Extended Moment: Guy Raz: Why 99% of Businesses Fail & This Secret Made Apple, Pixar, & Elon Musk Billions!

In this moment, the host of ‘How I Built This’, discusses the lessons he has learned from interviewing over 20,000 people, ranging from global CEO’s, superstars to rural shepherds in Afghanistan. Guy has built his career on the idea that every business is a story, and this business must tell this story to itself and others. He believes that all successful founders share common traits and outlooks, such as: fearing the regret of not trying more than the fear of failure. Believing in their product so much that they have almost superhuman endurance, and continue despite multiple failures. Guy also says that the most successful founders often don’t do it alone and have a co-founder to help them withstand the highs and lows of entrepreneurship. You can learn more about Guy’s podcast How I Built This, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/oj8DA9i7kNb You can learn more about the new kids toy line by Guy’s family podcast Wow in the World, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/vvcHFH16kNb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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• 0:03Steven Bartlett?

  Guy, how many people have you interviewed in your life?

• 0:08Speaker 01

  I would say over 20,000.

• 0:12Steven Bartlett?

  And you started a smash hit iconic show called How I Built This. Why? What's the mission behind that show?

• 0:21Speaker 01

  I wanted to give people access to the greatest entrepreneurs I could find in ways that they might not have access to them. And I wanted that wisdom and those stories to be available to anyone at any time for free forever.

• 0:44Steven Bartlett?

  Give me an idea of the kinds and caliber of people that you've interviewed over those 20,000 interviews.

• 0:50Speaker 01

  Oh, everything, everybody from, you know, rural sheepers in Afghanistan to soccer players in Europe, to celebrities in the United States, world leaders, entrepreneurs and founders of businesses,

• 1:09Speaker 01

  to ordinary man on the street conversations.

• 1:13Steven Bartlett?

  I'm really curious, you know, when we talk about building something, the seemingly impossible, most difficult part of building anything seems to be going from zero to one. And you've sat with people who have gone from having an idea to putting that idea in motion. And it's not a huge journey to travel, but it seems like the hardest journey to travel because it requires so much of a shift in mindset. It requires the confrontation of fear and apparent danger. And there's something about these people that makes them decide that it's better than not starting. Taking the action is better than not taking the action. Have you been able to figure out what that is in people and how we can cultivate it?

• 1:54Speaker 01

  There's several sort of the Venn diagram of founders coalesces around a few common traits that, by the way, many of us have intuitively, naturally, or can develop, right? So curiosity is an obvious one, just this desire to grow and to learn and to look around you and to try and absorb the lessons around you. But the other ones are a little bit more hard edged, like... A fear of regret of not trying something. So many years ago, I interviewed a guy named Jim Cook. I've actually interviewed him recently again. He really kind of revolutionized the beer industry in the United States. Like, the reason why Europeans drink American beer today is because of Jim Cook.

• 2:39Speaker 01

  Like, in the 80s, it was a joke, right? There was, there's actually a famous Monty Python sketch where it's something about, you know, rather drink piss than American beer, something like that. Well, in the 80s, he kind of revived the beer industry in the US with a beer named Samuel Adams. And he really kind of supercharged what became this, you know, craft brewing industry in the US. IPAs and all these really interesting beers that to this day are, you know, some of the greatest in the world. He started his business, Sam Adams, in his 30s. He was a consultant for Boston Consulting Group. He was making a good salary. He had a family. But he, there was something about his life that felt unfulfilled.

• 3:23Speaker 01

  And part of that was he wanted to build something on his own. He wanted it to be his. He didn't want to work for somebody else. And he felt that if he didn't try, if he just continued on at BCS, he would make a lot of money. He would make millions of dollars and he could have a, you know, a very stable, good life. But he felt like he would be unfulfilled if it wasn't his own thing, that he had to try. So he took a risk. He left. But he felt that if he didn't take the risk, it would be dangerous. And he actually uses this paradigm, dangerous versus scary. It was really scary to leave his job at BCS.

• 4:04Speaker 01

  But it would be dangerous if he stayed because the danger would be that one day, he'd get out of bed and he'd be 60, and he would regret not having tried. And I think that's a big factor for a lot of founders, this idea that...

• 4:20Speaker 01

  They don't want to feel intense regret. And so they're willing to take the risk, even though it might be catastrophic. The idea of building something, of owning something, of creating something yourself that is yours is a hugely powerful pull. And that's, it's like, it's like, you know, that's that magnetic field that they're all attracted to. They're all kind of moving in that direction. And I think many of us who are entrepreneurs or aspire to be entrepreneurs feel that magnetic pull.

• 4:59Steven Bartlett?

  What role does self-belief play? And what is that? Because in your book, you talk about how it's not always the case that they have huge amount of confidence and knowledge. Is self-belief essential to get going? And from all the people you've interviewed that are widely successful, did they have that self-belief? Or did they have something else that got them over that first hurdle?

• 5:19Speaker 01

  You know, it's interesting. Sometimes there are people who are born sort of, they have this kind of, this natural confidence. And you know, people like that, you've met them, right? People that just seem to exude confidence and self-assurance. And I think those people are rare in general. Most healthy entrepreneurs experience self-doubt. It is a really natural and I think important and necessary trait to be able to sort of, in your mind, say, am I doing the right thing? Is this the right thing? Am I making a mistake?

• 6:04Speaker 01

  The difference is that while it's healthy to ask yourself those questions and to interrogate your decisions, because it's going to inevitably lead to better decisions, and force you to justify things to yourself.

• 6:20Speaker 01

  You have to have a willingness to power through. That I think some people have instinctively, but there are other entrepreneurs who develop that skill over time. I'll give you an example. One of my favorite stories that I've told on the show, it just happens to be the case that, you know, out of the 500 interviews or so, I don't know how many, but we've had, you know, quite a few founders who are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Okay, known, better known as the Mormon Church. It's not a term used anymore. The church prefers to use the, the previous term I used. And there is a very strong tradition of entrepreneurship in that community.

• 7:04Speaker 01

  We just interviewed Jason Wersland, the founder of Therabody. You know, the Theragun? Yeah, yeah, yeah. He's also grew up in the church. And I always wondered, what is it about these members of the church and the connection to entrepreneurship? Well, virtually every young Mormon member of the church at 18 goes on a mission. They're sent somewhere around the world with, with books of Mormon, with a suit, bicycles, and they go door to door to door to door in every country around the world, preaching the book of Mormon. Now, 99 out of 100 houses that you knock your door on, knock, knock, you knock on their door, slamming your face. But one door will open.

• 7:47Speaker 01

  And after two years of having 99% of the door slammed in your face, you understand that it doesn't matter. You're just going for that one door. And they come back to the United States and they've developed this incredibly thick skin. They have withstood all of these no's for two years. And so when they go to start a business, whether it's Cotopaxi, Davis Smith, or JetBlue, David Neleman, you know, or Joel Clark, Kodiak Cakes, or Jason Wersland, Therabody, Theragun, they've heard no for so long on these missions that starting a business seems like a piece of cake.

