Why Balance Is the Enemy of Greatness | David Senra

Get Sam's top 7 books for entrepreneurs (+ his reading strategy): https://clickhubspot.com/gds Episode 784: Sam Parr ( ⁠https://x.com/theSamParr⁠ ) sits down with David Senra ( https://x.com/FoundersPodcast ) to talk about greatness, balance and what destroys successful people. Show Notes: (0:00) Intro (1:22) Balance is the enemy of greatness (9:13) How to remember what you learn (17:10) Revenge for Being Born & Reframing the Inner Critic (26:40) Success, Relationships, and What Destroys Great People (30:55) Advice for 19-Year-Olds (34:42) David’s ideal board of advisors (39:20) Don’t Do Anything Someone Else Can Do (44:05) what successful people really think about at the end (48:30) Compounding wisdom — Links: • Founders Podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@founderspodcast1 — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. • Mercury - Need a bank for your company? Go check out Mercury (mercury.com). Shaan uses it for all of his companies! Mercury is a financial technology company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N. A., and Evolve Bank & Trust, Members FDIC — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/ • Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/ • Copy That - https://copythat.com • Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth • Sam’s List - http://samslist.co/ My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano /

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• 0:00Speaker 00

  Sometimes I think I should shut up and not say the things I say on podcasts. David Senra.

• 0:04Sam Parr?

  David Senra.

• 0:05Speaker 00

  The guy's name is David Senra. He's got a podcast called Founders. To even get on Founders Podcast, you have to be so good at your job. Somebody wrote a fucking book about it. That's an insanely high bar. It's almost like it's an obsession. It is. I'm addicted.

• 0:19Sam Parr?

  I've known you now for, I don't know, four or five years. I think you are crazier now than you were.

• 0:24Speaker 00

  I'm not balanced. I don't think I can be balanced. I don't think I want to be balanced. I want to be the best in the world at what I do. People are like, oh, 10,000 hours. I'm way past that. Like, way past that. So, of course I've changed. I'm not doing this to stay the same. The difference between the world's greatest and pretty good, it's not a little bit better. It's not 20% better. It's like thousand times better. And that is hard to grasp. Mediocrity is invisible until passion shows up and exposes it. I've become intolerable for people that are casual, and I don't even know why I'm like that. I think I was lying to myself for a while, that I don't need anybody else. I wanted professional success to say I was born in the wrong environment, and I will prove to you that I am not like the rest of these people.

• 1:08Speaker 00

  It's almost like a revenge for being born.

• 1:11Sam Parr?

  Are you a happy person? I don't think you're happy.

• 1:14Speaker 00

  I...

• 1:24Sam Parr?

  Okay, so you have to look this guy up. Elud Kipchoge. You have to see what he looks like. He looks more like a gazelle than a human being. Because the thing about world-class athletes and runners is you see them like when they're exerting themselves and like wearing their like running gear or whatever. And so they're like, yeah, he looks amazing. But then you see him in real clothes and you're like, oh my God, that person is so much skinnier, has so much less body fat than the average Joe. How on earth are these two human beings, both human beings, like a normal person versus Elud? And so he runs the marathon, I think, at like 201. Just like 436, I think, for the mile, crazy fast. And what we were saying was the difference between the world's greatest or the best there ever was and pretty good, you know, it's not a little bit better. It's not 20% better. It's like 10 times better or 100 times better.

• 2:08Speaker 00

  Or a thousand.

• 2:08Sam Parr?

  Or a thousand times better. And that is hard to grasp. Do you agree?

• 2:12Speaker 00

  Yeah, I mean, you asked me, like, what am I think, right before we started recording, you saw what I was doing, like, what are you thinking about? And I was like, I'm thinking about how this looks. And he's like, but does that matter? I was like, everything matters. Like, we're trying to be the best in the world at what we're doing. So like, we have to take everything very, very seriously. I think the only thing I'm obsessed with, there's actually, um, one of the best pieces of advice I ever got, uh, that I won't shut up about, and I think about literally probably every day now, is this idea of constant refinement of association that my friend Jared Kushner told me. And Jared is unbelievably honest. There's a great line in, um, I just finished, we were talking upstairs. I just finished reading Bruce Springsteen's autobiography. And there's a great line, he talks about his deep friendship that he has with Jimmy Iovine. And he's like, you want Jimmy in the room because he'll tell you the truth.

• 2:56Speaker 00

  Like, everybody around Bruce is kissing his ass. And like, Jimmy's just like, this album sucks. So this is great. You like, trust his judgment. And Jared's like that, too, where he's just like, if he's your friend and he likes you, he's very kind, but he will like, hey, that, what you're doing is not good enough for you. This person is not good enough for you. Be careful with this. And so this constant refinement of association is important because as you keep getting better at what you do, you get access to people that are great at what they do, too. And there's a lot of commonalities between them. And then, once you're exposed to that, I always have this line that mediocrity isn't visible until passion shows up and exposes it. I've become intolerable for, like, people that are casual with the way they approach their work, or the, the friends they choose to hang out with, or just anything that is not them striving for excellence. And I don't even know why I'm like that.

• 3:39Speaker 00

  It's just, I have to be, I want to be, I have to be the best in the world at what I'm doing. And so that is where I'm starting.

• 3:45Sam Parr?

  Or did you become like that because you've studied 400 biographies of greatness?

• 3:49Speaker 00

  That's a great question. I don't know. Michael Duff has this great line in his autobiography where, you know, he, at the time, he's 19 years old. He's in his dorm room at the University of Texas. He's got a thousand dollars. And he's like, I'm going to compete with IBM. That is delusional. IBM at the time is the most valuable company in the world. It was the first company, I didn't even know, I had to go back and research this. The first company to get to a hundred billion dollar market cap in history was IBM. And you have this kid, it's like, I'm gonna compete head to head with them. And the next line when he's talking about this is, was I a little full of myself at nineteen? Sure, I was. I think you have to be to do anything special. So I always had this like deep, just like delusional self-confidence.

• 4:31Speaker 00

  And like default optimism that like, I focus on something, I will figure it out. I will figure out how to do this. But I also think it's impossible. Like I've obviously changed. I've been doing the other, I've been doing Founders Podcast for almost ten years. It's like, I think I'm gonna feel like, I don't know, four hundred and seven of these books by far. That's hundreds of thousands of pages. That is, people are like, oh, ten thousand hours. I'm way past that. So of course I've changed. I'm not doing this to stay the same.

• 4:55Sam Parr?

  Well, I've known you now for, I don't know, four or five years, and I've listened to you for longer than that. I think you are crazier now than you were. I think you are more obsessed now than you were.

• 5:04Speaker 00

  Sometimes I think I should shut up and not say the things I say on podcasts. Because I like, I don't like having a filter. I don't like having two different sides of me. It makes me fundamentally uncomfortable. And so I, then I was like, you know, I'm just not gonna hold back. I'm just gonna say this. I just did this when I went on Tim Ferriss's podcast. And I talked about, Tim didn't tell me what we were gonna talk about. Other than he told my team, he's like, please tell David not to curse so much.

• 5:26Sam Parr?

  That's what I told you five years ago.

• 5:28Speaker 00

  And I don't think that came from Tim. I think that came from Tim's team. And I think we did, we accomplished that goal. But he started asking questions and I like hesitated for a half a second in my mind or half a minute. I'm like, man, I should not say this stuff. I don't, this is gonna be bad. And I just let it go. And since then, I was just on the phone. I won't say who I was talking to, but it's a founder of a public company. He's relatively young, wildly successful. And he was just like, hey, I listened to your Tim Ferriss interview. And he's like, I know exactly what you're talking about because like I went through that too. And you hear that over and over again. So to answer your question, like, am I crazier? Is that the term that you use or like more intense? I think I was lying to myself.

• 6:10Speaker 00

  For a while. And if you look at episode 222 of Founders Podcast, it says Ed Thorp, and in parentheses, it says, "My personal blueprint." And Ed Thorp's a legit genius. I am not a genius. Like, whatever he directed his talents to, he was going to succeed because he's a legitimate, like, I think, fundamental, like, genius. And what I liked about him was, like, he was like a real balanced person. You would love him. Yeah. Because you are like this. And I think you're truly like this. We, a lot of our conversations are like this. We're like, essentially bounded his professional life. He was very successful. I'll give like a quick TLDR of his life. He was the person that invented, like, how to count cards in blackjack. He was a mathematician and he was- How to G mathetition. A professor for a long time. He wrote a book called Beat the Dealer, which tells

• 6:53Speaker 00

  you how to count cards. Like, in 1960s, it sold millions of copies. He started the first quantitative hedge fund of all time. He was like one of the first investors in Berkshire Hathaway. He meets Warren Buffett when they're both in their 30s, and he gets in the car and he's like, "That guy's going to be the richest person in the world one day." So, and he invented the world's first handheld wearable computer with Claude Shannon, who's the father of information theory, and another genius. It's just like, how did one guy do all this- Yeah, like the Forrest Gump of, like, finance. That's a great way to think about it. And so, but he was also, like, he came from a real messed up family. He got into, like, weightlifting and fit, like, taking care of his health, before there was anything like bodybuilding. And he said, an hour, the way he's figured this out, he was in college time, he's like, "Well, the way I think about this,

• 7:35Speaker 00

  and every hour that I spend in the gym working on my health now is one less day in the hospital when I'm 80 or 90." He went on Tim Ferriss's show and you look at him, and I'd show pictures. I'm like, "How old do you think this guy is?" And he's like, "Oh, he's like 60." He's like, "92 or 90 or however old he is." So anyways, his whole thing was like, "I want a balanced life." He would work, you know, nine to five, thereabouts. Then he would spend time on his health, his work, his family.

