Ask, Tell, Confess: What Hill Are You Willing To Die On

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, Bunnie Xo and the crew bounce from holiday plans to hot takes, and nothing is off-limits. From traveling to Branson and Vegas to debating matching Christmas pajamas, they unpack the weird mix of holiday joy, burnout, and wanting life to go back to normal already. Things take a turn into unfiltered territory as they air out their biggest public pet peeves — airplane etiquette included. Reclining seats, bare feet on armrests, phone flashlights, grocery store obliviousness… if you’ve ever been silently raging in public, this one’s for you. But it doesn’t stop there. The conversation gets serious as the group calls out the disturbing trend of live-streaming children’s punishments, expressing real concern about exploitation, accountability, and the long-term impact of social media on kids. They dive into overstimulation, boundaries, and the difference between growing up as “bedroom kids” versus “living room kids.” The episode wraps with a powerful discussion on cutting off toxic family members, protecting your peace, and why choosing mental health over blood ties isn’t a trend — it’s survival. Equal parts chaotic, relatable, and deeply honest, this episode hits everything from petty to profound… classic ATC energy. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Dumbblondepod

Speaker names marked ? are inferred from speaking time and the show’s known hosts — they are not voice-verified.

• 0:17Bunnie XO?

  Hello friends.

• 0:20Speaker 01

  Welcome back to another episode of

• 0:24Bunnie XO?

  Ask Telkonfetti.

• 0:31Speaker 02

  I can't whistle.

• 0:33Speaker 03

  I can't whistle.

• 0:34Bunnie XO?

  Hello buddies. How are you guys doing?

• 0:37Speaker 01

  I'm doing good. How about you?

• 0:38Bunnie XO?

  I'm fucking just, you know, great.

• 0:41Speaker 02

  I haven't seen you in a while.

• 0:42Bunnie XO?

  I know.

• 0:43Speaker 01

  So long. Like it's been forever. Holiday season, guys.

• 0:46Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 0:46Speaker 02

  Been here guys in weeks.

• 0:47Bunnie XO?

  What are you guys doing for Christmas? Anything spectacular?

• 0:50Speaker 02

  Go home.

• 0:51Speaker 01

  Oh, you're going home for yours.

• 0:53Bunnie XO?

  I just like to go home.

• 0:54Speaker 01

  Going right up the road.

• 0:55Bunnie XO?

  Hi, babe. What are you doing?

• 0:56Speaker 03

  Going home to see my mom and family.

• 0:59Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I love that.

• 1:00Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 1:00Speaker 02

  I'm actually going to Branson.

• 1:03Bunnie XO?

  Oh, Missouri?

• 1:04Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:05Bunnie XO?

  Missouri?

• 1:05Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:06Bunnie XO?

  Why?

• 1:07Speaker 02

  Uh, my dad, my stepmom are taking all of us kids on a trip instead of just doing it at their house.

• 1:13Speaker 01

  Oh, I love that.

• 1:14Bunnie XO?

  That's fun.

• 1:15Speaker 01

  I've literally told my mom that all the time, but this is my mom's holiday, guys. She goes all out, so it has to be spent in her home. She prepares. She's been preparing for this.

• 1:27Speaker 02

  I don't, we've done like a summer trip where we went to like, like a beach or whatever, but we've never done like Christmas and we have like, we all have matching pajamas and I think it's the cutest thing ever. I've never done that before.

• 1:38Bunnie XO?

  Such a family.

• 1:39Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 1:40Bunnie XO?

  Such a family.

• 1:41Speaker 01

  I love that.

• 1:42Bunnie XO?

  We're laying low and then we're fucking taking off to Vegas, baby.

• 1:45Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:47Bunnie XO?

  Can't wait. Vegas for New Year's. I hate the holidays. I'm not that I like, I love Christmas. Don't get me wrong. I love Christmas time. I love Christmas music, but I feel like the world just slows down so much and it's like, let's get back to the fricking grind.

• 2:00Speaker 01

  I love it. This is my favorite.

• 2:01Speaker 02

  I love to slow down.

• 2:02Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's the slowdown before the huge pickup at the beginning of the year.

• 2:05Speaker 02

  But I don't like it for too long.

• 2:08Bunnie XO?

  Right.

• 2:08Speaker 02

  I get what you mean. Like I can't be slow for too long because then I'm like, I'm not doing anything.

• 2:13Bunnie XO?

  I feel like this Thanksgiving and Christmas just haven't felt like Thanksgiving and Christmas.

