Pod Insights Dumb Blonde Ask, Tell, Confess: I'm Pregnant - Is My Ex the Father? About this episode This week on Ask, Tell, Confess: a listener drops a messy bombshell about potential baby daddy drama, someone's doing drugs in a nasty-ass Taco Bell bathroom, and Bunnie speaks her truth about BBLs and the precautions of getting work done. The coven also talks about the wildly rewarding and terrifying world of parenting.
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2:29 Speaker 02 Ask a tell a confession.
2:48 Speaker 02 Hello friends. Hello places where the whiskey drums and the beat chases my blues away.
3:02 Speaker 02 And I'll be okay.
3:07 Speaker 02 Well, I'm not big.
3:13 Bunnie XO? Hello guys, how are you?
3:15 Speaker 02 I flared my not.
3:16 Bunnie XO? Tach, you got one in the chute, buddy. Hey, you were mad at me earlier, yeah. You got one in the chute, honey. You got one.
3:26 Speaker 02 He said you were fluffy on me, I'm fluffing on you.
3:28 Bunnie XO? Alright, who's ready to kick it off?
3:30 Speaker 02 Okay, I got one. Um, this is from Ari, it's a confession and an ask. Me and my soon to be husband, we went separated before committing at the end of last year. I may or may not have seen an ex in that time, but I'm now pregnant. I've only let my man come close to the possibility. The timing is so scary, but I'm positive it's my now fiance's just a scary thought. How do you tell your future husband when you weren't together, you were with someone else around conception?
4:02 Bunnie XO? That's rough.
4:04 Speaker 03 That's not something I would ever.
4:08 Bunnie XO? You're gonna have to sit him down.
4:09 Speaker 03 Yeah, I feel like you're, first off, you need to do that now.
4:13 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
4:13 Speaker 03 Let's not wait till any closer.
4:17 Speaker 03 That's rough.
4:18 Bunnie XO? You're gonna have to get up a tree.
4:20 Speaker 02 I don't have anything nice to say, so I'm not gonna say anything at all. And I'm not judging, I just feel like.
4:28 Bunnie XO? When it comes to babies and like being pregnant, you don't ever lead somebody on because that is fucking, one, it's life changing to be able to have a baby.
4:37 Speaker 03 Yes.
4:38 Bunnie XO? And two, to make somebody believe that a child is not theirs, I think is probably one of the scummiest things you could do to somebody.
4:44 Speaker 03 Yes.
4:45 Bunnie XO? So if she's really asking for help, it's a she, right?
4:48 Speaker 03 Yes.
4:49 Bunnie XO? Okay. So if she's really asking for help, then you need to come clean and be honest.
4:53 Speaker 03 Now, now, like do not wait another second.
4:55 Bunnie XO? I mean, it's still gonna break his heart, whoever the daddy isn't, it's still gonna break his heart.
5:00 Speaker 02 But I would, I would sit him down and talk to him and then definitely get a paternity test.
5:04 Bunnie XO? For sure. And you never know, it could be his, but at least the truth is out and.
5:09 Speaker 03 You don't want that to happen later on.
5:11 Speaker 02 You're gonna have that guilt with you forever.
5:13 Bunnie XO? I just wish women, like what if men did that to women? Like, you know, like in a, just a fake world, what if men could have children and were leading women on to believe that babies were theirs? Like that's just fucked up. And I'm, listen, I'm girl power all the way, but that is just a fucked up situation.
5:31 Speaker 03 With all this new like DNA testing and stuff, the amount of families I've personally witnessed be ripped apart because of it. And it's like.
5:38 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
5:39 Speaker 03 I mean.
5:39 Bunnie XO? You don't want that baby being born into chaos too. You're just literally passing around generational trauma to your child when you could break it before they're even born.
5:47 Speaker 02 Well, also like health problems, like later on down the line, he could think, you know, like, I'm fine and healthy if this guy's healthy, but it's not really his dad. So like, you know?
5:57 Speaker 03 Yep, exactly.