• 8:01Speaker 00

  And then he'd like to have fun. And it was much more balanced life. And then he also did something which was fascinating where once he made more money than he could ever spend in his lifetime, he also didn't like to travel like you. He has this beautiful house in Newport, California. And every time he travels, it's a downgrade. Like, why did I leave my house? Once he started, had enough money that he didn't need more money, he stopped trading time for money. And he had like, you know, these are like layups. Oh, I can make thirty million dollars on, you know, investing in this oil thing or whatever the case is. He's just like, whoa, what's the point? And so for a long time, because by that time I'd read, you know, 200 of these books. And I was like, oh, he's like an outlier and outlier. Like, most of these people are like just singularly obsessed in their work. And so for a long time, like, I think I was lying to myself like, yeah, I want to balance life.

• 8:46Speaker 00

  And it's just like, no, I'm not balanced. I don't think I can be balanced. I don't think I want to be balanced. I want to be the best in the world at what I do. And again, I narrowly define that. I'm not trying to, you know, I think that the narrow definition is important. And that's kind of what I think about all day. That's what kind of drives me. That is when I feel comfortable. And maybe I'll change in the future, but like I am fundamentally uncomfortable not working towards some kind of professional goal.

• 9:17Sam Parr?

  All right, I read a ton. I would say almost a book a week. And the reason I read so much is because my philosophy towards reading is I want to see what worked for the winners that I love and what strategies they use. And then I want to see what mistakes did they all make? What were the common flaws that they all had? And I just want to avoid that. And so HubSpot asked me to put together a list of the books that have changed my life so far in 2025. And I did that. So I listed out seven books that made a meaningful difference in my life. And I explained what the differences that they had on me or what actions I took because of the book. And then also I listed out my very particular ways of reading because I'm pretty strategic about how I read and how I read so much and how I remember what I read and things like that. And so I put this together in a very simple guide.

• 10:02Sam Parr?

  It's seven books that had a huge impact on my life. And you can scan the QR code below if you want to read it. Or there's a link. You guys know what to do. There's a link in the description. Just go ahead and click it and you'll see the guide that I made. So it's the seven books that had a massive change in my life this year so far. And then also how I'm able to read so much. So check it out below. So I read a lot. I read one to four books a month, mostly history. You do more or the same. How do you become sensitive enough when you read something to know that that is a point that is worth remembering? Because there's been so many times where I've read something and I will forget it, right? I'm reading a, like I've read, I love the American Revolution and then like I'll reread books. I'm like, I didn't even remember about this or that.

• 10:47Sam Parr?

  You do a really good job at recall. You've done it many times here and you do a really good job bringing the point of the story that actually matter. And I think this is an important lesson to learn of how do you be sensitive enough to see what is important and what isn't? And then to use that to change your life.

• 11:02Speaker 00

  I was like a big believer in intuition and just like this like constant refinement of your own taste. Like I'm sure I did not have that skill in September, 2016, when I started, nearly to the degree that I have it now. Right before Kobe Bryant died, he was asked this question about like what he sees in like Steph Curry. That it makes him such a like formidable competitor. And he's like, there's like a calm, this is Kobe describing Steph Curry. He's like, there's like a calmness about him. And he's like, and when you match this like calmness and belief in what his skillset is with his intense desire and work ethic to practice and to get better. Like that is a very dangerous combination.

• 11:44Speaker 00

  And what he was referring to was Steph says, people always ask me what I think about when I'm shooting. And he goes, absolutely nothing. And so I don't overthink this. I read the book. If something, it's all intuition. It's this lines is speaking to me. This is jumping out to me. I'm going to underline it and I'm going to jot down on notes. Exactly what came to my mind right now. Do not overthink this, just like you know this stuff over and over again, because like we see Steph hitting a crazy three pointer in the Olympics, like to win, you know, I watched that clip the other day. We don't see. The million other times he was alone shooting the three. I always say the public praises people for what they practice in private.

• 12:30Speaker 00

  The other thing about this taste, what I realized is when I talked to a lot of other people that are really great at what they do, other entrepreneurs, people that want to be great at what they do, but aren't yet. I was like, they're trying to figure it's like, why am I not breaking through? It's like, cause you don't, you're not actually interested in this. Like you are lying to yourself. I am intensely interested in this. You could ask my partner, Rob. We go through this all the time with the new show about like, hey, let's get this person. And like, that person's like a big name.

• 12:54Sam Parr?

  And I just don't give a shit.

• 12:56Speaker 00

  And I'm like, but this is the way I think about my work. Okay, like the only way I'm going to do this for the rest of my life is if I'm doing it for the right reasons. And so I cannot over complicate things. Munger has this line where he says something about like, the hardest thing to do is to remember why you set out doing what you're doing and to keep things simple. Right. And to do that for a very long time. So the way I think about it is like founders is the books that I'm intensely interested in reading. Right. Not just a book that I think is going to do a lot of downloads. There's been times where like, I was like, read this book. I read it. I hate that guy and I throw the book across, literally throw the book across the room. I was like, I'm not, I don't want to spend a week in that guy's mind. Founders is the, the books I'm intensely interested in wanting to read and enjoy reading.

• 13:38Speaker 00

  And the new show, David Center is the people I'm intensely interested in having conversations with. I was on the phone with somebody yesterday and I text her and I was like, I want you to fly to Balibu. And I want to do a show with you. And she's like, are you out of your mind? Are you crazy? Because she feels because of the guest list has been like, kind of.

• 13:59Sam Parr?

  She's below.

• 14:00Speaker 00

  Yeah. And she, I was like, and she sent me this funny meme where it's like, uh, where like Big Bird is sitting at like a table. And like, everybody else is like, it's just like a normal office and you got Big Bird. And she put like, Daniel Ek and Michael Dell and all these other people I've had, and then her name on this. I'm like, that's not, that's not what I'm interested in. I am intensely interested in people that have singular careers. They are doing what they do in a way that is completely natural and authentic to them. And they, they're kind of like an inner scorecard. So like, they're willing to make decisions that may not make sense to you, but makes sense to them.

• 14:31Sam Parr?

  Have you read the inner game of tennis?

• 14:32Speaker 00

  But everybody tells me.

• 14:33Sam Parr?

  So listen to this. So I think it's a good, I think the guy's name is Tim Galloway. The idea is that he wrote it in the 1960s or maybe 70s. He was a tennis instructor. And so he was like trying to get his students to be better tennis players. And he developed this idea of self one and self two. Self one is a critic. And so when you would hit a ball, you'd say, shit, that was horrible. I gotta move my hand this way. I gotta do this. Self two is someone who doesn't listen to the brain, but listens to the body. And you'd be like, well, I practiced this a thousand times, just like Steph Curry. Like, I don't need to criticize myself. Instead, I'm going to be objective and I'm going to be like, let's try moving our hand just a little bit this way. And let's just see what happens. That one, that didn't, that hit that we just did, that didn't achieve the desired outcome. What would happen if I just do this? And you just kind of feel it.

• 15:17Sam Parr?

  And so the idea here is that you listen to your, um, your body more than your brain. And it's very similar to what you're saying of like being simple and being, um, following, following intuition. And in fact, this book, I think Bill Gates is the most recent person to write the foreword of the book. It's, it was launched in the seventies and they've republished it. And it's now it's like a business cult classic. And the idea here is exactly what you're describing, which is like, you, you keep things very simple. You practice a lot and you don't criticize yourself and you don't like think too hard about what will do well.

• 15:47Speaker 00

  The criticism, I mean, you have talked about this a lot, uh, like in private, like we both were maniacally driven to fix and to achieve financial success.

• 15:59Speaker 00

  And a lot of times that doesn't come from a positive place.

• 16:02Sam Parr?

  Yeah. The way that I see it a lot of times is basically I build businesses because I feel like I have, uh, I'm not good enough. And also I try to fix myself because you have to fix your personality in order to build a great company.

• 16:14Speaker 00

  Mine is not that I don't think I'm good enough. There is like, this is gonna be weird. One of my favorite, um, movies is a movie called Tombstone. It's like one of my favorite things and I watched it when I was a kid over and over again. And there's like a line where Doc Holliday and Wyatt Earp are legitimately true friends. And Wyatt Earp is about to go and have a duel, like a life and death duel. He's going to meet this guy named Johnny Ringo and he's like, we both have guns. One of us is gonna survive and the other person is going to die. This is about to happen to me. And he's talking to Doc Holliday about like, what drives Johnny Ringo to do what he does? And The, the, the, the performance by Val Kilmer is incredible.

• 16:59Speaker 00

  And he's just like, people like that have a giant hole in their heart that no matter what they do, they can't fill. And so then Wyatt asked the follow up question is like, what does he want? And he goes, revenge. Revenge for what? Revenge for being born. And I think what drives me, if you get into like, how I think about it is like, I wanted professional success to say, I was born in the wrong environment. And I will prove to you that like, I am not like the rest of these people. I know, I knew, I knew that since I was like six. Like I felt very different for a long time. And I was like, and I'm going to, I'm going to do this for myself, but you're also going to see that I'm not going to wind up like these people.

