Merry Christmas you pinpricked Vincent's

A festive tale about a bicycle and a threesome in the Dublin airport Maldron hotel Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:00Speaker 00

  The youth mental health crisis is growing, and social media is a major driver. Kids are spending up to nine hours a day on screens, often unsupervised, and studies show a direct link to anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. That's where Gab comes in. Gab offers safer phones and watches for kids with no social media, tailored to every age, offering the right tech at the right time, or Tech in Steps. From GPS-tracking-enabled watches for younger kids to phones with parent-enabled apps for teens, each device allows kids to more safely grow their independence. Visit gab.com/getgab and use code GETGAB for an exclusive offer.

• 0:41Speaker 00

  That's G A B B dot com forward slash get gab. Gab: Tech in Steps. Independence for them, peace of mind for parents.

• 0:52Speaker 01

  The Quarter Pounder with Cheese is made with 100% fresh beef, cooked when you order it. Then comes the melted cheese, the slivered onions, the pickles, the ketchup, and the mustard. Add hot crispy fries and an ice cold Coke, all for $8. And if things go well, one loose fry at the bottom of the bag. The Quarter Pounder with Cheese meal, now $8. Ba-da-ba-ba-ba.

• 1:24Blindboy Boatclub?

  Merry Christmas, you pain-pricked Vincent's. Welcome to the Blind Boy Podcast. Thank you for all the wonderfully kind messages I've received this week. People asking me to take the day off because it's Christmas, but it's a Wednesday, and at this point, it would just feel strange if I missed a week. After seven years, it would feel very strange missing a week. So I wanted to tug out. I can't say tug out without laughing. I wanted to tug out.

• 1:54Blindboy Boatclub?

  I want the to to tag out for Christmas. I don't know why that's so funny. Why is tag out so funny? Tag out and tag off. I once worked with a fellow who was a notorious liar. And we we'd to go work on a gig in fucking New York. And he was very late at the airport, very late, like almost missed a flight late. But when he came to the airport and we were all waiting with our bags. Now, as far as I'm concerned, at this point, we're missing the flight. He's that late. We're missing the flight now. But suddenly he arrives with a big red face, out of breath, and he says, sorry, lads. I've just come from a threesome. Very good excuse.

• 2:38Blindboy Boatclub?

  So we run to get to US fucking immigration. And as we're running, he's describing the threesome. But while describing the threesome, he said, the two women togged off beside the bed. They togged off beside the bed. And that's how I knew he was lying about the threesome. I knew I was being told to lie because he was underselling the threesome. He was he was underselling it. I almost missed my flight to New York because last night I was in a hotel and I found myself in a threesome with strangers. That's a good fucking excuse. That's a good excuse. But it's also a boast. Why why undersell it? Why do you need to tell me that the women togged off?

• 3:23Blindboy Boatclub?

  Why de-sexualize the situation? Rugby players togg off. Harlers togg off. People in threesomes, they disrobe, they take their clothes off, they strip. They don't togg off. So what you're doing is you're you're trying to make this lie more believable by underselling it. Yeah, man, I met these two women down at the bar, right? And and then before you know it, we were up in we were up in my room, right? And and then they togged off. No, no, now you're lying. You might have had a wank about a threesome, and that's why you're late. You're not late because. You had a threesome with two women you met at the bar of the Dublin Airport Maldron. You ever stayed in the Dublin Airport Maldron?

• 4:08Blindboy Boatclub?

  It smells like jet fuel and everybody there is unbelievably stressed. I don't think anybody has ever had a threesome in the Dublin Airport Maldron. It's this weird square building. All the rooms are at ground level. It's a very disorienting hotel. If you step out a side door, you can find yourself getting, getting lost in, in a business park. Like, you know, a, a business park, a, a, a formalized area where offices are with planned shrubbery. That happened to me one morning in the fucking Dublin Airport Maldron. It was about five in the morning and I was getting ready for a flight. I stepped outside a door to have a cigarette, went for a little wander and I was lost. Pitch dark, early morning, lost in a business park.

• 4:53Blindboy Boatclub?

  Jets flying overhead, very close. And then you know what I fucking saw? Like a hare, like a rabbit. There's wild hares that live in, in the grounds of the Dublin Airport Maldron. And they're not cute little bunnies, fucking watership down cunts who give you a decent stay. And when you get, when you get your breakfast in that hotel, the, the rashers are boiled. They've curly boiled rashers. No one's having threesomes in that hotel. It's, it's as sexual as an N C T centre. They just want you, get in, sleep, fuck off, get on your plane. It's, it's not even a hotel. It's, it's a three minute walk to the doors of Dublin Airport.