5:59 Bunnie XO? That's so sad. Like the parents that wait until fucking kids get DNA tests on like my aunts' ancestry and they find out that the parents aren't theirs.
6:06 Speaker 03 I've been to a friend of mine, she found out that her two older sisters are her mom and dad's. And apparently the mom cheated later on, so she's the baby of the family.
6:16 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
6:16 Speaker 03 Not even, she's not, I wasn't her dad and she didn't find out till we were in our late twenties.
6:20 Bunnie XO? So wrong. My dad didn't think I was his, he made me do fucking ancestry.com. He's the one who made me get on it. Bill Carter came to fucking Nashville and made me get on, it made me do a DNA testing with him.
6:33 Speaker 03 Not know this.
6:34 Bunnie XO? Yes.
6:35 Speaker 02 I didn't not know this either.
6:36 Bunnie XO? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh my God, I didn't tell you guys this?
6:37 Speaker 03 But that's when he found out like all his history too, right?
6:41 Bunnie XO? Yeah, yeah. So he made me, and I think he made my little sister do it too. I'm not positive, but he for sure made me do it. Yeah.
6:49 Speaker 03 How can you deny that you are literally your father?
6:51 Bunnie XO? Oh, I know.
6:52 Speaker 03 You and your mom, like when I was finally able to like, you know, spend time with you and your mom together and then you and your dad together. It's crazy to me how DNA actually works. There are things, cause like you don't spend a lot of time, like you're not super close. With your parents at the time and like they are, you know, coming into your life and you're like, you haven't been in your mom's life.
7:12 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
7:12 Speaker 03 And you do things that are so similar.
7:14 Bunnie XO? Just like her, yeah.
7:15 Speaker 03 It's crazy.
7:16 Bunnie XO? No, DNA is fucking insane. That's why I can't wait till we have a baby so I can just watch a little me running around.
7:21 Speaker 03 Oh, oh, yeah, you, it's like looking in a mirror. Sometimes Olivia says stuff and I'm like, it's so infuriating.
7:27 Bunnie XO? You guys are literally. Oh, you and Liv are fucking twins.
7:30 Speaker 03 Yes, a thousand percent. She is me.
7:33 Bunnie XO? He's so funny.
7:33 Speaker 03 Yeah. The thing she's.
7:35 Bunnie XO? She's Loki me too. Yeah.
7:37 Speaker 03 Swear, these two get together and she's like, tell it to the judge, sister.
7:43 Speaker 03 I love her so much. She's like making that um, age turn right now. We're going from eight to nine and that's such a monumental time. Eight to nine is like, she's no longer a child and she's like becoming, not a teenager by any means, but you're. Tween. And we are talking about boys and you know, all those kinds of things and it makes me.
8:05 Bunnie XO? Oh, just wait.
8:07 Speaker 03 No, I, I get the prequel of my child's life through you.
8:12 Bunnie XO? When they hit thirteen, they become the fucking demonic devils and they don't come back.
8:18 Speaker 03 No.
8:19 Bunnie XO? They don't come back.
8:20 Speaker 03 Ever. They're never cute and little ever again.
8:22 Bunnie XO? No, it's, I, I think the saddest thing I've ever realized with Raisin Bailey was she was the, I mean, Bailey's always been a little sassy fucking. Trooper, you know, like that's just been her personality from the get, but she was so sweet and just so loving and then thirteen comes around and you're like, who the fuck are you?
8:42 Speaker 03 Hormones.
8:43 Bunnie XO? Oh my, she's getting better. Now that she's seventeen, I feel like thirteen to seventeen is the most brutal fucking years. And then she's gonna go away to college. So I'm just like, you know what? Go. Me and Tasha will be there. We're going to the frat party. Can't wait, you know, like, hey, Haley too. Let's go. Oh, we're going. I already told Jay, I'm like, I'm gonna be Stifler's mom.
9:04 Speaker 03 I got my bag.
9:05 Bunnie XO? Okay, don't fucking play. I'm gonna be the one.