• 17:41Speaker 00

  There is a, it's almost like a revenge for being born in the environment that I was that like drives me. Now the self criticism, you could be, my self criticism for a long time. And you see this with a lot of high performers, it's like constantly negative, like overtly overly negative. And what I've now changed to is it's like, that drove me, right? To work all the time, to try to find a craft that you can be really good at. That has already happened. So that was useful for back then. Is it still useful to this day? And this is where Brad Jacobs, like who was, I think the third person on the new show. I, I've thought, I've talked to him about this a lot, you know, that guy's, this is the benefit of meeting these people now.

• 18:23Speaker 00

  He has more years of experience as an entrepreneur than I've been alive. The amount of information they can transfer to you in a hour long conversation, a 15 minute conversation in a sentence is not, you don't, you're not capable of doing that unless you have this like hard earned wisdom from experience. And I'm reading his second book right now, which I don't even think is out. And so much of it is about him reframing negative thoughts into positive ways and the way he does this. Because his, he realized that when I was just negative and beating myself up, I was not as effective. I thought that was a tool and it wasn't a tool. And so what I'm basically, what I've been thinking about a lot lately is just like, man, that served me back then, that negative inner monologue.

• 19:06Speaker 00

  Serve me now. I always say like, learning is not memorizing information. Learning is changing your behavior.

• 19:09Sam Parr?

  Yeah. So, but that's the hard part because in general, people don't change. You know, Robert Greene has this great book called Human Nature. And he was like, in general, assume most people won't change.

• 19:17Speaker 00

  Yeah, most people. I'm not trying to be most people.

• 19:20Sam Parr?

  Uh, yeah, but you're, but we still have that in us where like you have to fight inertia and that's, and that's quite hard.

• 19:24Speaker 00

  Yeah. So we, we were talking upstairs, this Bruce, cause you're a Bruce Springsteen fan and his autobiography. I would highly recommend people go watch this movie called Deliver Me From Nowhere. I think it is. I thought it was going to be a biopic of Bruce Springsteen. That's not what it was. It was about a guy that had an unbelievably tumultuous childhood that funneled that pain into an unbelievable work ethic to get him what he thought he wanted most in the world, which is being a rock star. And then right after he hits that, after, you know, years and years of struggle, he plunges himself into deep depression. And what he realizes is like, he can't form, he's so, his childhood was so messed up. It did not give him the ability to form stable, loving relationships with women.

• 20:05Speaker 00

  And what he desperately wanted was, he wanted a stable relationship. He wanted to have kids because he wanted to raise his kids and break the chain that his parents did to him. And yet what he would do, he would freak out. He'd like, he'd fall in love with a woman or whatever the case was. And then he'd like, something's wrong with her. She can't, if she loves me, I am unlovable. So therefore I'm going to hurt this person. He would run away and then he'd start dating somebody else. And he would go through this over and over and over again, right? Until the point where like he, he has to go wind up seeing a therapist. He finds, he basically is like, hey, my life is going to be miserable. I'm going to be world famous. I'm going to be wealthy. I'm going to have a job I love and I'm going to be depressed and miserable.

• 20:50Speaker 00

  And the crazy thing about the book, the book is 600 pages long. Half the time you're like, this guy is, the first half of the book is about his love for his work and his work ethic. And so you, you think you see where it's going. And then this curve ball happens in his life where he's like, life. Is more important than work. What Bruce was figuring out is that every human wants like relationships, whether it's a romantic relationship or a true friend or something, somebody understands you, that you feel like you can like do life together. And I now have, like, my friend group is crazy because of like how high quality they are in all the domains, like all areas of their life.

• 21:31Speaker 00

  And that was like, oh, my God, it's not that I was like, didn't like, that I didn't want to let people in or I didn't like other humans. It's like, I didn't have access to this before. And so like, almost every single one of my new friends have come from the podcast. And in some cases, they've become like best friends, people that I've spent years getting to know and like spend hours and hours talking to. And so that's where it's like, oh, like, this is actually really important to me. Relationships are really important to me in a way that I didn't understand. And maybe I was like lying to myself about this. And so that was like a huge learning for me. And then the reason I bring this up for the Bruce Feasing thing is because he's messing up at something he deeply desires, yet he's smart enough to realize, hey, what are the tools that I need to fix this?

• 22:15Speaker 00

  Because if I don't fix this, I'm going to have another 30 years, or in his case, 40 years of my life where I'm going to be miserable. So it's like, change his behavior. That means he learned. You're not learning if you didn't change your behavior.

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• 22:55Speaker 00

  You know what's crazy? I think when I, every time I listen to your podcast, I have envy of the people, not because of their success, but because like particularly like Bruce, but there's a lot of people who found their passion very early on in life. And I don't know if that's luck, what it is, but I think that that's like the, whenever I listen to founders and I, and now that David

• 23:16Sam Parr?

  Show, I think like, how crazy is it? Like, we were talking about music. I, I, whenever I go to concerts and like, if it's a band that I've loved for years, I loved Green Day for years. Billy Joe will play a song that he wrote when he was 15. And I'm like, how fortunate are you that you were able to create stuff at the age of 15? That's still relevant to you in your 50s or 60s. And so I get like, like one of the, my favorite, one of my favorite ones you've done. I didn't like this guy, but what's the Liz Zodica's guy's name?

• 23:41Speaker 00

  Oh, yeah, Dovacchio.

• 23:43Sam Parr?

  So basically for the listener, this guy like started like a sunglass conglomerate that's a monopoly and it's 80 or a hundred billion dollar company and he tried to pass it on to his sons and try to make it a family dynasty. But there's a ton of like bad shit that he's done in his life with family and, and he seems like a pretty like angry, generally angry guy.

• 24:01Speaker 00

  Like an orphan.

• 24:02Sam Parr?

  Yeah, like this is what I mean. He had a lot of darkness.

• 24:04Speaker 00

  But he never dealt with it. Where I just give you the example, Bruce is like, no, I'm not going.

• 24:08Sam Parr?

  Well, he dealt with it at the end. I think at the end of the episode, you're like, he was like, the thing that I wish I did differently was how I treated my children.

• 24:14Speaker 00

  Yeah, but on the episode I said, I don't believe him.

• 24:16Sam Parr?

  Right. That's what you said. But what I do envy of him and many of the people is that they found their passion early.

• 24:22Speaker 00

  I, I could see that, but like, I was 32 when I found like what I love to do.

• 24:27Sam Parr?

  Really?

• 24:28Speaker 00

  Yes. Bruce Springsteen was 15. Kobe Bryant was like 11. Leonardo, I think it's Leonardo. Dovacchio was what? 17?

• 24:35Sam Parr?

  Yes, he was young. 32 was young, but the fact that you find it in the first place.

• 24:38Speaker 00

  This is why I, you ask like, what are you doing? Why are you taking like, you didn't say like, why are you taking everything so seriously? It's like, that is what I'm, I understand how rare it is for somebody to be able to make a living doing something that they love to do. This is why I hate like, we talked about the fact that we don't really read Twitter that much, you and I. I hate like, when I see people just like, uh, engagement farming and they're like, the worst piece of advice you could ever have is like, work on what you're passionate about. And they're like, instead like, start a trash hauling business. And I'm just like, no, man, like, it's the best thing in the world and it's excessively rare. And if you find it, you should do everything in your possible, impossible to like, hold on to it and to not mess it up. This is a piece of advice I got from, from Michael Dell.

• 25:21Speaker 00

  And he told me, he was like, tell me crazy stories. This is before we recorded the podcast. We spent five hours talking and he told me he's just like most entrepreneurs sabotage themselves. Right? You're not taken out by like a competitor. Uh, like you, you, you do something where like you're having success. And then like you, I always say like the worst thing you could do is like you go to sleep on a win, you wake up with a loss. Right? Um, Jimmy Iovine, one of the things I learned from Jimmy, he, he's in this documentary. It's one of my favorite documentaries called The Defiant Ones. He also had this like crazy 50 year career. Is like the importance of actually having a full life with crazy experiences. And so like he did this episode of Rick Rubin, two years ago, he just did another episode of Rick Rubin's podcast.

• 26:05Speaker 00

  I think it was in 2023. It was the best single podcast episode I listened to in 2023. And it's just like, I want that. I, I not only want to be really great at what I do, but I was like, I want to have a very full life. So Jimmy was kind enough when I did a founder's episode on, on him, he said like a thousand people texted to him. And he invited me to his house and one of the pieces of advice, again, 72, maybe 75, it's probably 72. Uh, guy has more knowledge, you know, practical knowledge is pinky than I have in my entire body. And he's like, most people cannot handle success. And the advice that he's been around super talented people and these are some people who are legit geniuses and they destroy their lives. I'm not interested in being successful for a year, for five years, for 10 years.

• 26:49Speaker 00

  I wonder, I don't want to, I want to be this to decide I'm going to stop doing this. And so his whole thing was there's like basically four things that he sees for ways that people do this the most.

• 26:59Sam Parr?

  Ruin their success.

• 27:00Speaker 00

  They, they are successful, they're talented and they destroy themselves. Yeah.

• 27:04Sam Parr?

  What are the four?

• 27:04Speaker 00

  So the first, the first one was drugs, pills, heroin, all this stuff. I don't do any drugs. That's not going to happen to me.

• 27:11Sam Parr?

  Did you see the Eddie Murphy documentary?

• 27:13Speaker 00

  No, everybody keeps telling me that about.

• 27:14Sam Parr?

