don't like that. Cause I don't want people to know that. And if I was, you just fucking outed me. Thank you.

• 50:33Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 50:33Speaker 02

  Weird. I would never do that to you. I would never, ever say any of that stuff online, ever. But, that all went down. I blocked him. I was like, fuck you. I tried to move on.

• 50:45Speaker 02

  Um, I, me and my manager were hanging out like extra. Like, we were, we were like, I was single, I was vulnerable, I didn't really care. So me and him were like, hanging out, whatever. Um, I go to Georgia, which is like, when me and Tyler, we loved Georgia, going to Georgia together. He had his own ATV there. Like, my stepdad and my mom love him so much. Like, he, like, they want me to marry him. We go there and he calls me randomly. He was talking to somebody else. Um, he calls me, he goes, I can't be, I, I don't wanna be with anybody else. Like, I can't. I tried to talk to other people, like, he was talking to another girl on TikTok and he was like, I can't stop thinking about you, whatever.

• 51:26Speaker 02

  But I'm like, I'm with my manager at, in Georgia. So I'm like, fuck. So I'm like,

• 51:31Bunnie XO?

  Were you, were you hooking up with the manager?

• 51:33Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 51:33Bunnie XO?

  Cause the manager's cute.

• 51:35Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 51:35Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 51:35Speaker 02

  Um, I, it wasn't even my manager, I never signed anything with him. I just, he just helped me manage my life, basically. And like, he booked me shows, but like, I don't, I don't care to hide it anymore. I'm not gonna, like, sit here and like, lie. Like, I don't, yeah. So, um,

• 51:51Bunnie XO?

  Go off?

• 51:51Speaker 02

  But me and Tyler like weren't together, but he was like, still calling me and stuff. And I did still see him, but like, I didn't, I wasn't gonna end up with my manager. Like, I wasn't, like, he's, no. So, um, yeah, ever since then, like, we've been on and off, whatever, and I told him about the manager and he was really upset, which is understandable, whatever, cause I did lie to him. But I just didn't want him to do what he did. And he went online with it and I just, I didn't want that to happen.

• 52:16Bunnie XO?

  You didn't trust him.

• 52:16Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 52:17Bunnie XO?

  You guys are gonna have to rebuild each other's trust again. This is gonna take a really long time for both of you.

• 52:22Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 52:23Bunnie XO?

  You guys did a lot of damage, you know, so it's.

• 52:26Speaker 02

  I hate that. I hate it because, but the thing is, if I didn't do that, I wouldn't be stronger. I wouldn't step back and know, like, this is what you don't do in a relationship. And this is the mental health that you did go through. I want to make sure I am mentally stable to be with somebody like you. I've never been with anybody like that, where they're actually like not toxic and they want to love me and they want to give everything to me. And I'm still like, duh, like, so it's just hard because I'm so toxic my whole life. Everything that I've done and seen has been toxic. So it's like Tyler steps in my life and it's just perfect. Like, it's just like, he's just doesn't argue. He doesn't want to argue with me, wants to take care of me.

• 53:09Speaker 02

  So it was like really hard to see it.

• 53:12Bunnie XO?

  To let him love you.

• 53:13Speaker 02

  And now the meds kind of like straighten me out a little bit where I'm like nicer. I still get overstimulated a little bit, but, but now we're hanging out and.

• 53:23Bunnie XO?

  Are you guys fully back together?

• 53:26Speaker 02

  No, not yet.

• 53:27Bunnie XO?

  What's keeping you guys from being fully back together? Cause I feel like you guys are together all the fucking time.

• 53:33Speaker 02

  I think we are. We just, we haven't like, he, I, I don't know. I think he's, he's testing the waters a little bit.

• 53:42Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 53:42Speaker 02

  But.

• 53:43Bunnie XO?

  How long has it been that you guys have been hooking back up again?

• 53:47Speaker 02

  Hmm.

• 53:52Speaker 02

  I don't even know. What's today?

• 53:54Bunnie XO?

  The 18th, right? 19th?

• 53:58Speaker 02

  Oh, let me just, okay, I'm gonna tell you this because I don't give a fuck. Fuck, my manager had a fucking girlfriend the whole time.

• 54:05Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 54:06Speaker 02

  Yeah. So the fuck, the motherfucker, we go to Turks. He takes me to Turks with his fucking family. And I'm like, he like, he's like trying to date me. He's like, you can't talk to Tyler, like blah, blah, blah. I'm still talking to Tyler on here.