• 2:19Speaker 02

  No, it didn't.

• 2:20Speaker 01

  Right now it doesn't feel like Christmas time to me.

• 2:22Speaker 02

  Each year it gets more and more like that.

• 2:23Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 2:24Speaker 02

  It's like less.

• 2:26Speaker 01

  Mine starts to gear up when it gets a little closer because I've got kids.

• 2:28Speaker 02

  But I think.

• 2:29Speaker 01

  So I have like the magic of it in the home.

• 2:31Speaker 02

  The older you get.

• 2:33Speaker 01

  But once you have a family, it's going to change dramatically. Or if you had a significant other to do holiday stuff with Haley. Yeah, see, you know how it is. You guys can go do holiday stuff. They just opened the skating rink in Murphysboro. Do you guys want to go ice skating?

• 2:47Speaker 03

  Yeah, I do, but I will fall, I think. I haven't done it in a couple of years.

• 2:51Speaker 01

  I fell last year pretty hard. I ate shit.

• 2:54Bunnie XO?

  Ice skating falls are the worst.

• 2:56Speaker 02

  You're expecting me to roll around on a razor blade?

• 3:00Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 3:01Speaker 02

  Bye.

• 3:02Speaker 01

  I put you on one of the kids things and push you.

• 3:04Speaker 02

  I'll do that.

• 3:05Bunnie XO?

  I've heard some people have gotten their fingers severed off because somebody went over there with an ice skating blade. You can get a finger fucking sawed off. Yeah, didn't know that, did you?

• 3:18Bunnie XO?

  All right, well, today, the topic on Ask Tell Confess is going to be,

• 3:26Bunnie XO?

  what is the pettiest, silliest, most meaningless hill you are willing to die on? Who would like to go first?

• 3:36Speaker 02

  I'll go.

• 3:37Bunnie XO?

  Go.

• 3:39Speaker 02

  This one says, you lose loose change. Your team did not loose. You did not loose your wallet. You don't have loose change. Someone said, this is my Waterloo.

• 3:53Speaker 01

  I get it.

• 3:54Speaker 02

  Yeah, that drives me crazy too. So I get it.

• 3:56Speaker 01

  I'm that person. I'll misspell it in a heartbeat.

• 4:00Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 4:02Bunnie XO?

  Oh, you are?

• 4:03Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 4:04Bunnie XO?

  Oh, gosh.

• 4:05Speaker 02

  Oh. And no, we haven't.

• 4:07Speaker 03

  I'm confused. What are you guys saying?

• 4:10Speaker 02

  Got it.

• 4:11Speaker 01

  All right.

• 4:13Speaker 02

  That, no, that pisses me off too. Loose and lose are two different things.

• 4:17Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, I don't have the comprehension. I literally can't.

• 4:20Speaker 02

  Well, she's dyslexic too, so.

• 4:22Bunnie XO?

  That could, okay, you get a pass.

• 4:23Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, I literally can't understand differences in them. You could explain it all day long. I'm not going to comprehend it.

• 4:31Speaker 03

  Do you know the theirs ones?

• 4:33Bunnie XO?

  Just one has one O and the other, the one that has two O's means like a loose vagina.

• 4:39Speaker 02

  A loose tooth, okay.

• 4:39Bunnie XO?

  Loose vagina. You'll never forget it.

• 4:42Speaker 02

  What the fuck?

• 4:43Bunnie XO?

  She'll never.

• 4:44Speaker 01

  This is wild.

• 4:45Bunnie XO?

  You'll never forget it though. Now you will never forget it. When you look at the word that has two O's, you're gonna be like, loose vagina.

• 4:51Speaker 02

  Two lips, two O's. Think about it like that.

• 4:54Speaker 01

  I'm gonna try guys, but can't promise.

• 4:56Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Jaime had a hill that he was willing to die on that we actually disagree on.

• 5:00Speaker 03

  Yep.

• 5:01Speaker 01

  Very much so.

• 5:02Bunnie XO?

  Jaime tell people.

• 5:03Speaker 03

  The hill I will die on is if you're on an airplane and you recline your seat.

• 5:08Speaker 01

  In economy.

• 5:10Speaker 03

  In economy. You cannot do that, in my opinion, because those two inches of, you're not comfortable and you've made me uncomfortable sitting behind you.

• 5:19Bunnie XO?

  Well, you know, you could recline your seat too.

• 5:22Speaker 02

  And get those, and get those two inches back.

