MATTEO LANE CAN SING AT YOUR WEDDING OR FUNERAL (Ft. Matteo Lane) | Episode 239

The iconic Matteo Lane is on the show this week! Drew and Matteo get into a deep dive on unintentionally funny relatives, Matteo’s qualms with Ohio and Pokemon, emotionally distressing your Sims, why Matteo used to sing Ave Maria at weddings and funerals, getting mystery blisters from seafood in Spain, and so much more. Follow Matteo on IG: https://www.instagram.com/matteolane/?hl=en Follow The Comment Section on IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecommentsection/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• 0:00Speaker 00

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• 0:32Speaker 01

  Occasionally, when I will look at a comment or two, my favorites, if someone says something mean, I love when there's a spelling error.

• 0:37Drew Afualo?

  Me too.

• 0:38Speaker 01

  Because then I'm like, now, this is just, I'll always write whatever word they meant to say, like a there, there, there.

• 0:44Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you put little asterisks next to it.

• 0:46Speaker 01

  And I'm like, you meant, that one's possessive.

• 0:56Drew Afualo?

  Hey, everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Comment Section Show, starring me, your fave, everybody knows me, who cares about me. Onto the guests. Today, we have the iconic, the legendary, the hilarious Mateo Lane.

• 1:08Speaker 01

  Hello. So excited to be here.

• 1:11Drew Afualo?

  Welcome to the show.

• 1:13Speaker 01

  Thank you. We could just keep talking about dry eye, but I prefer.

• 1:16Drew Afualo?

  And we were getting into dry eye.

• 1:17Speaker 01

  We can come back to it. I'm happy to.

• 1:20Drew Afualo?

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• 2:04Drew Afualo?

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• 2:36Speaker 01

  I know. I'm also rarely in Los Angeles, by the way.

• 2:38Drew Afualo?

  I know, that's what I, that's what your team has told me.

• 2:40Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 2:41Drew Afualo?

  And that makes sense, because I, I feel forcibly.

• 2:44Speaker 01

  And by my team, it's Nick. He's not in LA, he's not coming.

• 2:48Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, he's, he's not here, stop asking. I literally feel forcibly bi-coastal because I do work in New York a ton.

• 2:56Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 2:57Drew Afualo?

  But I feel the same way when I get a lot of ops from New York. I'm like, I'm not there.

• 3:01Speaker 01

  We'll call him on a Knicks podcast sometime.

• 3:02Drew Afualo?

  I would love to. In fact, that, that's actually a perfect segue, because I've been seeing a ton of your clips where you have other comedians and you guys answer, like, relationship questions.

• 3:13Speaker 01

  Sometimes, oh, like when I do my advice specials on stage?

• 3:16Drew Afualo?

  Yes, yes.

• 3:16Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah, for sure.

• 3:17Drew Afualo?

  And I was like, and I saw one with you and Nikki Glaser, who I love. I do love her, she's amazing. And I was like, okay, so when I see Matteo, I'm gonna ask, can you please let me come do one of those?

• 3:27Speaker 01

  A hundred percent. I'm doing one, are you in New York on the 16th?

• 3:30Drew Afualo?

  Of this month?

• 3:31Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 3:32Drew Afualo?

  No.

• 3:32Speaker 01

  Oh, well, we're.

• 3:33Drew Afualo?

  I'll be in Florida.

• 3:34Speaker 01

  Okay, we're in Florida.

• 3:35Drew Afualo?

  Ooh, Orlando.

• 3:37Speaker 01

  Fine.

• 3:39Speaker 01

  I will, we're gonna be, we're trying to do it now to replace my Sunday, and long story short, we're gonna be doing weekly, but we, we have to do them all in one night. So I think the next one we'll film might be in November. We'll just, we'll exchange.

• 3:51Drew Afualo?

  And I may be in New York in November.

• 3:52Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 3:53Drew Afualo?

  Okay.

• 3:53Speaker 01

  Well, then you can come on.

• 3:54Drew Afualo?

  Me, literally, I'm like, we'll do Google Cal, like me, me syncing it now.

• 3:57Speaker 01

  Great.

• 3:58Drew Afualo?

  On the, live on the show. Gotta put you on the spot, you know what I mean?

• 4:00Speaker 01

  Okay, that's fine. You're welcome to.

• 4:01Drew Afualo?

  Just in case it was a no, it's a real gun to the head, you know what I mean?

• 4:03Speaker 01

  I would love that, that would be fun. It's fun, I mean, the good thing about it is you can't prep for any of the questions.

• 4:08Drew Afualo?

  Yes.

• 4:09Speaker 01

  And so you're just so like, all right, who has a question? Depending on who the comic is to, more hands will raise or not raise. Like Nikki, lots of hands raised, then Keith Robinson got on and they're all scared of him, so no hands went up. I was like, Keith, you have scared away the audience.

• 4:21Drew Afualo?

  And that's so funny, because I am split down the middle of those two people, if you would think. I would say in terms of intimidation, I would say it's a real split divide, you know what I mean? Like, I do have a healthy dose of fear, but there are a lot of people who would like to know. You know what I mean, my thoughts?

• 4:36Speaker 01

  I guess it is intimidating, like, you have to ask a question and it's kind of personal, and then obviously, we're not, we don't ever make fun of, I don't like being mean.

• 4:44Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 4:45Speaker 01

  But it's like, it's, it's better to have the audience ask you, because I only, I don't do any crowd work. I just, when I'm touring, it's just me and my hour, I've worked very hard on it. But there's, every once in a while, it's fun to do, and so I've done, instead of being like, your hat looks stupid, I want like them to ask us the question, you know?

• 5:00Drew Afualo?

  And that's fair. I, I think that's really fun. When I've done any sort of live podcasting or live comedy, I've done, like, we do a lot of, like, our audience submission thing, and then we pick them, we read them, and then we kind of talk to them live. And I always say in the beginning, because I, we put this on the sheet where they filled it out, that I consent to this being read on stage. And so then I repeat that to the audience, and I'm like, that means I'm going to be holding your hand while I do this.

• 5:27Speaker 01

  Right.

• 5:27Drew Afualo?

  And I may give you a razz or two, but it's gonna be fun.

• 5:30Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 5:30Drew Afualo?

  We're gonna have a good time. And honestly, it's really fun. And I've watched it, I'm like watching the clips of you guys doing it, and I'm going, oh, man, that'd be awesome, like, that's me manifesting.

• 5:39Speaker 01

  Then come do it. That would be a good time.

• 5:41Drew Afualo?

  Thank you, I appreciate that, and it's on camera, so no, you can't take it back, so that's perfect.

• 5:45Speaker 01

  This will be used for court.

• 5:47Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, I will see you in civil court.

• 5:48Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 5:49Drew Afualo?

  But on to a better segue, I would love to talk, obviously, you are a very funny, very awesome comedian. I would love to know, just initially, how you got into comedy? Like, that's my favorite thing to ask stand-ups, because everybody kind of has a similar but different entrance into the world, so.

• 6:03Speaker 01

  Well, I didn't, I've, I've said this a few times, but it's, I've been doing stand-up 18 years now.

• 6:08Drew Afualo?

  Look at you, and you're 25, how is that?

• 6:10Speaker 01

  I'm 25.

• 6:11Drew Afualo?

  How is that?

• 6:12Speaker 01

  After three hair transplants, I better look at least 29.

• 6:16Speaker 01

  When you're younger, especially at that time, I didn't have access to seeing any gay men doing stand-up. Like, it wasn't available to me.

• 6:23Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 6:24Speaker 01

  And it's kind of sad that, like, there's still not like a household gay man who's a 100% stand-up comic.

• 6:30Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 6:31Speaker 01

  In the way that, like, Ellen, or Rosie, or Wanda, or even like Chris Rock, or Richard Pryor, but, you know, so it's cool to see all these, like, young queer artists just popping up over the past 10 years, like, in an incredible way. Long story short, so I was just like, oh, well, stand-up's not for me. But I have a very funny family. My mom's family's ridiculous. I have like 34 first cousins, they're all Italian and Mexican, everyone's screaming and yelling at each other. So it's kind of like, you're growing up with the, like, environment of comedy.

• 6:56Drew Afualo?

  Right.

• 6:57Speaker 01

  But I was doing, I think, I think honestly, watching people like Kathy Griffin and Margaret Cho is like the first spark.

• 7:04Drew Afualo?

  We've had Margaret on the show.

• 7:05Speaker 01

  I'm obsessed with Margaret Cho.

• 7:07Drew Afualo?

  She's so funny.

• 7:07Speaker 01

  I'm obsessed with her.

• 7:08Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, she's truly like one of the coolest people ever, too.

• 7:12Speaker 01

  And so chill.

• 7:13Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, she's so normal.

• 7:15Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 7:15Drew Afualo?

  I know, she, everywhere she goes, she has her little dog, too, which I love.

• 7:18Speaker 01

  She always does. I know, I, I've done like a bunch of shows with her, and I said nothing, because I was so, like, in awe of her. And then finally, we were doing some show together last year, and I was like, Matteo, you have to say something to her. So I was like, Margaret, I was like, I just want to, you know, like, I'm a really big fan, and I've been together in the same room, and I've never really said anything, because I don't know what to say to you, and like, I listen to you my whole time, like, just that thing where you just diarrhea of the mouth. And then I, her friend, like, challenged me, because I go, I know every single one of your jokes by heart. He goes, really, what's your favorite one? And without missing a beat, I just turned to her and I said, I did this whole bit from when she was like, Ms. Cho, is it true, the network asked you to play the part of yourself on your own television sitcom and asked you to lose weight? The producer grabbed the mic and said, there is no truth in that. I was so hungry.

• 8:01Speaker 01

  And she laughed, but yeah. But then I, once you started, my, my friend, Anais, was dating a really funny comic named Marty De Rosa, and I was like, I want to try stand-up. I had no idea what that meant.

• 8:12Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 8:13Speaker 01

  And this is in Chicago, and he was like, okay, he's like, you can do three minutes on my show, so 34 members of my family came, watched me bomb, and.

• 8:19Drew Afualo?

  You're so me.

• 8:20Speaker 01

  I know.

• 8:21Drew Afualo?

  That was me with my first five on Caleb's show. I took 30 fucking people, and I was like, come watch me bomb.

