Shark Tank’s Barbara Corcoran Reveals All + Secrets to Success YOU Can Apply to YOUR Life Today!

Are You Ready to believe in YOU?🙌 jamiekernlima.com 👈 Sign up for my FREE Inspirational Newsletter here and you’ll ALSO get special prompt questions to help you grow in your self-worth-building that pair with each episode!🩷 Make sure to click the “Follow” button for the show on your favorite podcast app, so you’ll be the first to get each episode! ____ Are you ready to believe that your dreams are possible! No matter the setbacks you’ve faced, no matter who didn’t’ believe in you. Shark Tank’s Barbara Corcoran is such a powerful example of how all things are possible in your life, when you’re persistent, when you learn how to be resilient in the face of rejection, when you don’t let labels other people place on you stick! And today she’s here sharing stories and insights she’s never shared before! Some will make you shake your head, other will make your jaw hit the floor, and all will fill your soul and your spirit, knowing you are not alone in set-backs or insecurities, and that no matter what you’ve faced, you can learn to play a new tape in your head, you can learn to build true self-confidence and self-worth, even it that journey starts today! You’ve heard her say “You’ve got a deal” on ABC’s hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons, Barbara Corcoran, is an EMMY Award winning Shark and Executive Producer on the show, she’s the Founder of The Corcoran Group and is one of the most successful entrepreneurs in the country! She’s also sharp, quick-witted, and SO funny and today, she’s here to EMPOWER YOU to believe in your dreams and to know that your best days are ahead! Chapters: 0:00 Welcome to The Jamie Kern Lima Show 7:16 Change the Tape in Your Head 9:47 "I'm Successfully Insecure" 13:12 Being Underestimated is a Superpower 16:52 Trust Your First Instinct 19:20 Empowered Women Empower Women 22:40 Success In Marriage "Separate Bedrooms" 32:15 From VICTIM to VICTOR It’s such an honor to share this podcast together with you. And please note: I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Follow me here: Instagram TikTok Facebook Website — Sign up for my inspirational newsletter for YOU at: jamiekernlima.com — Looking for my books on Amazon? Here they are! WORTHY: https://a.co/d/6MkvL2j Believe IT: https://a.co/d/7nYhkfb

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• 0:00Jamie Kern Lima?

  Empowered women empower women. And today, we've got an empowered woman who's gonna empower you on the show. You've heard her say, "You've got a deal" on ABC's hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons. Barbara Corcoran is an Emmy Award-winning shark, an executive producer on the show. She's the founder of the Corcoran Group. And her journey to this moment, we're all sharing together right now, is nothing short of remarkable. Barbara! I came, you came home to me in New York.

• 0:37Speaker 01

  Thanks for having me in my town.

• 0:39Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yes. Honored to be in your town.

• 0:41Speaker 01

  It's my town.

• 0:42Jamie Kern Lima?

  This is your town. This is your town. I am so excited for this conversation. Barbara Corcoran, welcome to the Jamie Kern Lima Show. You are such a badass. You are such a badass.

• 0:55Speaker 02

  I don't think of myself as a badass.

• 0:57Jamie Kern Lima?

  Your business icon, your business legend, walking arm in arm with you down the streets of New York City. It just felt like this, it's a moment I'll never forget.

• 1:09Speaker 02

  I think I'm successfully insecure.

• 1:11Jamie Kern Lima?

  That's such a cool perspective.

• 1:13Speaker 02

  I actually started working on a tape that told me I didn't deserve to be there. I wasn't smart enough. I wasn't being heard. Why did I waste my time coming? I could be doing something better. A million excuses why I made a mistake in putting myself out. But then I started changing that tape little by little, declaring war on it in a way.

• 1:33Jamie Kern Lima?

  You went to war with those thoughts in your head. You proposed to both of your husbands.

• 1:42Speaker 02

  I should've thought about it.

• 1:44Jamie Kern Lima?

  So you knew, you just knew.

• 1:47Speaker 02

  I knew, you know, it's something about, again, it's your intuition.

• 1:51Jamie Kern Lima?

  You say one of the secrets to the success of your marriage, you guys have been sleeping in separate bedrooms.

• 1:56Speaker 02

  That is a secret.

• 1:57Jamie Kern Lima?

  For decades. Can you talk about this? Because maybe a bunch of us are getting it wrong right now.

• 2:03Speaker 02

  I have to invite him into my bedroom. And it's like, it's his birthday.

• 2:07Jamie Kern Lima?

  He knows it's like a sure thing.

• 2:08Speaker 02

  Yeah, and I like it because it's a sure thing.

• 2:12Speaker 02

  Not sure S U R E, but S H O R T.

• 2:15Jamie Kern Lima?

  Oh, my gosh. Can you share a little bit about the boyfriend turned business partner, who then really liked your secretary?

• 2:26Speaker 02

  He had believed in me. He was a businessman older than me, and he knew what he was doing. And I felt like I would be nothing without him.

• 2:33Jamie Kern Lima?

  He's your business partner. You're living together. I mean, your whole life is immersed with each other. And then he says, I'm now going to be with the secretary.

• 2:43Speaker 02

  As I was leaving, he said to me, you know, you'll never succeed without me.

• 2:48Jamie Kern Lima?

  You had a landlord that thought you were a prostitute.

• 2:51Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 2:52Jamie Kern Lima?

  And then you end up turning that around.

• 2:54Speaker 02

  It's one of my biggest accounts, actually.

• 2:58Jamie Kern Lima?

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• 3:42Jamie Kern Lima?

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• 4:24Jamie Kern Lima?

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• 4:40Speaker 02

  Jamie Kern Lima is her name. Everybody needs Jamie Kern Lima in their life.

• 4:44Speaker 03

  Jamie Kern Lima.

• 4:49Speaker 03

  Jamie, you're so inspiring. Jamie Kern Lima.

• 4:54Jamie Kern Lima?