• 5:27Bunnie XO?

  You know?

• 5:28Speaker 03

  Didn't think about that.

• 5:28Speaker 02

  Then everyone just.

• 5:31Bunnie XO?

  I mean, it's a domino effect. Let's be comfortable, especially if we're stuck on a plane for fucking three to four hours. Fuck you.

• 5:37Speaker 02

  Yeah, I'm sorry. When we went to Europe, I fucking reclined, okay?

• 5:39Speaker 03

  That's different. That's a different recline. I'm talking like if you're traveling within the United States. I've, I've done the reclining and it's not comfortable. So to me, if you do it, you're making me more uncomfortable than you're comfortable. Like you're not as comfortable as you could be if it was a better recline.

• 5:54Bunnie XO?

  No, sitting up, fucking, I cannot. I hate sitting up like this the whole time. I have to lean back a little bit. Cause I don't know, it's like my anxiety from sitting up straight. I can't do it. But you're always welcome to recline your seat back too.

• 6:06Speaker 01

  This is crazy because I'm on, I'm on Jaime's side of the fence here.

• 6:10Bunnie XO?

  Really?

• 6:10Speaker 01

  I, I am, only because I'm a forward person. So like, I like to go forward, like put the tray down.

• 6:17Speaker 02

  I'll go over this bitches.

• 6:19Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 6:21Bunnie XO?

  See, I'm not like that either.

• 6:22Speaker 01

  I gotta go forward with it. Well, I've had like five back surgeries. So any kind of pressure backwards is like, it really kills me. So I have to go forward.

• 6:29Bunnie XO?

  But if somebody puts their seat back, that gives you an easier access to laying forward, right?

• 6:33Speaker 01

  No, it does not.

• 6:34Bunnie XO?

  Oh.

• 6:35Speaker 03

  It makes the ride way more, like it goes from it being here to now you're here. So now like, okay, we could have just been here, but now you're, you're one inch movement has made.

• 6:45Speaker 02

  If you lean years back a little bit more and then came forward, wouldn't it?

• 6:49Speaker 03

  Yeah, but I'm not, I'm not doing what you're doing to the person behind me.

• 6:53Bunnie XO?

  Who gives a fuck?

• 6:54Speaker 02

  I don't know you.

• 6:56Speaker 01

  I don't.

• 6:56Bunnie XO?

  I paid good money to fucking fly.

• 6:59Speaker 02

  I don't think that that doesn't bother me as much as why do you have your fucking window open on a 7 a.m. flight?

• 7:06Speaker 01

  Sunny.

• 7:07Speaker 02

  Everyone else.

• 7:07Bunnie XO?

  Just the bright ass sun.

• 7:09Speaker 02

  Fucking shut it.

• 7:10Speaker 01

  Close it.

• 7:11Speaker 02

  Going to sleep.

• 7:11Speaker 03

  We can agree on that.

• 7:12Bunnie XO?

  I love to, I'm one of those people who loves to have my window open, but not when the sun is fucking shining directly in your face.

• 7:18Speaker 02

  And not when I'm the only one. I feel like everyone's staring at me.

• 7:20Bunnie XO?

  My thing is my pet peeve on an airplane and hill I will die on is do not put your fucking feet up.

• 7:28Speaker 01

  No.

• 7:29Bunnie XO?

  On the fucking armrest in between you.

• 7:33Speaker 01

  Eat that.

• 7:34Bunnie XO?

  There, I will fucking chew somebody's toe off, dude. Do not do that, dude.

• 7:38Speaker 01

  And they raw dog it too.

• 7:40Bunnie XO?

  Oh, just fucking bear bunion.

• 7:42Speaker 03

  Mm hmm. I see. Yeah, I agree with that.

• 7:44Speaker 01

  Said bear bunion.

• 7:45Bunnie XO?

  I can't do it, dude.

• 7:46Speaker 01

  No, taking shoes off in a plane, bare, no socks and just putting them place, nope.

• 7:54Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 7:54Speaker 03

  No.

• 7:55Speaker 01

  I can't handle it. There's so many things on a plane that I.

• 7:58Bunnie XO?

  Taking forever in the bathroom, like when there's a line for the bathroom, like what are you doing in there?

• 8:03Speaker 01

  No.

• 8:04Bunnie XO?

  Like I know it doesn't take that long to shit.

• 8:06Speaker 01

  If you know you have sleep apnea, you should not be allowed to sleep on a plane.