• 8:27Speaker 01

  But that's what, you don't know, you know what I mean?

• 8:29Drew Afualo?

  It went, it went well, it went well. I'm, I'm being silly, but it was.

• 8:32Speaker 01

  Mine was fine.

• 8:32Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, mine was fine.

• 8:33Speaker 01

  But I just, I knew I liked it, and then I met, I finally met another gay comic named Bill Cruz, and I didn't, I was like, oh, my God, they exist.

• 8:41Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 8:41Speaker 01

  And I just became obsessed with it. I did it every night, you do like four open mics a night, Monday to Monday, and then I got, I was an illustrator at the time professionally for TV commercials and fashion ads.

• 8:51Drew Afualo?

  Fucking cool, look.

• 8:53Speaker 01

  And then I just kept it going in New York, and now I just stand up.

• 8:56Drew Afualo?

  Look at you, an artist through and through.

• 8:57Speaker 01

  I just be, I'm artist, we just be that guy.

• 9:02Drew Afualo?

  Honestly, you have the look for that accent.

• 9:05Speaker 01

  For the French accent?

• 9:05Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, for the French accent.

• 9:06Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 9:07Drew Afualo?

  I really think it works.

• 9:08Speaker 01

  I could be like Greek, Italian, like Lebanese, I could just kind of fit anywhere near the Mediterranean.

• 9:13Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you're a real Swiss Army knife.

• 9:14Speaker 01

  Kind of, but just like pasta.

• 9:17Drew Afualo?

  All the places that pasta thrives.

• 9:21Drew Afualo?

  That's so funny, I'm, I'm like, I think that's really funny, what you said about your family, too, because I, I, I am not a stand-up, but I, I am funny, and I do think I attribute that all the time to my family as well. I'm always like, honestly, I think, and let me know if this was the same for you, but like, for me, growing up, like, telling, I had the toughest critics, like, my mom was a real, like, I'm not gonna laugh if it's not funny. So like, one of the running jokes we have in my family that I like, have talked about on my other podcast with my sister as well, was like, my brother, you know how they'll send out those emails for like America's Got Talent or American Idol, and they'll be like, seat fillers? Like, it's like, oh, you want to come watch the show? Like, come get this ticket, whatever. My brother got that in an email once, when he was very young, I think like 11, and he

• 10:04Drew Afualo?

  was like, oh, my God, they want me to go on America's Got Talent. Like, he thought it was like an actual invite to the show, and then my mom was like, no, unfortunately, this is a seat filler thing. And he was like, okay, well, either way, I think I do want to try out for the show. Like, he was like, okay, whatever.

• 10:18Speaker 01

  As a what?

• 10:19Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, as a stand-up. Like, he was like, I think I'm gonna do stand-up.

• 10:23Speaker 01

  How old was he?

• 10:24Drew Afualo?

  11.

• 10:25Speaker 01

  Girl.

• 10:25Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 10:27Drew Afualo?

  Like maybe 12.

• 10:28Speaker 01

  You know the worst part about your Legos?

• 10:32Drew Afualo?

  Well, that's the funniest part is because I wasn't, this is one of the few times in my life I can think where I'm glad that camera phones existed at the time because my sister recorded it because I wasn't home. I was like, I was out doing something at his first stand up. Like he was like, I have a bit, I want to workshop it. And he like set up all his stuffed animals as like an audience. And then there was my mom and my sister and my sister was like, not going to say anything. She was just going to record the whole time. So when he first starts the stand up, like he's literally only talking about the show, The Office. That's it. And it's almost like, cause he just started watching The Office and so he thought it was so funny.

• 11:09Speaker 01

  I'll give him that.

• 11:10Drew Afualo?

  Yeah. So he starts just basically just giving you a rundown of the office, like what goes on in the show. And then at one point my mom interrupts, and this is the best part of the video because she interrupts, she goes, pause. Is this stand up or is this a retelling of The Office? You gotta tell jokes. I'm not hearing any jokes. So.

• 11:31Speaker 01

  In relation to, please, I want to, I need to know the rest of this. Did he make it to the show? Did he win? Did he get the golden buzzer?

• 11:37Drew Afualo?

  And what if, I was going to say, and what if it ended with him getting the golden buzzer?

• 11:40Speaker 01

  I would take a picture right now and frame it to see the reaction of my face. Because you know what? Why not?

• 11:49Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, fuck it.

• 11:50Speaker 01

  I want to hear an 11 year old run down the office for me. Tell me about Pam.

• 11:54Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, he's quite literally just telling you a recounting of the office. And he's not even really making fun of anyone in it. He's just kind of letting you know. And then as my mom was like, I don't hear any jokes, like not one. And then my brother, my sister kept recording. So my brother sits down in our, like, one of the rocking chairs we had, we had like a lazy boy thing. And he was sitting in it and you can tell he's so pissed off. Like he's listening because he's, not one critique went in here. He was like, you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. And that was hilarious.

• 12:22Speaker 01

  He wanted to be George Carlin off the bat. He wanted, like, not only is there no, let me get, I need your opinion and your opinion should only be that I'm going to win.

• 12:34Drew Afualo?

  You don't know fucking anything, mom. Like, that's literally how my brother was looking at her and he was just like, mm-hmm, mm-hmm. Like not even listening to the criticism. And then my sister was like, do you want to try again? Like, do you want to try again? My sister says that. And then my mom goes, no, he needs to practice more.

• 12:48Speaker 01

  A hundred percent. What's your mother's name?

• 12:51Drew Afualo?

  Noel.

• 12:51Speaker 01

  I'm sending Noel a muffin basket. I agree with you, because I grew up, my Aunt Cindy was very much like that. She is like my comedy idol. I love my Aunt Cindy.

• 12:59Drew Afualo?

  I was just about to ask if you had, if you had anyone give you feedback.

• 13:01Speaker 01

  She's the funniest person I know. There's a video of us, my Uncle Mike somehow got a camcorder when we were younger. And me and my cousins are lit, we all grew up next to each other, we're all the same age, we all talk every single day. And my, he was interviewing each just one by one, like, what do you want to be when you grow up? And we're just like, my cousin Kelly said Winnie the Pooh, like clearly we're idiots. Then they get to my cousin Megan, who clearly had just had a temper tantrum. And so she's just like that. And my uncle was like, Megan, what do you want to be when you're older? She goes, nothing. And my Aunt Cindy in the back room goes, yeah, and you're on your way there.

• 13:33Speaker 01

  That's the kind of person, when we were, when I was six or like seven, we went to go see Beauty and the Beast, right? It was a big thing, Beauty and the Beast. So we're sitting in the movie theater, me and all eight thousand of my cousins and I'm right next to my Aunt Cindy. The second the Beast turned back into a man, my Aunt Cindy said out loud, oh, I don't like his nose.

• 13:54Drew Afualo?

  Other people can hear you.

• 13:55Speaker 01

  Oh, she doesn't care. The amount of fights she's gotten into in public, the amount of, I just love my Aunt Cindy, she's funny.

• 14:01Drew Afualo?

  I love people like that in the family when you're like, you're, that's kind of my grandpa, low key. Also my brother, my brother is unintentionally one of the funniest people I've ever met.

• 14:11Speaker 01

  Aren't those more rewarding though?

• 14:12Drew Afualo?

  Yes, it's so much better. It's like my brother has like this insane confidence, but also like he's such a know it all too. So it's one of those where it's kind of like, well, I mean, you could be doing evil things, but here you are just being annoying.

• 14:25Speaker 01

  Telling us about The Office.

• 14:27Drew Afualo?

  That's worse. He literally, my brother, I, I've been telling this story, this is recent, this was literally like a year ago. My brother's now in his twenties. He was once like, my, this is not funny, but this is just the context of the story.

• 14:41Speaker 01

  Let me just say, when someone says this is not funny, it's funny.

• 14:45Drew Afualo?

  Setting people up for failure.

• 14:46Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 14:46Drew Afualo?

  Low key, but I'm just saying this is the context. My grandmother had recently passed away.

• 14:51Speaker 01

  Okay, that's not funny.

• 14:51Drew Afualo?

  My paternal grandmother. Right, exactly. So basically my dad was going to the funeral, but he was going to take my brother because I had to work and my mom and sister work with me. So they had to come with me. We were basically dividing and conquering. My mom is like telling my brother the rollout of what's going to happen. She's like, hey, so you're going to leave with, with daddy on this day and blah, blah, blah. And then he's just listening, he's like, okay. And my sister's there too. Again, it's the three of them. I don't know what happens when the three of them are together, something evil happens, like something hilarious happens and I'm not there. That's why I think it's evil. But anyways, they're talking and then my brother's just like listening and he looks kind of down and my mom goes, are you okay? And he's like, yeah, I'm okay. And then she's like, what are you thinking about? We're talking about the funeral, just again for a reminder.

• 15:33Drew Afualo?

  He goes, honestly, I need a cord for my other monitor. I was like thinking about how I'm going to get another cord for my monitor. He's talking about his computer at home. So.

• 15:44Speaker 01

  I play Fortnite, I'm aware.

• 15:45Drew Afualo?

  And I literally thinking to myself, I'm like, my brother's like, yeah, no one asked me, but I'm also going through a hard time.

• 15:52Speaker 01

  I kind of want to meet your brother. He sounds just.

• 15:55Drew Afualo?

  He is the funniest, silliest goose who's ever lived. And like my, I think that that is a perfect example because my brother is unintentionally hilarious. But my, my entire family has been like yours, where they've been like, do you, does your family love to like playfully roast each other and like make fun of each other all the time?

• 16:11Speaker 01

  Playfully roast each other? We rip each other to shreds. Are you joking? My Uncle Mike, we.

• 16:16Drew Afualo?

  Well, I was babysitting there just in case because that's what mine is too.

• 16:19Speaker 01

  My Uncle Mike, we, he would, I mean, roasting, my Uncle Mike, when we would have Christmas, my, the first thing we would do, there was like, my mom's one of seven. Well, technically one of 14, but we can get to that later. And so we have got like a million cousins and the first thing we do is who does the best impression of how ridiculous my Uncle Mike brushes his teeth? And it's usually my cousin Megan, or like he broke his foot one time, which was the bane of our existence for that month. And he was, we were sitting at the kitchen table and he saw this woman walk, run by and he was like, I wish I could run. And we were like, you never run. He's like, this family doesn't support me. We just all yell at each other, but we all know it's for fun, you know? Yeah, we used to be really big on making prank phone calls and recording them to play for my Aunt Cindy later. We'd call the Pasta Pro and my cousin Brian would be this character named Linda McGuire.