  Oh, it was so good, dude. And one of the main things was, you know, he was famous since he was 16. He was on SNL, I think, when he was 18 and, you know, did all these movies when he was 21. He was like, I've never done drugs. And he's like, that's one of the main, one of the main reasons why I am what I am.

• 27:28Speaker 00

  So his, he's going to be number three on this list, which we'll get to in a minute about what could destroy you. And he, he wasn't destroyed by it, but he has a, he's addicted to something else, which we'll get to. Number two, alcohol, like you just like can destroy your life. You know, I had, uh, went to dinner last night, uh, with a friend and like I had a glass of sake, like, but I didn't get drunk. It was like, fine. Right? Three, women.

• 27:52Speaker 00

  They just like, they attract the wrong kind of women, uh, they fall in love with the wrong kind of women. They let the wrong women in around them like.

• 28:00Sam Parr?

  What's the, what's the Patriots coach?

• 28:03Speaker 00

  Bill Belichick?

• 28:04Sam Parr?

  Yes. You see what he's doing now?

• 28:06Speaker 00

  He's dating like a 20 year old or something?

• 28:07Sam Parr?

  Oh yeah, man. She just calls the shots.

• 28:10Speaker 00

  Okay, that, well.

• 28:11Sam Parr?

  It's exactly what you're describing.

• 28:13Speaker 00

  No, in cases, it gets a lot darker. There's like, it can distract you. It's just, you have to, you want high quality people around you in every single domain. Friends, high quality people, people you work with, high quality people. The people you date, you want high quality people. Like you just want high quality people. It's like, well, it's the most important decision you make in your life is the people that you let around you. Which I see people are way too casual about this. And I could be really, really ruthless in this domain. Um, and then the fourth one is megalomania. And the reason I say Eddie Murphy, cause like, he's like dated every single person. He's got like 10 kids. I think he's got a bunch of different baby mamas. Uh, again, he's still living his life he wants to do, but he clearly lacks that, uh, uh, number three. So number four is just megalomania. Um, you start to think that you're successful because of you and not the work that you put in.

• 28:58Speaker 00

  And you start to believe you, you have like, you're like a god and like, everybody should, you know, praise you and you just completely become disassociated from reality. And this is why I say like, it's very dangerous, especially to like, do numbers driven thing. Like I talk to founders all the time. I'm like, oh, like, tell me about your company. Like, I just want to be the first, you know, I want to build a trillion dollar company. I want to be the first, the fastest company to a hundred million ARR. I'm like, you know, like no of, none of history's greatest entrepreneurs, none of history's greatest entrepreneurs thought like that.

• 29:26Sam Parr?

  I'm calling you out on that. That's bullshit. Because when I talked to Ramp, the Ramp founders are amazing. They're like the best of the best. They said, our goal is to get to a billion dollar in, uh, valuation in 18 months.

• 29:36Speaker 00

  That was not their primary goal. Their primary goal.

• 29:38Sam Parr?

  But they said that's what their goal. I mean, he, he was like, I think, I think it'd be cool if we could do that.

• 29:42Speaker 00

  Oh, that's different. That's, no, that is different. A hundred percent. I'm saying you, the reason for your existence, the reason what you're doing, these people are telling me, I'm only starting this company so I can hit a certain financial number. That's completely different.

• 29:54Sam Parr?

  No, that's not what he said.

• 29:55Speaker 00

  Yeah, that's not what they I was wasn't I there with you in the office?

• 29:58Sam Parr?

  I recorded with him and and he repeats this all the time. It's like, that's like a cool thing. He was like, I thought it'd be cool if we get to a billion in valuation in 18 months.

• 30:07Speaker 00

  I don't I don't know if I heard that episode, but like there.

• 30:09Sam Parr?

  He said it a bunch.

• 30:10Speaker 00

  Okay, their experience with Parabas beforehand was giving the insight into the founding story of Ramp. So that's a longer story, but my point being is like, I'm hugely skeptical if you're there's some kind of external metric that I will only be happy if I hit that metric, or that is the reason that I'm doing this. Where mine is just like, I want to make things that are proud of that I think are good in like I could put out in there like good into the world. And I don't confuse like when we were just upstairs and like that guy sitting next to us. It's like, I don't confuse with somebody saying, hey, I like what you do. Like, that's the perfect way to say it. You like what I do. You might like me as a person. If we knew each other, we'd probably get along. We probably have the same interests. But never confuse that they don't like you. It's the work.

• 30:56Speaker 00

  And if once you stop putting in the work, everything else goes away. That is how the megalomaniacs, they just think like, I'm so talented, I just show up. I just, everything I touch turns to gold. I don't have to practice. I don't have to put any effort. And everything's going to work out. And then they also, you know, treat people essentially not as people.

• 31:12Sam Parr?

  If you had to teach someone who was 19 how to find their life's work, based off of talking of, reading about 400 people and not talking to dozens of hundreds of successful entrepreneurs, what would you say is the the exercises that they should do?

• 31:27Speaker 00

  My problem is, I think at that age, I wouldn't have taken anybody's advice. And I think I'm only now, the last few years, like been open to letting other people like mold my mind.

• 31:40Sam Parr?

  Well, what would you say?

• 31:41Speaker 00

  The fact that they're asking the question, like, there's this great line where it's like, a 21 year old kid comes up to Mozart and it's like, I want to know how to write a symphony. And she says, you're too young. And the guy that is asking Mozart the question is just like, yeah, but you wrote symphonies when you were 14. He's like, yeah, but I didn't go around asking people how to do it. There's something in there where you feel somebody else has the answer. That doesn't mean you shouldn't ask for advice. I'll be very clear here. I don't think I, there's anything magical I would have to say that would put them on the other path. You, you need to spend a lot of time thinking about what you actually believe. A lot of people just lied to themselves. They do it over and over and over again. And this long conversation last night. And the conversation started, it was like, what's the lie that you're telling yourself?

• 32:25Speaker 00

  And we went back and forth, me and this other person, uh, for a while about this. Uh, my lie, I'll just tell you right now, which, uh, again, I'm probably sharing too much publicly is this is like, that I don't need anybody else. That's a lie. You think that. That, that's a lie I've been telling myself for a very long time, which again, has happened. And I learned that because of the experience I'm having, the relationships I have, uh, like realizing that like, you're, you're doing that because it's a defense mechanism, not because it's actually true. And so for this, I'd be like, take the time, like what do you actually want? And that's very hard to, to be truthful about. And the one way that I found it is just like, I just follow like, I have ungovernable curiosity about things. I cannot tell you why I like to read. And so like, when I first started my first podcast, it was like, oh, like, it'd be cool if I could like,

• 33:08Speaker 00

  build a business and a life where I just get to read all the time, which sounds ridiculous, but it actually worked. And then you just follow this. And then now to the point where like, we recorded this conversation with Todd Graves, who's one of the, one of the people I wanted to meet the most, which people, it sounds crazy, but I'm like, he's like, what does he do? He's like, he sells chicken fingers. And they're like, what? Why do you want to meet him? I was like, cause he grinded himself. First of all, he's been doing his business for 30 years. Started out, built the first store by hand. He had no money. Went to crazy risk to find the financing because there's no venture capital and no one would give him money. He had to like, risk his life on a, on a boat, uh, sailing off, uh, fishing off Alaska. He worked as a boiler maker. He was like highly leveraged and almost went out of business. He did all these crazy things because he just found he had this chicken finger dream.

• 33:52Speaker 00

  That's what he calls it. And it's like, I have to do the chicken finger dream. I can't explain why. It, again, he's not external, looking for external validation. I'm going to do this. Everybody's like, you're an idiot. You can't do that. It hasn't changed his menu in, um, 30 years. So we fly to Baton Rouge. The conversation is incredible. We record for two hours, two, two hours, two and a half hours, two hours, and then we spend another two and a half hours, one on one, together after.

• 34:13Sam Parr?

  Was he any different?

• 34:14Speaker 00

  No, because these people, and he also listens to the podcast, so he understands who I am. Like, it's just very, this is what I meant. It's like, I don't, I don't make media. I'm building relationships.

• 34:21Sam Parr?

  He might be like top 10 person I've listened to on your pod.

• 34:24Speaker 00

  Yeah, he, he's incredible. And so this is the point about following the curiosity going back to the 19 year old. I go back to the airport and I call Sam Hinky and he picks up and I go, I'm in big trouble. And he goes, what's going on? I go, I am already wildly addicted to having these conversations. He go, I go, I've never done ecstasy, but this is how I feel right now. I am like high, I am wired. I am like high as a kite because I had this guy, again, he's got three decades of experience. He had 915 stores, the company's worth over $20 billion. He owns 90% of it. He's growing faster in year 30 than it ever has in its history. He still has trouble sleeping because he can't wait to wake up and get back to work the next day.

• 35:07Speaker 00

  And so you just get like, you get this download of information and energy from him that like just made me euphoric.

• 35:13Sam Parr?

  Who would be on your board of advisors? Would he be on one of them?

• 35:16Speaker 00

  How many people do I get?

• 35:17Sam Parr?

  Six.

• 35:18Speaker 00

  I have to name them?

• 35:19Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 35:19Speaker 00

  Living or dead?

• 35:20Sam Parr?

  Either.

• 35:21Speaker 00

  Let me do dead, just because that'll give me some time to think about living. And I think like, I, I don't know if I want to answer that question honestly, but I would have to. Dead, you know, Rockefeller built the greatest company ever created.

• 35:32Sam Parr?