  Empowered women empower women. And today we've got an empowered woman who's going to empower you on the show. You've heard her say, "You've got a deal on ABC's hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons." Barbara Corcoran is an Emmy Award-winning shark, an executive producer on the show. She's the founder of The Corcoran Group and her journey to this moment we're all sharing together right now is nothing short of remarkable. Barbara is one of 10 kids raised in a two-bedroom home. She struggled with dyslexia, got straight

• 5:34Jamie Kern Lima?

  D's in school, and had 20 jobs by the time she turned 23. She then borrowed $1,000 and quit her job as a waitress to start a small real estate company in New York City. She grew The Corcoran Group into the largest and best-known brand in the brokerage business. And Barbara became one of the most successful entrepreneurs in the country. From a thousand dollar loan to a billion dollar business and now she's invested in more than 100 businesses to date. She's also so sharp, quick witted and so, so funny. Plus, there's something she did to me behind the scenes on Shark Tank that I'm going to

• 6:18Jamie Kern Lima?

  share with you that made my jaw hit the floor and made my soul explode like a giant heart emoji. I am so excited for this conversation. Barbara Corcoran, welcome to the Jamie Kern Lima

• 6:32Speaker 02

  Show. I've been looking forward to it so much. Thank you so much.

• 6:34Jamie Kern Lima?

  I'm so excited and I just love you and thank you for being here. This show is going to be, I already know it, such a blessing and so inspiring to so many people. So I want to just right off the top ask you that so many of us get underestimated or we underestimate ourselves and you and your journey have gone from underestimated to unstoppable in so many areas of life and in your business. And what would you say to the person who's watching us or listening to us right now who maybe is feeling underestimated or they're underestimating themselves?

• 7:15Speaker 02

  I think it's very natural to feel underestimated because who you have is what you've had so far. And so it takes a bit of dreaming and commitment to go from where you are to where you want to go. So you feel to yourself, I think, most damaging that you're, to use your phrase, not worthy, or not going to be able to do it, or I just don't have what it's going to take, or I don't deserve it, or all these things. But it takes, I think, the beginning of changing the tape in your head. I had to consciously do that, growing up as a woman. Probably wasn't until I was 30 years old, I already had my business seven years by then, that I actually started working on that tape that told me I didn't deserve to be there. I wasn't smart enough. I wasn't being heard. Why did

• 7:59Speaker 02

  I waste my time coming? I could be doing something better. A million excuses why I made a mistake in putting myself out. But then I started changing that Tape little by little, declaring war on it in a way. And it took me a number of years to really change it. And my tape that I listen to now are tapes that shore me up. Things like, you're incredible, you're beautiful, you're brilliant, you're, you're incredible. This guy's really impressed by you. My God, what else can you do? So it's a fooling yourself of sorts, but you fool yourself enough times repeatedly and you start to fall for it yourself. And if you're falling for it, you're guaranteed that the next guy is falling for it. Because people will judge you less harshly than you think they're going to judge you.

• 8:44Speaker 02

  There's a self-consciousness that doesn't need to be paid attention to, really. It just also gets in the way, what are they thinking of me? But the biggest battle is what do I think of myself?

• 8:53Jamie Kern Lima?

  Hmm, I love that. You said you went to war with those thoughts in your head. And did you just create your own new tape that played? So anytime you would hear that old tape trying to play, you would like be like, oh, ah, ah, not today. And like intentionally?

• 9:09Speaker 02

  Yeah, I would intentionally do it to wipe out the noise in my head. Because you can't listen to your old self telling you who you're really supposed to be when you're looking for your new self. So I think it's impossible to have that tape going in your head and to fight against it. So you need to have a more familiar, more friendly tape. Whatever, however short it is, less damaging tape, I would say.

• 9:30Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, I love that though, because it's like you have the power to create your own tape. Like, right, you're the musician. So so many people, it's like right now, 80% of women don't believe they're enough. 75% of executive women deal with imposter syndrome. And that comes from that tape a lot of times that we're.

• 9:47Speaker 02

  But also I have a theory on imposter syndrome. I have never met a worthwhile person who didn't have imposter syndrome. I think the more you're self-conscious about maybe, are you the real deal? Are you faking it? How did I really get here? And you're answering to your insecurities as an individual. I think that pushes you ahead in a way. What it does for me, it makes me over prepare. It makes me dead serious about what I have to do. Even if I've done it 100 times before, I think to myself, oh, my God, I'm, I might not like preparing for this today. I was saying, oh, God, what is she going to talk about? What do I do? And I had clear thoughts in my head of what I wanted to cover. And that comes from insecurity. If I was secure, I'd just walk into your set and say, hey, how you doing? What are your questions? But I'll do a better job because of the insecurity. So I'm all for insecurity.

• 10:32Speaker 02

  I think I'm successfully insecure, but definitely insecure. And I hope to be for the rest of my career.

• 10:37Jamie Kern Lima?

  That's such a cool perspective. And I think sometimes people know they're insecure. So then they think somehow, I'm not qualified to do what Barbara's done. I'm insecure.

• 10:46Speaker 02

  They should only know.

• 10:48Jamie Kern Lima?

  Do you deal with insecurity a lot, but you just see it as a strength?

• 10:51Speaker 02

  I, I deal with it all the time because I'm human and it's human condition. But I have to say, because of the changing of the tape in my head, it's helped me tremendously to be less insecure. I, I will usually approach any situation thinking, well, I've done it a hundred times. I've prepared really well. I'm dealing with a nice person. I'm looking good. My makeup's right. So all the supports that you need to get yourself confidence. They might sound trivial, but they all add up. But then when I sit in the seat, I'm about, about as good as I can get to go. Unless, then I have a confidence that I'll probably is gonna go okay. Because I prepared so well.

• 11:28Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah. I'm so grateful you're sharing this right now because you already know this to you. You are such a badass. You are such a badass.

• 11:36Speaker 02

  I don't think of myself as a badass.