• 17:02Speaker 01

  And so we'd go, hi, I had a couple of questions about the pad. And they're like, yes, what color is it? It's red, no matter what they said it was a problem. Well, it's red, I'm allergic to red. Let me just like.

• 17:11Drew Afualo?

  This sounds like a made for TV family.

• 17:13Speaker 01

  Nah, we are pretty rigid. My grandpa's blind, he's running into walls, we're like, there's a wall. Anyways, I was telling you, like, you know, just the kind of family you're up in, yeah.

• 17:21Drew Afualo?

  I feel the same way too, like my, my entire family is so like, that we like roast each other in a way that I feel like has hardened my shell, right? I've been very like, I joke all the time, I'm like, my skin's made of vibranium. If you guys grew up in my family, like, like, that's honestly why when I like got big on TikTok for making fun of men and like being, being mean to them. And I use quotes because what is mean? Like, it's all relative in my opinion, but like, I literally got, when they would make fun of me back, obviously they would be like, does, I would always get asked, like, does it bother me? Like of getting made fun of my looks, whatever. And I was like, no, and honestly, I think I would be a huge hypocrite if it did bother me because I make fun of other people's looks. Like, I have to learn how to take a joke if I'm going to tell jokes.

• 18:03Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 18:03Drew Afualo?

  Uh, but also they're not funny, so that kind of works in my favor.

• 18:06Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 18:07Drew Afualo?

  And I was like, but also like, I really don't think you guys know how to hurt feelings. I really don't think you guys understand what that means even.

• 18:15Speaker 01

  Well, usually people in comments go for like the low bar, like the easiest thing.

• 18:20Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 18:20Speaker 01

  You know what I mean? Or like if someone, like my favorite is like, I was walking back the other day, I was, I went and saw Spider-Man. And so I was like, it's a nice night, I'll walk back, I'm in New York. So I'm walking in, this drunk guy, wasted, uh, is running from his girlfriend. I don't know what the situation was. She was on the phone with her friend, she's like, Jenny, he just won't stop. And he's like running. And when he ran past me, he literally just goes, you're a faggot. And I laughed so hard because I was like, you, I, I yelled back, I said, you're literally running from pussy right now. I'm the faggot? Sure, I've got nice shoes. You're running from pussy. Jenny, he called him a faggot. I mean, it was so, I laughed so hard.

• 18:59Drew Afualo?

  So drunk, but not drunk enough.

• 19:00Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 19:01Drew Afualo?

  Forget that I need to call you a slur. Like not, not that drunk, I'll tell you what.

• 19:06Speaker 01

  And also like as an.

• 19:07Drew Afualo?

  And I'm in a rush, but not that much of a rush.

• 19:09Speaker 01

  Oh, no, no, I would have, I was like, cinnamon popcorn, like, I'm going to watch this. But I, like, you're going to call me a faggot? I'm like, and, like what? Well, all those kids in high school that call me a faggot, I was like, they weren't wrong. They were on to something.

• 19:20Drew Afualo?

  Okay, clocked and, which feels very, I feel like, like you said, low hanging fruit.

• 19:28Speaker 01

  No pun intended with me.

• 19:29Drew Afualo?

  Yeah. That's also how I feel too about, uh, men who make fun of me because it's always fat and ugly. Or some variation of fat and ugly. It's never anything past that, but like one time I told a guy who had, um, he had gyno, but specifically because he was taking steroids. That's important context.

• 19:46Speaker 01

  Gyno?

• 19:47Drew Afualo?

  Gyno, it's like when, um, their nipples like sag, like they like, yeah, if you can believe. It happens to do too, take a lot of gear, a lot of roids.

• 19:56Drew Afualo?

  Yes, girl, like teats, they sag like teats. And I, and that's the joke I made because what I said was, I was like, your nipples look like you were the village wet nurse. Now that's a clock bitch. Like you want to talk about a funny ass joke, that's funny joke. And then I, I was like, I said that joke and I, that's like, I think a more creative way of calling someone ugly in some regard. But just calling me fat and ugly is just calling me fat and ugly.

• 20:21Speaker 01

  No, I stopped looking at comments because it's just like, it can actually like stifle your creative process. It's so.

• 20:26Drew Afualo?

  That's a really good point.

• 20:27Speaker 01

  It does, because then if you start overthinking like, you know, and I'm not that kind of comic anyways. I'm not like, let me get them, you know? Um, but if there, occasionally when I will look at a comment or two, my favorites, if someone says something mean, I love when there's a spelling error.

• 20:41Drew Afualo?

  Me too.

• 20:42Speaker 01

  Because then I'm like, now, this is just, I'll always write whatever word they meant to say, like a there, there, there.

• 20:48Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you put little asterisks next to it.

• 20:49Speaker 01

  And I'm like, you meant yours. That one's possessive.

• 20:54Drew Afualo?

  Sorry, I interrupted. Please continue.

• 20:56Speaker 01

  Yeah, go ahead. I'm gay?

• 21:00Drew Afualo?

  That's a really good point, though, about comments stifling creativity. That's tea.

• 21:04Speaker 01

  It does.

• 21:04Drew Afualo?

  I've started, I've stopped looking at comments as of recently. It's something new I'm trying out, actually.

• 21:08Speaker 01

  Well, because it's like, people want to see the good comments, but then the bad comments, it's like, you have to accept all of them. It's like, or just don't, like.

• 21:15Drew Afualo?

  That's such a good way of looking at it.

• 21:17Speaker 01

  Make your artwork and there's no way you're gonna win everybody over. People won't like you, or you don't represent me, or you're not the right thing, or that's not funny, or that.

• 21:24Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 21:25Speaker 01

  And it's like, oh, okay, well, but that person thought it was funny. So who's, who's right?

• 21:29Drew Afualo?

  And who are you? Right? It's one of those. I, I feel like, um, it does feel like that with comedy sometimes, right? Where it's like, well, clearly this isn't for you. You know what I mean? Every pod has its lid.

• 21:40Speaker 01

  I know, and I don't think I've ever left a comment on anything, like on a YouTube video, but all my YouTube videos are like, who would win the Scarlet Witch or Doctor Doom? Like, I'm such a fucking loser. But, you know, or listening to Maria Collison masterclass in Juilliard. But, you know, I am like, at this point, if like, you're watching something, you're like, viscerally upset about it, I'm like, well, that, that feels like you're, that's about you.

• 22:00Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you got something else going on.

• 22:01Speaker 01

  Plethora of, there's so, there's an unlimited amount of entertainment and.

• 22:06Drew Afualo?

  At our fingertips, literally.

• 22:08Speaker 01

  It's like, just sort of search for what you like. If I popped up and you don't like it, okay, that's fine, but like, you, you watched it. So on some level, you were interested. I guess the worst thing in life is to be boring.

• 22:21Drew Afualo?

  I just love, I really love your energy about it. You're just like, okay?

• 22:25Speaker 01

  Well, it just feels like, and like, I've just been made fun of since I was a kid for being gay. So at this point, I'm like, God, I'm forty years old, like.

• 22:33Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, it's so boring.

• 22:34Speaker 01

  Let me just live.

• 22:35Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, for real. That's, that was actually a great segue into my next question for you, because I was gonna ask, like, as. I'd like you to tell me now, be honest with me.

• 22:44Speaker 01

  Well.

• 22:46Drew Afualo?

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• 23:28Drew Afualo?

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• 24:03Drew Afualo?

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• 24:43Drew Afualo?

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• 25:26Drew Afualo?

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• 26:49Drew Afualo?

  Promo code COMMENT. I was gonna ask, since you, I know you've been doing comedy for a while, and obviously now the internet and comedy, like, intersecting.

• 26:57Speaker 01

  Sure.

• 26:57Drew Afualo?

  I always ask a lot of my stand-up friends this question, too, because especially those of, those of them who have been doing it, like you, um, offline, far longer than online, right? So it's like, I'm so curious your thoughts on how the internet has kind of intersected with comedy. Do you think there's good in it, bad in it, both?

• 27:13Speaker 01

  Well, I think it's both. I mean, look, before, uh, I started posting in twenty twenty-one, and there's a few parts to this. I would say, the good part is, I would have never had a, a chance otherwise. No one would book me, no one would put me on, no, nothing. I mean, I tried everything under the sun. I was living in an attic, I was homeless, basically. I mean, I was like, the only thing keeping me alive was the Comedy Cellar, and I could pay for rent and food.

• 27:37Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 27:38Speaker 01

  And everything else was like, that was it. And once I started putting stuff online, I removed the gatekeepers. Because the problem when you have gatekeepers in, at that time, which already feels like a million years ago, you know, you have to kind of, I remember meeting with HBO and talking to them. I was like, you know, like, this is my hour, and they, I don't know if it was this, but it felt in my mind, and I could be wrong, I accept that, but sometimes with queer stand-up, because you're, when you're gay, they want, people want to associate with you with your trauma. So watching someone just going on stage, just telling jokes, it's like, what's the hook?

• 28:13Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 28:14Speaker 01

  You know, while it's not, it's, it's a bit different for other people, you know?

• 28:18Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 28:18Speaker 01

  I think anyone who's marginalized in any kind of way can understand that, but that was my own insecurity. I don't necessarily know that's the truth. But I just didn't feel comfortable trying to find something to be sad about. I was like, I'm talking about things, but making them, whatever. So once I started putting things online, it removed someone else's idea of what I should be doing and allowed me to be me.

• 28:39Drew Afualo?

  Totally.

• 28:39Speaker 01

  And then it blew up, and it was like, okay, so I wasn't wrong. Like, I can hear the audiences laughing, so I don't think I'm not, you know? But then that allowed me to just kind of create my own little world. I mean, I had my own YouTube channel, and I just got to put up the stuff that I thought was funny and continue with stand-up. But, so the, the positive about that is it gave me an opportunity for exposure in a way I, I would have never gotten.