• 54:23Speaker 02

  I told Tyler I wanted to be just friends. He knew I was with the manager. Like Tyler knew, he just didn't, he like stood off, like he didn't say anything, whatever. He just let me be me. I go to fucking out of the country with this kid. He had a girlfriend at his house, watching his dogs, cleaning his house, and I had no idea.

• 54:42Bunnie XO?

  Did she know about you?

• 54:43Speaker 02

  She knew about me and he just told her that we were just working together. I said, the fuck? You, you take your client to Turks with your family?

• 54:51Bunnie XO?

  Without?

• 54:52Speaker 02

  And stay in the same bed. Come on.

• 54:55Bunnie XO?

  Oh my gosh.

• 54:55Speaker 02

  So this girl's like delusional and she's like posting me and like,

• 55:04Speaker 02

  we get there. A week, a day before he goes, I don't know if you should go. And I'm like, what the fuck? I was like, I'm having my, I'm, I'm ready. I'm ready to walk to beach. Like, I don't care. I'm ready to get drunk. Like, no. So, he's being weird. He's like, I don't have anybody else to watch the dogs, so I need to have my ex watch the dogs. And I was like, okay. It's actually his ex.

• 55:27Speaker 02

  She had like a pregnancy scare, apparently, whatever with that. And they were still talking. I don't know. I didn't really get the whole spiel.

• 55:37Speaker 02

  We get on the plane. She fucking posts. While we're flying, Christmas with the dogs.

• 55:48Speaker 02

  Why was she at your house on Christmas? That's weird. Well, I'm just gonna, like, that's where he goes, I don't know. Maybe she just stopped by to drop the toys off for them. Okay. Well, I was like, okay. We get there.

• 56:06Speaker 02

  He, this is like two, three days in. Like, we had already hooked up, like, whatever. Three days in, this is texts. I text the girl, because she's posting about me and shit. Like, she's like posting like the, with the dogs and all this stuff. And I'm like, okay, are you with me?

• 56:21Bunnie XO?

  What's she saying about you, though?

• 56:22Speaker 02

  She would say.

• 56:27Speaker 02

  Basically calling me a homewrecker.

• 56:29Bunnie XO?

  Oh, okay.

• 56:30Speaker 02

  Basically, and I had no idea, so you.

• 56:32Bunnie XO?

  I'm so confused though, because if he told her that he was going with a client, how are you a homewrecker?

• 56:39Speaker 02

  I don't know. Oh, I think I posted before. I think I posted in the morning, something like, like, just using a sound and she thought it was about her, I think. So she posted something towards me and goes, she made a comment and it was like, "We are

• 56:55Speaker 02

  together and her, his whole family knows it." And he's like kissing me in front of his parents. So I was like, okay.

• 57:02Bunnie XO?

  Those are the worst, those are the worst families.

• 57:05Speaker 02

  Like they just don't care.

• 57:06Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, the dude, the dude cheats.

• 57:08Speaker 02

  Your son is, literally has two girlfriends right now. What are you doing?

• 57:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that's terrible.

• 57:12Speaker 02

  So, we're at lunch, like, we're chilling, like, I, I make smart remarks, but he, he's such a gaslighter, he would just like, lie, like, lie, lie, lie, lie, lie. And this motherfucker has passwords to all my shit, login to all my shit, booking me shows.

• 57:27Bunnie XO?

  Wendy, why do you trust people so much?

• 57:28Speaker 02

  I don't know.

• 57:29Bunnie XO?

  Stop fucking doing that, man.

• 57:31Speaker 02

  I know.

• 57:32Bunnie XO?

  You have built a brand for yourself and you just hand it over to people. You're like, here's the keys.

• 57:36Speaker 02

  Pisses me off, because that is nice.

• 57:37Bunnie XO?

  Just drive off with my shit.

• 57:38Speaker 02

  Be successful, make money like me. So he, I text the girl and I said, "Hey, I don't know if you guys are together, whatever's going on, I have no idea what's going on, but if you guys are together, he's cheating on you. That's all I'm gonna say." She texts me a screenshot. He texted her that morning and said, "Post on your TikTok to beef with her. Get famous. Get, get clout." And he said, "Fuck her. Talk about me."

• 58:08Speaker 02

  Are you kidding me?

• 58:09Bunnie XO?

  Geez.

• 58:10Speaker 02

  He goes, "Use her for clout, beef with her so you can get famous and make fucking money."

• 58:14Bunnie XO?

  Where did you meet this person?

• 58:18Speaker 02

  He messaged me on Instagram and said, "Wendy!"

• 58:22Bunnie XO?

  Whitney.

• 58:24Speaker 02

  He said, I want to book you shows. So he booked me shows and then I started hanging out with him. I was like shit, I'm bored.