• 8:09Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 8:10Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 8:10Bunnie XO?

  Or the people when the plane is completely dark and they have their light on. I'm like, bro, what are we doing?

• 8:18Speaker 01

  Yeah, just be part of the group. Turn it off.

• 8:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, like turn it off.

• 8:21Speaker 02

  Read the fucking room. Read the plane.

• 8:23Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 8:23Bunnie XO?

  That or fucking use your phone light. You know what I'm saying? Like, don't.

• 8:27Speaker 01

  Make it a quickie. What do you need light for?

• 8:29Speaker 02

  That's the same, that's the same thing with like, um, like when you're getting on the plane and person's just standing in the middle of the aisle, like putting something up, getting things out. It's like fucking move and then get it.

• 8:38Speaker 01

  Scoot in.

• 8:39Speaker 02

  People don't have like situational awareness.

• 8:42Speaker 01

  Situational awareness is so important. Someone wrote in on that one too. The hill to die on is situation awareness in a grocery store. I know you guys don't grocery stores.

• 8:51Speaker 02

  That one too.

• 8:52Speaker 01

  Like I love to grocery store shop.

• 8:55Speaker 02

  Hate it.

• 8:55Speaker 01

  It is, I, I go to Walmart on a weekly basis. I love to go to Kroger. I will sometimes Instacart, but I enjoy grocery shopping so much and.

• 9:05Speaker 02

  Both of you guys.

• 9:07Speaker 01

  I fucking know.

• 9:07Speaker 02

  Can't handle it.

• 9:08Bunnie XO?

  The fluorescent lighting pisses me off.

• 9:11Speaker 02

  It's the checkout.

• 9:11Bunnie XO?

  It hurts my eyes.

• 9:12Speaker 02

  I get anxiety at the checkout.

• 9:13Bunnie XO?

  What is the point of grocery shopping? Let's really talk about this, okay? You get in your car, you drive to a store, you get out of your car, you grab a cart, you go down every aisle and pile shit in that cart. When you're done, you get to the checkout and have to take everything out of that cart just to put it in bags, to put it back in the cart.

• 9:33Speaker 02

  And then take it out.

• 9:34Bunnie XO?

  And then you have to take the cart out to your fucking car, load that car up, put the cart away, drive all the way home, and then you have to fucking unload the groceries from that car, take them inside your house and unload them again.

• 9:47Speaker 02

  And that's why I just open my door and it's right there.

• 9:50Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 9:50Speaker 03

  I've never actually thought about it like that.

• 9:51Bunnie XO?

  Oh, I have. I fucking don't like it.

• 9:53Speaker 02

  That's fucking anxiety.

• 9:54Bunnie XO?

  No, the fucking, the lights, the noise, the smells.

• 10:00Speaker 02

  And normally you have to self-checkout because no one works at a cash register anymore. And then it's yelling at me that I need to remove something from the bagging area.

• 10:09Speaker 03

  Yeah.

• 10:10Speaker 02

  It's not even there and then I have anxiety. And then everyone's, I feel like I'm holding up the entire line and everyone's just like waiting on me to check out and I just start panicking.

• 10:19Bunnie XO?

  Go ahead, Mimi. Tell us what you love about that.

• 10:21Speaker 01

  Yeah, all of it. It was great.

• 10:24Speaker 01

  I enjoy it.

• 10:25Speaker 03

  I get it.

• 10:26Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 10:26Bunnie XO?

  I don't.

• 10:27Speaker 01

  I'm also not a stagnant grocery shopper in which like I know exactly what I want. I don't keep the same things in my house. It's like, it's a mood. So it's like that week I might be into something different. I gotta go browse. What if there's something new? I won't know because it's on Instacart. No.

• 10:43Speaker 02

  On Instacart.

• 10:44Speaker 01

  And not everything's on the app.

• 10:45Bunnie XO?

  I feel like I can see everything more.

• 10:46Speaker 01

  No, not everything's on the app. And someone accidentally left my receipt in there the other day. You guys know how much of a price difference it is?

• 10:56Speaker 02

  I don't care.

• 10:57Speaker 01

  You care when it's like a hundred dollars more.

• 10:59Bunnie XO?

  What's a hundred dollars more?

• 11:01Speaker 01

  Like it was a grocery bill. It was a hundred dollars more because of the prices. So if you go on the Kroger app, like let's say Kroger, they don't take the markdowns. They charge more so that Instacart will literally charge you this set amount.

• 11:15Bunnie XO?