• 29:01Drew Afualo?

  Totally.

• 29:02Speaker 01

  So now I can tour, and I can go all over the world. It's a, it's an amazing life. I, I really love it. I think the downside is, when you're a young comic, I also have to accept that I'm old, and that this is just the way things move. But, I mean, I had at that point fourteen years of stand-up behind me.

• 29:18Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 29:19Speaker 01

  That I would, I could post online while writing, while knowing that I could work material out of certain clubs. Well, I had, I was, I was more in a system. So I think the disadvantage for younger comics, where yes, you can get exposure, you can get an audience, and I think that's great. But there's also nothing wrong with being ready. So I think the building material for ten, fifteen years, and then I think those days might be gone. So there may be people who are putting out material too fast, or not getting time to develop it.

• 29:47Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 29:47Speaker 01

  And that's just the name of the game. But I, I actually don't know if that's true. That would be my fear.

• 29:52Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 29:53Speaker 01

  But for me.

• 29:54Drew Afualo?

  Well, you've seen it with some, with some comics, like straight male comics, who get specials almost immediately in their fucking dog shit. That's how you know. Because you got rewarded for the following and not for the material. So I'll say it for you.

• 30:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, I mean, I started with my first special on YouTube, and then my second special, I got a Hulu special, which was great. And then now we're trying to figure out what to do for this next one. But I, I've had a very good experience, because

• 30:21Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 30:21Speaker 01

  you know, it's, it's nice to be able to go around the world and do stand-up, and it's crazy.

• 30:27Drew Afualo?

  It is crazy. And I, and I agree with you, too, on the, on your first note about how to, it was able to put yourself out there in a way that you never would have been able to prior to that. When I started doing this, too, I, I like, had talked about how, I was just telling my friends this story yesterday, but I was like, when I finally, like, broke through something where I could, like, actually start doing this for a living, and making money, because I wasn't making any money off of it for a while. I was just doing it for the love of the game and the game alone. Um, I remember, like, thinking at the time, like, because a lot of brands would ask me after, or like, interviews, if I did interviews, they would be like, oh, like, what was the moment? Like, that really, like, broke through? And I was like, honestly, like. They did not get to a point where they were like, you know what misogyny is bad.

• 31:10Drew Afualo?

  We should talk about that. That's not what happened. What happened is I got so big that they were like, alright, fucking fine. Like that's, I forced my way in the door. And that's why I always say like, that's what I love the internet for. Um, obviously it's been twisted and warped in awful ways now and more recently especially.

• 31:27Speaker 01

  It's human.

• 31:27Drew Afualo?

  Right, exactly.

• 31:28Speaker 01

  Humans tend to do that.

• 31:30Drew Afualo?

  Exactly. And so like, but I, what I loved about it was that it gave, like you said, marginalized people exposure that otherwise they never would have gotten.

• 31:38Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 31:39Drew Afualo?

  Like ever in a million years. And it's like, it's platformed a lot of people who deserve to be heard and seen for whatever it is that they have that grew them the platform, but like especially for marginalized people. I was like, that's why the internet was like pivotal because I had one of my friends who's an actor asked me like, how come you never majored in like theater or anything like that? And I was like, because I didn't think there would be a future for me in it. Like, quite literally speaking, I was like, nobody looks like me. Nobody's built like me.

• 32:04Speaker 01

  Somebody asked me this, they said, how old were you until you saw a gay man do stand up? I said, 23.

• 32:09Drew Afualo?

  And you remember the exact age?

• 32:10Speaker 01

  That was Bill Cruz. That's how long I had to wait to see a gay man do stand up comedy.

• 32:14Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 32:14Speaker 01

  23 years.

• 32:15Drew Afualo?

  Which is crazy.

• 32:16Speaker 01

  But it's just the way it was.

• 32:17Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, exactly.

• 32:18Speaker 01

  And I remember listening to people like Kathy talking about, uh, gay people in a positive, Kathy Griffin was the first person I ever heard mention gay men in a positive way.

• 32:28Drew Afualo?

  No.

• 32:29Speaker 01

  I, I was afraid for her career. That's how internalized my homophobia was because I was so used to being the butt of the joke, no pun intended. That, you know, I mean, but there was just a lot of internalized homophobia and there was a lot of fear going into it. And honestly, a lot of fear about what the men would be like at the open mics, but I found that it was not what I expected. When I went to open mics, I was often the only gay in the room or one of few.

• 32:53Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 32:53Speaker 01

  And, um, comics in general just care if you're funny and work really hard and you're easy to work with.

• 33:00Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 33:00Speaker 01

  And so I, I watched myself realize, oh, this wasn't, it doesn't mean I didn't hear the homophobia, the racism and the misogyny, but you know what? 99% of the comics you start with in open mics, they don't continue doing stand up. So it's like only a few of you are kind of left after this much time. You know, so you just have to kind of wait it out.

• 33:19Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 33:19Speaker 01

  But I've heard everything, you know, everyone said everything you could possibly imagine about me or you got that because you're gay or you got this because you're gay. It's like, oh, okay. Sorry, I'm like one of zero. You know what I mean?

• 33:30Drew Afualo?

  My bad.

• 33:31Speaker 01

  Historically speaking.

• 33:31Drew Afualo?

  Don't want to intrude on your space. My bad.

• 33:33Speaker 01

  It was, that's why it was so, it was like, it was a cool time when I came up because it was like really funny, talented people like Joel Kim Booster, Cola Scola, John Early.

• 33:42Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 33:43Speaker 01

  You know, interesting, why, and I'm like, can't you see that all of us are wildly different?

• 33:47Drew Afualo?

  No, for real.

• 33:48Speaker 01

  But I think people just, especially like even today, like big bookers for streamers, they just say you're gay. That's it. That's all you are. You're in that category. I'm like, ah, okay, but I like being gay.

• 33:57Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 33:57Speaker 01

  But also we're all different. We're not a monolith. I don't know what to say. Okay, fine. We all like the golden.

• 34:02Drew Afualo?

  We don't, yeah, okay, that's one thing.

• 34:05Speaker 01

  Right.

• 34:06Drew Afualo?

  Okay, you got that one. Okay. Yeah, well, but this is also one of my favorite questions to ask comics, but like, what's your favorite city to tour in?

• 34:16Speaker 01

  Oh, like, um, like the best crowds, well, Chicago's always great.

• 34:21Drew Afualo?

  Love.

• 34:22Speaker 01

  Uh, London has absolutely, you know, it was the best was Spain.

• 34:27Drew Afualo?

  No way.

• 34:28Speaker 01

  Unbelievable.

• 34:29Drew Afualo?

  Really?

• 34:30Speaker 01

  Yes, I had some of the best time at Barcelona and Madrid, these big gorgeous theaters. Actually, Madrid is where they do The Lion King. And I was like, can I wear the Zazu outfit? They're like, please don't touch. So, but they were.

• 34:43Drew Afualo?

  You said, no, you're not that funny. Thank you though.

• 34:45Speaker 01

  I know, wait, wait a minute, if I came out as like a, like a Zazu, but they were so, they, those audiences blew me away. I love New York audiences too, and LA is always good too. But sometimes you go to like smaller cities, like not like Miami and New York and LA and San Francisco. Like if you're in Kansas City, Missouri, you know, they're like exceptional. They're just so happy to be.

• 35:08Drew Afualo?

  That's a really good point. And like one of my, someone on my team once said too, that in the smaller towns, they're almost always awesome crowds because they're like just grateful that you're there.

• 35:18Speaker 01

  And they're also, they're not jaded, like, could I see Broadway tonight? Maybe I'll go to Madison Square Garden. No, I think I'm gonna go, you know, it's like.

• 35:24Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, like LA, New York are really spoiled with how many people come and are constantly in town. But like when I played like Ohio, I was like, oh, girl.

• 35:35Drew Afualo?

  When I played Ohio, I said, man, you would have thought I sold out MSG.

• 35:39Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 35:39Drew Afualo?

  In Ohio.

• 35:41Speaker 01

  I had so many instant, like things that have happened to me in Ohio. Me and Nicole Byer always having problems in Ohio.

• 35:47Drew Afualo?

  Nicole Byer, I went on her show. She's so funny.

• 35:49Speaker 01

  Truly the best.

• 35:50Drew Afualo?

  Love her.

• 35:51Speaker 01

  Yeah, she kept me alive for a long time too. I love Nicole. Yeah, but I would say, I would say the best cities, I really love London. I, I mean, I'm touring all over Europe. I have six Europe tours on this tour. I love Australia too. Melbourne, they're some of the best audiences.

• 36:04Drew Afualo?

  Oh, I've never been to Australia.

• 36:05Speaker 01

  I had one of the best shows ever at the Palais in Melbourne. Last time I did it in September.

• 36:10Drew Afualo?

  So cool.

• 36:10Speaker 01

  It, it's fun. That's a cool thing. It's like you could travel all over the world and do that. Well.

• 36:15Drew Afualo?

  And get like different energies from different people.

• 36:18Speaker 01

  Yeah, the Italians always clap a lot.

• 36:21Drew Afualo?

  Without laughing or do they just laugh?

• 36:23Speaker 01

  Like giggle and then like kind of look at each other and clap. And I'll be like, tu devais rire, like you have to laugh. And sometimes I translate for myself on stage if I don't think they understand what's happening, but they're an amazing crowd, but they're just so like,

• 36:38Speaker 01

  you know, and it's like.

• 36:39Drew Afualo?

  They're polite with it.

• 36:40Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 36:40Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, they're thinking very politely.

• 36:41Speaker 01

  I'm not making this up, the French, literally, I put this in one of my acts, but it's the honest to God truth. I was doing like a 2,000 seat theater in France. I was so excited. I'm in Paris, this is amazing.

• 36:51Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 36:51Speaker 01

  Blah, blah, blah. And I'm used to Americans where like, if I ask a question and the answer is yes, you know, everyone goes, woo.

• 36:57Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 36:58Speaker 01

  So I asked it, 2,000 French people went, yes.

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• 37:38Drew Afualo?

  Kind of ominous.

• 37:39Speaker 01

  I was like, okay. In the Netherlands, I went on stage and I said, before I start, I want you to know that I know that you know that you don't laugh. And they all laugh. Cause they'll just, they'll stare and then afterwards be like, that's the hardest I've ever laughed in my life. Like they just express themselves so differently, you know?