• 58:29Bunnie XO?

  I mean, he was attractive.

• 58:30Speaker 02

  Yeah, he's cute.

• 58:31Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 58:31Speaker 02

  But like.

• 58:32Bunnie XO?

  Whitney.

• 58:33Speaker 02

  You're not cute enough for you doing all that type of shit.

• 58:35Bunnie XO?

  You gotta stop, babe. You gotta really like, if you want to build something, you can't just have people DMing you and then handing over your shit to them like. I hope you're learning lessons.

• 58:45Speaker 02

  So the whole point of the story was that happened. I said, fuck you. I'm never talking to you again. Do not text me again. I called Tyler and I'm bawling my eyes out. He knows. He was not, he knows. He goes, I'm so sorry. Like you want me to help you book a flight. Like I'll help you do whatever. And that's what I knew. I'm like, this motherfucker loves me. Like, what am I doing? I'm living with another guy and he's still talking to me. He loves me. So a week goes by. I think I flew to Bama first.

• 59:12Speaker 02

  I, I think I did first or he came to me. No, I don't know. My, my mind's gone. But yeah. And that's how, and he forgave me after all that.

• 59:23Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 59:24Speaker 02

  Which is fucking crazy because I could never, but he's, he loves me and.

• 59:30Bunnie XO?

  I think you guys love each other.

• 59:31Speaker 02

  His family's getting a little

• 59:35Speaker 02

  better with me and I just, it sucks because I basically made myself look fucking stupid because of how I felt without just being honest about it and like could have just not.

• 59:51Bunnie XO?

  I feel like everybody deserves a chance and you had your crash out. Now you're not allowed to have another one. You gotta just stay, communicate. If you feel like you're going towards that feeling again, just be like, hey man, I'm starting to feel like I did before.

• 1:00:06Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:00:06Bunnie XO?

  And we need to figure out something together because now you guys are in a relationship. Figure this shit out as a couple instead of you feeling like you have to fight your battles all alone by yourself. Do it with him. That's what a life partner is all about.

• 1:00:19Speaker 02

  And sometimes I don't understand that. Like it's just because I know people leave and people abandon, but he's like so not like that. I don't know why.

• 1:00:26Bunnie XO?

  He's got good parents. It seems like.

• 1:00:28Speaker 02

  It's still in my head. I'm like.

• 1:00:31Speaker 02

  Like he even told me before, like when we first almost broke up, he was like, I just, I don't feel like your partner. I feel like your roommate. Cause I would just, he was just there and like his stuff was in another room. Like it wasn't his room or his house. It was like, I made him feel like a guest. You know what I'm saying?

• 1:00:48Bunnie XO?

  You're self sabotaging because you're so afraid to get hurt that you're ending, you're hurting people before they can hurt you.

• 1:00:54Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:00:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you gotta stop doing that.

• 1:00:57Speaker 02

  You gotta let love in, Whit Whit, okay?

• 1:01:01Bunnie XO?

  Just let Tyler love you. You deserve to be loved, you know?

• 1:01:04Speaker 02

  I love him. He's my best friend.

• 1:01:06Bunnie XO?

  I saw you whenever you weren't with him and I, you know.

• 1:01:09Speaker 02

  I was a crash out.

• 1:01:10Bunnie XO?

  Two different people, you know, like you were just kind of like not yourself.

• 1:01:15Speaker 02

  Yeah. I just like that he protects me too. Like just everything with everything. He wants to, he wants to take everything that I have and make it his.

• 1:01:23Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 1:01:25Speaker 02

  Like even my fucking dogs. Who the fuck has 15 dogs?

• 1:01:28Bunnie XO?

  Who the fuck has 15 dogs?

• 1:01:30Speaker 02

  I'm one up every time because I know when I get home, I'm gonna get another one.

• 1:01:33Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 1:01:34Speaker 02

  I'm kidding.

• 1:01:35Bunnie XO?

  Why?

• 1:01:35Speaker 02

  I'm kidding.

• 1:01:36Bunnie XO?

  Okay, can we talk about this? What is going on with the 15 dogs?

• 1:01:39Speaker 02

  I love them. I've always grown up not being able to have dogs. I don't know what it is, but I have like addiction. It's just like, I see how much of a good life I can give them and I wanna give it to all of them.

• 1:01:52Bunnie XO?

  Okay, so I get that, but don't you think you should have like a little like doggy sanctuary and not in a house? None of them jump in that pool like in.

• 1:02:03Speaker 02

  Oh, they do. I have an assistant now. She's like my full time like roommate assistant. So she takes care of them every day, but.