• 5:37Blindboy Boatclub?

  That's the only reason you stay there. If you have an early flight, that's it, sorted. And you'll put up with anything. Dirty carpets, the smell of jet fuel, wild hares in the lawn. The ceilings in, in all the rooms in this hotel are like a foot and a half shorter than regular ceilings. So when you're, when you're in the hotel, it feels like being in, like a fallout shelter or a bunker. A profoundly hostile environment for a spontaneous threesome. Terrible sleep because it's so noisy, but you, you just, you put up with it. You're three minutes from the door of Dublin Airport. My idea of purgatory would be having a threesome in the Dublin Airport Maldron Hotel with the stench of jet fuel.

• 6:21Blindboy Boatclub?

  And hairs fighting in the lawn outside, suffocating from the short ceilings, unable to perform sexually, because I'm thinking about Carly Wilde rashes. What the fuck am I talking about? This is supposed to be a Christmas episode. What the fuck am I talking about this shit for? Togging out, yeah, togging out, togging off, alright? And, oh yeah, the fella, it did turn out to be a lie. It was a lie. Because the next time, like a year later, that this fella had gone on tour with us, he'd forgotten the time last year when he almost missed his flight because he had a threesome in the Dublin Airport Maldron Hotel. Like, if you, if you almost miss a flight, or if you miss a flight,

• 7:07Blindboy Boatclub?

  you fucking remember, you remember the reason why. So, yes, I am togging out for this week's episode. I'm togging out. Let's do some type of Christmas shit, alright? Actually, that's not the first time that I almost missed a flight because of someone else's sexual activity. I had someone who was doing tour managing once, and they were flying with me abroad for a gig. But anyway, we'd gone through security, and then after we'd gone through security, everything was fine, but then he got held back. Not only held back, but security took him away to a private room. And he was there for about forty minutes, and I'm like, fuck,

• 7:52Blindboy Boatclub?

  am I gonna have to go on tour without a tour manager? Eventually, he came out, and I'm like, what the fuck happened? Why, why did that, why did security hold you back for that long? What happened? So, anyway, they swabbed his bag, and he got flagged for bomb-making materials. And then they took him into a private room and, like, strip-searched him and swabbed his body. So whatever happened, there, there were chemicals on his body that were associated with making bombs. And they were asking him all these questions about, have you been in contact with, like, fertilizer? Do you work in, in the agricultural industry? Have you had any reason to be near dynamite or explosives? He's like, no, I'm a fucking tour manager. I'm not near any of this stuff.

• 8:36Blindboy Boatclub?

  And then they keep asking him questions about, has he been in contact with chemicals? And why is it, why is his body showing up with these chemicals? And then finally he goes, ah, you know what? I've been having sex with a woman who's a chemist. And then airport security had a big old laugh and said, okay, that makes sense. And they let him go. Now that's a good fucking lie. Now that wasn't a lie, it was true, but that's a good fucking lie. Why are you late for this flight? I've been riding a chemist recently. I've been riding a chemist so much that airport security detected bomb making chemicals on my body. And that's why I'm late for the flight. Like if that was a lie, I'd have taken that hook line and sinker.

• 9:21Blindboy Boatclub?

  I'd have wanted that to be true. I'd have proudly missed my flight for that, just for the story. So I'm togging out this week. I'm togging out this Christmas day. I'm half togging out. I'm half togging out. I've, I'm wearing shorts. And maybe want one shoe. This is an unplanned podcast. This is a phone call. I did wanna take some time off. I didn't wanna spend the days before Christmas prepping and writing and researching. My favorite part about Christmas is I've no emails. No one fucking emails me over the Christmas period and I love that. I adore the quietness of it. So I want to use that time to relax, to do fuck all.

• 10:05Blindboy Boatclub?

  But also I'm conscious of, I'm conscious of all the listeners who, not, not everybody's with family at Christmas. Not everybody enjoys Christmas. Some people are working today, other people are by themselves today. Some people are very content and happy to do that, to prefer to be by themselves on Christmas Day. But society tends to, to shame that a bit, to put this huge pressure on people to be with friends and family in particular on Christmas Day. And for some people, they're better off just staying by themselves. I know there's a lot of listeners and today is just Wednesday. It's just another Wednesday and I want to honor my Wednesday commitment of delivering a podcast. I wanna tell you a story about a bicycle.

• 10:52Blindboy Boatclub?