• 37:57Drew Afualo?

  Around the world.

• 37:57Speaker 01

  Yeah, it's crazy. Mexico City was amazing. Otsco and I co-het my Mexico City.

• 38:02Drew Afualo?

  I love Otsco.

• 38:04Speaker 01

  I love.

• 38:05Drew Afualo?

  Oh my God, Otsco, if I, oh my God.

• 38:08Speaker 01

  And a great hang.

• 38:10Drew Afualo?

  I, she is the funnest person ever. I saw her at one of, um, Questlove's game nights.

• 38:17Speaker 01

  I wish I could sit with Questlove and ask him every question he was about Mariah Carey, but that's for another time.

• 38:21Drew Afualo?

  I just feel like he is a vault, because he actually published my first book. Um, but he is like a vault of tea. I just know.

• 38:29Speaker 01

  I know.

• 38:29Drew Afualo?

  And every time I would see him, like I remember the very first time I met him was when I pitched my book to him and he wanted to come in person to meet me. And so like we, we, we talked for a while. And then he was very like stoic and he was very like, it's very cool. That's very interesting. Like he was very like cards to the chest. I was like, no worries. And then, um, when he was, he's like, I'm so sorry. I do have to leave a little bit early. Uh, because I have, you know, the show to do. And I was, well, he said, I have to leave a little early. I have another commitment. And I go, what do you got a fucking show or something? And I made that joke without even thinking, like, I should probably not be cracking jokes in this meeting where I have not signed any papers yet. But I made a funny joke. I was, what do you got somewhere to fucking be? That's how I said it. And that is the only time I've made him laugh. He went, but he, when I say laugh, I say that, that's very generous because he went like,

• 39:15Speaker 01

  He went from Questlove?

• 39:17Drew Afualo?

  That's like him, like gut busting.

• 39:19Speaker 01

  Huge. Yeah, I heard an interview with him and Mariah Carey. Well, anyways, but yeah.

• 39:23Drew Afualo?

  Well, he, yes, with him, like I saw him or saw Otsco at Questlove's game night. And I remember I was sitting at a table and I was talking to my friend. And we were kind of chatting and then she came over and she goes, whatever you do, don't sit at that table. And I like look over and they were playing a game. I was like, why? She goes, they're playing Scrabble, but they're playing for real.

• 39:44Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 39:44Drew Afualo?

  And she was like, and they were trying to make me think of words. I don't want to do that. I'm drinking.

• 39:49Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 39:50Drew Afualo?

  I was like, oh, okay.

• 39:52Speaker 01

  I don't, I, I, when it comes to board games, oh, there's a card game that Bob and I will get you addicted to. It's called CombiO. Have you ever played it?

• 39:59Drew Afualo?

  No.

• 39:59Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 39:59Drew Afualo?

  But I love a game night.

• 40:01Speaker 01

  You'll come over, we'll do it.

• 40:02Drew Afualo?

  I, please.

• 40:03Speaker 01

  Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

• 40:03Drew Afualo?

  And that's also on camera, so you can't rescind it.

• 40:05Speaker 01

  You are welcome. Bob's studio is right over there.

• 40:09Drew Afualo?

  And I'll text Bob right now on his droid.

• 40:11Speaker 01

  He's at his Aunt Hazel's, I think 70th birthday party.

• 40:14Drew Afualo?

  I know. I was like, he's always doing something. Hey y'all, it's Drew and I want to talk to y'all about something a little bit serious, but still very helpful. So if you're anything like me and you experience a lot of intrusive thoughts throughout your day, and sometimes they can be extremely debilitating, get in the way of your workflow, your ability to just function in general, then attributing it to something like anxiety, if you experience that just like I do, this is for you because for millions of people, that's not just anxiety, that's OCD. And most of them have no idea. Not the organizing stereotype. Real OCD is persistent, unwanted intrusive thoughts that feel totally out of character,

• 40:53Drew Afualo?

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• 41:38Drew Afualo?

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• 41:43Speaker 01

  Bob also does this thing where he doesn't text you, he calls you and I'll be doing something and I'll, I'll go, go, go. And then he calls right again. Like as if I didn't see it the first time. Now I think there's like an emergency. So I'm like, well, hold on. It's like, Bob, is everything okay? What's going on?

• 41:57Drew Afualo?

  He knew you were ignoring him.

• 41:58Speaker 01

  Of course, I'm like, I'm doing something.

• 42:00Drew Afualo?

  And he does have a droid. I'm not kidding about that.

• 42:02Speaker 01

  Talk about his phone situation.

• 42:04Drew Afualo?

  I'm not kidding about that. He has green levels.

• 42:07Speaker 01

  Eight phones and then he can never find any of them. And then he claims he has an iPhone, but it's never the iPhone. It is insane. It is an insufferable situation.

• 42:14Drew Afualo?

  He's spreading about himself is that he has an iPhone, but he does not.

• 42:17Speaker 01

  He has it, but it's always over there. Like it's never like where you want it to be.

• 42:21Drew Afualo?

  That's like Caleb. Caleb has a dumb ass, uh dumb phone.

• 42:25Speaker 01

  Well, Nick still has a fucking Android and I'm like, this weekend, I can't FaceTime because I, do you have WhatsApp? I'm like, yes, I have WhatsApp. Sufferable.

• 42:36Drew Afualo?

  Okay, back to, back to cities. I want to know what's a city that you're not the biggest fan of.

• 42:41Speaker 01

  And almost anything in Ohio. I think, I'm kidding, I'm joking. No, but Ohio, so there's something always happening in Ohio with me. I don't know what it is. Last time I went to Ohio, my plane literally almost didn't land. The storm was so bad. Then me and River, River Butcher, who's a great comic, he was opening for me and someone heckled him, which no one heckles ever at my shows. And then I, I was with Nicole, I got called to drive by faggot, which the speed limit was fifty miles an hour. Like how gay did I look in the distance? You know, then I hurt my knee when her and I went to the pool and then she was, got hecklers about Trump. And she kept, she was confused because she had moved past that bit. So now they're yelling at her and she's like, is this about Black Santa? Because she was already on a new bit about Black Santa. It was so confusing and every, yeah, just every time I go to Ohio, I'm like, something is always, I'm bracing myself.

• 43:26Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you're in a past life, you did something terrible there.

• 43:29Speaker 01

  I don't know.

• 43:29Drew Afualo?

  You're like, I can't be in this, I can't be in this state. That's so funny. Of all the states I could have said, I said Ohio. And then you were like, that's so funny. You bring that up. I fucking hate Ohio.

• 43:39Speaker 01

  I don't, I don't hate Ohio. That is not, I don't want this narrative.

• 43:42Drew Afualo?

  I know, I'm kidding, I'm kidding.

• 43:43Speaker 01

  But.

• 43:44Drew Afualo?

  Ohio doesn't like you.

• 43:46Speaker 01

  Something's going on. I lost a leather coat there because this, it was a whole thing. I just have so many stories of Ohio. I've never had a single problem in St. Louis. I mean, it's just like Detroit, you're great. I mean, I have no. But usually the shows are all pretty, like it's all, they're all pretty good. I mean, audiences, they're excited. They're coming to see you, you know, you go back to markets after two years and you have a new hour and.

• 44:08Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 44:08Speaker 01

  Trying to build.

• 44:09Drew Afualo?

  I was gonna ask about tour. How do you like touring?

• 44:11Speaker 01

  I love touring.

• 44:12Drew Afualo?

  Do you like, like the on the road lifestyle?

• 44:15Speaker 01

  Yes, I, look, you have to know what you're getting into and you have, it is a lot of work.

• 44:19Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 44:20Speaker 01

  It is very tiring. You're not home a lot, but I was dreaming of doing this forever. So I, look, planes and different hotels and not seeing family, not seeing friends, missing out on, you know, it's, there's, you're kind of alone a lot too. I mean, there's like a, a feeling of displacement sometimes, but when you get to stand up on stage, you're like, oh yeah, this is what it was all about, you know? But I could tour like.

• 44:42Drew Afualo?

  I love that though.

• 44:43Speaker 01

  I love it. There's different ways to tour. I could have gotten on a bus and done the whole thing in like five months, but I'm like, I'm not, what am I in a rush for? You know what I mean? Like, I'm not in a rush. I'm not on a TV show. So my tours are usually quite long because I usually only do three weekends a month. But that is like two cities. And so, you know, you get like three or four days home in New York. So I, I have some semblance of a normal life. It's like half my week I'm on a plane or the other half I'm at home playing Fortnite or dressed to impress.

• 45:11Drew Afualo?

  Are those your two favorite games right now?

• 45:12Speaker 01

  Yeah, but right now I'm back into Starcraft. My friend Chris and I, really, it's, it's a whole thing.

• 45:16Drew Afualo?

  Are you a big gamer?

• 45:17Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 45:17Drew Afualo?

  Ooh, tea. Are you a PC girl?

• 45:19Speaker 01

  I have a PC, yeah. And a PS five. And I, and I have a Nintendo Switch.

• 45:24Drew Afualo?

  Well, kind of, I have all of those things too. I'm, I'm joking. I'm, I'm saying that as if I don't own all of those things as well.

• 45:29Speaker 01

  What games are you into?

• 45:30Drew Afualo?

  I like, like third person story games. So I love, like, I've played like all the Assassin's Creed games, the Ghost of Tsushima.

• 45:37Speaker 01

  I liked. Did you play Legend of, did you play Breath of the Wild?

• 45:41Drew Afualo?

  I started Breath of the Wild on the, on the Switch.

• 45:44Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 45:45Drew Afualo?

  It is weirdly hard, um, for what I thought Zelda would be. I hadn't played Zelda in years.

• 45:51Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 45:51Drew Afualo?

  But like, it was fun though.

• 45:52Speaker 01

  Give it another shot because it's truly the best.

• 45:54Drew Afualo?

  That's so funny. Yes, literally yesterday, my sister's girlfriend was telling me to play Breath of the Wild.

• 45:59Speaker 01

  Yeah, no, you should give it another shot.

• 46:01Drew Afualo?

  Zelda fan.