• 11:37Jamie Kern Lima?

  You're a business icon, you're a business legend. Walking arm in arm with you down the streets of New York City. Just felt like this, um, it's a moment I'll never forget. And, and so what I appreciate so much is you're also sharing things that allow everyone else watching us and listening to us right now to go, oh, wow, okay. So Barbara feels the way I feel sometimes and maybe my dreams are possible too.

• 12:03Speaker 02

  Of course. But Jamie, I have to make a confession here. When I walked down the street arm in arm with you, I had one thought. I wonder if I could sell her an apartment.

• 12:12Jamie Kern Lima?

  It's so in you.

• 12:13Speaker 02

  I'm not even a broker anymore. It's so much in me. I bet she would buy a good one. I'd make a lot of money.

• 12:18Jamie Kern Lima?

  That's amazing.

• 12:19Speaker 02

  But I didn't say that to you. I said, nice to see you.

• 12:22Jamie Kern Lima?

  That is amazing. I am, on the topic of apartments, oh my gosh, just, you know, reading your books and just learning about you firsthand. There are so many skills and instincts that you have. Success leaves clues, right? That famous thing, success leaves clues. I am so excited to dive into some of these things. Because I feel like these lessons, uh... You've learned, on all of our behalfs, can really help us

• 12:52Speaker 02

  Sure.

• 12:53Jamie Kern Lima?

  in so many ways in all areas of life, whether it's personal life or business. And I want to ask you especially because, oh my gosh, people talk about now, the glass ceiling. And now the challenges, you know, being a woman in business, all of that. When, your entire journey, I mean, do you, do you think that being underestimated can actually, that you can use being underestimated to your advantage?

• 13:22Speaker 02

  Of course. Listen, when I started my business, it was a men's world. All the businesses were owned by men, they were worked by women. There was no woman in sight. So I felt initially that I had some disadvantage was not the case. I was invisible. There's a great power to being invisible and coming up from the rear and taking over, and that's exactly what I did. I was able to steal my competitors, which are much bigger than me, their positions in the market, because I stole the limelight from them. And they weren't getting media coverage. That's really what I used to build my business. But certainly, being invisible is a wonderful, wonderful advantage. I can't say I ever thought of myself in business as a woman.

• 14:04Speaker 02

  I don't think there was a day I thought, oh, God, I'm a woman, it's a disadvantage, I'm a woman, whatever. I just thought of myself as a competitor. If I sat next to a man who owned the biggest firm in town, and I was a nobody, and he was treating me by no, as a nobody, I would just say quietly to myself, not very nice, wait till you see what I'm gonna do to you. I would dwell on it and really plot how I was gonna get that guy. Because he showed me no respect, and I wanted to get his respect. Why did I care? I'm not even sure why. I guess it was because I was insecure again. But I needed to win the respect, and there was only one way to win the respect. And that was not by saying something clever, or wearing the most beautiful suit, or whatever. It was about being smarter and more aggressive than him.

• 14:46Speaker 02

  And so I made it my point to be smarter and a lot more aggressive than him to win the day. And I, I think that's important for a lot of women. A lot of women that I deal with at Shark Tank, very often will say, what about... About me being a girl, forget about the fact you're a girl, that you're a woman. Forget about it. Just think of yourself as a competitor. You know, just think of yourself that way and it becomes part of you. Really, I think I'm almost like an animal. I would compete for things I didn't even want, which is really sick. I needed to shrink, but I got that that whole thing going in me really good.

• 15:19Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah. Do you, when you think about your success, do you think that smarts or grit played a bigger role?

• 15:30Speaker 02

  Certainly grit. I mean, you need to have great judgment in business. You need to have a gut instinct. You have to need, you need a street smarts, not a book smart, kind of a headset. So you can intrinsically feel this is the right move and trust your intuition that you're making the right move. And you'd be wrong some of the time, but you have to be right most of the time. So I think I learned to do that. Within business, I believe that grit is far more important. And grit takes a lot of forms that are essential in business. The best grit in the world is when you knock down a punch in your gut and you stand back up. That takes a lot of grit. And certainly that can be part of life as well. But I've had personally unusually easy life. I'm very thankful for.

• 16:13Speaker 02

  But I think with your personal life, I think smarts is more important. And it isn't just the smarts of having answers, which I used to think I had for any situation. But it's the smarts of listening, the smarts of thinking you don't have the answers, the smarts of being curious enough to see if you open this door, what's going to happen. You don't always have to have that in business. But in personal life, if you want to develop yourself and be a better person, I think you have to be smart about how you're living. And I think for me, it's more holding back than giving forward. And in business, it's more blasting through doors and opening up and, and having a lot more grit about what I do, a sense of what I have to hustle out of the situation.

• 16:52Jamie Kern Lima?

  What role does your intuition play in business? Also, in your personal life as well? Friendships, decisions you make?

• 17:00Speaker 02

  It's everything. You know, what is intuition? I don't really know. But in my mind, I think intuition is a summation of everything you've learned to date. It just cuts inside you and blends and mixes up and stuff. So I think if you're in a situation, I've been in many situations where I've challenged my gut. Like, I can't really logically see what's wrong with this person or the situation. And everything sounds right. And I go for it, particularly on Shark Tank.

• 17:23Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 17:23Speaker 02

  Boy, have I learned to ignore that. Now I ignore the businesses and just look at the individual. And if my gut says I trust the person and they're a winner, I go with it. Even if I can't explain why. And when my gut says something's wrong here, I trust it and I don't go with it. Because you really have to learn to trust your gut. If you're half smart, you're learning as you go. So your gut tomorrow is going to be better than your gut today. And there's no sense in challenging whatsoever, I don't think.

• 17:48Jamie Kern Lima?

  I think a lot of people second guess it, you know?

• 17:51Speaker 02

  Oh, terrible.

• 17:52Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 17:52Speaker 02

  You even know when your SAT is not to second guess.