  Don't care.

• 11:16Speaker 01

  But it's all on sale at Kroger's so you can go there and they have coupons that you get to.

• 11:20Bunnie XO?

  Oh, now you're fucking taking it over.

• 11:23Speaker 02

  Guys, I'm a Midwest mom.

• 11:25Bunnie XO?

  Fucking coupons, Sally?

• 11:27Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 11:28Bunnie XO?

  All right.

• 11:28Speaker 01

  You cut them on the app and then you just put your little number in and they all come out and buy one, get one. I get those magnesium gummies, buy one, get one there. They're like eight dollars.

• 11:42Speaker 03

  I'm with you, Mimi, on that one.

• 11:43Bunnie XO?

  I'm gonna have a lot of.

• 11:44Speaker 02

  You on that one.

• 11:45Bunnie XO?

  Maybe you're gonna have a lot of housewives who agree with you. I don't care. Me and Haley agree. That's all that matters.

• 11:49Speaker 01

  You guys are the same person when it comes to this. Me and Jaime, Jaime walks to Trader Joe's.

• 11:55Bunnie XO?

  Jaime also goes for walks at midnight in the middle of fucking strange cities.

• 11:59Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 12:00Speaker 02

  I cannot go into Trader Joe's ever again.

• 12:02Bunnie XO?

  Why?

• 12:03Speaker 01

  I went one time.

• 12:05Speaker 02

  There's so many people and so much anxiety.

• 12:08Speaker 03

  It's worse than a regular grocery store.

• 12:09Bunnie XO?

  But why is every fucking Trader Joe's so small?

• 12:12Speaker 01

  Tiny. But from the outside, they're not.

• 12:14Bunnie XO?

  Right. And then you go inside and everything's stock full.

• 12:19Speaker 01

  This.

• 12:19Bunnie XO?

  And to be honest, some of the stuff looks dirty in there.

• 12:23Speaker 01

  I will be honest, they have like the highest recall rates.

• 12:27Bunnie XO?

  Wow.

• 12:27Speaker 01

  Because everything's so fresh. So it's like, there's the difference of like going to Kroger where you have like a lot of GMO. And then like Trader Joe's is like, you don't have as much genetically modified at Trader Joe's. So then you get a lot of like the rawness of the foods and then you get so many more recalls due to it, like the same.

• 12:44Bunnie XO?

  Trader Joe's does have some cool shit though, like that chili crispy, that crispy chili.

• 12:49Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 12:49Bunnie XO?

  Fucking stuff. Oh.

• 12:50Speaker 01

  Yeah, there, he got me onto their sourdough.

• 12:53Speaker 03

  Fire.

• 12:54Bunnie XO?

  Is it good?

• 12:54Speaker 03

  So good.

• 12:55Speaker 01

  So good.

• 12:56Speaker 03

  Sour dough.

• 12:56Bunnie XO?

  All right, I'll go back tomorrow. Maybe I'll go back to Trader Joe's.

• 12:59Speaker 02

  You can't Instacart from Trader Joe's. That's why.

• 13:01Bunnie XO?

  No.

• 13:02Speaker 02

  That's why I need to start working on that.

• 13:03Bunnie XO?

  Remember I vlogged it?

• 13:04Speaker 02

  Mm hmm.

• 13:05Bunnie XO?

  And I was like, I'm never doing that again. That was horrific.

• 13:08Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, you're right, though. Like, I've never been so close to people grocery shopping before, like that, talking about situational awareness. They don't. They'll bring your cart right to your ankles. And I'm like, my guy, I'm just trying to shop here. No, but Kroger.

• 13:21Bunnie XO?

  If I wanted a shadow, I'd go outside. You know?

• 13:26Bunnie XO?

  God.

• 13:28Bunnie XO?

  That's funny as hell. All right, who's next? Me?

• 13:31Speaker 01

  Go for it.

• 13:31Bunnie XO?

  You?

• 13:32Speaker 02

  Who?

• 13:32Bunnie XO?

  You. Thought you'd never ask.

• 13:36Bunnie XO?

  One of the hills that this person said that they would die on, this is one that I'll die on and I agree with this person. This is fucking getting so bad dude. Uh, this person said live streaming your kids punishments.

• 13:47Speaker 01

  I screenshotted that too.

• 13:48Bunnie XO?

  But it's not just live streaming your kids punishments.

• 13:50Speaker 02

  I get overstimulated, that's like.