• 46:01Speaker 01

  Really, it's, it's, I wish I could like erase, I wish I could Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, my mind with that game. So I could replay it and feel those feelings for the first time.

• 46:12Drew Afualo?

  That's how I feel about Ghost of Yote.

• 46:13Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 46:14Drew Afualo?

  Which was the second Ghost of Tsushima. That's how I feel about that game and I beat it.

• 46:17Speaker 01

  Oh, but you would love, it's, it's almost the same.

• 46:19Drew Afualo?

  That's why, that's literally why my man got me Breath of the Wild. Cause he's like, I really think you'll like it. It's very similar to the ones you love. Cause I love story games and like the fantasy stuff, but like not too fantasy. Cause I did try to play Baldur's Gate.

• 46:31Speaker 01

  No, I don't like Baldur's Gate.

• 46:32Drew Afualo?

  I tried, but I hate what it looks like.

• 46:35Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 46:35Drew Afualo?

  Whenever, I don't like when it looks like a little chat. I want to run around. I want to do shit.

• 46:39Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 46:39Drew Afualo?

  So I was like, kind of bummed because I really wanted to do the relationship stuff. I was like, yeah, I'm trying to fuck everyone. Yes, of course I am. And then I realized you have to do all that ugly stuff in order to get there. And I was like, fuck.

• 46:48Speaker 01

  I know. Sometimes I'm like in video games. I'm like, I have my own errands to run.

• 46:53Speaker 01

  Like I haven't gotten a haircut in four days, but I'm worried about getting this seed for this witch in a town that like, I gotta go.

• 47:00Drew Afualo?

  That's how I felt playing The Witcher.

• 47:01Speaker 01

  Oh, The Witcher is so annoying. I was living with Evan Williams at the time in New York and he was playing, he's like, every time I'd walk in, I'm not kidding you. Hit the character was auditioning for a play. I said, this is what you do. You go on audition. I swear, man. Yeah, I, there's fucking huge dragon battles. And then I came in next time and he was on a horse naked with a woman. I said, this is a telenovela.

• 47:23Drew Afualo?

  Yes, exactly. And I was trying to get a piece of it. And honestly, when I tried it, it's just like, there's a little too much. I think it would be more fun to play on a PC probably. Cause I was playing on the PS five.

• 47:32Speaker 01

  I was playing on a PS five a long time. Now I'm PC because I stream. I really like streaming, but the games that I like.

• 47:37Drew Afualo?

  You're so fun to watch on stream. What do you play on stream?

• 47:40Speaker 01

  I play dressed to impress.

• 47:41Drew Afualo?

  Okay, fun. I've played that many times too. It's very fun.

• 47:43Speaker 01

  Nick thinks he's Miranda Priestly. Clearly it's a game for seven year old girls and I guess forty year old gay men.

• 47:48Drew Afualo?

  For the meanest little girls you've ever met in your entire life.

• 47:50Speaker 01

  Oh, Nick's just, well, Nick also fight, like, when you play Fortnite, like sometimes there's like an open spot. So the game fills it in with random people. And Nick will always argue with the kid. Cause they'll say such, kids are mean.

• 48:02Drew Afualo?

  They are.

• 48:02Speaker 01

  People are like, there's the, the innocence of a child. I was like, where? Play Fortnite for five minutes? There's no innocence left.

• 48:10Drew Afualo?

  Go in that Call of Duty lobby, Call of Duty lobby, girl.

• 48:13Speaker 01

  Duty. My friend Jacob and I had a very viral clip of us playing Call of Duty because before we were murdered. We, he looked at the wallpaper and said, I could live here. This is a cute wallpaper.

• 48:26Speaker 01

  I'm not kidding you. We have it filmed. This is cute. I could live here. This, this is nice. This is nice wallpaper.

• 48:32Drew Afualo?

  From the, from behind.

• 48:33Speaker 01

  And then they just like threw a grenade at us. We, when I tell you how quickly we die, I could not, that was the hardest I think I've laughed in my life. And I, every time I tried catching my breath till Jacob, I was like, Jacob, do you think in the history of Call of Duty?

• 48:46Drew Afualo?

  That was just someone's last words.

• 48:48Speaker 01

  This, well, I could live here. It's like beaten down, like Russia, some, like with a nuclear bomb outside.

• 48:56Drew Afualo?

  I was gonna say, it's like in a war torn country.

• 48:58Speaker 01

  It is.

• 48:59Drew Afualo?

  Cute.

• 49:00Speaker 01

  I can do this. There's zombies outside the fucking window. Yeah.

• 49:04Drew Afualo?

  Did you have an overcooked phase with your friends?

• 49:07Speaker 01

  Did I have an overcooked phase? There is a video of me, Bob and Nick playing overcooked. When I tell you, we are, it is so aggressive.

• 49:14Drew Afualo?

  Loves video games too.

• 49:15Speaker 01

  Oh, yeah.

• 49:15Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 49:16Speaker 01

  Me, me and Bob during the pandemic where it was like Fortnite every day, but we were, when I, we were playing overcooked. And now we play overcooked and Nick keeps yelling, Nick yells at us like he's the manager. I need a cucumber, rice and ham, rack them. I'm like, rack them, you know, and he's screaming, but.

• 49:31Drew Afualo?

  Car me from the fucking bear. Okay.

• 49:35Speaker 01

  I always play as a little fox, like the fox chef in Overcooked. I love it.

• 49:39Drew Afualo?

  I forget who I was.

• 49:40Speaker 01

  But overcooked, if you're listening, fix your fucking servers because it always fucking shuts down on us and it's insufferable. But that game gets hard.

• 49:47Drew Afualo?

  I know that game is so hard and me and my sister hit a real flow state when we play together. And then we had like two extra controllers and my brother and my, my husband wanted to play.

• 49:57Speaker 01

  Oh.

• 49:58Drew Afualo?

  And then they joined for maybe one game and I was like, you guys have to get off. Like you, you, you're not operating on the levels that we're operating on.

• 50:05Speaker 01

  It's a game meant to yell at your friends. It is a game specifically meant to scream at your friends and call them fucking idiots and pieces of shit.

• 50:14Drew Afualo?

  Literally.

• 50:15Speaker 01

  Nick, and Nick is like, my friend Danny, like Nick, Nick, listen to me when I say this to you. When I fucking see you, I'm gonna drop you on your fucking head. Yeah, do it. It's on sight.

• 50:25Speaker 01

  Then their little character is playing.

• 50:26Drew Afualo?

  Here. This is cute.

• 50:30Speaker 01

  This wallpaper is cute.

• 50:31Drew Afualo?

  What's your favorite video game of all time?

• 50:33Speaker 01

  Super Metroid.

• 50:34Drew Afualo?

  What is it?

• 50:35Speaker 01

  Super Metroid.

• 50:36Drew Afualo?

  What's that?

• 50:36Speaker 01

  Super Metroid for Super Nintendo or Pokemon Crystal.

• 50:40Drew Afualo?

  Tea. My man loved the fucking Pokemon games. I think I only played like two of them.

• 50:47Speaker 01

  Well, the last two have been shit.

• 50:49Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 50:50Speaker 01

  They, that IP has more money than Disney and they spent, I think, three and a half dollars. On that last game. I mean, Pokemon, if winds and waves are not good, I'm gonna.

• 51:02Drew Afualo?

  I'm gonna freak out.

• 51:03Speaker 01

  I'm gonna scream.

• 51:06Speaker 01

  I love that you play video games. That's great.

• 51:08Drew Afualo?

  Too. I know. It's one of the few things. Sometimes I get asked to stream and I'm like, honestly, I would love to because I do talk a lot when I play games like and I I that's just for me. And honestly, like one time someone was like, what's a game you love to play? Like a video game you love to play with your husband? And I was like, honestly, the one where he sits on the couch and watches me play and laughs at all the jokes I make.

• 51:28Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 51:29Drew Afualo?

  That's my favorite game.

• 51:30Speaker 01

  Well, because when I was when I was little, we would, we would all sit around my cousin, Michael. He was the oldest, so he was the best at video games. And it was, it was kind of like, it, it feels a little bit like a modern version of that.

• 51:40Drew Afualo?

  I used to do that with my cousins all the time, too. Like, we used to make one play that was really good. And then we would all watch and it's fun. And that's how I grew up with my dad, too. Like, my dad and I used to love playing video games together and so still do. When we were younger, like I played, we loved Mario Kart. That was like a huge, my fam, that's like one of the few games my mom likes to play. Cause my mom doesn't really fuck with video games like that. But I was just telling my man this the other day that like, you know, the movie Wreck it Ralph?

• 52:04Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 52:05Drew Afualo?

  When that movie came out, me and my family were so geeked because when I was a kid, I forget, my parents were young when they had me. So like my, they had my sister at eighteen and me at twenty.

• 52:15Speaker 01

  Work.

• 52:16Drew Afualo?

  So like when we were like around the age where we could start playing video games, my parents are like in their late twenties. And I'm forgetting that like everything my parents showed us were things that they thought were fucking awesome. Like, that's kind of like, I realized that because there's a gap in my childhood where like, a lot of women will talk about like the Barbie movies and stuff. I never watched any of those because I only watched like eighties movies with my parents, like.

• 52:38Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 52:38Drew Afualo?

  So that's why Uncle Buck's like one of my favorite movies of all time. Because, oh my god, and it's just one of the funniest movies ever. And I literally think it's because my parents were showing me shit they liked.

• 52:49Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 52:49Drew Afualo?

  So like, I played eighties arcade games like a lot growing up. So like Tapper and like the, I forget the name of the float one. And then there's like Frogger and like things like that. Tetris, all of those were like my favorite video games growing up because I played them with my dad.

• 53:04Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 53:04Drew Afualo?

  And my mom, too. My mom was really good at Tapper.

• 53:06Speaker 01

  We.

• 53:08Drew Afualo?

  That game, my mom is so good at that game. I don't know what it is about that.

• 53:10Speaker 01

  We used to watch my cousin, Michael, play Doom when it was on the old, remember Doom?

• 53:15Drew Afualo?

  Yes, of course. Yeah.

• 53:16Speaker 01

  And it was so scary. I mean, we're all screaming. The monsters were scary. So we'd just be around, we'd turn the lights off and play Doom and like the monster would go, ah! You know, just screaming at the Doom, but Doom was so much fun.