• 17:54Jamie Kern Lima?

  That's true.

• 17:56Speaker 02

  It's usually wrong.

• 17:57Jamie Kern Lima?

  Well, so many people refer to you as a strong woman. And when I think of a strong woman, you proposed to both of your husbands.

• 18:06Speaker 02

  I should have thought about it.

• 18:09Jamie Kern Lima?

  Can you tell me about that?

• 18:10Speaker 02

  Sure. I proposed to my first husband, who was, when I was 30, he was seven years younger than me. But he looked older than me. That kind of counted a little bit. But we were dating probably two weeks when I said, what's your intention? I was close to 30. I wanted to be married by 30. I had that little deadline. He said, what do you mean? We just dated. I said, you have a week to decide, are we going to get married or not? I'd like to marry you. And the week went by, he was very nervous the whole week. But on the seventh day, he says, okay, let's get married. That lasted seven years. The lesson in that is think about it.

• 18:43Jamie Kern Lima?

  Wow.

• 18:44Speaker 02

  Maybe being aggressive wasn't so good. Now with my second husband.

• 18:47Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 18:48Speaker 02

  Of course, I just flat out proposed to him right away. Because I knew he was the love of my life. And we were going to have a great marriage. We've been married close to 30 years. Yeah.

• 18:55Jamie Kern Lima?

  So Bill.

• 18:56Speaker 02

  Bill.

• 18:57Jamie Kern Lima?

  So you knew, you just knew?

• 18:59Speaker 02

  I knew. You know, it's something about, again, it's your intuition. Both husbands, well, I was wrong on the first. Somebody was a lovely man and we had a happy six out of seven years, I guess.

• 19:10Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, yeah.

• 19:10Speaker 02

  You know, but it's something about the way someone holds your hand immediately. You read so, me, anyway, I read so much into that hand as to whether I trust that person. And I felt like I was gonna be protected forever with both of my husbands. Who knew I had to do the protecting?

• 19:27Jamie Kern Lima?

  Oh, my gosh. You're a great protector, though.

• 19:31Speaker 02

  I am.

• 19:32Jamie Kern Lima?

  You are, you're a great.

• 19:33Speaker 02

  Don't mess with my people.

• 19:34Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, yeah, I have to say, like, I walked on the set of Shark Tank and I didn't know what to expect. You know, I had no idea. I'll get into Shark Tank later.

• 19:43Speaker 02

  You didn't look at, you looked like you were red at home. The minute you sit in that seat, you looked like you were at home.

• 19:47Jamie Kern Lima?

  Oh, well, I, I knew I'd put in the reps. I knew, I knew I'd been through every phase of whatever entrepreneur is gonna walk through that door. I know I've lived what they're going through, wherever they're at in their business. And, and also, I'm so respectful that it's your show. It's the Shark Show and, and the team there and I'm walking onto the set. And I have to say, you were the biggest surprise and blessing in a way.

• 20:15Speaker 02

  How nice to hear that.

• 20:16Jamie Kern Lima?

  I felt like you were the protector of me in a way, like.

• 20:19Speaker 02

  Well, you're a woman, I had a woman on the set, my team.

• 20:22Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yes, yes, and you just, um, oh, my gosh, came right up to me. And when you handed me that list of questions that helped you 16 seasons ago when you started, you're like, you know, if these can help you in any way.

• 20:36Speaker 02

  Cheat, cheat.

• 20:36Jamie Kern Lima?

  Cheat, cheat, cuz you gotta hop in, you gotta get in there. And I was like, just looking at you. And I remember I, those words just kept going through my head, empowered women, empower women.

• 20:45Speaker 02

  Yes, yes.

• 20:45Jamie Kern Lima?

  And we don't always see that. And I just felt like you were this, yeah, like you wanted me to win and that felt so good. Um, so, thank you for that and.

• 20:54Speaker 02

  That is my actually, actually, natural secret sauce. And it wasn't just because you were a guest on the set, but I think what I do well, particularly with the people that care to follow me in life, in whatever capacity, working, friendship, whatever, I think I. Do very well in empowering people because I really see the best in them. When you sat on that seat, I said, she's at home. She's pretty. She's confident. She's had enormous success. She's going to be a winner. I knew that right away. So how much empowering does that take? But you also see people in life who don't have all that going for them. But I could see the light in them. I know what they do well. I know how to bring it out. That is my secret sauce in building businesses, no doubt.

• 21:34Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah. And it's been fun, you know, as a viewer, so many people watching us right now are listening will relate to this. It's fun to watch you see that light in people. I remember the pork belly pig barbecue sauce. And you saw that light in him. And, and yes, he resembled a really cute pig. But also you saw like that, like, and, and he got on board with it, you know? And that was fun to see. And yeah, so you're, that's.

• 21:58Speaker 02

  So I called him a pig. That was an easy season and my producer wouldn't air it. He said, you don't call people a pig on set. I said, he likes it. He likes looking like a piggy. He needs it for his brand. I had him write a letter to my producer and say, please let that comment stand. I love looking like a pig. And it went on air.

• 22:15Jamie Kern Lima?

  And it went on air. And he's very trim and it was more just his face was so sweet, like a baby pig.

• 22:21Speaker 02

  Baby pig.

• 22:21Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I totally got it. And I, and I saw it right when you said it. I'm like, I see that. I get that. I see the brand. I see it, just all of it. And so, yeah, you do see the light in people. You know, on the topic of husbands, with your husband, Bill, now, you say one of the secrets to the success of your marriage, you guys have been sleeping in separate bedrooms.

• 22:43Speaker 02

  That is a secret.

• 22:44Jamie Kern Lima?

  For decades. Can you talk about this? Because maybe a bunch of us are getting it wrong right now.