• 8:31Speaker 01

  Because now they know that all they need to do is withstand those no's. And no happens to be the most important word that an entrepreneur will ever hear.

• 8:46Steven Bartlett?

  And I guess they also know how yes happens.

• 8:49Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 8:50Steven Bartlett?

  And I think that's like, as you were saying, I was thinking about, a lot of young people will say to me, Steve, I've tried to get the job. I've tried to start the business. I sent 10 emails.

• 8:59Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 9:00Steven Bartlett?

  And they think, they assumed that the 10 emails or the five emails to the job they wanted would be enough to get it. But in that case, with the members of the Church of Latter Day Saints, they know that no comes anywhere between 1 and 100.

• 9:14Speaker 01

  No is the default.

• 9:15Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah.

• 9:15Speaker 01

  You expect no.

• 9:16Steven Bartlett?

  So they know that yes comes anywhere between 1 and 100.

• 9:19Speaker 01

  Yes, exactly. There's, there's a great story that I came across recently. And this, it's, it was an interview I did with a guy named Isaac Larian. Isaac is the owner of the largest privately owned toy company in North America called MGA. And in the year 2000, he launched a doll called the Bratz Doll, B R A T Z Z. And that doll was the first doll to challenge Barbie. Barbie had like 90% market share in 2000, and within three years Barbie's market share went down like 30%. Bratz became a $3 billion a year brand. It's an amazing story.

• 9:59Speaker 01

  Now, Fat, now rewind back to the early 70s. He comes to the United States from Iran, penniless, 200, 300 bucks in his pocket, no English, to Los Angeles. He came here to Los Angeles where we're talking.

• 10:11Speaker 01

  And he worked as a waiter. Eventually, he started to import cheap consumer electronics from Japan in the early 80s and sell them to independent electronics stores. So what he would do is he'd go to Japan with a suitcase, he'd buy Sony Walkman, stuff his suitcase with Sony Walkman, come back to LA and sell them for a 40% markup to consumer electronics stores. Eventually, he got successful enough that he could bring in shipping containers full of these Walkman, right? By 1985, 86, he was doing $4, $5 million a year in revenue. So he had a significant business importing Japanese consumer electronics and selling them locally in the US.

• 10:52Speaker 01

  He's on a trip to Japan in 1986. And he sees children playing these things called game and watch. It was a rectangular game with an LED screen and two buttons. And it was a craze all over Japan. And he said to himself, I gotta sell these in the US. So he gets on a train to Kyoto, takes a bullet train to Kyoto, which is where Nintendo's headquarters are. He goes to Nintendo headquarters and he asks the receptionist to meet with the head of export. And she looks at him, she says, sorry. I think his name is Mr. Kobayashi. I don't remember the exact name, but she said, he's not available. You have to book an appointment with him three, four months in advance. Isaac says, look, I'm here in Kyoto just for the day. Can I just five minutes, have five minutes with him? She said, impossible.

• 11:38Speaker 01

  So he says, now, remember, he's got a successful business, five, six million dollar business. He says, I will wait here in the reception. And when he comes out for lunch, can you point him out? She says, I'm sorry, I can't do that. He sits down in the reception and he waits and he waits and he waits. And at 5:00 PM, a man walks out of the elevator. He whispers something to the receptionist. He's been there for six hours, Isaac. The man walks up to Isaac and says, may I help you, sir? He says, my name is Isaac Larian. I understand you're in charge of export. He says, I am. He said, I would like to get the license to export the game and watch. He says, impossible, we're not interested. And who are you?

• 12:23Speaker 01

  And you need to make an appointment months in advance. He said, well, can we just have a quick chat? And he said, no. He said, can I get your business card at least? He hands him his business card. Isaac goes back to the United States with this guy's business card. He goes to his bank and he asks for a million dollar line of credit in the name of this guy. We'll call him Kobayashi. Sends him a telex, because there's no email back then, with a million dollar line of credit. And he calls, calls him up, has his business card. He says, did you receive my line of credit letter? And the man says, yes, I told you, Mr. Larian. We're not interested in working with you. We're not interested in exporting these toys. Not interested. He said, what if I pay all cash? He said, we're not interested.

• 13:09Speaker 01

  He calls him again a few days later. He says, I want to order a million dollars worth of these. He said, we're not interested. He said, please. The guy in Japan says, we're not gonna change these into English for you. He says, don't worry, send them to me in Japanese with the instructions. I'll repackage them. Exhausted, the guy finally says, fine, one off. In year one, they sold 25 million dollars worth of these game watches in the US. Year two, 50 million. Year three, 75 million dollars. I said to Isaac Larian,

• 13:43Speaker 01

  you walked into Nintendo, you sat there, your dignity was challenged, your self-worth was challenged, your ego was challenged. They said no to you repeatedly. And he said, ego, dignity, self-worth, all that stuff is nonsense. Pride, if that's what you care about, you will never succeed. The minute somebody says no to you is the minute the negotiation begins. And that's how I run my business. And that's how I have become the entrepreneur I've become. He's a multi-billioner today. And an amazing example of why that word

• 14:24Speaker 01

  no is so powerful. Some people naturally can withstand it. Some people have to develop the skill that it takes, like those Mormon missionaries, to hear no hundreds, thousands of times before they have that thick skin and they can break through.

• 14:41Steven Bartlett?

  So interesting, so powerful, and a wonderful reframing of what that moment of rejection means that everyone will go through. And when I think about these other entrepreneurs I've sat and spoken to who end up getting to where he got to, some of them have to take what I call no man's land, where they start something, it appears that no one cares, they do that thing for five years, sometimes 10 years, doesn't appear that anybody cares. And then, I don't know, the world conspires, or luck shows up, or timing happens, and that person

• 15:12Steven Bartlett?

  has lift off.

• 15:13Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 15:13Steven Bartlett?

  That's also a sort of similar path. Have you seen that in any of the people you've interviewed and the stories you've seen? And what is the driving force that pushes someone through no man's land for a couple of years, three, four, five, six, seven years, when it's not working, but they have the something to persist regardless?

• 15:29Speaker 01

  It's amazing, because it does happen. I mean, again, going back to this example of Tharagon.

• 15:37Speaker 01

  This guy, Jason Wersland, came to Los Angeles to become a chiropractor. And it was a difficult time in his life. He had, his marriage had broken up. He had two small children. It was very painful for him to leave Salt Lake City, Utah, to come to Los Angeles to study, to become a chiropractor. Eventually, he got in a very, very bad motorcycle accident and was badly injured. And he was a chiropractor. So he knew and understood what was going on inside his body. And one night, the pain was so severe that he decided to take a jigsaw. You know, it's a saw that you use to carve wood. He took the blade and he bent it and he taped it up with duct tape.