9:07 Speaker 03 I'll bring the white claws.
9:08 Bunnie XO? I'm ready. We're going.
9:10 Speaker 03 Bringing the white claws. I got them.
9:12 Bunnie XO? Let's go. I'm so ready.
9:14 Speaker 03 Lord.
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10:52 Speaker 03 That's so funny.
10:53 Bunnie XO? All right, you ready?
10:54 Speaker 03 Okay, this one says, I once worked at a Taco Bell and I always get to my shift a little earlier to do my hair and whatnot. And I thought I was alone. Turns out that there was a woman in there as well. I startled by the tapping of a credit card on the back of the toilet seat. Turns out she was doing coke in the bathroom because my boss at the time found residue. Of all places you choose to do coke on a dirty toilet seat.
11:18 Bunnie XO? That's the most blown up bathroom in fast food.
11:22 Speaker 03 Saying, you choose the Taco Bell toilet to do cocaine.
11:25 Bunnie XO? Early in the morning?
11:27 Speaker 03 Get at, well, what if she did night shift?
11:31 Bunnie XO? I don't know how people do cocaine and function. That's the crazy thing. I've, I've snorted cocaine off plenty of bathroom stalls. So I can't be a hater with that. I've even crushed up, I've even crushed up, who knows? I've even crushed up Laura tabs and fucking snorted them off of the back of fucking toilets in like, clubs, okay? So I know, I know, trust me. Why do you think I'm such a germaphobe now? The shit, I saw a video of me the other day, rubbing some Vegas performers, like, like you know how they have performers on like downtown? I'm like rubbing this guy's stomach and then I kiss his cheek and I was like, I was like, how did I do that? Like, who are you? Like, I would never know.
12:10 Speaker 03 Gosh, she doesn't even shake people's hands.
12:12 Bunnie XO? My problem is, is how do people do cocaine and then want to fuck and function? I can't do it. Cocaine, just without alcohol, makes me want to sit in a corner and rock back and forth and shit my pants. It doesn't feel good. Have you ever done cocaine?
12:30 Speaker 03 No.
12:31 Bunnie XO? Hey, Mimi, have you?
12:34 Bunnie XO? Yes, no, maybe so?
12:35 Speaker 03 No.
12:36 Bunnie XO? No? Yeah. I've done it and it's fucking terrible. I don't like it. Cocaine's fucking gross. I can't do it. And I don't know how people do it unless I'm completely shitfaced, then I can take a bumper roof ski.
12:48 Speaker 03 Because I was gonna feel like that, that's a different feeling.
12:50 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
12:51 Speaker 03 Like, bumper roof ski.
12:53 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
12:58 Bunnie XO? Yeah. But I'm serious. Like, anybody who's sober doing cocaine, like, bro, just take a diet pill. You might feel better. I don't know. Cocaine, just the drain, it burns your nose, it makes your teeth numb. Like, no, thank you. I'm good.
13:13 Speaker 03 Doesn't sound like a fun time.
13:14 Bunnie XO? Yeah. And then people gotta use that bathroom, too. God.
13:17 Speaker 02 Imagine a little kid get over.
13:19 Bunnie XO? I will not touch anything in a public bathroom. I will hover over the toilet. I won't do it at all. What is happening over there?
13:27 Speaker 03 Mom brain. She goes, imagine a little kid just walking on. I was like.
13:31 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
13:31 Speaker 02 Yeah.
13:32 Bunnie XO? That's what you have to think about.
13:33 Speaker 03 I will say, you guys, I used to be a big, like, last stall user because the stalls were bigger and I was bigger, you know? Okay, I'm much smaller now. I can use different.
13:43 Bunnie XO? Has the less germs.
13:44 Speaker 03 Well, yes, I did learn that on Tyra Banks one time. Yeah. Did you guys see that? Tyra Bank, yeah. So, but I saw an EMT one time, like, make a TikTok that says, I've found more dead people in a handicap stall of anything, because that's where they go to do drugs, because it has the child thing.