• 22:50Speaker 02

  Well, I think there's something to be said about your own private space. Yes, I believe a very busy, I lead a very busy life. I have a huge family that I'm always entertaining. I have very sincere, active friends. And so what I need more than anything else is a respite. And my husband is not relaxing. He has more ideas on his head that make no sense. And for me to come up with the energy at the end of the day to listen to him and to nod and to contribute to the conversation, I run a little short. Better I go to my room and I have an hour to myself. If I go to the living room, my husband follows me. I go to my bedroom, he doesn't dare come in. I have to invite him into my bedroom and I like it that way. He's never invited me back because he knows I'll never come into his bedroom.

• 23:35Speaker 02

  But I have to invite him into my bedroom and it's like, it's his birthday. How old are you, Bill? Come on in.

• 23:44Jamie Kern Lima?

  Well, is it... Yeah, can you talk about that? Because does it make it like, you know?

• 23:49Speaker 02

  Makes sex better? No, but he thinks it does.

• 23:52Jamie Kern Lima?

  Ah, because he knows it's like a sure thing?

• 23:55Speaker 02

  Yeah, and I like it because it's a sure thing. Not sure S U R E, but S H O R T.

• 24:02Jamie Kern Lima?

  Oh, my gosh. And I saw online that you dressed as Taylor Swift and him as Travis. So, so, so when you guys invite each other, so I thought he invited you to his room too.

• 24:16Speaker 02

  One-way street, remember?

• 24:17Jamie Kern Lima?

  It's a one-way street.

• 24:18Speaker 02

  One-way street, yeah.

• 24:18Jamie Kern Lima?

  Okay, has he ever tried to invite you?

• 24:19Speaker 02

  Yes, and I said, no, thank you. That's why he hasn't come back.

• 24:22Jamie Kern Lima?

  He hasn't come back? And so he waits for the invitation?

• 24:24Speaker 02

  Yes, he does. It's less hurtful.

• 24:26Jamie Kern Lima?

  And then is it like, do you guys do like special nights? Or like, was the Taylor Swift thing, one of those invitations?

• 24:34Speaker 02

  No, I'm afraid it wasn't. Me looking like sexy Taylor Swift, Bill had no idea who she was. He wouldn't be turned on for it. He thought it was kind of odd, but I'll play along with you. No, my idea of a special night with my husband at this stage is a good game of Scrabble. He'll often say to me, S or S? And I'll say Scrabble, because the first S means sex. And I'll say, no, Scrabble. And I love beating him at Scrabble and he loves beating me at Scrabble. And that's a great night, that and a glass of wine for me. It makes a great night.

• 25:03Jamie Kern Lima?

  That's a great night.

• 25:04Speaker 02

  Because I go to my bedroom.

• 25:05Jamie Kern Lima?

  Because it's her bedroom. That's like the best night with a friend too, Scrabble and wine.

• 25:10Speaker 02

  Yes, did you play Scrabble?

• 25:11Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 25:13Speaker 02

  I could beat you, I'm sure.

• 25:14Jamie Kern Lima?

  I bet you could beat me.

• 25:15Speaker 02

  I know all the little cheat words, you know?

• 25:17Jamie Kern Lima?

  I bet you do. I'm not like sharp on it. I've played with my husband and I'm telling you, he cheats at Scrabble.

• 25:21Speaker 02

  Oh, who wants it now?

• 25:23Jamie Kern Lima?

  I know, and then he'll debate and I'm just like, okay, uh-uh. But I love Scrabble and I love wine, so.

• 25:29Speaker 02

  There you go.

• 25:29Jamie Kern Lima?

  I might knock on your bedroom door one night and see. Okay. So many incredible, relatable things that you've gone through that I feel like how you've handled them are so inspiring. And can you share a little bit about the boyfriend turned business partner, who then really liked your secretary? There's so much more coming up in this episode. You are not going to want to miss it. But first, I wanted to share this with you. In life, you don't soar to the level of your hopes and dreams. You stay stuck at the level of your self-worth.

• 26:11Jamie Kern Lima?

  When you build your self-worth, you change your entire life. And that's exactly why I wrote my new book, Worthy, How to Believe You Are Enough and Transform Your Life for You. If you have some self-doubt to destroy and a destiny to fulfill, Worthy is for you. In Worthy, you'll learn proven tools and simple steps that bring life-changing results, like how to get unstuck from the things holding you back, build unshakable self-love, unlearn the lies that lead to self-doubt, and embrace the truths that wake up worthiness, overcome limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome,

• 26:55Jamie Kern Lima?

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• 27:34Jamie Kern Lima?

  Imagine, what would you do if you fully believed in you? My weekly free inspirational newsletter is packed with tips and tools to help you find out. It's called One-on-One with Jamie, and it's delivered right to your inbox each Tuesday morning. It's a love letter from me to you, from my soul to yours. And I hope it It brings you the words and messages you need at just the right moment. Plus, when you're a part of my free inspirational newsletter community, you'll be the first to get behind the scenes content, inspirational messages, and be the first to learn about upcoming events and more.

• 28:17Jamie Kern Lima?

  It's the place to be, and I sure hope you'll join me there. So if you're not on the list yet, you can sign up for free at jamiecurranlema.com or click the link in the show notes below. And here's to becoming unstoppable together. And now, more of this incredible conversation together. Can you share a little bit about the boyfriend-turned-business partner who then really liked your secretary?

• 28:48Speaker 02

  Oh, he definitely liked Tina, no doubt about it, yeah. Well, I had been in partnership with my boyfriend for about seven years. When he came home one night, because I was watching his three children, I was Mrs. Mom, sort of. But I came from a family of 10 kids, that was nothing to me, it was quite normal. And he came home one night when I was making the pasta, and he said, "I have something serious to discuss, I'm going to marry your secretary." And I immediately said, "Tina the bitch, who was perfectly fine the day before, but my my..." And he said, "Yes, but take your time moving out." And I took about a minute, my toothbrush was out of there. That, for me, was a very tumultuous time, a negative time. A time when I questioned my very being,

• 29:32Speaker 02

  because after all, he had found me in my hometown. After all, he had loaned me the $1,000 to start my business. He had believed in me. He was a businessman older than me, and he knew what he was doing. And I felt like I would be nothing without him. How I ever concluded that, I have never, I've never even wondered really how I got there, but there I was nonetheless. And then Tina was 10 years younger than me, had long blonde hair, was much prettier than me. That didn't help at all. And when they moved into my office together, and they started giggling and holding hands, and I had to wash that through the glass wall, I just thought my heart would break in 100 pieces. But I stayed with it for a good year, and then finally... One day, on a Friday morning, I walked in and said, Ray, we're ending the business today. We have fourteen people, we're chopping them in half.