  Rockefeller, I think, is one of the few tycoons of, in terms of like unpeachable character and like amazing success. I think he's the best.

• 35:41Speaker 00

  Debatable and unpeachable.

• 35:42Sam Parr?

  No, okay. Unpeachable is not the right word because he screwed up. He did lie on the record a bunch of times, but in general, I think he was, he's an ethical, honest person.

• 35:50Speaker 00

  Got a little handsy towards the end of his life. Let's just put it that way. I remember I collect.

• 35:54Sam Parr?

  He was 100.

• 35:55Speaker 00

  I collect obscure Rockefeller biographies. I have made my own. There's, I have one at my house I haven't done an episode on. It's 1700 pages long. It's in a big binder.

• 36:03Sam Parr?

  He was a weirdo when he was like 90 and he was like giving people nickels and shit.

• 36:06Speaker 00

  That's, yep, that's fine. Great, he undeniable, one of the best businesses ever created. Charlie Munger told me to my face that he thinks Rockefeller created the best business in history.

• 36:16Sam Parr?

  Yeah.

• 36:17Speaker 00

  Munger would have to be on it because he's dead unfortunately now. I think he's the wisest person I've ever studied. If I could only like emulate, learn from one person, it'd be him. Edwin Land. Founder of Polaroid, patron saint of Founders Podcast. He was Steve Jobs' hero. His whole thing, he's got a lot of things that, a lot of personal mottos. He invented the instant photography, the entire industry, then monopolized the industry. It's like one of the last great American technology companies that were never like, his patents were never...

• 36:45Sam Parr?

  When did he die? I've never heard of him.

• 36:47Speaker 00

  In the 90s? He met, when he was in his 70s, Steve Jobs met Edwin Land when Steve was like 25, Edwin Land was like 72, I think. And he said, Steve Jobs said that spending time with him was like visiting a shrine. This is how a lot, I get to meet like crazy people in the world, right? I actually had lunch with a friend yesterday and she told me something fascinating. She's just like, you need to like, take a minute to think about what's going on in your life and the fact that you have this ridiculously sick life because of the people you have like access to.

• 37:20Sam Parr?

  You ever write this stuff down in your journal?

• 37:22Speaker 00

  No, this is like, I think I, I think one of the reasons I wanted to do the Bruce Springsteen episode is because I think I'm also, I like run from my past. I don't like thinking about it. Like, there's just all kinds of other stuff going on. And so I spent time yesterday with a 71-year-old guy. It looks like he's gonna do his first ever podcast interview with me. He just sold his company for $60 billion and in an hour, he transferred like more knowledge to me than I would weeks speaking to like a young startup founder. This is like, it's just unbelievable that. So Edwin Land, I felt, did the exact same thing for Steve Jobs. And Steve Jobs like would, he's such a copy, he patterned Apple off of Polaroid and a lot of people don't understand that. Like to the point where like, you can go back and watch Steve's product demonstrations

• 38:07Speaker 00

  and the table and chairs that are on that are the exact same ones that Edwin Land did for Polaroid. You're not, this is, people don't actually see, if you don't have, if you're not studying history, you don't have this like basis of historical knowledge in your head. You actually don't know what you're looking at. Like I saw something different when I saw that video than somebody that didn't study history does. It's like very, very valuable. And this is like, we're wasting time doing dumb shit like watching short-form videos all day. You being obsessed with the news, following X, like this stuff is garbage. This is like, read books and talk to really amazing people and try to like, apply what you're learning from both those experiences to be a better human. And then the better human you are, other better humans will then open up to you. And then there's like this virtuous cycle.

• 38:48Sam Parr?

  You have three more.

• 38:49Speaker 00

  So Rockefeller.

• 38:51Speaker 00

  Munger, Land, obviously Steve Jobs. Steve Jobs built, you know, the most successful consumer product of all time. I will say about Evan Land, I took two ideas from him. He had a, his personal motto was, don't do anything someone else can do. I think that's different, demands differentiation. When you listen to my podcast, they are very weird. Founder, there's not like, you can read books and have a solo podcast. You're not going to make it like that. It's a very weird thing. Even the way I'm doing the new show, everybody's like, this guy interview is weird. I'm not interviewing a goddamn person. I am having conversations. What you're hearing on the show is exactly what you would hear if we weren't recording this. This is the stuff I have. The idea of these, all these guys, everybody that's been on the show besides James Dyson so far, has listened to the podcast. You think, first of all, a lot of the early listeners for the new show come from founders, right?

• 39:37Speaker 00

  And some of the mess I get, they're like, yeah, but like, you're like talking too much and like, you interrupt and you do all this other stuff. Like you should do it the way this guy does. We just did 400 episodes of people that build lives and phenomenal careers by being differentiated. And now you're like, no, no, don't be differentiated. Go do it like this other guy. The differentiation I have compared to other podcasters that want to talk to excessively successful people in business is they haven't read 400 biographies about history's greatest entrepreneurs like I have. I spend time with Daniel Ek all the time. I just saw Michael Dell again last week. I promise you, they don't want me to not talk. That is not what they want. They listen to the show. And so this idea from Evan Land, it's like, don't do anything someone else could do.

• 40:19Speaker 00

  That is a very, very simple sentence and a very profound insight if you actually apply it. Most people are so scared to be different. Cause your recall is so good. I wasn't born with that. It's work. It's 10 years of reading and then rereading and then like building my own database. And then like, I've done all kinds of crazy shit that no other podcasters do. Cause you know, like I talked to other podcasters and I ask all kinds of questions. It's like, Everybody's like, "You are blessed with phenomenal memory." No, I forget everything all the time. But I don't forget something if I've read it 15 times.

• 40:49Sam Parr?

  I was up in your room and I took a photo of your book. You had the Brad Jacobs book.

• 40:53Speaker 00

  Yeah.

• 40:53Sam Parr?

  I was like, "I just want to see what he's underlining." I was like, "I just want to see like his thinking." You underlined so much stuff. You had so many notes in there.

• 41:01Speaker 00

  Yeah. Um, so, but this is because again, like I also love what I do. And if you love what you do, you're going to do things that are for not for financial reasons. You do it because you want it to be great. Like I am killing myself over this edit right now. The, the, the episode that I'm working on right now is probably four days late and it's, I still don't have it. And like, I feel uncomfortable right now, but I know that's a good feeling because like when I get on the other side that this happened. I did this episode called How Elon Works. I think it's the most downloaded episode of Founders by far. And I remember talking to a friend because I was working in Malibu. And I was like, "It's just not ready." Like I can't, like I am struggling, like I, it was supposed to be out on Sunday.

• 41:41Speaker 00

  It's not coming out, but the, the thing that I realized is like, no one's going to remember if it came out four or five days late. They're going to remember if it was great or not. And spending that extra time and being confused is like a good signal. It means that I care and then I'm trying and I will find my path, like my way there. Um, so I think that's really important. So let's go back to the other thing about Edwin Land real quick. He also has this great line, they says, "This is where I said I was lying to myself about wanting a balanced life." Uh, he says, "There's a rule they don't teach you at Harvard," which he knows because he dropped out of Harvard twice. He goes, "The rules they don't teach you at Harvard, that anything worth doing is worth doing to excess." I can't hold myself. Like I have to take things as far as they can go. That's why I can't do many things. So I essentially can just do podcasts. I could take care of my health. I could do podcasts and I could build relationships.

• 42:24Speaker 00

  That is essentially all my 24 hours a day. That's all I have. I can't do anything else. So, uh, Edwin Land, Steve Jobs, Rockefeller, Munger.

• 42:34Speaker 00

  Two other dead people. I don't think I need the other two. I like fewer, deeper. Fewer, deeper relationships. I tend to talk to the same people over and over again. You know, being public figures, you could talk to a thousand people a year if you wanted to. I find that like, I want genuinely know people who they authentically are. I want them to know who I authentically am. And then like, I want to skip all the bullshit and I want to get right to like, the actual stuff that we want to talk about. I want to talk about your relationships you have with women. I want to talk about like, the guilt that you have being on the road all the time and the fact that you're a dad. I want to talk about the stuff that you lied to everybody else about. Like, this is the stuff, the only stuff I'm interested in. I cannot have like, superficial conversations. Like, I remember one time, this guy reached out, he was a billionaire. And he's like, I'd love to talk to you. I was like, sure.

• 43:18Speaker 00

  And then he's like, I sit there, I got like, looped in with his assistant. I don't even have an assistant, I do everything myself. So like, besides, I guess the new show, now I have a whole squad that you see. But I remember getting the calendar invite. And it was like, 30 minutes. And I'm like, we're not even going to get started in 30 minutes. Like, and so I was like, this isn't going to work. Like, tell me when you have like, more time. Like, but I'm not going to talk to you for 30 minutes.

• 43:41Shaan Puri?

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• 44:30Sam Parr?

  What do you think would be the biggest regret of all the people that you've talked to? What would be the top three biggest regrets that they've had?

• 44:38Speaker 00

  This is where it's like with these kind of people, I don't necessarily believe them that their regrets. Like, so Sam Walton, he's writing his autobiography as he knows he's dying. He's got cancer all over his body, he's in immense pain. He took out some of the last time that he ever had in life. And he essentially distilled what he learned from his like 50, 60 year career. And I think it's one of the best books, easily top five, you know, entrepreneur book of all time. And it's like such a gift to future generations of entrepreneurs that he did that with his last time. And he said that, you know, he missed out a lot of stuff, like he was working all the time. He's like a fairly, he calls himself a fairly overactive fellow. Yeah, well, that's, that's, that's one way to put it, Sam, but like that you're, you're just a conqueror. You're, you're an insane person in a good way. He's trying to do something, you know, that he thought was, was good.