  I had a very stressful situation with my bicycle yesterday on Christmas Eve. I haven't been looking after my U-Lock. I've been leaving my U-Lock out in the rain. So yesterday evening, I locked my bicycle in town and when I tried to unlock it, I couldn't. The fucking, the key was jamming in the lock. So I was like, fuck. I'm gonna have to leave my bicycle locked to a railing in the middle of Limerick City Centre over Christmas. Now, I don't know what it's like where you live, but in most cities, in, in Limerick anyway, definitely Dublin.

• 11:33Blindboy Boatclub?

  If you leave your bike locked overnight, just forget about it. Forget about it. There's gangs of children and teenagers who steal bicycles. And if they can't break the lock, they'll just smash the bike up. They'll twist it into bits. So if you leave your bike in town overnight, it's gone, just as a given. Maybe a 10% chance, but if, if you have to leave your, your bike is gone. Someone's gonna fuck it up. And I've always known this to be the case for years and years. If I was getting a new bicycle, I'd never buy a new bicycle. I'd get a secondhand one for 90 quid.

• 12:14Blindboy Boatclub?

  I'd buy a secondhand bike for 90 quid because I knew if I leave this thing tied up, it's gonna get robbed eventually. So don't get a good bike. So I was in this cycle for years and years of bicycles getting robbed or vandalised. And then finally about five years ago, when I started earning a living from this, from this podcast. I said, you know what? I'm gonna, I'm actually gonna buy a bike. I'm gonna buy a bicycle. One that I like, one that, that meets my needs. A road bike that takes me in and out of work every single day. Nice and quick, nice and easy. So I did. I bought a bicycle, bought a bicycle five years ago.

• 12:53Blindboy Boatclub?

  Wasn't that expensive, about five or 600 quid. That is expensive, but some people have bikes that are three or four grand. This is five or 600 quid. So yesterday, Christmas Eve, the fucking lock is broken.

• 13:07Blindboy Boatclub?

  I can't open it. The key is jamming, the key is getting stuck. I knew if I, if I force it, I'm gonna break the key. My bicycle is locked to a fence in the middle of town. It's Christmas Eve, so I can't ring a company to come and break the lock. Not on fucking Christmas Eve. And on Christmas Day, town is just gonna be empty. And all the gangs of young fella's are gonna come out looking for bikes to break. So that's it, it's fucked, it's gone. I couldn't think of a solution, I'd given up. And I immediately start to catastrophise. I start to think about just how absolutely awful and painful and terrible it will be when my bike gets robbed.

• 13:53Blindboy Boatclub?

  I started to fantasise about not being able to eat food, not being able to feed myself over the Christmas period because I don't have a bicycle to go and do my groceries. Then this anger comes up in me. I wanna grab that U-lock and I wanna try and pull the bike off the railing. I want to vandalise my own bike. And then this, this much sadder, darker emotion bubbles up. This deep, sad feeling of unfairness. This theme or narrative starts to emerge in my mind where I haven't just broken my U-lock because I allowed it to get rusty,

• 14:34Blindboy Boatclub?

  but rather the universe is conspiring against me at Christmas time in particular. This is so unfair. Unfairness and unhappiness is befalling upon me specifically at Christmas time. Of course it is, of course it is. I'm so unlucky, everything is so unfair, everything is against me. This is all so unfair. Now, at the end of the day, lads, we're talking about a fucking bicycle. It's a fucking bicycle. Now, maybe three or four minutes have passed, but within these three or four minutes, the extremity of emotions that I'm feeling. Now, it's a genuine, that's a stressful situation. It's a genuinely stressful and annoying situation.

• 15:20Blindboy Boatclub?

  My bike is about to be locked to a fence in the middle of town over fucking Christmas. It's Christmas Eve, I can't ring a locksmith. There's not much I can do and it's probably gonna get robbed. Shit situation, stressful and deeply inconvenient, but certainly doesn't, doesn't merit the scale of catastrophising. Cause I started off with catastrophising. This is awful, this is terrible. Then I start to fantasise about like not being able to feed myself, which is mad. And then the deep, dark theme of this is so unfair. It felt like a script, like the universe has a script written around Christmas time in particular where bad things happen to me.

• 16:06Blindboy Boatclub?

  Now, here's the thing about emotions. All I want for Christmas, all I want for the new year, all I want from life. And I say this as, as a middle-aged man who's been around the block. I want to have the ability to respond to my emotions, not to react to them. It's that simple, that, that's what I want out of life. If, if I can, if I can work towards that, all the other shit falls into place. I wanna notice my emotions and have the choice to respond to those emotions. And that choice comes from, it comes from a calmness. It comes from having high self-esteem, feeling that I'm a good person, liking who I am.