• 16:21Speaker 01

  And he thought, what if I just try this on my muscles? And he put it on his muscle. And he started to pulse on his muscle. And it actually felt pretty good. It actually, that percussive feeling started to give him relief. And over the next several months, he started to experiment with this on his patients. Until it got to a point where people said, hey, you're on to something here. It would be another seven and a half years before Theragun was actually marketed as a product. And during that entire time, he worked, he talked to everybody he could about it. But all they saw was a jigsaw with duct tape on it, right? They saw this weird product

• 17:04Speaker 01

  that just didn't seem like it was anything useful. But people were feeling real benefits from it. So he had, on the one hand, he had people saying to him, this is weird and I don't see a home for it. On the other hand, he had patients, people he was working on, who were feeling real benefits from it, real relief. And that was driving him. He knew that if he could figure out how to find a partner, how to get the money. He needed the money to launch this thing. Today, it's a multi-billion dollar business. But it took seven years. And during that seven-year period, at any given time, because he was broke. He could have, you know, he could have just walked away and given up.

• 17:46Speaker 01

  But he had this feeling and he had this feedback that convinced him there was something there.

• 17:53Steven Bartlett?

  One thing you're known for is asking people about luck and the role that luck has played in their lives.

• 17:59Steven Bartlett?

  Do you think these successful people believe in luck? What role, how, what role do you think luck has played in making them who they are? And what sort of trend have you seen? Because I believe you, you ask pretty much all of your guests this question about luck at the very end of the interview.

• 18:13Speaker 01

  Yep.

• 18:15Steven Bartlett?

  So you must, you must have a big data set to think about.

• 18:19Speaker 01

  Luck plays a really important role. Luck is a weird word because it's an intangible and it's like a superstitious word. It's like, you know, fate, right? It's one of those words that I think in our modern age of science, a lot of people are resisting, resistant to that word. Because we believe that we can engineer outcomes, that humans through the sheer force of will can engineer an outcome. And that might be true in some cases, but you can't discount

• 18:53Speaker 01

  this notion of chance or fortune or luck. You know, you, like, came to the US or came to the UK when you were two or three years old, single mom, built a business. What are the chances of that happening? What are the chances of that happening? The chances of you being in a different circumstance are greater simply because of the, the statistical realities of that circumstance. But through sheer force of will and some luck, here you are. You can't discount it.

• 19:28Steven Bartlett?

  So how do you think about luck? Because I've, I've often pondered this. I've thought, what, what, the luck in my life, where should I? Where do I find it? As in, is it in the me meeting my girlfriend through some sort of chance encounter? Or is luck much more of a fundamental thing in the case that you've described with me coming to the UK? Because it's true, if I hadn't come to the UK when I was two years old, then, and I was still in Botswana, everything's different. My education's different.

• 19:54Speaker 01

  You might be very successful there too, but you just don't know.

• 19:56Steven Bartlett?

  It's probable that I wouldn't have had the freedoms in my life and the opportunities I've had if I was still in Ramotswa in Botswana. So as something that I didn't have any control over, because I was two, I look at that and go, that's really fundamental luck, that I had parents that loved me, they moved me to this country where you have healthcare and all these amazing things. That is lucky. Like, that is just huge fortune that I had no involvement in. Another kid could be moved to the UK at two years old, and they might be in prison now. And I'm trying to understand, you know, because it's funny, because when I think really deeply about it, I go, maybe I'm responsible for nothing in my life. Because it's all nature and nurture. It's my DNA, and it's the circumstances that that DNA

• 20:41Steven Bartlett?

  were put in. It's the environment that DNA was put in. So if you really think about it, maybe I'm responsible for nothing.

• 20:46Speaker 01

  You're responsible for a lot, and then you're not responsible for some as well. And here's the thing. You didn't go to Oxford or Cambridge, but you know, a lot of kids who did go to Oxford or Cambridge, and they won't be a fraction as financially successful as you might be, or me, or anyone else that they know. And that's not because you're better than them, or they're worse than you. It's not that at all. There are factors that we all, there are traits, there are circumstances that give everybody different powers. And

• 21:26Speaker 01

  having the right kind of personality is also luck. I mean, you might be the smartest, most educated person on the planet, but if you cannot withstand hearing no again and again, and you're trying to run a business, you're not going to make it. If your ego is so enormous that it gets in the way, if your sense of dignity and pride is so important to you, that it's an immovable object, and you can't see past it.

• 21:58Speaker 01

  Then it doesn't matter how intelligent you are. You can be a horrible student, a failing student, but have those traits, a personality that enables you to talk to anybody, an open mind, kindness, friendliness, and you will be 100 times more successful because that's the roll of the dice handed you those traits. You might not be book smart, but you got those other things. So there are all these factors that are intangible, and we all have bits and pieces of these things. It's just a matter of how we use them.

• 22:38Steven Bartlett?

  You've interviewed Richard Branson, right? So have I. And one of the big things I took away from Richard was, this sounds like a crazy thing to say, but he admitted how many things he's really not good at. And he admitted that he's only really good at a couple of things. And this kind of bucks the trend of what you think when you think of successful people because you assume that especially CEOs and entrepreneurs are these sort of Swiss, amazing Swiss Army knives that are just good at everything. Everything they touch turns to gold. Richard taught me that you don't actually have to be good at that many things to be wildly successful. You just need to be good at a very narrow thing and then mitigate your downsides through delegation.

• 23:18Speaker 01

  But that's what he's good at. That's his talent. Richard Branson's talent is in spotting talent in others and empowering them to go out and build and trusting them. I did a show for many years called Wisdom from the Top. You can still hear it. It's available on podcasts. And that show was a CEO show. I interviewed CEOs. And one of the CEOs I interviewed was a guy named Mark King. Who for years ran Adidas' North American operations, he ran TaylorMade, which is a golf brand, and then Taco Bell. He was the CEO of Taco Bell. And Mark King made this exact point.

• 24:03Speaker 01

  He said, you know, I'm not the smartest guy in the room. I'm not the most intellectual. I'm not, you know, the most capable and competent when it comes to, you know, but I'm really good at finding the people with the answers. I don't have the answers most of the time, but I'm really good at finding the people who can get the answers. And that's, that is what a great leader can do. CEO or founder entrepreneur. It's figuring out who can find the answers and inspiring them to gather around you.

• 24:39Steven Bartlett?

  This is one of the things I've learned really late in my business career. I say really late, but I mean, I learnt it probably at 28. And then for the last three years, it's been front of mind is that the game I'm playing as a founder and entrepreneur isn't how smart am I and how hard do I work? It's about realizing that I'm a recruitment company. Every business I start is a recruitment company. And I have this like really crazy analogy I sometimes use where I say to people, if you had hired, if you had hired Elon Musk and got the best out of him. Right. So hired him and got the best out of him. You would have, you would be worth trillions. Theoretically, you would be. If you'd hired Steve Jobs and got the best out of him, you would have created an Apple or something else or a Pixar.

• 25:24Steven Bartlett?

  And if you think through that, although it's an extreme, largely impossible lens to think through, it illuminates the fact that much of the job of a founder is to find these exceptional people and get the best out of them. That is like the easiest path to value creation versus hoping that you can become the best at design and computer programming and all of these kinds of things. And honestly, in my life, it's been like this really big fundamental reframe, which has caused me to reallocate my time where now I'd say I spend 20 hours a week on recruitment. Whereas before I might've spent half an hour.