• 30:17Speaker 02

  You pick the first one, I'll pick the second. We'll go right down the line. It probably took us eight minutes to divide the company. He was in shock. And in shock, as I was leaving, he said to me, you know, you'll never succeed without me. And that was the gift of a lifetime. That burned in my soul and stomach like nothing I had ever heard in my life. And I knew as sure as I knew anything that I would never fail. I just knew I would never fail. I thought I would rather die than let him not succeed. So if I die, I'm dead, so what are you gonna talk about, you know? But while I'm alive, I was never gonna let him see me not succeed. Because I was angry. Probably not the right place to come from, insult. To gather your power from insult. I would like to think that I don't do that, but I do.

• 31:01Speaker 02

  If someone insults me or writes me off, it fuels me. It just gets me really going, really going. And that's exactly what happened. And I, that was the founding of the Corcoran Group. And I named it the Corcoran Group because I knew I was gonna need every ounce of my seven people's energy as a group to bring us through. I had so little resources, the odds were against me. But they were phenomenal, my people. They banded together, they supported me, I supported them. And we became a powerhouse, like a company of girls that took over the Boys Network, you know? Took a while, took me close to fifteen years. But in fifteen years, I realized he was definitely wrong. I did succeed with Adam when I sold my business for all that cash of sixty-six million.

• 31:45Speaker 02

  So I have often thought, thank God, I got that insult. Because I don't even know if I would have really made it through all the tough times, the obstacles you have to overcome in any business, if he hadn't given me that insult, really. Isn't that weird? It's like, I need a good psychiatrist. Why do I need an insult to get going?

• 32:04Jamie Kern Lima?

  Well, you know, I think about when you, what you just shared, you said, you know, before that insult had happened and, you know, he ends things, he's, he's your business partner.

• 32:15Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 32:15Jamie Kern Lima?

  You're living together. I mean, your whole life is immersed with each other. And then he says, I'm now gonna be with the secretary.

• 32:24Speaker 02

  But if they fell in love, you know, and looking back in hindsight, so they fell in love, of course that was gonna happen.

• 32:29Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 32:30Speaker 02

  They probably didn't plan it that way.

• 32:31Jamie Kern Lima?

  Well, when you said, when you shared just now, you, you, you know, felt like you were nothing without him.

• 32:38Speaker 02

  I really did.

• 32:39Jamie Kern Lima?

  So many people relate to that because they feel that way about their current partner or an ex or something like that. When you, when you got to that moment, Barbara, where you made that decision that you're going to say, no more, we're gonna split the business, we're gonna part ways. How did you get, how did you get to that moment? Because a lot of people don't get to that moment. They stay in something where they know like, oh, this relationship isn't good for me, or I'm not happy, or somebody's not, maybe it's a business partnership, this person isn't respecting me, or a friendship, this person doesn't love me or treat me like a friend the way I treat them. There's a lot of people that have this fear of I'm nothing without them, and they stay in it.

• 33:21Jamie Kern Lima?

  How did, how do you think that you got to that place where you made that decision? I'm gonna, I'm gonna part ways.

• 33:28Speaker 02

  Well, probably not the best motivation, but I think anger got me to the decision.

• 33:32Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 33:32Speaker 02

  Because I always saw them having fun and having each other and planning their wedding. They were married very quickly, so I guess it was meant to be. And I had nobody, that's how I felt. I think I got tired of being a victim. I don't think I'm a type of personality that plays a victim, but I suddenly, suddenly recognized the victim in me, that I was thinking, oh, poor me, that was so unfair, so unfair. And I think I stopped looking for the excuses not to leave. It was like, I felt that maybe he was right, I couldn't do it without him, maybe I didn't have enough finances, which I definitely didn't, maybe I owed too much money, which I definitely did. All the real reasons you don't do things, they're all real, the left brain, it was

• 34:14Speaker 02

  my brain thinking, and I knew it was just, I should wait it out and see, see where it goes. But then I just got tired of it, I got impatient. And you know what? Those are the best decisions, I think. The best decisions are the ones where you are, do it from an emotional place of power. And I think I just got powerful in that moment. If I had waited till the following Monday, I'm not sure I would have done it. But I felt able, like, we're gonna do it. And when I gathered my seven people in the little foyer that we had, they said, yes, guess what, on Monday, we're moving. Where are we going? It's a surprise. I'll never forget that. And they were, woo! So we made it a good thing. And by Monday, we were opening a new space and up in business. I can't say it was easy to get going again,

• 34:59Speaker 02

  when I thought I had a certain stride in the old company. But I kept thinking to myself, it's mine. It's mine. It's not 51% raise. It's mine. The 51% was never a problem, until I knew I could get 100%. And then it was a big problem. I was happy to leave it behind.

• 35:18Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah. When he said those words to you, you'll never succeed without me. What was that feeling like? Like, do you remember where you felt it or what it felt like?

• 35:26Speaker 02

  Nausea. Nausea in my stomach that it's probably true. That was the bad part. That I was, he was probably right. And then, right after that, kicking in. I wouldn't say the word after.

• 35:38Jamie Kern Lima?

  You can't.

• 35:39Speaker 02

  That was, that's what I said, you know?