• 53:30Drew Afualo?

  I know, it's so fun.

• 53:31Speaker 01

  I used to love, my cousin, Brian is also gay.

• 53:33Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 53:34Speaker 01

  And we used to play The Sims. My aunt, she was like, ugh, you play the dollhouse.

• 53:38Drew Afualo?

  I love The Sims. I love The Sims.

• 53:42Speaker 01

  We would make two women, uh, gay, live with each other and one in a beautiful gorgeous gown. And we wouldn't let her do anything. All she would do is like work on like playing piano and reading books and blah, blah. And the other one, we were like, what if we like, she doesn't go to bed? So like, you know what I mean? Cause you can keep them up forever. Right. So every time she would try falling asleep, you like tap, you're like, wake up, wake up. You know what I mean? Like, like, how long can we keep her awake for? You know, so it was like, we invite the neighbors over, like, okay.

• 54:11Drew Afualo?

  Oh, my gosh.

• 54:12Speaker 01

  You know, lock the doors, kill them.

• 54:14Drew Afualo?

  I love The Sims and I used to, I would, low key, I would be like, I would be building trad wife communes, like in my Sims unintentionally. But I would literally, I would evict the richest family. Obviously, I would cheat, get all the money. I'd evict the richest family. And then I would make, I would marry her to the best looking one. If there wasn't a good looking one, I would just make another one. And then I would send him to work because I just don't want to see him.

• 54:37Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 54:37Drew Afualo?

  I'm like, I don't fucking care about this guy. Go make money. And I would like send him to work and then she would just have babies and raise them.

• 54:43Speaker 01

  Great.

• 54:43Drew Afualo?

  And then all her kids would do chores and stuff. I would like do it like that. And then I would have, I would marry off the kids and then I would repeat the cycle like over and over again. But like, just the man was just never allowed in the house. I was like, you're not allowed here. I don't care if you're hungry. I don't care. Go figure it out.

• 54:56Speaker 01

  Yeah, we would kill the husbands and then we would like court new ones.

• 55:00Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 55:00Speaker 01

  You know, but we'd have his gravestone right outside the front door. It's like a reminder.

• 55:05Drew Afualo?

  I love decorating, too.

• 55:06Speaker 01

  Oh, I, yeah, I would, I think the password was rosebud.

• 55:10Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 55:10Speaker 01

  That gave you all the money, which in retrospect, could we think of it different? Right, like rosebud, Jesus Christ, it's extreme. But yeah, we would just build like gorgeous houses, like keep getting new husbands, kill the other ones, line up the gravestones. See if that one girl ever sleeps.

• 55:27Drew Afualo?

  Well, guess we'll find out.

• 55:28Speaker 01

  I know, she would, every once in a while, like, like, she's like, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah, nah. You know, we're like, get more espresso. The kids, we want the kids out of the house.

• 55:36Drew Afualo?

  Well, yeah, exactly. I would do that, too. One time I literally got like the college expansion pack where like my sim could go to college. So like I sent her to college and then you know, you can pick like a life goal for them.

• 55:46Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 55:47Drew Afualo?

  And for her, I picked to have, uh, it was like to have twenty boyfriends at once. And I was like, obviously, I'm gonna pick that one, obviously. And I got, I think I got to like twelve and then two of my man, two of my boyfriends had the same class as me and then they broke up with me and then my sim was too sad to do anything.

• 56:02Speaker 01

  I mean, The Sims, it was a weird human experiment, wasn't it?

• 56:05Drew Afualo?

  It's so strange, yeah.

• 56:06Speaker 01

  We like want big houses and then just like do weird things. But I just love, I'll just never forget the imagery of like a woman in a perfect ball gown playing piano. The other one's outside, just like, can I sleep?

• 56:17Drew Afualo?

  I just wanted to see how long we could go without going to sleep. See how long this one stays alive.

• 56:22Speaker 01

  And the gravestones of the ex husbands. How'd your last husband die? Swimming accident.

• 56:29Drew Afualo?

  I realized too, this with my sister the other day, that like a lot of our favorite shows, like there was shows like I didn't, we didn't really latch on to Pokemon or like Dragon Ball Z or anything like that. And I started realizing that all my favorite shows were all women.

• 56:41Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 56:41Drew Afualo?

  Like anytime they were centering on mostly men, I was like, why would I ever?

• 56:44Speaker 01

  Did you ever watch Sailor Moon?

• 56:46Drew Afualo?

  I did love Sailor Moon.

• 56:47Speaker 01

  I love Sailor Moon.

• 56:48Drew Afualo?

  I loved Sailor, uh, love Sailor Moon. And I've recently gotten into anime again because I started watching JJK and I've never watched it before.

• 56:55Speaker 01

  Oh, great. We have a lot of good animes. I mean, I, when I was at like in fourth grade, Sailor Moon came out at six o'clock in the morning at WCIU, Channel twenty six, the U. And I would watch it every morning. I was obsessed.

• 57:05Drew Afualo?

  Oh, my god, yes.

• 57:06Speaker 01

  But it was a solo experiment because like I couldn't talk about it at school. I didn't know if anybody else watched it. That's crazy. Like kids today, like if they like Sailor Moon, they have access to everything.

• 57:14Drew Afualo?

  I know, it's, it's, and it's also, I think, not like to kind of drop back to like the internet. That was another thing I think I loved about the internet, too. Was that you could find community in things that you loved. It's made it easier, I think, for younger kids now who love things like anime or love things like Sailor Moon, to be able to find people who also enjoy it.

• 57:33Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 57:33Drew Afualo?

  So they don't feel as alone. I think that's really sweet of the internet, too. But that's one of the few good things that have come out of it.

• 57:38Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 57:38Drew Afualo?

  I would say.

• 57:39Speaker 01

  Good stuff's come out of the internet.

• 57:40Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, there's a lot of evil come out of it, too, but you know.

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• 58:18Speaker 01

  Laugh, gloss over it.

• 58:21Drew Afualo?

  Okay, now I do want to ask you kind of another career question.

• 58:23Speaker 01

  Sure.

• 58:24Drew Afualo?

  Now that you've kind of like, you're in this like amazing level of comedy and you're getting to do all these wonderful things, what's like the next goal for you? You've done a lot of awesome things. So what's like, what would you say is your next like big, big goal that you're manifesting? This is the place we manifest. I always say that to all my guests.

• 58:38Speaker 01

  God, I'm so bad at manifesting. I feel like, um, I don't know, you know, this is not a pageant answer, but it is the truth. Like, I didn't think I'd get here. Like, I headlined Radio City and I got to do Broadway. I, I'm, I am thrilled. I, I don't have any other giant ambitions. I'd love, things I'd love to do would to be able to play like Amy Sedaris characters. I love playing like weird character. I do a bunch of different voices and stuff.

• 59:06Drew Afualo?

  Yes.

• 59:07Speaker 01

  So I'd love to do.

• 59:08Drew Afualo?

  I was gonna ask if you want to, if you thought about doing voice acting.

• 59:11Speaker 01

  I just voice acted a French film that's now, uh, coming to the, as an anglophone.

• 59:19Speaker 01

  But yeah, I do love doing voice acting. I was a voice actor on Family Guy. I did some other voice acting, too.

• 59:24Drew Afualo?

  I love Family Guy.

• 59:25Speaker 01

  I know, I have to be, me and Marie Fawcett always talk about Family Guy. But, um, but I honestly, if I could just, if I could just keep performing in these beautiful theaters and keep writing jokes, I, I just, I like my life now. Anything else that comes from it is, is great. There's certain things I'd like, like I'd love, I wish, you know, I had easier access to certain things. But yeah, I don't know, I kind of, I like my life. I don't have any more ambition. Like, I don't really want to be like. Wildly famous and have all this money and have six houses and have

• 59:57Drew Afualo?

  No, same.

• 59:58Speaker 01

  Stressful. I like my one apartment and I mean, I wish I I maybe get like a apartment in Rome or something.

• 1:00:05Drew Afualo?

  Fun.

• 1:00:05Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:00:06Drew Afualo?

  I think that's beautiful. I think you look at your career in the world and through a very grateful lens and I think that's beautiful.

• 1:00:13Speaker 01

  Yeah, I didn't think I was beginning of this.

• 1:00:15Drew Afualo?

  From you.

• 1:00:15Speaker 01

  I mean, I already got my hair transplant, so I'm like, I don't have any other ambition.

• 1:00:18Drew Afualo?

  Mama, I've made it.

• 1:00:19Speaker 01

  I made it. That was my first big purchase. I was like, when I get money, I'm gonna get hair transplant and I did it, god damn it.

• 1:00:26Drew Afualo?

  You did it.

• 1:00:26Speaker 01

  I paid my parents back for college. My, we didn't have money growing up at all. And so I was the first kid to go to college. And I had to get loans and I had to work, obviously, blah, blah, blah. And then, you know, I had to pay those loans back. And so my parents were helping me and they don't have money. So finally I was able to do that, which that was like a nice thing for me to be like, hey, thank you.

• 1:00:45Drew Afualo?

  That's so awesome.

• 1:00:45Speaker 01

  But I like being able to work with my friends. I involve all my friends in everything that I do.

• 1:00:50Drew Afualo?

  If I can, I will.

• 1:00:51Speaker 01

  Yeah, I love it. You know, I mean, Nick's ruining my life, but you know, like besides that.

• 1:00:56Drew Afualo?

  But besides that vampire, everything's awesome.

• 1:00:59Speaker 01

  So I know it's not the answer you're looking for. I wish I could say, I want a movie about this.

• 1:01:02Drew Afualo?

  Absolutely is.

• 1:01:03Speaker 01

  And I love those things, but I also, I'd like to do, I'm gonna do Broadway again. So.

• 1:01:08Drew Afualo?

  So fun.

• 1:01:08Speaker 01

  But I don't know, I'm ha- kind of quite happy to tell you the truth.

• 1:01:11Drew Afualo?

  Every day I wish I had the chops to be on Broadway. I wish.

• 1:01:14Speaker 01

  It was the most fun thing I've ever done.

• 1:01:15Drew Afualo?

  I, I can only fucking imagine.