• 25:57Speaker 01

  Right.

• 25:58Steven Bartlett?

  And this is why I asked you earlier about like people, talent and how important that is to the game of building a company, which by definition is a group of people. And what you've seen in great founders there. Have you ever spoken to Walter Isaacson?

• 26:13Speaker 01

  No.

• 26:14Steven Bartlett?

  The guy that used to follow Steve Jobs.

• 26:15Speaker 01

  Yes, of course, I know.

• 26:15Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah.

• 26:16Speaker 01

  Brilliant writer, yeah, I haven't.

• 26:18Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah, he talks a lot about how Steve Jobs was exceptional at that. And I remember him saying that before Steve Jobs died, he asked him in his backyard, what is the thing in your life that you've built? What is the product that you're most proud of? And Walter responded, the team.

• 26:32Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 26:33Steven Bartlett?

  And I see that now in great entrepreneurs. I see how obsessed they are with culture and people.

• 26:38Speaker 01

  Yes. I mean, as Peter Lynch says, culture, you know, beats strategy, eats strategy for breakfast, right?

• 26:46Steven Bartlett?

  What is culture, in your view?

• 26:49Speaker 01

  I think culture is, it's many things. It's a common mission. It's a belief in a way of doing things, not in the way, that there's only one way, but a way, which could mean innovation, risk-taking, but a shared belief in a common mission, right? And now, a lot of people say, well, all right, well, you know, what about Coca-Cola? What's the common mission there? You know, making a sugary soft drink, you know, sugary beverage? And I would venture to say that if you talk to somebody who worked for a company like

• 27:32Speaker 01

  Coca-Cola, they would have probably a, generally a common vision or a common view of why they do what they do. And it's not about a sugary soft drink or blah, blah, blah. It's about being part of something bigger that has impact. Strong cultures are places where people feel like they're working towards a common goal.

• 28:02Steven Bartlett?

  We talked earlier on about failure and people's relationship with failure. What about quitting? So failure is kind of like involuntary quitting.

• 28:11Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 28:11Steven Bartlett?

  But quitting is like when you make, you make the decision at some point in the journey that you need to pivot, this is not working. And it seems to me like in all the stories of the people that I've interviewed that have been, become successful, there has been several moments where they've made a decision to quit something, which was either objectively...

• 28:31Steven Bartlett?

  Not smart or terrifying, but I've almost come to learn that I think quitting is actually a skill that winners have managed to really sharpen.

• 28:43Steven Bartlett?

  And obviously, there's that phrase, isn't there, like quitting is for losers. But the more people I've interviewed, the more I've come to learn that quitting is a bit of a skill.

• 28:51Speaker 01

  And I think recognizing when to quit as well. You know, in my twenties, there were periods of time where I was a reporter at NPR at the time, and there were periods of time where I was frustrated and I wanted to quit. But I didn't, but really got close at times because I was covering the Iraq war and Afghanistan. I was in and out of war zones. I was scared. And had I quit at that time, my life and career would have been totally different. I don't think it would have been as interesting. I think it's important that I waited till the right moment when I did quit and stopped working for a big organization and started my own business. I needed to have that experience in my back pocket.

• 29:35Speaker 01

  I needed to feel like I was ready. Was it scary when I did it, when I left the safety of a big organization with insurance and a retirement plan and a guaranteed income? It was really scary. I had two kids, you know, my wife had a small salary. But I felt like I could take that risk because it was the right moment. There was something that told me it was the right moment. So I think it has to be a thought through process. And a lot of times, people will say to me, should I quit and start my own business? And I almost always say, no, start your business slowly.

• 30:15Speaker 01

  So 99% with your job, 1% your business, then 5% your business, 95% your job, then 10% your business, then 90% your job, until you get to a point where maybe, you know, your entire evening and weekend is spent on your side project. And then it's time.

• 30:34Steven Bartlett?

  Yeah, I followed a similar path in my life and I've been quite an aggressive, prolific quitter at the same time at like really key moments. And I don't think I've ever really thought it through. To a fault sometimes, but sometimes it's just been a, it's like a feeling you have. When you feel like you've reached the end of a flow chart of options. And for me, it's like when I can't change it and it sucks, I have to quit. Or when the effort it would take to change it isn't worth the reward on offer. So I have to quit. It's almost like this flow chart I have in my head. And it's funny because throughout your story, you've, you've, throughout this conversation, you've cited these moments where someone was unfulfilled.

• 31:17Steven Bartlett?

  You said that three or four times, like they, they were unfulfilled. They knew they could do something.

• 31:21Speaker 01

  They needed change.

• 31:22Steven Bartlett?

  I've wondered what the role is in reaching rock bottom in your life as a catalyst for change. And I've actually said, asked a few people whether sometimes we just need a bit more pain.

• 31:34Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 31:36Steven Bartlett?

  And it doesn't sound like a nice thing, but.

• 31:38Speaker 01

  I think, I think that rock bottom or a version of that is often a catalyst for change, right? It goes back to this idea of framing. It's very hard. Failure or setbacks that are intense and severe are really hard. You know, my, but, but they are often necessary to trigger the change that needs to happen. I mean, I can tell you, I'll never forget the day. It was 2011 when I found I was still working as an employee at National Public Radio. And I was told that I would not become the weekday host of all things considered. That was my dream.

• 32:22Speaker 01

  I, I'd started there as a 22 year old kid, hoping that one day I'd be the main anchor. It's like the Today program on, on BBC, except in the evening. And that's all I want. I was a foreign correspondent. I covered 50 countries. I ticked all the boxes. I covered the Pentagon. I was the weekend anchor of the show. I did everything right by the book, everything I thought I had to do. But when it came down to making a decision, I was not the person that they wanted. And that was a low point. I really believed my career was over.

• 33:03Speaker 01

  And during that time, while I was looking and searching for a way to leave the news world, because I was convinced I was finished, I had heard of an opportunity to create a show with the people who do TED Talks. And I jumped at that opportunity. And that changed everything. That prompted me eventually to leave, to start my own business, to start creating podcasts. I would never have been in the podcast world had I done that. I would have been on the radio doing news today. And without that low point, I wouldn't have had the trigger to force me to find the next

• 33:47Speaker 01

  thing, to find something different and new. And that failure changed my life.

• 33:53Steven Bartlett?

  Partners, co-founders, people, talent. What have you come to learn about the importance of finding a co-founder, finding people to go into business with, as it relates to where you'll end up?

• 34:06Speaker 01

  A lot of, I'll be 50 this year. And a lot of young people ask me, younger people ask me, what's the best piece of advice you can give me in life? And my advice is always the same. Find a partner in life. Now, different from a business partner, which I'll get to in a moment, but I want to talk about a life partner. I believe that there is a partner for everybody. Whether it's through Tinder, or Hinge, or Bumble, or at a church, or at a bar, or wherever, I believe there's a partner for everybody. And I believe that you are much more likely, not just that I believe, but statistically

• 34:47Speaker 01

  it's true, you're much more likely to be successful if you have a partner to share and build a life with. That is the single most important thing you can do as you build a life. Now, in a business, I give the same advice. You can build a business as a solo entrepreneur, and it's happened. And we have had many solo entrepreneurs on the show who've built businesses by themselves. Well, with others helping, of course, but as the only founder.