• 1:02:10Bunnie XO?

  God, you couldn't pay me enough to take care of 15 dogs. That's a herd.

• 1:02:15Speaker 02

  Loves them.

• 1:02:15Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 1:02:16Speaker 02

  But they're easy. They're, they're easy.

• 1:02:21Speaker 02

  If I had three, but I don't know, I just.

• 1:02:26Bunnie XO?

  You, what does that, what does that show my strange addiction?

• 1:02:29Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:02:29Bunnie XO?

  That's what you should go on for the dogs.

• 1:02:30Speaker 02

  I would have a hundred.

• 1:02:32Bunnie XO?

  Are you gonna be like that with kids too? Just start popping kids out left and right?

• 1:02:36Speaker 02

  Maybe if they turn out looking like me, I will. They're gonna be so cute.

• 1:02:40Bunnie XO?

  If you and Tyler have babies together, they're gonna be beautiful babies.

• 1:02:42Speaker 02

  They're gonna be short, but they're gonna be cute.

• 1:02:43Bunnie XO?

  Oh, we stand a short king. I always forget Tyler's kinda short.

• 1:02:48Speaker 02

  I think he's like, I actually like.

• 1:02:51Bunnie XO?

  You're tiny.

• 1:02:51Speaker 02

  Yeah, I'm small, so.

• 1:02:52Bunnie XO?

  That's why when I see people online like say stuff about your weight, I'm like, are they out of their minds?

• 1:02:57Speaker 02

  Then they see me in, that is the number one comment I get in person. You are so small.

• 1:03:03Bunnie XO?

  You're so tiny.

• 1:03:05Speaker 02

  I'm like, you could ask my weight and you can look up my weight and height. I'm pretty sure it says five six.

• 1:03:10Bunnie XO?

  You're not five six.

• 1:03:11Speaker 02

  I'm five, I'm five one.

• 1:03:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I'm like, there's no way you're five six.

• 1:03:15Speaker 02

  And they're like, you're like two hundred pounds. I'm like, bro, chill out. Who cares? Even if I was, fuck you.

• 1:03:20Bunnie XO?

  Normally when people are five one, they don't have a fucking shitter on that critter like you do. So I think that's where.

• 1:03:24Speaker 02

  Thanks mom.

• 1:03:26Bunnie XO?

  I think that's where, I think that's where people are, you know, get misconstrued, but anytime I see them trying to like shame you on your weight, I'm like, do they know how tiny this girl is? Like she is tiny, tiny.

• 1:03:35Speaker 02

  Yeah, they're always like, you're so small. Every single, every single person, you're either, you're so much hotter in person, or you're really small.

• 1:03:45Bunnie XO?

  I actually, I don't get you're so much hotter. Oh, I don't, I get you're prettier in person, or yeah.

• 1:03:49Speaker 03

  You're even prettier in person.

• 1:03:51Bunnie XO?

  And I, I don't know how to take that.

• 1:03:53Speaker 02

  You're pretty in person. Fuck you.

• 1:03:55Bunnie XO?

  I don't know how to take that though. I'm like, thanks.

• 1:03:57Speaker 02

  I know, I'm like, am I ugly online?

• 1:03:59Bunnie XO?

  Do I look road hard and put away online? Like what the fuck is happening? Like I don't get it.

• 1:04:02Speaker 02

  And you're tall too. How tall are you?

• 1:04:04Bunnie XO?

  I'm, I'm about five, six, five, seven.

• 1:04:06Speaker 02

  Okay, you're not that tall. I thought you were taller.

• 1:04:07Bunnie XO?

  Well, I'm always in heels. So when I'm in heels, I'm like five, 10.

• 1:04:10Speaker 02

  You're still at us.

• 1:04:11Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, but I, today I've got the, the slides on. Um, one more thing I wanted to talk to you about, and is there anything else that we missed? In, in that whole debacle? Are you still doing OnlyFans?

• 1:04:21Speaker 02

  Mm-hmm.

• 1:04:22Bunnie XO?

  Okay.

• 1:04:22Speaker 02

  Just not as much. I, I was doing it with like an agency, but I didn't sign anything. So I cut them off because it had something to do with the other manager. So I was like, I'm not gonna.

• 1:04:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, stop fucking giving people access to your shit.

• 1:04:35Speaker 02

  I'm done.

• 1:04:36Bunnie XO?

  How's OF doing for you? I feel like OF is like so part of the past now.

• 1:04:41Speaker 02

  I just don't, it pisses me off. Is that I don't wanna do nude, but it's all over the internet anyways.

• 1:04:49Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:04:50Speaker 02

  So it just makes me, I don't show my face.

