963 Uncomfortable Conversations and the Value of Truly Listening

On today's 5-Minute Friday, Lewis discusses what he's been meditating on during this challenging and eye-opening week in America: being a good listener. Having a compassionate ear and an open mind are essential attributes for growth, and truly listening has never been more important than right now.-For more: lewishowes.com/963-Check out: Lewis' impactful interview with Reverend Michael Beckwith-Text: 614-350-3960 to start a conversation with Lewis Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

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• 0:00Lewis Howes?

  This is Five Minute Friday.

• 0:10Lewis Howes?

  Reverend Michael Beckwith said, "Our context determines our perception." My context is, "I am here to contribute to a kind and just global society." If I have that context, I can say, "Let me be an instrument of peace." The last couple of weeks in America have been, well, it can be hard to put all your thoughts and feelings into words, but I'm gonna try, because I know my voice is important, I know it matters, and I personally want to make a difference. And my intention is to take a little time on this Friday just to connect with you, my listeners, and discuss what I've been learning and what I've been thinking about. And I want to acknowledge the conversation that I'm starting to have, like the one with

• 0:55Lewis Howes?

  Reverend Beckwith for my podcast on Wednesday, as well as the conversations I'm having out of the public eye, and as I continue to try to educate myself on the issues facing America today, on racism, justice, white privilege, and more. And I'm telling you, they can be difficult and at times uncomfortable, but as Reverend Beckwith told me this week, "We're not here to make people comfortable, we're here to make people great." And there's a lot I don't know, and there's more than one right way to make a positive impact. I'm aware of both of these things, and I'm working to learn as much as I can. So in this moment, I'm meditating on the importance of being a good listener and always maintaining an open mind and open heart.

• 1:40Lewis Howes?

  This is something I've done for seven-plus years on the School of Greatness, is listen. It's not called The Lewis Howes Show, where I talk, it's called The School of Greatness, where I listen to experts, to inspiring leaders, to world-class individuals who have gone through tremendous challenges to get to where they're at. And I think right now, listening is more important than ever. Listen to the people in your family, in your household, and the people closest to you. It can be easy to forget how important it is to prioritize them when you're caught up in the stress of the world. Listen to your network, the feedback they're giving you, what they need from you. Listen to the world with an open mind and an open heart with compassion and love.

• 2:25Lewis Howes?

  And part of being a good listener is acknowledging which voices need to be heard, seeking them out, and helping to amplify them. And listening isn't about automatically believing everything you hear from people. It's about being open to new perspectives, doing your research, and making adjustments based on that. In certain conversations, especially right now, there are specific things we need to stand up for. I get that. Choosing when and how to use your voice is incredibly important, but you need to be a good listener in order for your voice in turn to be trusted and heard. I highly encourage you to go check out the episode I just did with Reverend Michael Beckwith. If you haven't listened to it yet, please go listen to it right after this.

• 3:08Lewis Howes?

  It's inspiring, it's helpful, it's resourceful, and it will empower you to make decisions moving forward. And as he said in the episode, "People suffer from intention deficit disorder." Be intentional with your listening, and go out there and do something great.

• 3:32Lewis Howes?

  Thank you so much for listening, and I hope you enjoyed this Five Minute Friday. As always, check out LewisHowes.com for more School of Greatness inspiration, and find me on social media @LewisHowes. And as always, you know what time it is. It's time to go out there and do something great.