• 16:49Blindboy Boatclub?

  Being that way allows me to observe and critique my emotions as they pop up so that I can decide how to respond to those emotions. And, and the big one that popped up. So feeling angry with my U-Lock and wanted to rip it. That's fair enough. This is a frustrating situation. I can see why I'd want to get so angry that I vandalise my own bike. Then the catastrophising. Oh no, I won't have a bike. What an inconvenience. This bike is how I get to the shop to do my groceries. Oh no, if I've no groceries, I'll starve. That's catastrophising. That's anxiety taking the front seat.

• 17:35Blindboy Boatclub?

  And thinking of worst case scenarios. So I have a choice to go. That's probably not gonna happen. That's bullshit. I could get a taxi. I could walk. It'll be grand. But the one emotion that I couldn't really understand was that deep, dark feeling of unfairness. My bike is gonna get stolen at Christmas because unfair and bad things happen to me at Christmas. Christmas is an unfair time for me specifically. That was the one where I, I stepped back from it. And was like, what the, what's that about? That's a bit of a strange one. Would I feel this way two weeks ago?

• 18:15Blindboy Boatclub?

  If my, if my bike lock broke two weeks ago, would I be focusing on how unfair this is for me specifically? I don't think I would. What's going on here? And then, of course, it dawns on me, sure. My dad, my dad died at Christmas time, sixteen, seventeen years ago. My dad was on Christmas Day, my dad was in hospital with terminal brain cancer. With maybe a week left to live when I was quite young. And that fucking ruined Christmas. Like, if you're listening to this and a loved one has died, someone in your family has died around Christmas. That fucks up Christmas. That really makes a bollocks out of Christmas for you.

• 19:00Blindboy Boatclub?

  This time, which is all about family and connection and ritual and tradition. If, if one of your family dies at Christmas time, it flips it all and onto its head. It, it becomes a time of misery and mourning when society is specifically telling you to be happy. It, it's really difficult. And my dad's dead seventeen years and seventeen years is, it's enough time to pass where.

• 19:31Blindboy Boatclub?

  I don't think about him every single day. It's enough time to pass where I don't consciously associate Christmas with my dad dying anymore. The first ten years, definitely I did, but now I don't anymore. But now here I am. And my bicycle, my U-Lock is broken. And I can't get my bike away from this railing. And now I'm experiencing a very dark feeling of, of, this is so unfair to me specifically. I, I felt isolated, I felt lonely, I felt angry, I felt jealous of other people's happiness. About a fucking bicycle? It had nothing to do with a bicycle.

• 20:16Blindboy Boatclub?

  That was grief, that was grief. It's the difficult, complicated, painful, raw feelings that I felt when my dad died. It's the feelings I felt when I was a fucking kid. And I'm spending Christmas Day in, in a hospice, watching my dad die. And Christmas isn't something we can enjoy anymore as a family. It's the difficulty of the, the Christmas the year after. It's the question of, should we enjoy Christmas? Because dad died this time last year. And, and it's that, it's the big existential unfairness that you experience. When your fucking parent dies, or when someone close to you dies, that, that big, big unfairness.

• 21:01Blindboy Boatclub?

  This is so unfair. Why me? Why now? Why Christmas? This is so unfair. And other people's Christmas joy of being with family. It, it becomes something that, it's painful, it's painful to hear about it and it's painful to watch. And it's painful to participate in conversations about it because you don't want to burst their bubble. No, I don't really like Christmas because my dad died at Christmas, so I don't really like Christmas anymore. I'm not saying that to a person who's having a wonderful time with their family at Christmas. That's not happening. But that business with the bike lock yesterday.

• 21:39Blindboy Boatclub?

  The sadness did the big, big script, that theme of unfairness. This is so unfair to me. Of course, my bike is gonna get stolen at Christmas. Of course, Christmas hates you specifically. That was all grief. That was grief about my dad that I'd found, that I'd projected into the lock on a bike. The thing is,

• 22:04Blindboy Boatclub?

  I had the calmness, I had the calmness to observe that feeling of unfairness. But when it popped up, it was so strange that I went, hold on a second, what's that about? And I felt this little catharsis because I went, oh yeah, my dad died at Christmas like seventeen years ago. Oh yeah, remember that? Remember how unfair that felt? Okay, that explains why I'm getting these feelings here. And using emotional literacy to navigate those feelings, that instantly, that that calms me immediately. Because you see, I've just responded to my emotions.