• 13:52Speaker 01

  But you can't help it, sometimes it's literally forced onto your feet.

• 13:56Speaker 02

  That's what I'm saying, like they've normalized it now. Like that, it's crazy that that shit's not, like the Laura Lee and Norali and Laura, that whole thing, also that gets.

• 14:08Bunnie XO?

  They're scam artists. They're scam artists that made millions of dollars off of, uh, we can talk about it, but they, it's Norali and Laura, right?

• 14:18Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 14:19Bunnie XO?

  Norali and Laura are a couple and this couple, they, what they do is when money gets low, they come online and they pretend to fight and they pretend to break up. This last time, Norali was posting videos of Laura shitting outside.

• 14:37Speaker 01

  What?

• 14:38Bunnie XO?

  Shoving, wasn't she fucking a toaster? Like she was, like so much shit. And it's fucking disgusting. And so what they would do is they would put swipe ups and they ended up making like what? 1.7 million dollars in a month off of fucking all of this shit. And they were posting it on Instagram. And Instagram wasn't shutting them down, like they're fucking scam artists, but people are so desperate for some sort of like trash TV that this is what their trash TV is. And it's literally like, it's disgusting.

• 15:08Speaker 02

  Unfortunately, it's not healthy for the kids in this situation.

• 15:12Speaker 01

  The difference is we were raised on trash TV that was made up.

• 15:16Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:16Speaker 01

  TV like that we watched was so staged.

• 15:20Bunnie XO?

  There was some.

• 15:21Speaker 01

  There was, of course, but like a lot of it is so staged and dramatized.

• 15:25Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:26Speaker 01

  That this, these people acting these things out, it's actual. It's happening.

• 15:32Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:32Speaker 01

  In their lives and they don't realize TV is TV for a reason.

• 15:36Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 15:37Speaker 01

  This isn't normal.

• 15:38Bunnie XO?

  No, it's so bad. And I, I just, to go back to what this person said, sorry that we went off on that rant, but it's like, when is enough enough? When are these streaming sites gonna be like, people are literally dying.

• 15:50Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 15:51Bunnie XO?

  Trying to fucking livestream crazy shit. There, there was a creator who was streaming while they were driving and flipped a vehicle. And it's like, then, then that's when they kick them off, you know? And it's like, they should have mods that are already seeing what's going on. And there should be heavy, heavy penalties for crazy livestream shit. If not, we're gonna have kids out here fucking doing shit with cars. Like, it's just like, dude, this stuff is scary. Like, if this is what our world is turning to, we have no fucking hope, man.

• 16:25Speaker 01

  No, it scares the, like, raising children in this generation right now scares me so much. My kids don't really do internet, you know?

• 16:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, you can't.

• 16:35Speaker 01

  I, I literally cannot expose them to what we are looking at right now as internet. And I know so many parents out there who let kids of my daughter's age on social media. And I'm like, that's an issue.

• 16:48Bunnie XO?

  It's because they don't want to entertain their kid.

• 16:50Speaker 01

  A thousand percent.

• 16:51Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 16:52Speaker 01

  It is exactly that. It's a babysitter.

• 16:54Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 16:54Speaker 01

  It's a free babysitter. Oh, here, sit, scroll, doom scroll. You're gonna be quiet and you're not gonna bug me. I couldn't imagine, the funniest thing though, Jason and I realized, like, sometimes we get very overstimulated because Jason and I were raised as bedroom kids.

• 17:07Bunnie XO?

  Hmm.

• 17:08Speaker 01

  And we are raising living room kids. Holy crap, there's a difference in the two. And I'm so thankful for it, but like, I know you look kinda confused over there.

• 17:16Bunnie XO?

  I was a bedroom kid too.

• 17:18Speaker 01

  A bedroom kid is like, you were raised to like, go to your room and entertain yourself.

• 17:22Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 17:22Speaker 01

  Right?

• 17:23Speaker 03

  Well, I didn't have a room for a minute, but yeah.

• 17:27Bunnie XO?

  What happened?

• 17:28Speaker 03

  I didn't have a, I didn't have like my own room for a while, like.

• 17:32Speaker 03

  Eighth grade, maybe.

• 17:34Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 17:35Bunnie XO?

  Hi, May.

• 17:35Speaker 03

  Yeah, I slept on like the last one I remember I slept on the couch for a couple of years in living room.

• 17:41Speaker 01

  Jason just told me he he slept on a couch for years because he didn't have a window in his room.