• 1:04:51Bunnie XO?

  Did you hire that company that I told you about?

• 1:04:53Speaker 02

  Yes, but that, bro, they take down so many links, but there's so many. And I, and there's nothing you can do about it. And it makes me so mad because I wanna stop it. Because I wanna be with Tyler and just be with Tyler and him not, not him.

• 1:05:06Bunnie XO?

  Well, if you stop it, the images will stop producing.

• 1:05:09Speaker 02

  They're the same old ones. They're none of the new ones because my face isn't anything.

• 1:05:13Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:05:13Speaker 02

  Other than I'm like, I don't sell tapes or anything anymore. So it's like, I cut all that, like the actual bad stuff off.

• 1:05:18Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:05:19Speaker 02

  But like.

• 1:05:20Bunnie XO?

  The best thing I ever did was give up my OF.

• 1:05:22Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:05:22Bunnie XO?

  It was the scariest thing for me because it was a huge chunk of money for me for a month. And I do miss getting dressed up in lingerie and doing lingerie shoots.

• 1:05:29Speaker 02

  It actually turns me on.

• 1:05:31Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, well, getting dressed up and like being in front of the camera. Yeah, because it's like you fall in love with yourself.

• 1:05:36Speaker 02

  I look hot.

• 1:05:37Bunnie XO?

  And it teaches you to be like sexy and like it's an outlet. Yeah. So I totally get that. Um. It was the best thing I ever did because it opened up so many other doors for things. You don't realize how much OF hinders you until you get rid of it. And then all these opportunities start coming and they're like, well, we were just waiting for you to close your OnlyFans. And we're like, why didn't you fucking say something two years ago? You know, like, so, and what's crazy is God really blesses you when you start trying to do the right thing. And I know that sounds crazy. But I remember sitting in my backyard before I gave up my OF and I just prayed to God and I was like, Lord, if I'm making the right decision, just please show me that I'm making the right decision. And I ended up like tripling my money.

• 1:06:19Speaker 02

  I've literally been doing that. And I'm like, oh my God. Like, I'm like, I pray every night. I'm like, it's because I think I have so much to pay for. So much because I went out of my way to like get this huge house and like I make money on like Snapchat and stuff.

• 1:06:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:06:34Speaker 02

  But it's just like a thought in my head, knowing that I'm not, I'm not gonna have that. So like I want something else to come in and replace it.

• 1:06:42Bunnie XO?

  It will once you close it.

• 1:06:43Speaker 02

  I wanna do music. I wanna fall in love. I don't wanna, and, and Tyler is a hundred percent affected by it. He, he tries not to say anything, but.

• 1:06:55Speaker 02

  The one thing that he does say is like, why don't, it's not that I don't respect myself. It's like, how is this so easy for you? Like, how do you just take pictures and make these videos and it just not affect you when it's online? And like, I always think about that and I'm like, it does affect me. I just swallow it. Like, I literally just swallow it. It's just like, and I've, I've seen so much stuff growing up with like prostitutes with my dad, prostitutes and strippers and drugs and these, and a bunch of these hoochie mamas show up and just twerk in front of me, that nothing phases me anymore. And it sucks because I am numb. Like, I'm so numb to most of the stuff that I do.

• 1:07:36Speaker 02

  That's why it's so easy for me to like walk away from stuff like that, but one thing I'm big on is drugs. I will not ever, ever, ever agree with that stuff, but I don't know, it's just, I'm numb to it. And everybody always asks me, how do you not like, because I see like this fucking girl Sophie Rain, 50 million?

• 1:07:55Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:07:56Speaker 02

  Are you kidding me?

• 1:07:57Bunnie XO?

  I always think that those numbers are a little embellished, but I mean, it's, it's, well, she also looks like a child.

• 1:08:03Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:08:04Bunnie XO?

  So, and that's

• 1:08:05Speaker 02

  I want some knockers.

• 1:08:07Bunnie XO?

  That's what

• 1:08:07Speaker 02

  But I'm scared.

• 1:08:08Bunnie XO?

  The problem is, is that, you know, the adult industry is so

• 1:08:12Speaker 02

  So big now.

• 1:08:13Bunnie XO?

  It's so big, but it's also so gross because men want girls that look really young.

• 1:08:17Speaker 02

  And it'll never stop.

• 1:08:18Bunnie XO?

  Huh?

• 1:08:19Speaker 02

  It'll never stop.

• 1:08:19Bunnie XO?

  Oh, no.

• 1:08:20Speaker 02

  Like, that is like

• 1:08:21Bunnie XO?