• 22:45Blindboy Boatclub?

  I catastrophized, I felt anger, and I felt that unfairness. I responded to all of those emotions. I didn't react. If I was reactive, what would I have done? If I was reactive, I'd be, I'd be a man in the middle of Limerick City, breaking his own bicycle. That's what reactive is. I'd have given in to that initial, initial feeling of rage and tried to break my own bicycle. I didn't do that. Now I'm looking at the entire situation really calmly and rationally. So I'm going, okay, can't open the bike lock. Definitely can't ring someone to fix it because it's fucking Christmas Eve.

• 23:27Blindboy Boatclub?

  Fuck it, that's an awful shame. It probably will get nicked. That's a terrible fucking shame. But I'll get over it. I'm healthy. So what? I'll get a new bike. I'll be inconvenienced. Is this unfair? Is it unfair? Is it unfair that I'm healthy? Is it unfair that I have a job that I adore? Is it unfair that I'm not worried about paying my bills? Is it unfair that I'm gonna go to a lovely cozy warm bed tonight? No, it's not unfair that my bicycle lock broke on Christmas Eve. It's just unlucky. So because I'd responded in this way to emotional triggers, I'm not feeling emotional anymore now.

• 24:07Blindboy Boatclub?

  I'm, I'm feeling critical. And because I'm not feeling emotional, now my brain isn't, I'm not narrow minded. You see, when I'm catastrophising, all I'm thinking about is the catastrophe. I, I'm going to starve over fucking Christmas because I won't have a bike to cycle to the shop. Utterly ridiculous. I'm gonna get so angry with this lock that I'm gonna, I'm gonna break my own bike in the middle of town and create a spectacle. I won't arrive at any solutions when my brain is reacting to emotion. But now that I'm calm, I'm thinking, right, what time is it? Three o'clock, definitely not gonna be able to ring a locksmith.

• 24:52Blindboy Boatclub?

  Fuck it. Ten minutes up the road is a hardware shop. Why don't I at least try? I'm gonna walk up to that hardware shop and buy a can of lubricant. I'm gonna buy a can of lubricant, I'm gonna spray it into the lock and I'll give it one last shot. And if it doesn't work, fuck it, at least I tried, I'm inconvenienced. So I walked up to the, the hardware shop, came back with the can of oil, sprayed it into the lock and then boom, it opens. I've got my bicycle. And I cycled home feeling fucking magnificent. And that's not a story about a bicycle. I wasn't feeling magnificent because I got my bicycle back.

• 25:36Blindboy Boatclub?

  I felt really happy and confident. I really, really liked who I was yesterday. I was very happy with me as a person yesterday because I was presented with a genuinely stressful situation and I, I responded to all of my emotions. I didn't react to them, I responded to my emotions. And every time I do that, I just feel like a very, a capable.

• 26:08Blindboy Boatclub?

  Calm, functional human being. And, and none of this is, is autism stuff. This isn't anything to do with being neurodivergent. This, this is the human condition and emotions. That's what this is. Any one of us could get into that exact situation. The next time you lose your wallet, or lose your phone, or lose your car keys, or get locked out of your gaff. When the, the, the simple little accidents of life threaten your feeling of safety or security in any way. And I, I work, I work to be that way as much as possible. I work very hard to be a person who, who responds to emotions rather than reacts to emotions. And that's all I want. That's all I want from life.

• 26:53Blindboy Boatclub?

  If I have that, everything else falls into place. If I have that, I can enjoy the present moment. Calm, cool, critical, mindful, happy, pleasant. That's, that's how I experience life when I'm emotionally responsive, when I'm emotionally reactive, when I'm reacting to my emotions. Then I'm anxious, jittery, fearful, and living in my head, living in my thoughts, not noticing the world around me because I'm living in my thoughts. And the thing is with becoming someone who responds to emotions, like that's, that for me is the cornerstone of my mental health, right? It's not something you arrive at. And this is something I've realised over the years.

• 27:39Blindboy Boatclub?