• 17:46Speaker 03

  Well, yeah, it was because my mom left my dad and it was one of those situations where it just took one time where she saw something. She's like, my kids aren't going to be in this with me and my sister, bounced out of there.

• 17:57Speaker 01

  Good for her.

• 17:57Speaker 03

  Quick like that.

• 17:58Speaker 01

  I love your mom.

• 17:59Speaker 03

  I respect her to this day for that because I'm just like, imagine that excuse of, well, we're staying together for the kids or whatever. But like, yeah.

• 18:07Speaker 01

  Good for mom.

• 18:08Speaker 03

  But yeah, but the difference, please explain.

• 18:10Speaker 01

  Well, yeah, no, it's like, it's like the kids who are like forced to their rooms. So it's like their entertainment comes from the rooms and it's like a big separation in families. My kids, I almost have to sometimes force them into their rooms and be like, don't you want to go like play in a room or something? They're like, nope, perfectly content here with you. And I'm like, I'm a good mom, I swear. Just sometimes you get overstimulated because it's like they've got the TV going and then like cash is running around and Jason's doing something and like the phones are going and like, but then I have to like sit back and be like, I'm raising living room kids that my kids feel so comfortable being with us versus wanting to go hide in their rooms and isolate themselves. My kid and you guys.

• 18:52Bunnie XO?

  I was a bedroom kid.

• 18:53Speaker 01

  You were a bedroom kid.

• 18:54Bunnie XO?

  A lot of our generation and before and below were.

• 18:58Speaker 02

  Well, that's because I like to fucking move my room around and redecorate.

• 19:01Speaker 01

  Oh, I did that.

• 19:02Bunnie XO?

  Did you do that also? That's why I paint every one of my houses and customize my houses because I cannot, I cannot sit in white walls because I was grounded so much. The only thing I was allowed to do was paint and redecorate.

• 19:14Speaker 02

  I moved my room. They'd get so mad at me because I would move that shit by myself.

• 19:20Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, same.

• 19:20Speaker 02

  Like giant dressers and everything and they'd be like, you better not be scooting that across the carpet and fucking it up. I'm like, I'm not. So I do it so slowly so they wouldn't hear me.

• 19:29Speaker 01

  That's so funny, dude.

• 19:32Bunnie XO?

  I know. All right, who's next?

• 19:34Speaker 01

  This was actually kind of like into what we were just talking about. Cutting toxic family off is not a trend. It's protecting your peace. That is so important because I was always raised, blood is blood and you gotta like keep family members in your life because they're blood. And it wasn't until I got older that I realized that blood meant nothing.

• 19:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah, absolutely. I don't think anybody is who's cutting their family out is considering it a trend.

• 19:58Speaker 01

  Oh, it on social media.

• 19:59Bunnie XO?

  It is.

• 20:00Speaker 01

  Oh, absolutely. I have seen that a million times.

• 20:04Bunnie XO?

  That's so sad.

• 20:05Speaker 01

  Yes. And it's like, that's not a trend. That's literally for

• 20:08Bunnie XO?

  I've been cutting fucking toxic family off for fucking thirty years.

• 20:12Speaker 01

  Forty years.

• 20:13Bunnie XO?

  Deuces. Shit, you know, that's, it's never been a trend for me. It's just protecting your peace. I literally just blocked another family member last night.

• 20:21Speaker 01

  Mm hmm.

• 20:21Bunnie XO?

  Just because I'm just tired of it, you know? I think if somebody doesn't make you feel safe, seen, or comfortable, cut that motherfucker off.

• 20:30Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 20:31Bunnie XO?

  It doesn't matter who they are.

• 20:32Speaker 01

  There was that generation like before us that was like blood is blood. Like you gotta like keep families together.

• 20:37Bunnie XO?

  It's your aunt. You have to be like that. Or yeah, no, I get it.

• 20:40Speaker 01

  Exactly. Go give that uncle a hug or whatever like that. And it's like, that's how I feel. Like there was that generation and it was like, once those grandparents started to die off, you saw so many families disperse and never speak again.

• 20:53Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 20:54Speaker 01

  It's so crazy how that like monumental person in a family can hold a unit together. And when that person passes, you realize how much you don't have in common. It it's truly shocking. You can like zoom out and be like, oh, I don't actually like you as a person.

• 21:08Bunnie XO?

  Oh, yeah.

• 21:09Speaker 01

  Truly.

• 21:10Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 21:10Speaker 01

  And

• 21:10Bunnie XO?