• 45:22Speaker 00

  And he's like, you know, if I had to be honest though, like, yeah, I missed out on seeing, you know, parts of my kids' lives, like I was working a lot. But he's like, if I did it all again, I would do it the exact same way. And I think a lot of people feel that way. And it gets into their life and then they're like, they're, I think it's just natural, natural to be nostalgic and to think, oh, what I would, what I would change. But like even Buffett says in Snowball, whatever he did to draw, to like push his wife away, his first wife, uh, I would go back. He says, I would go back and like do it differently.

• 45:58Speaker 00

  Maybe, I don't know. Like, I think he did exactly what he wanted to do. Maybe in that case, he's, he's right. He was like, I was like truly in love with this woman and I messed that up. I could see that being like a true regret. Uh, I think a lot of these people have a hard time assessing like their own.

• 46:20Speaker 00

  Regrets accurately.

• 46:22Sam Parr?

  There's this great book called How to Get Rich. Have you read that one?

• 46:24Speaker 00

  Felix Dennis, episode 129.

• 46:26Sam Parr?

  Yes, one of my favorite books of all time because his writing is really good. It's the best. He's I compare him to I he's like a if Mick Jagger and Richard Branson had a baby. His writing is the best and it's one of the very few books that's tactical. And written by a billionaire. And so he the reason it's a good book is he was dying. He was dying of cancer. I think he died when he was 60 or something. And he said, if I could live life all over again. I would accumulate 50 million dollars as fast as I can, hopefully by the age of 35, and then I would spend the rest of my life writing poetry.

• 46:56Speaker 00

  Yes.

• 46:57Sam Parr?

  And the reason I believe him is he spent the last 10 years of his life. Retired writing books and poetry and his philanthropic issue or thing was planting forests. He loved trees. It's very strange. He also like said in the book, he's like, I've spent 100 million dollars on whores and crack.

• 47:13Speaker 00

  Cocaine cocaine over a decade. I was gonna bring that up where like this is this is.

• 47:18Sam Parr?

  But it was he he's he was a crackhead. He was a legit.

• 47:21Speaker 00

  I didn't know he was a crackhead.

• 47:21Sam Parr?

  No, he was crack. He was like a crackhead, right around here, actually, in this neighborhood.

• 47:25Speaker 00

  I believe him because he got to like 500 to 800 million, like he got way.

• 47:29Sam Parr?

  Yeah, but this was like in the year 2002. So like.

• 47:32Speaker 00

  Even more. Yeah. And so you read that book. And again, this is why, like, I spend so much time with these older people because there's like a certain like you don't know yourself as well when you're younger, you're still on the rise. And so you're incentivized to like put on a show. It's such a like, you're not being truthful. And you can't let the world actually see how you like what you believe about certain things. And especially in like this entrepreneurial ecosystem that you're in, like most of these startup founders are just straight up lying so they can raise more money. Like, it's really gross and disgusting. This is my whole thing. I am fundamentally, if I am like being if I'm being dishonest about something or if I have like different sides of me, I don't like that. I need to reconcile that right away.

• 48:11Sam Parr?

  So much more value out of listening from old people than I have reading Twitter or whatever.

• 48:16Speaker 00

  It might be because they're willing to tell you the truth.

• 48:18Sam Parr?

  Well, and it's also because once you get past a certain level. And that level honestly is pretty small, but like, once you get past a certain level, the analogy that I heard recently was really good. It was like, I'm no, I'm I'm I'm the captain of a boat. And I'm not trying to fix the engine, but steer the ship. And so I don't want I don't necessarily need tactics right now. I just need tell me how to live like a good life and a good life is a variety of things, but like I need to know about what the definition of a life worth living is, not. How to make money or whatever. I don't know whatever the tactics are. And so I've gotten so much more value. So my friend Noah Kagan's got this channel on YouTube where he interviews like 80 year olds and mostly like entrepreneurs. I've gotten so much more value out of that.

• 48:58Speaker 00

  You see this, if you can't interview them, you at least you can pick up like Felix Dennis's book, where how many people are going to be honest about that is a crazy thing to admit to that I spent 10 million a year for 10 years, $100 million on prostitutes and coke.

• 49:12Sam Parr?

  Dude, when he died, he, uh, his prostitute girlfriend was living with him.

• 49:15Speaker 00

  This again, like, I'm sure I can't imagine the, the STDs this guy has or had and doing coke and drinking and nightclubs, because they're like nightclubs, I think I remember correctly.

• 49:25Sam Parr?

  Yeah, like in the eighties.

• 49:27Speaker 00

  It's just like, you don't want to do that. Like, what are you doing? Um, like, it's going to shorten your life. And some people want to. There's a great line in Bruce Willis's autobiography where he's like, one, some people's five years is worth more than other people's 50. You know, so like, some people just have to burn bright and like they're going to, that, that is like their destiny. That's what they're going to do. I want to like have a very interesting life and I want to succeed decade after decade after decade.

• 49:51Sam Parr?

  Were you making any money in the first five years?

• 49:52Speaker 00

  Back then, so there's a long story, but like, there was, the podcast advertising is not like how it is now, which is like way more advanced and like you can sell your own deals independently. So at that time, there was like these, they call them podcast networks, but they're not, I guess, they're not, there wasn't a network of podcasts. They would just sell ads for you. And so I just remember reaching out to one of them and they're like, we would love to, to like sell ads for you. So like you need 50,000 downloads per episode.

• 50:17Sam Parr?

  What did you have, 1500?

• 50:18Speaker 00

  The number they, they said, I was like 50,000? I was like, it seemed like such a, it's like, I will never have that. Like I just didn't, I couldn't compute. So I don't even know what I had, a couple thousand or whatever the, the number was back then. Um, and so then you would like, try to do like, you could do like affiliate deals. Like remember Audible scaled on podcasts. People don't understand the size of businesses you can build on the back of podcasts to this day. And now I don't even talk about this publicly anymore. Cause like, I think this is my secret.

• 50:45Sam Parr?

  Like my business has made a lot of money via podcasting because I promoted my company Hampton on there.

• 50:51Speaker 00

  And there's just a million examples that people don't even know. Like I've collected all these

• 50:54Sam Parr?

  The hard part is that it like podcasts are like the most challenging to grow, but they're the most sticky, I think of all the mediums.

• 50:59Speaker 00

  Oprah understood the, the, the intensity of a pair of a legitimate parasocial relationship back in the eighties, way before, like nothing we're doing is new.

• 51:07Sam Parr?

  She had built in distribution, right? She hooked up with the network and that was, and there was only 60 channels.

• 51:10Speaker 00

  I did an episode on that. That might be 332. I might be wrong on that episode, but. The key there, like, let me just tell you her insight and I'll tell you what she figured out how to monetize it in such a huge way. Her key insight was, you know, she would have like Brad Pitt on her show or like these A-list celebrities and she's like, "Oh, I have something different because the way my audience responds to like a movie star is not the way they respond to me." And so like, they're like, "Brad, oh my God, you're handsome. I love your movie."

• 51:36Sam Parr?

  And they're like, "Oprah, it's nice to see you. How are you?"

• 51:38Speaker 00

  Oprah, come over for lunch. Come over for dinner. When people walk up to me on the street, they like get right into it.

• 51:43Sam Parr?

  Yeah, because they think they know you.

• 51:44Speaker 00

  In many cases, they do. They know like what I'm into and like what I'm intensely interested in. And then Oprah's thing, just to close that real quick. First, also, I think people vastly underestimate the importance of frequency, which is like another thesis I'm about to try to prove here. Where she's in your house one hour a day, five days a week. Her, the intensity of, the success of her business and the intensity of the parasocial relationship mode would be much more diminished if she was doing it once a week. Think that's very important. Second thing she realized is that the most, at the time, this is all, you know, television. The most, the most profitable show on TV at this time was local news. Right? Because it's like, cost nothing to make and you could sell advertisers like, "I want to sell my car in Charlotte."

• 52:28Sam Parr?

  Yeah, it was more targeted at.

• 52:29Speaker 00

  Huge target, you know? And what she realized is like, if you have Oprah coming into being the lead in from four to five to your five o'clock news, right? She's going to bump up your rating, your Nielsen rating by like, I forgot what the number is, let's say three. And for every one Nielsen reading, your local news would make like another five million a year. So let's say you don't have Oprah, you just lost out on fifteen million dollars. So if Oprah says, "Oh, I'll sign with you, you have to pay me five of that, I'm making up the numbers, you have to pay me five of that fifteen." You're going to say, "Yeah." So what I couldn't figure out how to sell enough ads, I'll close this real quick because I've talked about this on other podcasts too. I had found this socialist podcast called Chapo Trap House that was selling, that did not run ads because they were not capitalists.

• 53:12Sam Parr?

  Right.

• 53:12Speaker 00

  So they thought it was, you know, immoral and they were using Patreon at the time to sell subscriptions to podcasts. And the Patreon API is public and there is a website called Graphtrion and they were the top. A list and I found this and they had twenty five thousand people or twenty let's call it twenty thousand people paying them at least five dollars a month. And I'm like, oh, there's a business model right there. And their business model is simple. You can listen to every other episode for free. If you want the other episodes you're not getting, you have to pay five bucks a month. And so I was like, well, this is like information for business. People for business would of course pay for this. And there's actually a story here. And so, but I sold it too cheap. It was like a hundred dollars a year, ten dollars a month. And then I ground to like a grind into like a couple thousand. So it's like, you're making like dentist money or something like that is the way I would think about it. But then.