• 35:19Speaker 01

  It's harder, not because it's technically harder, it's emotionally harder. Because there's always gonna be a point along the journey and you've experienced it and I've experienced it, where you say to yourself, I suck, I'm a fucking failure. And there's no one else to say to you, you're just feeling that today. You're just feeling that now, but tomorrow, you're not gonna feel that. And I, as your co-founder, might feel that and you're gonna need to tell me that I don't suck. That's the beauty and importance of having a co-founder, because they are there on the journey with you. You are going to go into a crucible fire when you start a business.

• 36:02Speaker 01

  You are gonna hit moments of incredible stress, near failure, and you're gonna need somebody to be there in the trenches with you. Now, can you do it alone? Yes, you can. It's just harder. And the success rates of co-founder businesses tends to be higher. It's why, and I mentioned this in my book, that came out a few years ago, the legendary investor Paul Graham, one of his criteria for investing in companies is co-founders. You have to have a co-founder, because that is a stronger guarantor of success than a solo entrepreneur.

• 36:43Steven Bartlett?

  What do you think people should be looking for when they're seeking a co-founder? You know, is it a personality thing? Is it a skill crossover? Are they looking for someone similar than themselves? And where do these co-founders come about? Where do you find them? So the question I always get, where do I find a co-founder?

• 36:59Speaker 01

  Yeah. I mean, I think it's like dating. And oftentimes, co-founders find each other. Sometimes they know each other in college, or university, or at school, or they meet at a company. Sometimes, they are looking for a co-founder. Sometimes, they are looking for somebody to start a business with. And there's no...

• 37:20Speaker 01

  There's no sort of formula that you can just kind of tick every box. I think a lot of it is instinct, a lot of it is luck. You know, you might have two people with totally disparate skills. A technical co-founder and a marketing or operational co-founder, you know, or a fundraiser co-founder visionary and then, you know, sort of the operational side. And that might be perfect, but they might have a personality conflict. There might be some, there might be a point where they have very diverging views. And so, so much of it is about compatible personalities. It's like a marriage, by the way. You can marry somebody, you can love somebody, fall in love with somebody,

• 38:04Speaker 01

  and decide to marry somebody who is going to be more of a nurturer. And you're maybe more of a disciplinarian when it comes to building a family or vice versa. Really compatible sort of family building skills. But if your personalities aren't compatible, over time, that marriage won't last. If you can't grow together. Oftentimes, co-founders, when they start a business, the most successful co-founders grow together too. You know, they, they start a business and then they grow it together. And it becomes stronger over time because they also grow together. They also learn mistakes together and figure out how to recover from those mistakes together.

• 38:48Speaker 01

  And in some cases, had a failed business before. We just had a, an episode of our show with the founders of a breakfast cereal called Magic Spoon. These guys met at university, Greg and Gabby, and they decided to start a company together, a protein bar company. Protein bars made out of crickets. It's called EXO bars, E-X-O. And it was an amazing idea because crickets are very nutritionally dense, high protein, really good for the environment, don't require a lot of water. You can turn them into a tasteless powder. And they really pursued this business for seven, eight years together.

• 39:31Speaker 01

  And the business failed for obvious reasons, which is we're, in our society in the United States, in the West, we're not yet ready to consume insects. There's a psychological barrier.

• 39:46Speaker 01

  So that could have been the end of their partnership. But they decided that they wanted to continue building something together because they believed in each other. And they moved on to a completely different product, also high in protein, but breakfast cereal. High protein, no sugar, low in carbohydrates. So a keto kind of brand of breakfast cereal, which is now in 20,000 grocery stores in the United States and may even be in the UK. But that's an example of this partnership where they failed together, but which allowed them to then build something that saw success.

• 40:27Steven Bartlett?

  One of the other sort of central questions I get as it relates to that starting phase is people are currently working in a full-time job. They have an idea, but they're not sure how to pivot from the full-time job to the idea. Do they quit their job and then pursue the idea? Do they stay in their job and do it part? That sort of conundrum of how I go from idea to execution while I'm in a full-time job that I need to keep the lights on. You talk a little bit about this in your book as well, this idea of how you leave your comfort zone safely.

• 40:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, of course, it depends on the company. If you're coming up with a technology and you're working at Google, it's probably a better idea to quit first because otherwise, Google is going to claim ownership over that idea. And many companies operate that way where they will, they'll argue that, well, if you work for the company and you have an idea, we own it. So there are examples where you want to leave the company, but we have had so many examples on How I Built This, of founders who have kept their day job while pursuing this other idea, because they had to pay their bills, they had to feed their families. We did a story a couple of years ago, this is actually a UK-based company, and it's an amazing story.

• 41:44Speaker 01

  It's a story of a guy named Christian Tapan Nienaho, who is from Finland, and his wife Dorina, who's Scottish. And they were both sort of educational consultants in the UK. They met at college and they had like an educational consultancy and they had various jobs.

• 42:05Speaker 01

  But Christian was a tinkerer and he dreamed of building something. He wasn't sure what it was. It happens that he was a home cook and he had a problem because this is where all great businesses start. I have a problem and maybe other people have that problem. And if lots of people have that problem, maybe I can solve it. His problem was he couldn't cook a pizza at home. Why couldn't you cook a pizza at home? It has to be really hot. That's how you get those beautiful crusty Neapolitan pizzas with the blackened crust because they cook for a minute at very high heat. Home ovens don't go that hot. What did he do? He started to pound some metal together and he built his own pizza oven that was wood fired.

• 42:50Speaker 01

  Well, today that pizza oven is uni pizza ovens. One of the best selling pizza ovens, home pizza ovens in the world. They're five, between three and 500 bucks. You know, they're pretty affordable. You can, they've got wood versions, they've got gas, propane gas, they've got an electric version. These guys kept their day jobs years into building this company because they didn't know if it was gonna, if it was gonna work or not. That's a billion dollar company. And an example of somebody who really didn't, you know, had one foot in one place and one foot in the other place. And once this other thing was real, they felt that they could take the leap and go for it. So here, here's the thing.

• 43:32Speaker 01

  A lot of people assume that entrepreneurs are these kamikazes. You know, YOLO, I'm gonna jump out of an airplane, no parachute and go for it. And that's a myth, actually. There are some who are like that, you know? But in general, most entrepreneurs calculate the risk. So they do take risks, but we all take risks every day. It's that they mitigate those risks by, in, in, you know, different ways. So in the case of uni, yes, I'm gonna keep my day job for a little while and build this thing. And then it is a risk to jump out of my day job and to pursue this full time. But it seems now I can see where this is heading.

• 44:16Speaker 01

  And that's the moment where you can. Take that leap.

• 44:20Steven Bartlett?