  No amount of work is gonna get me to one singular point where I'm emotionally responsive and then I don't have to do the work anymore. It's, it's like having sound mental health is a bit like, like eating food. Let's just say today I eat really well and because I eat well, I'm not hungry, but I will be hungry tomorrow. I'm not gonna eat a big nutritious meal now and then say, that's it, I'm never gonna need food again for the rest of my life. No, I'm gonna eat good food today and then tomorrow I'm gonna be hungry, I'm gonna have to eat good food again. Yesterday on Christmas Eve, I thought my bike was gone and I'm really happy with how I handled that stressful

• 28:22Blindboy Boatclub?

  situation. I'm really fucking happy, very pleased with myself that I responded to that stressful situation in a calm and critical way. Tomorrow, some stressful shit could happen and I'll react to it. I'll be emotionally reactive and make poor choices. So every single day, every single day for the rest of my life, I have to wake up in the morning and work on being calm enough that when emotions arise, I can step back, observe the emotions and choose how to respond. And that daily work, in the same way that it's daily work to make my breakfast, it's daily work to make my lunch. I'm gonna be hungry

• 29:04Blindboy Boatclub?

  tomorrow and I'm gonna have to eat food. Okay, let's have a little Ocarina pause now for this little Christmas phone call. Instead of an Ocarina this week, I think I have a sleigh bell. So let's, let's do a sleigh bell. The only festive thing about this fucking podcast. This podcast has been about a threesome in a depressing hotel and a bicycle, right? Not very festive. Here's a sleigh bell for some festive bullshit and you're gonna hear an advert.

• 29:40Speaker 01

  The Quarter Pounder with Cheese is made with 100% fresh beef, cooked when you order it. Then comes the melted cheese, the slivered onions, the pickles, the ketchup and the mustard. Add hot crispy fries and an ice cold Coke, all for $8. And if things go well, one loose fry at the bottom of the bag. The Quarter Pounder with Cheese Meal. Now $8.

• 30:09Speaker 03

  Your daily supplement routine doesn't need to be managing a handful of different bottles. ONNIT's Total Human brings key research-based vitamins, minerals, herbs, and amino acids together in convenient day and night packs. One all-in-one product designed to make supplementation easier. The day pack supports cognition, focus, and cellular energy production. At night, the night pack helps you wind down and supports a calm, relaxed state. Less time managing your supplements, more support for your day and night. Shop Total Human now at ONNIT.com.

• 30:44Speaker 04

  Host Thanksgiving with industry-leading quality standards from Whole Foods Market. There are no antibiotics in their meat department, ever. So carve up turkey and spiral cut ham with peace of mind. Shop organic sides like Stuffing Mix and Cranberry Sauce from 365 Brand. And guess what? All their delectable pies are made with no high-fructose corn syrup. Gourmet Thanksgiving flavors with the quality you want, only at Whole Foods Market.

• 31:18Speaker 05

  ActiveCampaign is the marketing automation platform built for big swings and big dreams. Generate ideas in seconds, import your brand, and create full campaigns with simple prompts. Get started for free at activecampaign.com.

• 31:33Speaker 06

  Hey guys, it is Pablo Torre from Pablo Torre Finds Out. And as a journalist, I like to think I have the answers. But every holiday season, gifting makes me think otherwise. Getting it right feels impossible and can get quite stressful. But thankfully, Sephora takes a lot of the pressure off. Whether you're shopping for a beauty expert, a skincare lover, or someone who is just hard to shop for, Sephora's got it all. The big assist comes from Sephora's expert beauty advisors, who remove the guesswork with personalized recommendations, so you can find something thoughtful and useful for the people on your list. Beauty is a gift anyone can give. So this holiday season, shop gifts at Sephora and give something beautiful.

• 32:14Speaker 03

  Business is booming. Is your fulfillment ready for peak season? Switch to ShipStation now and handle more volume with confidence when it counts. ShipStation connects Shopify, Amazon, TikTok Shop and over 200 more integrations with one platform that does it all. You can manage orders, sync inventory, track returns, all automatically. Everything your operation needs, all in one place. Right now, qualified shippers get a real dedicated person to get you set up and switched over for free. So when peak season hits, you're ready to go. Switch today at shipstation.com code AUDIO.

• 32:47Blindboy Boatclub?

  There you go now. For all you Rudolph cunts.

• 32:56Blindboy Boatclub?

  That was the sleigh bell pause. You'd have heard an advert. Support for this podcast comes from you, the listener, via the Patreon page, patreon.com/theplannedbyapodcast. If this podcast brings you mirth, merriment, enjoyment, whatever the fuck, please consider paying me for the work that I do. Because this podcast is my full-time job. It's how I earn a living. It's how I pay all my bills. It's how I have the time and space to deliver a podcast each week. It's how I have the time to, to fucking research this podcast. And to rent out my office, to rent out everything. This podcast is how I live and survive. I adore this job. I absolutely adore it.