• 53:57Sam Parr?

  Twenty four grand a year ain't dentist money.

• 53:59Speaker 00

  No, you're making hundreds of thousands a year.

• 54:01Sam Parr?

  You I thought you said two thousand a month together.

• 54:03Speaker 00

  No, no. Annual subscribers had like a couple thousand, like three thousand, four thousand, something like that. So that'd be like four hundred grand or whatever the number, the number is, right? But then let me, then I also Rob was like, you idiot. I'm trying to send this. He's like, your biggest asset you have is your back catalog. And you have a big giant do not enter sign in front of your biggest asset. He's like, I've been trying to send it to people and it's so good that I had you had to buy gift prescriptions. And so he's like, I spent like nine hundred dollars this week sending your episode to my nine friends. I have to pay a hundred dollars every time I want to send somebody's. So friend, my friend Sam Hink, he was spending like two to three thousand or four thousand a year. Cause like this is too good. He was just buying it for everybody. He's the one that told Patrick about it, which has obviously changed my life from there.

• 54:47Speaker 00

  And so then here's another thing, which I didn't understand that podcasts are not all, all is not that it appears from the outside. This is a lesson from Rockefeller where he realizes that one of his advantages was that not everybody. There's posted rates on how much it's going to cost to ship a barrel oil over the railroad. That posted rate is a lie.

• 55:07Sam Parr?

  Yeah. So he gets rebates.

• 55:08Speaker 00

  Yes. The foundation of his empire. And so what I realized, and I remember Hinky calls me one day and. He goes, hey, where are you? Uh, I go, I'm in the Hamptons. He's like, what are you doing there? I go, this guy DM me and we talked on the phone. I really liked him and he has this giant house in the Hamptons. He's like, will you come speak to my company offsite? And Sam's like, he's paying you for that? I go, yeah, of course. He goes, how much? And I go, X amount. And he goes, and I go, he's paying me X amount. And then he put me in this crazy house or this crazy hotel where like the room service is like a three star Michelin. The restaurant downstairs, there's only one restaurant. It's like, I'm ordering room service from like a Michelin star restaurant. And then I go to check in, even though I'm not paying for it.

• 55:51Speaker 00

  And I see what he's paying a night is like $3,000 a night or something like that. And so I was like, yeah, this place is incredible. It's beautiful. And, you know, and we just went over like basic numbers. And Sam goes, you have got to stop selling things. He goes, you have one of the most price insensitive audiences in the world. You cannot sell something for a hundred dollars a year. He's like, they would have paid 10,000 because like it's relative to their wealth. And so like this just happened, um, when you said the book that you saw upstairs. In that book, Brad Jacobs, who has now become a friend of mine, sent me an early copy of that book. He did not tell me I'm in that book. He just said, here's the book. Tell me if you like it. I'm reading the book and it says at the end for his new, uh, company.

• 56:36Speaker 00

  And I was not even the end, I think it's on the page 76, if I remember correctly. He's like, most of the investors in my new company, which is now a multi, multi billion dollar company, are repeat investors. However, two of my top 20 shareholders did not know who I was. They discovered me because I was profiled on David Sandler's founders podcast. And I'm like, that's crazy. And I knew, I know the two people because those two people also told me and they just told Brad. That means Brad raised $750 million from my audience, from people that didn't know he existed before I did the episode on his book. So that was Sam's point. He's like, you have the most, one of the most price insensitive audiences in the world. You cannot sell things for a hundred dollars. This guy, and the speech wasn't even a speech. We go, his whole team is at his Hampton house.

• 57:21Speaker 00

  It was like thirty of us and you just wanted to like shoot the shit in front of them for like thirty minutes and pay me unbelievable amount of money.

• 57:26Sam Parr?

  Dude, this is like that. I told Ben Wilson, I sorry, I found I've been the history buff for twenty years.

• 57:32Speaker 00

  I love Ben.

• 57:33Sam Parr?

  And I saw Ben's podcast, How to Take Over the World, and I was, he sent me the graph, I think, when I found him, he was doing a hundred downloads an episode. I was like, Ben, what's gonna happen in the future is you're gonna become sort of like a guru, but not in that type of way. Where because you've consumed all the, this is before AI, because you've consumed all this history knowledge. Billionaires gonna pay you money to help them predict the future by not repeating the past. I was like, that could be like the business model and it was like hard to understand at the time, but it's not your time kinda sucks. But that's like the joy of reading history. It's basically, it's like sort of education that's wrapped in entertainment. That's why I love it so much. Do you ever use newspapers dot com?

• 58:14Speaker 00

  I bought a subscription. I don't think I've ever gone off.

• 58:15Sam Parr?

  Dude, you have to use it. It's so fun because the problem with biographies and like listening to your podcasts is you're telling me these stories when I already know the ending. And it's so much better to go back. So for example, you could read about like Dan Gilbert. And he's just one of the greats when it comes to being an entrepreneur. And you can read about him and watch interviews, but you know that he was successful. You already know the outcome of the story. And so it's really fun to go back. I use newspapers like I'm all the time because I go and find articles in the eighties when they, when, and I'll find his first profile. Like the very first time a newspaper wrote about him and like, what were they saying about him right then and there? Or how are they disrespecting them? Or did they like, could they spot it? Or like, cause there's revisionist history, like what were people saying about him then and there?

• 58:57Sam Parr?

  Because, because I was in San Francisco, starting, I moved to San Francisco when I was twenty one. And there's a bunch of like people that are ballers now. And I'm like, I knew that guy when we were nothing. I did not see that. I did not know that he had that in him or this person I thought was gonna be the shit. They were nothing. And so it kinda becomes hard to like predict who's gonna be, I mean, obviously angel investing would be a lot easier if this were the case.

• 59:17Speaker 00

  This is why I say like the only filter I trust, like time is the best filter. And so that's why I kind of gravitate towards people that were successful for many decades. We didn't finish the, uh, so like, if you think, you asked me the living board of directors. I think this is a good segue into like what you were just talking about. Where it's like, it would probably be a lot of the people that I've had on the new David Sander show so far.

• 59:36Sam Parr?

  So like.

• 59:36Speaker 00

  Ovitz, Dell. No, the first, the first spot would go to Daniel Ek for sure, for sure.

• 59:41Sam Parr?

  He was cool because he, everyone's a shark who's that successful, but he had a soft side that I liked.

• 59:46Speaker 00

  He is like. Swedish Buddha. I don't know how to describe him. He is unbelievably philosophical. And he's changed my life in so many different ways.

• 59:56Sam Parr?

  I can't believe he's that way at such a young age, too.

• 59:58Speaker 00

  And that's the way, like, we're close in age, but he is like so much wiser than I am. And I've spent a bunch of time with him and I would say the, he's taught me a lot, like, he, he, he's another guy that will call you on your shit.

• 1:00:08Sam Parr?

  In a very polite way, though.

• 1:00:09Speaker 00

  Yeah, he's, he's great. So like, he, the reason I started doing video, the reason I'm doing the new show too is because of him. And his whole thing was just like, we were having this crazy dinner, this four hour dinner in, uh, New York. He's just like, why aren't you doing video? And I was like, I'm not doing this for like fame. I'm a very private person. I don't want to ever be recognized in public. And he's just like, a lot more people know what I look like than what you look like. He goes, I got recognized in the gym this morning. You know what they do? They come over and say, hey, I love Spotify. Thanks for building it. And then they go about their ways. And he's just like, you, I'm paraphrasing what he said. He's just like, he knew I was like obsessed with podcasting. He gave me great advice. He's like, you're easy to understand, so therefore you're easy to help.

• 1:00:51Speaker 00

  Because all you care about is podcasting. And so it's very easy for me to help you because I, you're.

• 1:00:55Sam Parr?

  That's a wise line.

• 1:00:56Speaker 00

  He's, this is what I mean. If I only had one board of directors, it's probably him.

• 1:01:00Sam Parr?

  He, in the beginning of the podcast, he tells a story about how he advised Dara to take the job at Uber. And, and he was like, he tells this amazing story. He was like, um, Dara, you know, I think you should take this job. And Dara is saying like, you know, somebody nominated me to like, uh, run Uber. And Dana was like, yeah, you seem like you've been complacent, this and that. Uh, and then he like, talks about how he convinced him basically to take this job at Uber. And then he later tells us the story. He's like, I was the one that nominated you. And he didn't even tell him. He was like, I nominated you.

• 1:01:26Speaker 00

  This is the important part. For somebody to say that to you, you seem complacent. That looks like you're criticizing. That looks like you're attacking. This is why you have to get over, don't listen to random people, but if that person genuinely cares about you, you have to be able, this is something I struggle with. Like, you, this is, he didn't curse. He was just like, essentially, my paraphrase, like, you're lying. This is bullshit. Like, get over, like, he said something about like getting on, like, I'm, I'm striding the fence. I can't remember the exact words. But essentially, just like, this is the business you've chosen. And the fact of the matter is, podcasts that have video grow a lot faster than podcasts that don't. He, he, he gives interviews multiple times. People ask him what his favorite podcast is. He says Founders. Like, The he's like, you genuinely believe it's good for the world. So me not doing video means less people see it.