  It's interesting as well because that that story doesn't fit the mold because there was a lot of patience and the patience seemed to come from someone that was really focused on actually solving a problem versus getting rich. And someone that's focused on getting rich would have taken a much more kamikaze approach, I think, than someone who was really just focused on a problem they genuinely wanted to solve. And you said, oh, it ended up being the best pizza oven. And it's probably because he was so focused on, as I said, that he was so focused on solving the problem that he spent, I don't know, five, six, seven years making the best pizza oven and worried later about whether people would want it or whether they would make him rich from creating it. But typically, it's the other way around.

• 45:03Steven Bartlett?

  With entrepreneurs that come up to me when I'm in the gym or in the street, the focus and the priority is clearly, how do I get rich? I'm thinking of selling this or I'm thinking of selling this. And I guess this brings up the question, like, the role of passion and genuine curiosity in creating truly valuable things that the world then makes you rich or remuneration you for.

• 45:24Speaker 01

  So there's nothing wrong with wanting to be rich. There's nothing wrong with wanting to make lots of money. This is, it's an engine that powers innovation, right? I mean, incentives breed innovation. And so there's a reason why, you know, the United States, for example, is, you know, one of the most, if not the most entrepreneurial society in modern history because there are incentives to grow your business. That being said, I would say about 95% of the people that I've interviewed, founders of businesses, in virtually every case, are not primarily motivated by money. Of course, money is important. We all want to have financial security.

• 46:07Speaker 01

  But what they're motivated by is solving a problem they have or looking for an opportunity in the marketplace to solve a problem that lots of other people have. In virtually every case, because what I do on How I Built This is I mainly interview founders of consumer products, products that are either American sort of cultural icons or global brands. And in virtually every case, it is somebody who's trying to solve their own problem. We did a, I did a story last year about an amazing entrepreneur named Monique Rodriguez. Her mom worked at a, as an administrator at a hospital in the South Side of Chicago.

• 46:47Speaker 01

  She grew up, single mom, her dad was, you know, in and out of jail, on drugs. And she managed to go to nursing school. So Monique became a nurse, which was a huge achievement, you know, raised by a single mom in a tough neighborhood in the South Side of Chicago, becomes a nurse. And, you know, within a couple of years of doing that job, was feeling unfulfilled. But she was always dreaming of something. And Monique had a problem, which was she could not find hair care products for her hair. She was a black woman, she didn't, she wasn't able to find really good consumer products on the shelves. So she started to experiment with essential oils.

• 47:31Speaker 01

  And eventually, she started to mix essential oils and play around with her hair, avocado and, you know, jojoba, all these different things. Oh, I can't, no, no, it's pronounced. And she started to make Instagram videos. You know, this is like, early Instagram. And she had, you know, at the beginning, 10 followers and then 20 followers. And she would show people what she was doing with the oils and use it on her hair and show how it was improving her hair. Over time, people were writing in the comments, hey, where can I buy this stuff? Well, after a couple of years of people saying that to her, she still was a nurse. She asked herself the same question, well, how can I, how can I do this?

• 48:12Speaker 01

  So with almost no money, she launched a brand called Myel Organics, which was hair care products for women with textured hair. Fast forward to 2023, she sold that business to Procter & Gamble reportedly for half a billion dollars. This is a woman who started a hair care products company in her apartment in Indiana. She was living in Indiana at the time with no experience in the industry, with no connections, but just a passion to solve a problem she had. And that was the beginning of an empire. And that's a story that I see again and again. You can never, ever substitute passion with a desire for money.

• 48:58Speaker 01

  Passion is always going to trump a desire for money. It eats desire for money. To paraphrase Peter Lynch, passion eats desire for money for lunch or breakfast.

• 49:08Steven Bartlett?

  What is passion doing that just a desire for money wouldn't do along that journey? So if we think about her in that apartment, if we take her and we drive her with passion and we see where she ends up, $500 million. And then we take her and we drive her with a desire for money and we see where she ends up. Why would she end up in different places? What are the steps?

• 49:28Speaker 01

  Yeah, I'm not, I'm not sure she would end up in different places. There's no question that money can be an engine and a motivator. But with passion and a belief in what, in, in, in the thing that you're building, having the ability to solve the problem for many, many people. If you're building something that just solves your problem, it's not enough. That's not a business. That's a hobby. But if you build a product that solves a problem for millions of people, or could potentially solve a problem for millions of people, and you have a passion to build it because it's solving your problem, that is going to drive you, that's going to motivate you to keep moving forward.

• 50:09Speaker 01

  Whereas if it's simply a profit motive and it doesn't land quickly, you're unlikely to keep, keep with it. You're unlikely to have the patience. You're going to move on and try something else, which is fine, too. Which is fine, too.

• 50:21Steven Bartlett?

  There's something in there, and also the case of the pizza guy who made the pizza ovens, where because they're so passionate about it, they understand the problem so deeply that they're able to truly innovate. Whereas like if I was trying to start a pizza oven business now, frankly, I've never experienced pizza ovens before, never used one, never failed at using one, never succeeded at using one. So my information would have to come from Google. It's one of the things that I see a lot in entrepreneurs is how they manage to think for themselves, the force that makes them think for themselves and not just accept the conventional way of doing things. Like someone like Elon Musk is a prime example of a real first principle, start from zero, sort of a blank sheet of paper.

• 51:03Steven Bartlett?

  Very hard to do because conventions like filling all of our brains, so very, very difficult to do. Wish there was some way of teaching that.

• 51:12Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, it is hard to do. But I also think that, you know, part of the process and part of building something is a willingness, not a desire, not a hope, not the enjoyment of, but a willingness to experience failure. That's really hard. Elon Musk has experienced a lot of failure. I mean, put aside, you know, his quirks and, you know, his, I think, challenging parts

• 51:52Speaker 01

  to him, there's no single person on the planet who I believe who's had a bigger impact on reducing climate emissions. I mean, say what you want to about him, but between solar power and cars that are emissions free, he has had a bigger impact on global climate emissions than virtually every, any other individual on earth, which is quite a remarkable thing if you think about it, you know, because a lot of people really hate him. But at the same time, he's had a huge impact on the climate. He's also had a lot of failure. You know, we did the story of PayPal on the show many years ago and told it in great detail. Max Levchin really was the creator of PayPal. He's now the founder of a firm.

• 52:37Speaker 01

  And Max Levchin and Peter Thiel started PayPal. Elon Musk had X.com. They merged into PayPal and they actually kicked Elon Musk out of the company. And Max Levchin tells the story about the day the board kicked him out as the head of the company and Elon was crushed, you know. Tesla, for the first, what, 16 years of its life, was a money-losing business. Nobody believed in it. And I think part of his, you know, part of his bravado and part of his, I think,

• 53:12Speaker 01

  Maybe part of who he is today comes from those scars of people not believing in him. I think that he, but he also was and still is prepared for failure. I mean, when a rocket launch launches and fails, he doesn't like it, but he moves on and he, you know, he goes, he continues. I did an interview not that long ago with Hilary Swank. She was 17 or 16 when she came to Los Angeles with her mother from Washington State to become an actor. Penny, I mean, literally penniless. They literally slept in her mom's car for weeks at a time while she went to high school

• 53:56Speaker 01

  and then auditions. I mean, they were, they had no money. She went to audition after audition, would get bid parts here and there. Only at the age of 25 did she get a breakthrough role on Beverly Hills 90210. It was in the 90s. It was the height of that show's popularity and she finally gets a recurring role on a television show. It's a massive breakthrough. What happens? 16 episodes in, they kill her character. Her contract is done. She's out of work. Her entire career blows up and she's finished. And she was devastated at the time. She thought her career was over because that was the ticket to cruising altitude in Hollywood.