• 35:41Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 35:42Speaker 02

  And then the gumption came up in your chest. You don't know what you're capable of, until you're put against a wall. None of us do. You know, you don't know really, how you're gonna feel and how you're gonna respond and what you're gonna do, until you're tested. Your metal's tested, shoved up against a wall, you know? It brings out good things in people.

• 36:02Jamie Kern Lima?

  You know, you, in that, in that parting of ways, you talk about a lesson about always give the other person the bigger piece.

• 36:11Speaker 02

  Oh, yes, from my mom.

• 36:12Jamie Kern Lima?

  Can you share a little bit about that? It was such a good...

• 36:16Speaker 02

  When we were kids, we would have meals at our table every night at 6 o'clock. My mother was a cook, not a very good one, but she always got us fed. Think of feeding 10 kids breakfast, dinner, and we had lunch at school, of course. But my mother would make her best dish, which, it sounds silly, was veal parmesan. And she'd have the pieces of veal under red sauce with little pieces of cheese on top. So when she put the platter on the table, which had 12 pieces in it, you only had a split second to decide which was the bigger piece. You were guessing with your fork. You wanted to stab the one where you got the most, you know? It was normal in a big family with not a lot to eat, so. So we would go and just as you stabbed him, if you were first, my mother would say,

• 37:00Speaker 02

  "Mm mm mm, Barbara, offer your brother the bigger piece." "Okay, John, you want this one?" We hated it growing up, but what do you think I said to Ray on that Friday morning? Not "take the bigger piece," but "you go first. You pick the best salespeople." Because my mother would always tell us, after we gave away the veal or the hamburger, whatever it was, "doesn't it taste better? Doesn't it really taste better?" And we would chew a smaller piece and think, "yeah, it tastes better. Like you got a reward right here on earth." So she instilled that in us. And so I always try to do that. You feel great about yourself, especially if somebody's doing you wrong.

• 37:40Speaker 02

  You just be sweet and turn and help them out. Oh, you feel like a million bucks. Easiest way to get happy.

• 37:47Jamie Kern Lima?

  I thought it was so genius because you, I know you talk about in your book, Shark Tales, you talk about how, how you knew that he knew there was one salesperson that, you know, produced more than everyone.

• 37:58Speaker 02

  And he took her.

• 37:59Jamie Kern Lima?

  And he took her. You knew he'd take her, but that wasn't actually what you needed. You needed the person who had the skill set to help you build next, as was Esther. Yeah. And, and so it was so smart and strategic because you gave him the bigger piece by saying, "you pick first." So then he takes the top producer. He thinks he won.

• 38:15Speaker 02

  Of course, expected.

• 38:15Jamie Kern Lima?

  You get who you want. And then from there, it goes your way.

• 38:18Speaker 02

  He scratches his head, wondering why I picked Esther.

• 38:21Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 38:22Speaker 02

  As my first pick. She was a middle-run producer. She wasn't a superstar. I had other people that were producing a lot more than her. But in Esther, I found my opposite. She was great at systems. She was left-wing all the way. Great at taxes, great at legal, great at the banks, getting financing for me. She was great at everything. I had no patience for her. And I was great at the things that she wasn't good at, you know, marketing. I was super at that. PR is all the way. Advertising, I was great. Recruiting people, I knew how to do. I knew all the stuff that she wouldn't touch if I forced her to. So together, we were able to build that business because she was strong as a container and I was a strong expander. And we shot that business up, but I couldn't have done it without Esther. I was smart to pick Esther first.

• 39:05Speaker 02

  When I had Esther in my camp, right away, I thought, well, now I have a shot. I have a shot.

• 39:10Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, yeah. And then you left it in a way where he thought he won.

• 39:14Speaker 02

  Oh, he won.

• 39:15Jamie Kern Lima?

  Which probably then made it an easier transition.

• 39:16Speaker 02

  Short term, he won. I had the long term, the long term game plan.

• 39:20Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah. And just how creative you were and resourceful and all of that. You had a landlord that thought you were a prostitute.

• 39:29Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 39:30Jamie Kern Lima?

  And then you end up turning that around. Can you share?

• 39:33Speaker 02

  It's one of my biggest accounts, actually. I was only in business about six months. I didn't have an office, so I was meeting people in my living room on East 86th Street, an apartment house I shared with my two roommates. During the day, a lot of men would come up because I had a great account that I went for and got, which was a Citibank account. Every new trainee was sent to me, which was a goal line, really, for a new kid in business. And so my super saw me entertaining men all day long. I see men come up and then I'd leave a half hour later with the man. And he reported me as a prostitute. So I came home one night to eviction notice. And I read it. It didn't say you're for prostitution. But I realized, I couldn't think, I paid the rent, we were quiet, we were neat. I went through the boxes.

• 40:17Speaker 02

  And then I realized, he probably thinks I'm doing something illegal. And Mr. Rock said, we think you're a prostitute. But what was fortunate about that visit, I went to visit my landlord. I did not want to be evicted. And I told him, you think I'm a prostitute? Why, I almost was a nun. He was Catholic. I really was an almost nun, but I told him that to make him feel secure about me. But I told him how much rent I was getting for his major competitor three blocks away. Because I was smart enough to build a wall between the living room and the L of the living room and the living room, calling it a two bedroom versus a one bedroom. And I told him I was getting thirty dollars more a month. His eyes lit up and I got his whole building, his listings of like thirty-five apartments to rent.

• 41:03Speaker 02

  So it went from being accused of a prostitute, almost getting convicted, evicted, and to him wanting more money. The same God that so many people follow, can you get me more money too? And that's exactly what I did. And that was my first real account.

• 41:17Jamie Kern Lima?

  It was so brilliant because there's people out there too that think like-

• 41:20Speaker 02

  It's also lucky, I must say. A little bit of luck helps there.

• 41:23Jamie Kern Lima?

  I think like so many people think maybe they watch Shark Tank or they whatever. And they're like, well, I don't have, you know, I haven't created a new product. But sometimes you can just improve on a product as well and be so strategic.