14:01 Bunnie XO? Nope.
14:01 Speaker 03 I never changed my child on one of those ever.
14:04 Bunnie XO? Fuck, no.
14:05 Speaker 03 I would never in a million years put my child on one of those things. They said that's where they find the most amount of drugs and the most amount of OD'd people.
14:12 Speaker 02 Well, that and like, you remember when I was talking about the, like, the giant things of toilet paper?
14:17 Bunnie XO? They would clean off.
14:18 Speaker 02 They would clean off their needles in it?
14:20 Bunnie XO? Yeah. So that's fucking disgusting. I'm never gonna use a fucking public restroom.
14:23 Speaker 03 No.
14:24 Bunnie XO? Ever again.
14:24 Speaker 03 No. No one talks about losing weight in the things you can do. I can sit in, like, booths really good at restaurants now. I can use stalls in bathrooms comfortably. It's crazy the amount of things you get to do, like, when you make a big body transformation.
14:40 Bunnie XO? Yeah, that's how I'm discovering with my husband. He's loving it. He's a little skinny roll.
14:45 Speaker 03 Every time I see him, the other day when he came running out, I was like.
14:49 Speaker 02 He makes me look huge.
14:50 Bunnie XO? Um, Jewel Baby has a question for Bunny. How was your BBL recovery experience? Any pain or discomfort? I'm also a skinny girl like you. I'm not skinny, baby. I'm a hundred and. Sixty three pounds right now. So I was wondering where they got the fat to make your booty big lol. I got my boobs done two years ago, which wasn't too bad contemplating a BBL. I was wondering your experience because I'm scared and it will be painful. Well.
15:16 Speaker 03 Said, hold on.
15:17 Bunnie XO? When I got my boobs done, I went out to dinner right afterwards. Like, that's how minimal of a surgery it was. What I got, so I didn't get a full on BBL. I got fat transferred to the top of my ass. So I didn't get like the full BBL. I've always had a big ass, but it started to like kind of flatten out on top. So they took it from my, my lower back actually and my stomach area. And um, it was the worst thing I've ever gone through in my life. It took probably about six months to heal, six months to a year to heal. And I almost passed out because I had so much fluid leaking out of me. I woke up out of that surgery.
15:59 Bunnie XO? With the highest blood pressure I've ever had. My heart rate was in like the two hundreds. I remember looking at my doctor and asking him if I was gonna die. Because it was so bad. Uh, my dad came to visit me a couple of weeks after I had the surgery and I tried to go eat dinner with him and I just had. Fluid just pouring out of me to the, the point where I thought I was gonna faint. Um, it's really uncomfortable. It's not, uh, it's actually a really scary surgery to have. You can actually die from having a BBL. And my high school weight was a hundred and forty pounds. I've always been like a thicker girl. And I appreciate you saying I'm skinny. Everybody's body holds weight differently. Um, but I've always been like a thicker girl.
16:43 Bunnie XO? And since having my BBL, it is so hard to keep weight off. I literally have to lift weights four to five times a week. I, I eat so fucking strict and so clean. Granted, yes, I'll have cheat meals here and there, but. The majority of the time I eat really, really healthy and I'm still a hundred and sixty pounds. Granted, a lot of it's muscle now because of how much I work out, but my normal range is about one fifty five to one sixty. And it's so hard, like you, your body completely changes. It changes the whole chemistry of your body. Whereas before I was kind of like lanky and like barely had any hips on me. Now I have childbearing hips like.
17:25 Bunnie XO? I literally am so against BBLs and I don't think anybody should get them.
17:30 Speaker 03 Well, and that fat is already going away. Like the girls who got the BBLs are now getting the lipo to remove the fat that they put in those places.
17:38 Bunnie XO? Yeah.
17:39 Speaker 03 That is a literal fad surgery.