• 54:39Speaker 01

  A couple of weeks later, her agent calls her and says, hey, there's an indie film. They're doing an open audition. It's not a lot of money, but it's something, you know? Why don't you go do it for an audition? This is a small indie crew. She auditions for the role and she gets it. She gets offered the role and it's going to pay her nothing. She's going to make like three to five grand on this film. But she has no other options and she had the time because she wasn't doing 90210 anymore. So she could actually do this role. Well, the role was as Brandon Tina. The film was Boys Don't Cry. She was nominated for the Academy Award, became one of the youngest nominees and then winners

• 55:20Speaker 01

  of the Academy Award that year and was catapulted into global stardom. And then a few years later, won her second Academy Award as best actress, you know, in the company of Meryl Streep and Sally Field and a few others. I mean, an amazing story. Had she not had that failure on 90210, or what felt like a failure at the time, she would never have had the opportunity to audition for this film.

• 55:46Steven Bartlett?

  What can we learn from these stories and these people?

• 55:50Speaker 01

  We can learn that failure is a, can be a blessing and it's all about how we frame it. Now, I'm not saying I am perfect at this. I hate failing. When I fail, it's painful. When I have failed in my life and career, it's been really hard. The hardest part about it is reframing it. And that's what takes all of my strength, energy, I think for anybody, to reframe it and to try and convince yourself that there's a reason, there's a plan, whether it's God or a force or karma or something. There's a reason why it's happening.

• 56:32Speaker 01

  And in my life, in every case of failure, every case, it's happened for the right reasons. That an opportunity came about because that failure moved an obstacle aside.

• 56:48Steven Bartlett?

  Because of how you framed the failure, because of what you did after the failure, because it's conceivable that if you take any one of your big failures in your life and you had down tools, you'd let the failure get the best of you, then it wouldn't have turned. And this is kind of what I was thinking as you were saying about, you know, the force or the god or whatever it's, maybe, maybe we are the force and we are the god. I don't know, I'm not meant to sound like narcissistic or anything, but it's just thinking, there's probably a couple of stories of people that had their character killed in a movie that decided, forget this. And we don't tell those stories now because they said, forget this. So they didn't get the Academy Awards. But in that story, she sounds like she was her own force. She made the decision.

• 57:31Steven Bartlett?

  And it's interesting because in that moment, when you find out your character's killed and you come home and tell your friends your character's killed and you feel the shame, there's no apparent light at the end of the tunnel. So it can't be that. It can't be that that drives you on. It's got to be something else.

• 57:44Speaker 01

  It's got to be something else. And it is, but it is a force. I mean, you know, I, this is not a show about faith or religion. So it depends on what anyone believes in. But I, I'm a believer in faith. I believe in it. I don't think that it happens without intervention on our behalf. Like I, on our, you know, that we, we put effort into it. But, you know, whether you believe or not, whether you believe in a higher power or not, I, I believe in a force. And it doesn't happen automatically. We also have to engineer it. But I believe that there is some kind of guiding force.

• 58:29Speaker 01

  One, one interview I did about a year and a half ago is with Tom Hanks. And Tom Hanks is probably the greatest living actor, maybe in the English language. He is the Spencer Tracy of his generation. He's, he's been in so many films. He's won so many Academy Awards. When he was ready to start his career, his acting career, he desperately wanted to be in a very prestigious Shakespeare festival in Sacramento, California. And that was going to launch his career. And he didn't get any roles. He didn't get a single part. And so he had to find other acting roles. One day, he finds out about an open audition for a new sitcom that ABC was going to possibly

• 59:12Speaker 01

  produce, a pilot show based on two guys living in an apartment together in New York. Show is called Bosom Buddies. He auditions for the part. Hundreds of people are auditioning. Tom Hanks is a nobody.

• 59:26Speaker 01

  He gets the part. But now they're just gonna make a pilot. They make the pilot. And the show actually gets launched. But even then, there was no guarantee that after that show ended, his career would continue. His co-star, Peter Scolari, did not have as successful a career as Tom Hanks did. Tom Hanks was on that show, Bosom Buddies, for a few years. He was moderately successful. But he became this superstar. And his career began as a series of failures. And so, part of it is his own, his own will, his, the sheer will of just keeping, keep on keeping on.

• 1:00:10Speaker 01

  Part of it is fate, part of it is luck, part of it is God, or whatever you wanna call it. There's something there that said to him, these failures are gonna be important for you. You're gonna need them in order to get to the next place.

• 1:00:25Steven Bartlett?

  What are you thinking about the subject of work-life balance? You know, you've interviewed a lot of very successful people, billionaires. They apparently have it all as it relates to sort of material success. But it must have sort of illuminated the sacrifices they've made in other areas of their life. What have you come to learn is, is most important? And what is the warning that you might pass down the ladder to other people that are looking up and thinking, I wanna be a billionaire like Richard Branson or someone else that's wildly successful?

• 1:00:56Speaker 01

  I mean, there always, there's always the perception that, that we have or outsiders have of the founder and the, and the internal perception that, you know, within the family, right? And so, we saw Steve Jobs differently than Steve Jobs' family saw him. I think he was loving father and, and partner and, and, you know, was seen not as Steve Jobs, founder, but Steve Jobs, the dad. There's no question that in many examples, in many interviews I've done, the sacrifices that the founders have made to build their businesses have meant that their personal lives have been challenging. Their marriages have collapsed. They've had difficult relationships with their children. It's happened, for sure.

• 1:01:40Steven Bartlett?

  Is this a big regret you see in the people that you've spoken to?

• 1:01:45Speaker 01

  Sometimes, I think sometimes, there are some cases where there's a bit of regret around that, around missing big chunks of their kids' lives. You know, Isaac Larion, who's a wonderful man and very close with his kids, he, because of the success of the Bratz dolls and the threat that it posed to Mattel, he became the subject of endless lawsuits and then counter lawsuits with Mattel. So he was wrapped up and tied up in court cases with Mattel, the maker of Barbie, for virtually a decade.