  I don't like anybody in my family. I literally was born into the wrong family.

• 21:15Speaker 01

  You think so?

• 21:16Bunnie XO?

  One hundred percent. Who do I talk to in my family?

• 21:18Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 21:19Bunnie XO?

  Not one fucking person. And if I do talk to a family member, if I do talk to a family member, it's not blood. It's an outside family member, like my cousin Mary Beth, love her to death. And like, um, that's about it.

• 21:31Speaker 01

  You said, there we go.

• 21:33Bunnie XO?

  Cuzzo.

• 21:34Speaker 01

  Yeah. Yeah. You and I are very similar in that we were talking about how like, Your family.

• 21:41Speaker 02

  My family's so close.

• 21:42Speaker 01

  She, she comes from such a beautiful family.

• 21:45Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 21:45Speaker 01

  And I like, I, it's very admirable.

• 21:47Speaker 02

  Thankful for that too.

• 21:48Speaker 01

  A hundred freaking percent. You've got like that typical like.

• 21:52Speaker 02

  Mine's all.

• 21:53Bunnie XO?

  How did mom like me?

• 21:54Speaker 02

  Mom loved you.

• 21:55Bunnie XO?

  I finally got to meet mom.

• 21:57Speaker 02

  You know, she actually told me.

• 21:58Bunnie XO?

  Enough about you, let's talk about me. How did mom like me?

• 22:01Speaker 02

  No, she, uh, she actually came to me. She said it meant a lot that you hugged her at the end, like you were leaving. And you were like, I want to give mom a hug. She said that meant a lot to her.

• 22:11Bunnie XO?

  Ah, well, she made the most beautiful human, so I have to love her, you know? Okay, anyways, let's not be gay. Let's not be gay.

• 22:21Speaker 02

  Fuck.

• 22:23Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:23Bunnie XO?

  Love you guys. But no, you're got, your family's so sweet. Your dad, love him. Shake and Bake is hot, by the way. And he's got a hot wife.

• 22:30Speaker 02

  Yeah.

• 22:31Bunnie XO?

  I love Patty.

• 22:32Speaker 02

  Patty's hot.

• 22:32Bunnie XO?

  Patty's hot.

• 22:33Speaker 02

  My sisters.

• 22:34Bunnie XO?

  Yeah. Yeah, no, they're great.

• 22:36Speaker 01

  Mm-hmm. You have a really beautiful family. Your grandparents, are you kidding me? Make me cry.

• 22:40Bunnie XO?

  Oh dude, grandpa's so cool.

• 22:41Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 22:42Bunnie XO?

  The one that's in the cornfields.

• 22:43Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 22:44Bunnie XO?

  Yeah.

• 22:44Speaker 02

  That's my favorite guy.

• 22:45Speaker 01

  Your granny loves.

• 22:46Bunnie XO?

  Alahueta, gente plumorrete. Alahueta, gente plumre.

• 22:50Speaker 01

  I love them so much. She comments on everything she sends me TikToks.

• 22:53Speaker 02

  My nanny is my number one, number one supporter. She's always been like that.

• 22:58Bunnie XO?

  Poor nanny has heard some fucking crazy shit.

• 23:00Speaker 02

  She has.

• 23:01Speaker 01

  Yeah. She has. Has heard it all.

• 23:03Speaker 02

  She's like, I just don't play them in front of your grandpa anymore.

• 23:05Bunnie XO?

  Ah.

• 23:06Speaker 02

  I said, yeah, it's not.

• 23:08Bunnie XO?

  Shout out nanny for having her back though.

• 23:10Speaker 01

  A hundred percent.

• 23:11Speaker 02

  Always. And she'll be in comments. I'll see her in comments, like going at people if they, she's like, I just hate that they say such mean things to you guys. I'm like, it's okay. We get it all the time. But I'll see her in comments, like going back at people. And I was like.

• 23:24Speaker 01

  Go nanny.

• 23:26Speaker 02

  I love it. She's on, she's subscribed to like all of, like all of our Facebooks, all of our YouTube. She's subscribed to like everything.

• 23:33Speaker 01

  I love the support of nanny.

• 23:35Bunnie XO?

  She buys your merch, like.

• 23:36Speaker 02

  All right.

• 23:36Bunnie XO?

  She doesn't need to buy it. We'll just send her boxes of it. All right, guys. If you guys loved this episode, let us know and we'll do a part two possibly, but love you guys. See you guys next week. Bye.