17:42 Bunnie XO? Yeah, it is. And I know everybody's like, well, you got it done. And I'm like, absolutely. And that's why I can sit here and tell you, do not get a BBL. It is not worth it. One, it makes your, thankfully, my doctor, Doc Vegas, shout out Dr. Korsandi in Vegas, did such a phenomenal job on my body. Like when I tell you, he did so good. But a lot of girls are very unfortunate and it disproportions their body. It doesn't look good. A lot of the time, the girls' asses don't match their legs.
18:13 Speaker 03 They look like ants.
18:14 Bunnie XO? Yeah, they're shaped like wisdom teeth. Like, it's really bad. Yeah, that's what they call it. They say that they're shaped like teeth.
18:21 Speaker 03 I've never heard that.
18:23 Bunnie XO? Yeah, and I'm not saying that to clown them, but that's what they say.
18:25 Speaker 03 Yeah. I've never heard that. I heard the ant. Because, well, I only say ant because that was like a trend at one point. Like, people were literally asking for their bodies to look like that.
18:35 Bunnie XO? No, it's so bad. And I've seen another thing on TikTok where people are talking about BBL smells. My ass has never smelled, ever. I don't know. I don't know if it's because the girls are getting their asses too big and they just can't keep up with it, or like if it's just smells because it is so big. But I've never had that problem. So that's the only thing I can agree on with like getting a BBL is like, if as long as you don't get too crazy, you don't have that problem. But yeah, definitely, I don't think it's worth it. I think it's a fad. I think natural bodies are so beautiful. That's why I had my implants removed. And I don't know, it's, I, we, as women, we always want what we don't have. And I get that. I understand that. But I promise you, and I preach this all the time,
19:19 Bunnie XO? what you want in your twenties is not what you are gonna want when you're 45. I promise you that. So just, if you're gonna get it done, research the doctor very well. Look at what his patients look like six months to a year. Or after they get it done.
19:36 Bunnie XO? You know.
19:36 Speaker 03 I was gonna say also see if you can do it in another way. Like if you're wanting a bigger butt, you can work out and get a bigger butt. Like
19:43 Bunnie XO? Absolutely.
19:44 Speaker 03 You see so many girls are like, this is what I started with versus this is what I have now. And that's more controlled.
19:49 Bunnie XO? Yep.
19:50 Speaker 03 You know, like you were able to add muscle in places or lose in places. Like there are other options.
19:55 Bunnie XO? And absolutely, at no, under no circumstances get shots in your ass. Do not do this. You can get, they have this thing where you can get shots in your ass now instead of, instead of doing a BBL or fat transfer. And these girls are getting like lumpy asses and like, it's just so bad because it's filler. Filler literally migrates. You don't know where that's going. There's blood vessels back there. Like you just, you guys just have to be really, really careful. And um, yeah, so just know that if you do get a BBL, you will have an extra 20 pounds on you, no matter what. It doesn't matter. And there's so many, like, I am so fortunate because I've only had to have one fat transfer done. And um, one uh, high def vaser lipo. And I did this in 2015. So I mean, 10 years ago I did this.
20:40 Bunnie XO? And I've been able to maintain it. Most women have to do multiple surgeries because they do not have the, the um, you know, they don't, they don't work out. They don't eat right. They think because they're skinny right now and like the fat got taken out that they can get another one. And the more lipo you get done to your stomach, the more it jacks it up. Like, listen, I'm against plastic surgery. Even though I have had everything done, that is why I'm against it.
21:06 Speaker 03 I was gonna say, you're against it because you have a personal experience with it. That's a completely different outlook than most people just never having it done and feeling some type of way about it.
21:15 Bunnie XO? Yeah, absolutely. So I, I was probably not what you wanted to hear, but if you are gonna get any body work done, go to Doc Vegas in Las Vegas. Dr. Korsandi, he's fucking hot and he's just the sweetest soul ever.
21:28 Speaker 03 So sweet.
21:29 Bunnie XO? You will love him. Good human man. Like just love him to death. So. Yeah, I agree. Alright guys.
21:36 Speaker 03 Bye.
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