• 41:35Speaker 02

  Generally the best businesses, I think.

• 41:37Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, and you taking even so many of the one bedrooms, adding a wall. And now it's a one bedroom plus den.

• 41:45Speaker 02

  Now it's common in New York City.

• 41:47Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 41:48Speaker 02

  They call it a junior four. Legally, they weren't allowed to call it two bedrooms anymore. But it's the same configuration. It's no longer a one bedroom. It's a junior four.

• 41:56Jamie Kern Lima?

  That's amazing. It's amazing. And so you made something special and unique out of something that was there just by making a slight tweak to it.

• 42:04Speaker 02

  Of course.

• 42:04Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 42:05Speaker 02

  Everybody wanted more space in New York. You don't get any. Ooh, an extra space, ooh.

• 42:09Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, yeah. No, it's like I think about, I think about, you know, if I were shopping for apartments, looking for a one bedroom. But then you have the same one bedroom floor plan. You put a slight wall in there and this particular ad says one bedroom plus den. It's the same price.

• 42:25Speaker 02

  Yeah, everybody called me.

• 42:27Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 42:27Speaker 02

  Why would you get a one bedroom for $320 when you get this one bedroom den for $320 also?

• 42:33Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yes.

• 42:34Speaker 02

  Ah.

• 42:34Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yes. No, this is like a brilliant lesson, like a brilliant business lesson.

• 42:38Speaker 02

  I used it the rest of my life in marketing and trying to make anything that was not saleable look saleable. Anything that had obvious flaws to someone's eyes to make those same flaws look like an asset. I think you could do that with any product in life, any situation in life. If you just stop and really think about it. What do they want to hear? What do they want to see? What do they want to do? What do they want to have confidence in? And if you actually can slip yourself to the other guy's shoes, you could usually think very smartly about where you should deliver. And if you can't think of it, I have used my staff my whole life, a generation of ideas. I do now. I don't think I have really anything original left to me. I don't know if I've done an original idea in years.

• 43:22Speaker 02

  But my staff, whether it be the real estate staff, the media staff, they always generate great ideas. And as long as you have people popping them out, you could always think of something, always.

• 43:33Jamie Kern Lima?

  What you just said about like understanding what the other person wants, I understand like- It's so

• 43:39Speaker 02

  Sales.

• 43:40Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah, well, and it makes me think of no better example than when you say you out-trumped Trump.

• 43:48Speaker 02

  Oh, yes, yes.

• 43:49Jamie Kern Lima?

  So you were putting out the Corkin Report.

• 43:52Speaker 02

  Okay.

• 43:52Jamie Kern Lima?

  And then, and you were doing the top 10

• 43:54Speaker 02

  Yes. Condos.

• 43:56Jamie Kern Lima?

  Condos for sale. And that was, by the way, so innovative, right? To be building your business like, well, you know what? I'm going to put out a report.

• 44:03Speaker 02

  Yes.

• 44:03Jamie Kern Lima?

  So now, here's the Corkin Report. We're going to put it out there. We're going to show everyone the top 10 condos, you know, in all of Manhattan. And now, all of a sudden, that's a thing that you created. Now it exists. And then, and then Trump wasn't so happy that he, his condos weren't in it.

• 44:20Speaker 02

  No, not at all.

• 44:20Jamie Kern Lima?

  Yeah.

• 44:21Speaker 02

  Do you know, my mother had taught me something very contrary. That if you really are nice, if you wait your turn, the meek will inherit the earth. That was a kind of like a Catholic thing, you know? I found in New York City, it wasn't that way at all. If you were meek, people ripped you off. They did whatever they wanted to do to your business. You had to be tough. But when I published the Corkin Report, I learned another lesson on my own. It's not what you are, but how you appear. I took 11 sales, added them up, made an average sale, and called it the New York City Average Sale Price on 11 sales. That's preposterous. It wasn't like I was smart enough to even know what I was doing. And when I printed it up and sent it to a whole bunch of New York reporters at the New York Times, I never got a call.

• 45:04Speaker 02

  But two weeks later, the headline was, "New York City Prices Hit All-Time Low." That was the power of the Corkin Report. I became a source in New York City. Anyone who wanted any numbers on real estate prior to the internet, there were no numbers out there. Called me first, or only called me.

• 45:22Jamie Kern Lima?

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• 46:05Jamie Kern Lima?

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  It's time to go from doubting you're enough to knowing you're enough. It's time to step into all of who you are and into the person you were born to be. And it's time to believe that you are worthy of it. Because in life, we don't become what we want, we become what we believe we're worthy of.

• 50:43Jamie Kern Lima?

  Join the Worthy movement today by grabbing your copy of Worthy anywhere books are sold. Then head to worthybook.com now for free gifts, including my five-part course on Becoming Unstoppable and my 95-page Worthy Workbook Action Plan that teaches you how to implement the tools from the book into your real life right now.

• 51:07Speaker 05

  Worthy is groundbreaking. Yo. Oh my God. Worthy, you are worthy.

• 51:12Speaker 06

  This book is gonna change lives.

• 51:14Speaker 05

  This book literally will teach you how to actually feel worthy so that you can have the strength, you can have the confidence. The lessons in this book and the strategies will change your life. You will never be the same again after you read this book.

• 51:26Speaker 02

  Jamie's book, Worthy, is a must-read. It is going to inspire you, empower you, give you the hope that you need and the kick in the rear end that you deserve.

• 51:38Jamie Kern Lima?

  Is incredible. The gifts are going away, but they're all free right now on WorthyBook.com.

• 51:46Jamie Kern Lima?

  It's such an honor to share this podcast together with you. And please note, I'm not a licensed therapist and this podcast is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. If you love this incredible episode with Barbara Corcoran, I promise you, you are going to also love this life-changing episode of the Jamie Kern Lima Show with Oprah, where we talk about how to hear your intuition, tap into your purpose, and ignite your best life. It's up next, just for you.