  Porn and prostitution, well, not porn, but prostitution has been around since the biblical days, you know? And prostitution is a form of porn also, so I guess you could say, yeah. But I mean, it's been around since the biblical days. Sex sells, so does alcohol, so those two things are never gonna go away. You just have to decide when it's gonna go away in your life. And I promise you, when you, and I'm not preaching to you, because you know, you guys know I support all my sex worker girlies.

• 1:08:44Speaker 02

  I've been thinking about this, so this is hidden.

• 1:08:46Bunnie XO?

  I support all my sex worker girlies and trust me, if I ever have to go back to OF, I will. If I, you know, like, if I ever need to, you know, make, make a quick bag and I get in a position to where I have to do that, I will definitely do it. But as for right now, like, when you wanna get rid of it, get rid of it. And just know that you can always go back to it. Just see how it is for six months to a year without it and see how much your life changes and what blessings come in without it. Just so you don't have to have that.

• 1:09:15Speaker 02

  That

• 1:09:15Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:09:16Speaker 02

  It's like a pull down a little bit like

• 1:09:17Bunnie XO?

  That feeling inside, yeah, of like, fuck.

• 1:09:19Speaker 02

  Like, every time I pray, this is so funny to talk about, because this, I've been thinking about this for so long. Every time I pray about it,

• 1:09:27Speaker 02

  when I say like, you know, when you pray, you're like, Jesus, forgive me for my sins. That's immediately what I think about. Because I'm literally doing exactly what I'm telling myself to forgive me for. And it's like August, so like, all sins are equal, and we do the same stuff over and over again. It's like, I'm literally still doing it. Like, why am I even asking for forgiveness if I'm still gonna do it?

• 1:09:48Bunnie XO?

  My prayer was always, Lord, I know that I'm sinning right now, but I know you understand why. I, I used to try to gaslight Jesus. I'm like, I know, you know why I'm doing this right now. And then, when I didn't have to pray that prayer anymore, I was like, that was kind of fucked up. I am so sorry, you know, like, but

• 1:10:06Speaker 02

  He loves you no matter

• 1:10:08Bunnie XO?

  He loves you no matter what. And he, and we're not here to preach to everybody, and the girls that have OFs at home, we understand. You never apologize for what you have to do to survive, or what, what got you through to where you are today.

• 1:10:20Speaker 02

  I think that's why I'm still holding on, because this made me where I'm at today. And it's, I mean, now if TikTok actually goes away, that'll definitely affect

• 1:10:29Bunnie XO?

  Everything.

• 1:10:29Speaker 02

  The advertisement of me, because my, basically my is starting drama. And if I can't do that, what the fuck else am I gonna do?

• 1:10:38Bunnie XO?

  Funnel that OF into Patreon. That's what I did. You literally just get, it's like tit for tat. So it's like, replacing this with that. And that's exactly what I did. Like, ask Mimi. And Patreon ended up paying triple what fucking OF was paying me. Once I got rid of OF, it was crazy. Like, my Patreon just fucking blew up.

• 1:10:59Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:10:59Bunnie XO?

  So, I mean, just whenever you're ready, just know that you don't have to do that. And if you're ready to give it up, and you want to give it up for Tyler, so you guys have a really good chance, you can. And if it doesn't work, go back to it. It's like, it's that simple. You got this, sister. Let's talk about your music. Cause you're doing really fucking good.

• 1:11:17Speaker 02

  Thank you.

• 1:11:17Bunnie XO?

  Man, and I would really like to see you pursue that because I feel like that is the real Whitney. When we see you on stage smiling and performing for people.

• 1:11:26Speaker 02

  I love it. Every time I'm on stage, I get off and I'm like, let's do this again. Like it's, it feels like I'm flying when I'm, when I'm on stage. And I, when I started to like get on stage and realize how good I actually am and can be. I was so, that's my, that was my number one biggest insecurity ever was singing in front of people. And I still like now if you'd have been like, sing for me, I still probably wouldn't. But like, that was the biggest insecurity for me. The singing in front of people. I don't know why. I think I'm just, I'm obsessed over how good certain people are that I'm not that and I don't sound like that. But like I do, I love singing. I love dropping music.

• 1:12:09Speaker 02

  I definitely want to get to where I am writing my own music because right now it's just from my, my songwriter. So it's not, it doesn't hit as hard. And I'm, I really want to do ballads. Like I, I want to sing like, like Jesse Murph.

• 1:12:23Bunnie XO?

  The climb.

• 1:12:23Speaker 02

  Yeah. Like I love like Jesse Murph, like Avery Anna, like a lot of those girls. It's just hard because I don't live here.