• 33:38Blindboy Boatclub?

  I'm so unbelievably grateful to get to deliver this podcast each week. And that's why I don't miss. I don't fucking miss. I deliver a podcast each Wednesday without fail for the past seven years and long may it continue. So all I'm looking for is the price of a pint or a cup of coffee once a month. That's it. And if you can't afford that, you can listen for free, listen to the podcast for free, because the person who is paying is paying for you to listen for free. So everybody gets a podcast, the exact same podcast, and I get to earn a living. It's a wonderful model based on kindness and soundness. So that's patreon.com forward slash the blind by podcast to become a paid subscriber.

• 34:23Blindboy Boatclub?

  And if you're, if you're an iPhone user, please don't subscribe to my Patreon and the Patreon app on the iPhone, because Apple are greedy bastards and they take 30%. So go to a desktop, patreon.com forward slash the blind by podcast. If you'd like to become a patron, also quite importantly, it keeps this podcast independent, completely fucking independent. No advertiser can tell me what to, what to speak about or what the content should be, or put me under pressure for the podcast to be popular. I don't give a fuck how many people listen to this podcast. I could have four times the listenership with content I don't enjoy and listeners who couldn't give a shit.

• 35:07Blindboy Boatclub?

  I could just do podcasts, bring on viral guests, speak about viral topics, have these people who show up and listen to one podcast, just inflate the listenership and keep advertisers happy. Fuck that, fuck it. I want to make podcasts that I love making. I want to speak about what I'm curious about. I want to enjoy coming here each week and exploring curiosity and then knowing that you who's listening, you're genuinely here because you want to be, because you like this podcast. So that's only possible when it's independently funded, when it's listener funded. That's the only way that that's possible, because advertising fucks everything up. So please become a patron if you can afford it.

• 35:52Blindboy Boatclub?

  Some gigs for the new year, Vicker Street on the 27th of January, that's a Monday night gig, very nearly sold out. A lot of people bought tickets for that at Christmas, but my Vicker Street gigs up in Dublin, people travel from abroad to come to those gigs. Um, I do a few of them a year. I just love them. They're really intimate. It's a wonderful fucking venue. Monday night, nice and quiet. Come along to that. There's a few tickets left. February on the ninth. Uh, I'm in Leisure Land in Galway. I've got a great guest for that. Few tickets left for that. Then, Drogheda on the twenty first in the Crescent Hall.

• 36:32Blindboy Boatclub?

  Belfast Waterfront Theatre, twenty eighth of February, up there in Belfast, come along to that. March, Ainech down in Killarney on the seventh. Cork Opera House there on the thirteenth of March. April, there, I've got. Fucking Australian New Zealand, that's sold out. Wednesday, the twenty third of April, my biggest ever gig in my home city of Limerick, in the University Concert Hall. Never thought I'd be saying that. Never thought I'd be playing the fucking University Concert Hall in Limerick. But fuck it, here we are. Then June, next summer, my big gigantic tour of England and Glasgow, not Glasgow, Scotland, England and Scotland.

• 37:18Blindboy Boatclub?

  This tour is now almost sold out. Lot of people buying tickets for this. But June twenty five, there are some tickets left. Bristol, Cornwall, Sheffield, Manchester, Glasgow, Edinburgh, York, London, East Sussex and Norwich. Alright, so come along to that tour. I was gonna do something this week, but again, I didn't wanna go deep into the research. I was gonna do something on the pagan origins. Origins, the pagan origins of Christmas. I'll throw a few potential facts off the top of my head. There's no, like, Christmas is supposed to be the birth of Christ, right? There's no mention of Christ's birth in the Bible, none at all.

• 38:01Blindboy Boatclub?

  Christ's birthday being in December, that was a decision that was made by the early church, four hundred years after Christ's birth. You see, because the twenty first of December, that's the shortest day of the year, that's the solstice. And in Europe, this, this had huge importance to pre-Christian societies. Winter was dark and cold and terrifying, and there was no- There was no artificial light, so these short fucking winter days were quite depressing. And people had to live off food that they had stored. They couldn't grow anything. So people really, really wanted the sun to return. They wanted the days to get longer.

• 38:43Blindboy Boatclub?