• 1:02:23Speaker 01

  When he finally won on appeal, the last judgment, I think he won about $300 million on judgment against Mattel, his son was asked by a reporter, "Aren't you so happy that your dad won?" And he said, "I'm sad because I didn't have my dad around for 10 years because he was wrapped up in this trial." And of course, Isaac was there for his family, but the point is that there are massive sacrifices. And in my case, in a much smaller version of a business I run, I have always wanted to be, and I've always tried to be there for every sports game, for every school event,

• 1:03:07Speaker 01

  for every parent teacher conference. We, as a family, have dinner together every night. We run a family meeting every Sunday night. My kids don't love it, but we sit down and we talk about the week ahead. We talk about our goals for the week. We go over, it's just gonna sound a little earnest, but we have a codified list of family, our family values that we wrote down. We all, four of us, wrote them down and decided what our family is. What kind of things are on there? Gratitude, generosity, forgiveness.

• 1:03:51Speaker 01

  So if, which just happened the other day with my son, he got really mad at me because I yelled at him, and I apologized. And I said, "I'm sorry, I had a stressful day." And he was still mad. And I said, "Hey, on our family values is forgiveness. Remember it says forgiveness? Accept an apology and move on." Curiosity, respect, taking responsibility. There's value in reminding yourself about the things that you aspire to be. And I think in the case of a family, it's, to build a strong family,

• 1:04:32Speaker 01

  you, it takes work and commitment and time. And that means that you're going to sacrifice other things in order to achieve that.

• 1:04:43Steven Bartlett?

  Why are you still doing what you're doing? Because you're 15, almost 15 years in, right?

• 1:04:50Speaker 01

  Into How I Built This were eight.

• 1:04:52Steven Bartlett?

  Been podcasting.

• 1:04:53Speaker 01

  Yeah, 2012 I started, yeah. Yeah, I mean, I am really privileged because I get to learn every day, you know? I get to learn from people that I talk to and exchange ideas with people. And I'm essentially have created a life for myself where I'm, I earn a living from learning, which is an amazing place to be. Every day is different.

• 1:05:35Speaker 01

  And what motivates what I do is, going back to the beginning of our conversation, is knowing that I can create something of value for people for free. You know, when I, when I, the impetus for How I Built This came from an experience I had now 15 years ago when I was on, I had a sabbatical year. And I took a business school class and On the first day, they handed us a case study, part A, and it was about Starbucks and Howard Schultz.

• 1:06:14Speaker 01

  And I devoured it. It was fascinating. And then the story ended, but she had to wait four days for the class to come back to get part B. And it was fascinating. I didn't know about the case study method. I didn't know that's how they taught business school. What I realized soon after was two problems. The first is the case studies were thin. They weren't comprehensive. And the second problem is they were only accessible to students at Harvard Business School or to other business schools who were paying $120,000 a year. And I knew then, at that moment, that I could do the same thing as a storyteller for free. Make these case studies even better and make them available for free.

• 1:07:00Speaker 01

  And that was the genesis of how I built this. It was never a show for entrepreneurs or budding entrepreneurs. It was always a show for people who were interested in building a creative life. It's always what it's been about. And that's what motivated me then, and that's what motivates me now. When I hear from somebody who says, and I hear this all the time,

• 1:07:23Speaker 01

  "I started a business. We started to hit a really rocky patch. We didn't think we would make it. And that week, I listened to Tom Ranks of Sun Bomb, or I listened to Ariel Kay of Parachute. I listened to whatever episode I listened to, and I listened to it, and I felt exactly what she felt at that moment when her business was collapsing, was crumbling. And I thought, okay, we can keep going." And I hear that all the time. Because the show is not about heroes. It's not about superheroes. It's about ordinary people who built incredible brands.

• 1:08:05Speaker 01

  And how they did it. And they didn't do it because they're superheroes. They did it because they're human. And I want everybody who listens to the show to be able to relate to anybody on the show, whether it's Richard Branson, or Howard Schultz, or Sarah Blakely, whoever we have on the show. They're humans that are just like the people listening.

• 1:08:27Steven Bartlett?

  Who's been your, and I get asked this all the time, and it's a bloody awful question, but I'm going to ask you because I get it so often.

• 1:08:34Steven Bartlett?

  What has been the interview that has stayed with you in the most profound way? Or the first interview that stayed with you in a profound way?

• 1:08:43Speaker 01

  I have to qualify the answer because there are elements of every interview I do that stick with me, that are powerful. You know, the story I told you about Isaac Larian and the No, or his childhood in Iran, or whatever it might be.

• 1:08:59Speaker 01

  Elements of Gary Erickson's story, the founder of Clif Bar. I mean, Howard Schultz's story, growing up in a housing project in Brooklyn. So it's impossible to tell you what's the one interview out of 500 that stuck with me the most. Because there are elements, there are things that I remember and connect with about, you know, connect to with every interview. And I keep in touch with many of the founders who have been on the show.

• 1:09:29Speaker 01

  But I think recently, one of the most powerful interviews we've done in terms of the scope and the creativity has been the story of Sun Bomb, which is a suntan lotion. It was started by a guy named Tom Rinks. And Tom wanted to create a suntan lotion brand that could be disruptive in the marketplace. And he drew elements from, you know, all of these disparate influences, you know, Japanese streetwear and surfboard culture. And he even, even though he was in Holland, Michigan, he got a mailbox in Cocoa Beach, Florida,

• 1:10:10Speaker 01

  because he wanted to put Cocoa Beach, Florida as the address on the back of the bottle. He was influenced by all these different things and put them all together to build a brand that eventually sold to SC Johnson for hundreds of millions of dollars, you know? It's stories like that, and there's so much more to his story. But there's stories like that where you begin to understand how people took all of their life experiences and put them together, started to put the puzzle pieces together to build something enduring.

• 1:10:45Steven Bartlett?

  How many kids have you got?

• 1:10:46Speaker 01

  Two.

• 1:10:47Steven Bartlett?

  How old are they?

• 1:10:48Speaker 01

  Twelve and fourteen.

• 1:10:49Steven Bartlett?

  From all the interviews you've done with hundreds of people, you know, 500 extremely successful people, tens of thousands of others, if there was just one message that you think would be most useful for those two young kids as they go off into their lives, if they are to listen to this in 10 years' time, 20 years' time, what would that message be?

• 1:11:11Speaker 01

  Find a partner to build your life with. It doesn't have to be a romantic partner or a lover, or it can be a sibling or a close friend. But if you can find a partner to build a life with, somebody you can support and who can support you, you are infinitely more likely to build a happy life.

• 1:11:38Steven Bartlett?

  Guy, thank you. Thank you so much for so many things. Thank you so much for the inspiration. You've been a huge inspiration to our show since the very, very beginning. In fact, my producer and the co-founder of this show, Jack, who I started this with, he, from day one, has been talking about your show, not just in a sense of learning from a great podcaster who makes content in a really value-loaded way, but from the stories you've told. Because the stories you've told on your show as well have been, he, I mean, Jack and myself have continually cited as, have left breadcrumbs for people like us that are building things. Kind of like what you said, they've given us key insights and nuggets at certain moments when we're faced with certain challenges on how to navigate.

• 1:12:20Steven Bartlett?

  And, and you'll never get to see the value that that's given to so many people. But I just want you to know that I'm one of them, that Jack is one of them, and that we're very appreciative for that and also for your time today. So, thank you so much, Guy.

• 1:12:30Speaker 01

  Thank you.