• 1:12:30Bunnie XO?

  I feel like Jessie sings more than ballads though. She's always doing like some sort of like, she's too, she's.

• 1:12:36Speaker 02

  And Tate McCray, don't even get me started.

• 1:12:39Bunnie XO?

  Tate McCray is, I fucking love Tate.

• 1:12:41Speaker 02

  I would marry her.

• 1:12:41Bunnie XO?

  Bro.

• 1:12:42Speaker 02

  So mom.

• 1:12:43Bunnie XO?

  She is gorgeous. Like she is so fucking gorgeous dude. And she's got swag. And she's got fucking, uh.

• 1:12:50Speaker 02

  Her dancing and her hair and her face. She's just hot.

• 1:12:53Bunnie XO?

  Her work ethic is insane, dude. Like whenever you see that girl, she's working.

• 1:12:58Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:12:59Bunnie XO?

  Like you don't ever see her on an off day.

• 1:13:01Speaker 02

  I'm just, I'm just obsessed with her. Like I just love her.

• 1:13:03Bunnie XO?

  Tate, we love you.

• 1:13:04Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:13:05Bunnie XO?

  Come on the podcast. So I could just stare at you for two hours.

• 1:13:08Speaker 02

  Come hang out with me. I'd love that. But yeah, no, I do, I do love music. I just, I don't like, okay, so when I know, I think of music. I think.

• 1:13:19Speaker 02

  I know what a lot of people have put like so much work into their music like and doing so much to get where they're at. I hate using other people. I'm very, I want to do this on my own. So like I want to build myself up and like in the music industry, you have to like use each other. And I hate that because I just want to, that's why I've been doing it all on my own. Like I got used the first fucking song. Fuck you, by the way, if you're watching this.

• 1:13:49Bunnie XO?

  Are you talking about the dude that fucking did this?

• 1:13:51Speaker 02

  Yes, I still never got the money for my song.

• 1:13:55Bunnie XO?

  God, you know what it is, Whitney, you are just so anxious to do that you don't.

• 1:14:00Speaker 02

  Like I'm like, I'm like this.

• 1:14:01Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, but you don't care to fucking vet these people who are offering the things that they, you know, that they're offering and you're just going in one bad deal after another. And then all these people just know that they can get clicks and views off your name. So it's like, you know, you have to protect yourself a little bit more and you need to have somebody who actually is really protecting you. Maybe Tyler could be like in a management position for you too.

• 1:14:25Speaker 02

  He loves, he wants to.

• 1:14:27Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, I feel like Tyler would protect you, but working with your significant other is very hard. Okay, Jay and I did that.

• 1:14:33Speaker 02

  Boundaries for sure.

• 1:14:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, Jay and I did that for the longest time and I am so happy he has his own team and I don't know what the fuck he's doing. Like you have no idea. Like when you're, live together, sleep together and work together, it's a lot. So just know that if you guys aren't strong, that that could come in between you two also. But definitely you need to keep pursuing this music career because when you drop, you chart every time. A lot of people don't get that, you know? So you definitely have something special.

• 1:15:05Speaker 02

  I just want to write my own music so it means more to me. So it makes me want to drop.

• 1:15:08Bunnie XO?

  So start writing. Who are you? What are you waiting for?

• 1:15:11Speaker 02

  I don't live here. So like everybody who wants to write with me wants to, wants me to write up here. And like I do, like Zooms just doesn't count like for me, just like.

• 1:15:21Bunnie XO?

  So why don't you do like once a week, once a month, come to Nashville for a week and just sit in writers' rooms? Hello.

• 1:15:29Speaker 02

  Well, okay, you guys.

• 1:15:30Bunnie XO?

  I'm like hello.

• 1:15:32Speaker 02

  I'll write with you, that'd be fun.

• 1:15:34Bunnie XO?

  Oh dude, what do you want? You want to write dirty Christmas songs?

• 1:15:36Speaker 02

  Hell yeah. Hell yeah.

• 1:15:38Bunnie XO?

  I got you. We could write a fucking dirty Christmas song, right, baby?

• 1:15:42Speaker 02

  Jelly writes his own songs?

• 1:15:44Bunnie XO?

  He does. He does. And a lot of people, it's the funniest thing, because people are like, Jelly's sold out when he signed his record deal. He doesn't write his own music. My husband writes every fucking song. He has writers in the room with him that help, but so.

• 1:15:56Speaker 02

  Why does it matter, though?

• 1:15:57Bunnie XO?

  So does every fucking body else.

• 1:15:59Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:15:59Bunnie XO?