  Like in Ireland, we've got structures like Newgrange, which is 5,000 years old. And that this structure, the sun and the and the winter solstice shines through a little slit and illuminates a central chamber on the 21st of December. Our ancestors in in Ireland 5,000 years ago know the significance of the 21st of December. It meant the days were getting longer. It meant that you could start planting food again. There was gonna be harvest. There was gonna be plenty. This was really, really fucking important for survival. So all around Europe, in pre-Christian societies, there was mad celebrations around the 21st of December.

• 39:25Blindboy Boatclub?

  There was celebrations because it meant the sun is being born again. And that's what Christmas is. The Christian church said, right, all of these fucking pagans all over Europe, they have these big festivals around the 21st around the time of the solstice. So let's just say Christ is born on the 21st of December or thereabouts. That's why Christmas is on the 25th. It's the solstice. The sun is born again. And I love that about Christmas. I love that the solstice was a couple of days ago and it's not noticeable, but the days are getting longer. I like that. I want longer days. It's a bit bleak right now.

• 40:07Blindboy Boatclub?

  And Christmas trees, Christmas trees most likely come from Yule. Yule is like a Nordic celebration of the solstice. And Yule would have found its way into fucking Ireland and and and England via the Vikings. But again, Christmas trees probably have pre-Christian origins that go back a long, long time. It's winter. You can't grow anything. You're relying upon food that you have stored away from the last harvest. The sun is born again, you celebrate the sun being born again by finding an evergreen tree, like a fucking spruce, and then you hang decorations on it, and these decorations represent fruit.

• 40:50Blindboy Boatclub?

  So you're willing into existence, longer days, more sun, and the ability to grow food again. Now, my favorite, my favorite Christmas theory about pre-Christian origins is Santa Claus. Now, again, this is just a theory, but it's a very interesting one if you look it up. Santa Claus and his red hat and the red and white, that it comes from indigenous practices around the North Pole regarding psychedelic mushrooms, specifically the fly agaric mushroom. It's a bright red mushroom with white spots. So in indigenous communities close to the North Pole, right? They would celebrate the winter salsas.

• 41:33Blindboy Boatclub?

  They'd celebrate the shortest day of the year, the rebirth of the sun. But they would celebrate it with these, these magic mushrooms, these fly agaric mushrooms, which are bright red with white spots. And the shamans who would administer these mushrooms, they used to dress up in red and white to look like the mushrooms, the Santa Claus colors. But the thing is with fly agaric mushrooms, they're not like magic mushrooms in Ireland that you can just eat. Fly agaric mushrooms, they're psychedelic, but they're actually quite poisonous. So they used to feed the fly agaric mushrooms to reindeer. The reindeer would eat the mushrooms, and then the shamans, they'd collect the reindeer's

• 42:17Blindboy Boatclub?

  piss, and people would drink reindeer piss, and they'd get high off that because the reindeer's had eaten all the mushrooms. And then the people would, they're having their salsas celebration, twenty first of December, and they'd have deep, intense hallucinations about being reindeer and flying up into the sky towards the North Star in search of knowledge. And a huge amount of this, this Santa Claus shit, specifically the stuff to do with red and white, which people previously believed was Coca-Cola invented that. The red and white, the reindeers, the reindeers flying in the sky, Rudolph and his red nose.

• 42:57Blindboy Boatclub?

  There's a plausible, a plausible theory that it has its roots in indigenous folklore around magic mushrooms. That's all I've got time for this week, you glorious cunts. I hope you enjoyed that chat. I hope. If you're noradivergent, there's a couple of nice facts there about Christmas. If you wanna avoid small talk with family members. I hope you enjoyed this little chat. I'll catch ye next week, hopefully with a hot take. In the meantime, wink at a swan, pick up a worm, rub a cat, drink the piss of a reindeer. Dog bless.

• 44:51Speaker 01

  The Quarter Pounder with Cheese is made with 100% fresh beef, cooked when you order it. Add hot crispy fries and a nice cold Coke, and hopefully a lot of napkins. All for $8. Ba-da-ba-ba-ba.

• 45:05Speaker 00

  The youth mental health crisis is growing, and social media is a major driver. Kids are spending up to nine hours a day on screens, often unsupervised, and studies show a direct link to anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. That's where Gab comes in. Gab offers safer phones and watches for kids with no social media, tailored to every age, offering the right tech at the right time, or Tech in Steps. From GPS-tracking-enabled watches for younger kids to phones with parent-enabled apps for teens, each device allows kids to more safely grow their independence. Visit gab.com/getgab and use code GETGAB for an exclusive offer.

• 45:46Speaker 00

  That's G-A-B-B dot com forward slash get gab. Gab: Tech in Steps. Independence for them, peace of mind for parents.