• 1:02:11Sam Parr?

  Yeah, it's sort of like a horse dealer fighting the fact that Ford is around now.

• 1:02:15Speaker 00

  Yeah. And it's just like, what are you doing? Like, so get off the fence. And then me and Patrick sat this dinner too. We get in the car. After that, I'm like, we're gonna do video.

• 1:02:23Sam Parr?

  Well, Patrick didn't want to do it either.

• 1:02:24Speaker 00

  I know. Neither of us wanted to do it. But that's why my point is like, you have to be smart enough to change your behavior when you're reacting to new information. And so this also leads us to really like my obsession now, founders will always always be my obsession because I'm never gonna stop reading. But like, like, I'm spending a lot of time, most of my time will be on David's Enra, is we get in the car, I'm going back to Patrick's house to to spend the night at his house. And he's been pushing me to to to record podcasts and do more, what he called interviews at the time than he did for years. And I was like, no, no, no.

• 1:02:55Sam Parr?

  Whose house do you say?

• 1:02:56Speaker 00

  Patrick. And we get in the car with the driver. And he's like, you absolutely have to start recording these conversations that you're having. He goes, I just spoke. He goes, I spoke 2% of the time. Daniel spoke 49% of the time. You spoke the other 49% of the time. He goes, I've known him for four years. You got more out of him in four hours than I have in four years. Nobody can speak to the soul of the founder like you can in the world. You have to start recording these conversations. And that is the push. I was like, oh, that's conversations is different. Like, I can't interview anybody. Like, I like, that might be interesting. And my there could be a differentiation there.

• 1:03:29Sam Parr?

  Are you ever gonna monetize this in a different way than normal media ways, ads and subscription?

• 1:03:35Speaker 00

  No, I don't think I'll ever do subscription again, because I think the

• 1:03:38Sam Parr?

  So you're only gonna monetize ads?

• 1:03:39Speaker 00

  Yeah, I think the power of media is like, it's free and readily accessible. And therefore, it can compound through word of mouth.

• 1:03:44Sam Parr?

  Just such a shitty business model for how much influence you have.

• 1:03:46Speaker 00

  I don't. Well, we'll see. I have some other thoughts on there that I will keep to myself. I think I have an earned secret. So there's one of my favorite tweets. This is what I will say, like, you you mentioned, like, taking out interesting ideas of the books, and how do you do that? Or whatever the case is, and maybe sometimes my interpretation may be different than other people's. I remember reading Cable Cowboy, which is supposed to be a biography of John Malone, right? And, you know, it was like, oh, he like, he is the person that invented the word EBITDA. And he has all this ways to finance, and he's focused on cash flow. And there's all these other takeaways. That I've heard other people describe that book. That's not the main takeaway for me. Fact is, like, most industries default into like some kind of like oligarchy. And in the cable industry, I think there's like eight, like, main players and, you know,

• 1:04:29Speaker 00

  the top two are bigger and number six is a little smaller, whatever the case was. And what was fascinating is like, he's one of the eight, yet all the other players that are essentially competitors like go to him to like learn about like their industry, this brand new industry that they are the ones essentially building the foundation, the one that has now grown crazy in the last like 50, 60 years, or whatever the case is. And so, one of the important parts for me, where I would like disagree, but some of the stuff I can't say publicly is like, I saw this tweet one time, and it says, I think one of the most interesting ways, or one of the ways to have the most interesting careers is to find an earned secret and exploit the hell out of it for decades.

• 1:05:12Speaker 00

  And this tweet was talking about Mark Leonard, who used to work in VC from Constellation Software, saying, hey, these vertical market software businesses, they are shitty for VC, but if I, they're great if I put it in a conglomerate and then everything that he did. So I think he started, I don't remember the number, say 50 million, 80 million, and then grind it to like 80 billion, whatever the number is. And so he had that earned secret. VMS, bad for VC, good for this other way. Let me just do that. And he exploited the hell out of it for three decades. I think because I've strived to collect more information about podcasting than almost anybody else, I think I have earned secrets that I don't think there is any limit to what the size or the performance of the business.

• 1:05:52Sam Parr?

  No, and all the great ones, like, you know, we were talking about Oprah the other day, like, there is, the breakthroughs don't particularly have like a blueprint where you're like, and we were also talking about how like the people who are number one in certain things are literally 100 times better than number two. So I buy into that.

• 1:06:08Speaker 00

  Jay-Z has a line, if I'm gonna make it to Billy, I can't take the same path.

• 1:06:11Sam Parr?

  And so I'll be very eager to see what you're gonna do. I hate advertising. In most cases, I ran an advertising business. When you rely solely on advertising, I hated it. But if you can make money in ways where I own bits of companies that I love to promote, or if you do it in some interesting way, then it becomes good. But the traditional form of advertising, I think is a pain in the ass business model that only captures a fraction of the value that you create. And so I'll be very eager to see how you will change that.

• 1:06:39Speaker 00

  And here's the thing, I'm very comfortable. Like putting a lot more value into the world than I capture. And I just think I'm going to capture more than like, if you go back, somebody asked me, my friend at lunch yesterday, asked me, he's like, what would like the 25 year old version of you think of this? And I was like, I don't even know if I can think in those terms. It's like already wildly like exceeded. I'm just very happy like where I'm at and like what I'm doing and I know that I have.

• 1:07:05Sam Parr?

  Are you a happy person? I would just agree with the happy person.

• 1:07:08Speaker 00

  No, no, happy with the way my work has gone.

• 1:07:11Sam Parr?

  Are you a happy person? I don't think you're happy.

• 1:07:13Speaker 00

  I think this is again, why, why is Daniel Act number one on my, um, on my board of directors? I already mentioned one of them, like he's pushed me in a certain direction. Another thing that he's taught me is like, you get around him and you realize like you don't have any ceilings.

• 1:07:26Sam Parr?

  Dude, those people are really rare. I've been around a handful of them. It is contagious and I'm always curious. I'm like, who gave you that?

• 1:07:32Speaker 00

  This is the key. This is where constant refinement of association, people hear that they're like, great advice. They don't actually do it. So few people will do it. This is, I'm very interested in being one of those very few. I think about this a lot. I take this very seriously. So I don't think I'm apt to answer your question. Another idea that I got from Daniel, which is on the first episode of Davis and Urch, people should listen to if they haven't. And they've had listened to it, they should watch it again. I'm going to do a founders episode based on the transcript of the conversation that I had with him. Cause there's so many good ideas in there. And I'm like, it's, we print it out, it's like, I don't know, 60 pages, 70 pages, something like that. Like it's crazy. It's like a little, it's like a miniature book. So impact over, and his whole thing is just like, you don't optimize for happiness, you optimize for impact, which is exactly the advice he gave Dara for Uber, the advice that he takes for himself.

• 1:08:16Speaker 00

  And like, I am very happy. If you saw, this goes back to like, I don't need to capture, I don't need to be, let's say I put, I don't know, whatever the number of value out into the world and I only capture 1% of it or 2% of it. It's like, man, there's other things that are so, like, if you go and like, you can go to the website right now and send me a message, which I might have to stop reading because it's just like, all these messages come in all day. Most of them are positive. But if you would just go through like my emails, my DMs, uh, the contact form, it's just like, these people are like, you changed my life. And it's not me changing their life. They're like, basically you have all these people are like, hey, I really appreciate what you're doing. I want you to know that it has an impact on my life. This guy chased me down at the airport the other day.

• 1:08:55Speaker 00

  And he's just like, you don't understand like the, the difference of my life pre and post, like discovering your work. And so it's like, okay, that's not a mo- I can't take it to the bank and, and you know, deposit that. But that's not, there's a very real tangible benefit from, and then this is the crazy thing. So the James Dyson episode we just did, right? God bless Rob Moore. It took 45 emails back and forth to, to get that scheduled. It's just like this relentlessness. But everybody knew, like, he was my number one guy. That, but his first book is episode 25.

• 1:09:28Sam Parr?

  Dude, I bought it Dyson because of you.

• 1:09:30Speaker 00

  Exactly. There you go. 25, 200, 300, episode 400. It's all about the same book. The book that changed my life, the book that encouraged me to persevere when I had no reason to persevere. There was nothing that I was seeing that's like, this is going to be a success, other than just relentless self-belief that I'm going to figure this out. If I focus on it and I want it to happen, I will make it happen. Like, I feel like I have a very intense will to change, like, what I want and to happen in life to happen. And so the crazy thing is I've been talking about this guy for seven years. It was seven years in the making. That, when we started doing the previews for the episodes, showing the pictures, some of the trailers, some of the clips, then the episode comes out, strangers I've never met are like, I'm unbelievably happy for you. I cannot, I

• 1:10:12Sam Parr?

  Yeah, I saw that. That was cool.

• 1:10:13Speaker 00

  How crazy is that?

• 1:10:14Sam Parr?

  I was pretty invested into it.

• 1:10:15Speaker 00

  So like, what is that? That, that is me capturing value. And this idea where like, oh, I have to hit a certain number or I'm not gonna be happy. That, that's not wise. I'm trying, I'm not trying to be smart. I'm trying to be consistently not stupid. And if I can be consistently not stupid over a long period of time, I think that's going to result in me being wise. And that's what I'm after.

• 1:10:34Sam Parr?

  That was a good ending. Alright, that's it. That's the pod.

• 1:10:49Sam Parr?

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