  That fucking writes hits. They have, it's a, it's like you're sitting around with your friends.

• 1:16:04Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:16:04Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, it's not people that are just going in there that aren't your friends. It's like a group of people that are just hanging out saying like, this is a fucking, let's do this here and let's do, you know, it's a vibe, so. But I mean, even without Nashville, you can start writing by yourself and writing songs.

• 1:16:18Speaker 02

  It's just like, the ADHD in me doesn't let me just sit down and like think and like, I could definitely write, for sure. It's just like the, the beats and the words, it's just, it just seems like more of a bigger task than it actually is.

• 1:16:33Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 1:16:34Speaker 02

  Because when I was younger, I used to just sit on, because I can play the piano. So I used to just sit on the piano and like make up my own stuff, but I haven't really done that because I don't have like, I don't have the time to just sit down.

• 1:16:46Bunnie XO?

  Well, you've got 15 dogs.

• 1:16:47Speaker 02

  Yeah. Not normal.

• 1:16:49Bunnie XO?

  If I can buy a piano and try to sit down and maybe.

• 1:16:52Speaker 02

  I asked for one for my birthday from Tyler and he was going to give me one, but then he canceled it because we broke up.

• 1:16:56Bunnie XO?

  Maybe for like an hour a day for 2025, or an hour a week, even if that, if an hour a day is too much, and just sit down and say, I'm going to play the piano and write for an hour a week. And that's how you start. And then eventually come to Nashville, start doing like a week or even a day. Come here for like 24, 48 hours. Do that, like just make a game plan. That's all you gotta do. You know, you have the means and the ambition to do it, you just have to hone it in.

• 1:17:24Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:17:26Speaker 02

  Well, is there anything else you want to talk about, my love?

• 1:17:31Bunnie XO?

  Think you got it all off your

• 1:17:32Speaker 02

  I feel like I just vented.

• 1:17:34Bunnie XO?

  Good. Do you feel better?

• 1:17:35Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:17:36Bunnie XO?

  That's all that matters.

• 1:17:37Speaker 02

  I think I need therapy for sure.

• 1:17:38Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, that's all that matters. And maybe you and Tyler should go to therapy too, to learn how to cope with each other. That'd be good. Teamwork makes the dream work, you know? Thank you for coming.

• 1:17:47Speaker 02

  Thanks for having me.

• 1:17:48Bunnie XO?

  Why don't you tell everybody where they can find you? If they don't already know where to find you.

• 1:17:52Speaker 02

  You can find me anywhere, really. All over your Google. Um, Winnie Run One.

• 1:17:57Bunnie XO?

  Don't point them in that direction.

• 1:17:59Speaker 02

  Yeah, don't look it up.

• 1:18:00Bunnie XO?

  They're all going to look it up right now.

• 1:18:02Speaker 02

  On all platforms. Snapchat, Winnie Run Seven. I do have a Patreon, Talk Shit With Whit. Let's see how much longer that's gonna go on. I get bored by myself. And also another thing, I don't know how you get guests here all the time. I just don't have the energy.

• 1:18:17Bunnie XO?

  It's a lot of work. People don't realize a podcast is a lot.

• 1:18:21Speaker 02

  When they don't show up, or like, then they like, ugh, it's just like, so much work.

• 1:18:26Bunnie XO?

  It's a lot.

• 1:18:27Speaker 02

  And I don't have like an assistant for that, still, so. Had one. She quit.

• 1:18:32Bunnie XO?

  You'll get it together.

• 1:18:33Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:18:34Bunnie XO?

  Get it together.

• 1:18:35Speaker 02

  I have my toe in a lot of things.

• 1:18:37Bunnie XO?

  Yes. You're Gemini, right?

• 1:18:39Speaker 02

  No, I'm a Leo.

• 1:18:40Bunnie XO?

  You're Leo? Why did I think you were Gemini this whole time? Leo, what, August? August what?

• 1:18:47Speaker 02

  Eleventh.

• 1:18:48Bunnie XO?

  Oh, you're smack dab Leo. That's why you're such a lover. That's why you're emotional as fuck too.

• 1:18:54Speaker 02

  I'm also an animal.

• 1:18:56Bunnie XO?

  You're a lion, baby.

• 1:18:59Bunnie XO?

  I love it. Tell everybody bye for us.

• 1:19:02Speaker 02

  Love you. Thanks for having me.

• 1:19:04Bunnie XO?

  Love you, bye.

• 1:19:05Speaker 02

  Go watch Dumb Blonde.

• 1:19:06Bunnie XO?

  Oh, see you guys next week. Bye.

• 1:19:08Speaker 02

  Bye.

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