• 1:01:17Speaker 01

  I loved it. Singing with a live orchestra every single night. I mean, I hated the suit I wore, but everyone knew that. But I loved doing it. It was truly so much fun.

• 1:01:26Drew Afualo?

  That's fucking incredible. And if I could sing, I would be a terror. I just know it. I know that's why the universe did not give me that gift. Because they were like, no.

• 1:01:34Speaker 01

  You can take voice lessons.

• 1:01:35Drew Afualo?

  I know. Everyone always tells me that.

• 1:01:38Speaker 01

  Do you wanna sing something right now?

• 1:01:39Drew Afualo?

  Everyone with a wonderful voice always tells me that.

• 1:01:42Speaker 01

  Sure.

• 1:01:43Drew Afualo?

  They're trying to make me feel better. And I, I was like joking with Dylan Mulvaney about Broadway.

• 1:01:49Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:01:49Drew Afualo?

  Love her.

• 1:01:50Speaker 01

  Love.

• 1:01:50Drew Afualo?

  She's the best and a fucking ball. She is so fun to hang out with. Um, but we were talking about Broadway. And I said something that like shocked her because she would just, I think, didn't think I, I knew Broadway like that. I didn't know Broadway ball like that. And I told her, she's like, oh my God, you are a Broadway girl. And I go, yes, girl, I just don't have the chops. Yes, of course I do.

• 1:02:11Speaker 01

  Well, I mean, okay, can you sing at all?

• 1:02:14Drew Afualo?

  I'm not tone deaf. That's what I always say, like.

• 1:02:16Speaker 01

  Well, we're already like, we've moved well beyond to functional here. There's nothing, tone deaf is like you can't get around. It's like a men- it's a little ear mental thing.

• 1:02:25Drew Afualo?

  Right. So I'm like, it's not terrible.

• 1:02:28Speaker 01

  Your speaking voice has nice resonance, so I, I feel like you should be able to manipulate that with the, with the proper training.

• 1:02:35Drew Afualo?

  I mean, maybe. I like, and honestly, like singing is the one thing that truly makes me feel so afraid and like nervous.

• 1:02:43Speaker 01

  So you wouldn't sing right now?

• 1:02:44Drew Afualo?

  No.

• 1:02:45Speaker 01

  Oh. I was like, we could do voice lessons right now.

• 1:02:49Drew Afualo?

  No, I'm getting, me getting nervous now.

• 1:02:51Speaker 01

  Oh, I don't wanna make you uncomfortable. No, no.

• 1:02:52Drew Afualo?

  No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I, I literally just like, I just know it's like, it's not the best. It's not even really that great. So I'm not gonna do it.

• 1:03:01Speaker 01

  I mean, they had Jerry Springer play my role in Chicago, so let's not act like.

• 1:03:05Drew Afualo?

  I know. Honestly, I'm like, what, is there a lot of, is there a speaking role that maybe I can take?

• 1:03:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, you could. Well, but you wanna be in a musical.

• 1:03:12Drew Afualo?

  I do wanna be in a musical.

• 1:03:14Speaker 01

  Why don't you start taking voice lessons now? So you give yourself the year. Take voice lessons like three times a week.

• 1:03:19Drew Afualo?

  Tea.

• 1:03:20Speaker 01

  And then you could see like where you're, where you've settled in a year from now. And if you're ready, then you should go for it.

• 1:03:26Drew Afualo?

  You think?

• 1:03:27Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:03:27Drew Afualo?

  Oh my gosh.

• 1:03:28Speaker 01

  Really passionate about it.

• 1:03:29Drew Afualo?

  I am.

• 1:03:30Speaker 01

  What would you be your dream role?

• 1:03:32Drew Afualo?

  Oh my God, what would be my dream role? Okay, just one. I would wanna be Elle Woods in Legally Blonde the Musical.

• 1:03:38Speaker 01

  Oh, I mean, that would be fantastic.

• 1:03:40Drew Afualo?

  That, that is one of my favorite musicals.

• 1:03:42Speaker 01

  Singing role.

• 1:03:43Drew Afualo?

  I know. That's why I said, I'm like shooting for the moon.

• 1:03:47Speaker 01

  Courtney, take your break.

• 1:03:50Drew Afualo?

  That entire discography, top to bottom, I could do.

• 1:03:53Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 1:03:54Drew Afualo?

  And that's, but that's just, again, like, I feel like the movie Rudy, like I have all of the power and passion, none of the talent.

• 1:04:01Speaker 01

  Now I.

• 1:04:02Drew Afualo?

  Now I need a bunch of fucking big guys to go put their jerseys in the office in Broadway and be like, I'm not playing unless Rudy plays. I need that shit.

• 1:04:10Speaker 01

  Do you want me, do you wanna go do that at the ambassador?

• 1:04:11Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you should, you should. Just work it in. I'm sure you got the time.

• 1:04:14Speaker 01

  I'll do it. I'll get you.

• 1:04:18Drew Afualo?

  Thank you. I appreciate that. But speaking of you being on Broadway, I do have fun facts about you.

• 1:04:22Speaker 01

  No.

• 1:04:22Drew Afualo?

  To kind of round out our, our episode here.

• 1:04:24Speaker 01

  Great.

• 1:04:25Drew Afualo?

  Well, you'll let me know if they're fun.

• 1:04:26Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 1:04:27Drew Afualo?

  And if they're not fun, I count a strike against Amanda.

• 1:04:29Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 1:04:30Drew Afualo?

  And Amanda's our producer.

• 1:04:33Drew Afualo?

  Okay, so first fun fact. Uh, you studied oil painting and opera singing for five months in Umbria, Italy. And you used to sing Ave Maria at weddings and funerals.

• 1:04:43Speaker 01

  Well, yes, I studied Italy, I studied painting in Italy.

• 1:04:47Drew Afualo?

  Okay.

• 1:04:47Speaker 01

  I mean, I was a full blown professional. I studied opera in Chicago.

• 1:04:52Drew Afualo?

  That's crazy.

• 1:04:53Speaker 01

  I was basically like the cancer. So anytime someone died or got married, here came my gay ass showing up.

• 1:05:02Speaker 01

  Ridiculous.

• 1:05:04Drew Afualo?

  That's insane opera singing. Okay, miss, I can sing anything. You're trying to, yeah, I know, my God. Okay, it says, when you first moved to New York, uh, you got a job illustrating a video game that taught office compliance.

• 1:05:18Speaker 01

  Yeah, so I went from a storyboard artist for TV commercials and fashion ads, which was such a strange job. Because you, one week you're drawing for DSW, the next is Lexus, then the Monopoly game. You know, so you kind of have to have, if you can draw like a bunch of different stuff, then you can work. I mean, you can really work.

• 1:05:33Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 1:05:34Speaker 01

  So then my friend Aaron was working for this company. They had like, it was a, it was, I forget what it was called, uh, True Office, I think. And they needed an illustrator to like illustrate everything, right? So I would just sit there and I had two screens. I'd watch the Golden Girls on one screen and then just draw all day. Draw a woman in office, draw this, draw what this would look like, draw that, you know, and just kind of going back and forth, but.

• 1:05:56Drew Afualo?

  Oh my God, you're such a Renaissance woman.

• 1:05:59Speaker 01

  I know, thank you.

• 1:05:59Drew Afualo?

  You can do everything. What the fuck? That's crazy. Can you speak multiple languages?

• 1:06:04Speaker 01

  Four.

• 1:06:05Drew Afualo?

  Okay, bitch. I fucking knew it. I literally knew it. No, I cannot speak four languages, Matteo.

• 1:06:11Speaker 01

  One language, one other language?

• 1:06:12Drew Afualo?

  Well, English, just kidding. Yeah, I can speak Spanish.

• 1:06:14Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 1:06:15Drew Afualo?

  And I can also speak, um, I would say a little bit of Samoan.

• 1:06:18Speaker 01

  Okay.

• 1:06:19Drew Afualo?

  Like, and I can speak a little bit of Hawaiian.

• 1:06:21Speaker 01

  Are you fluent in Spanish?

• 1:06:22Drew Afualo?

  Yes.

• 1:06:22Speaker 01

  Work. When I speak Spanish, it's so funny because I have the strongest Italian accent. So literally when I talk to other Latinos, they're like, you sound like Mario.

• 1:06:35Speaker 01

  But I can't help it. That's like, I learned Italian first and be, I mean, I'm also part Mexican, but like I learned Italian first. And then I don't, I, they're so similar. Those languages are literally so, it's true.

• 1:06:49Speaker 01

  You know, it's like, it's like, I don't know how to change it.

• 1:06:54Drew Afualo?

  Every Renaissance woman I've ever met can speak multiple languages very well. And that pisses me off, by the way.

• 1:07:00Speaker 01

  I think it's because, well.

• 1:07:01Drew Afualo?

  Cause I'm jealous.

• 1:07:02Speaker 01

  Okay, work.

• 1:07:04Drew Afualo?

  No, I wish, I wish I was more, um, I grew up in Southern California, but I grew up in Santa Ana. And so like, uh, literally every single child was Mexican, except me. So like, I grew up, I was almost hearing that more than someone. I heard Spanish way, way, way more and Mexican Spanish specifically, so. Um, and I took Spanish all throughout high school. I took it in college. Actually, in college, I took Samoan too. So. That one I can, I can speak more Spanish than I can speak Samoan. That's just the truth about me. Okay. Uh, this one says, you once got food poisoning from an octopus in Spain.

• 1:07:40Speaker 01

  Yeah, Ki- I was dating this guy named Kike, Hola Kike, and he's from Venezuela, but he lives in Spain now. And I don't even know why I was trying to impress him. I already, he was already my boyfriend. But he like had all this different kind of seafood and, um, like fish. And I was just eating pretty much everything. And then the next day, I'm, I'm not kidding you, I've never had a skin reaction like this. It wasn't just like a rash, purple blisters. And we had to go to the emergency room and get steroid shots to take it down and then.

• 1:08:09Drew Afualo?

  Like overnight, it just popped up on your skin?

• 1:08:11Speaker 01

  And it was so painful and it still, it stayed, I was on two weeks of, of sixty milligrams of prednisone a day. To keep it from like blistering. And it was from some reaction from one of the fucking things I ate. So now I eat nothing from the ocean. I don't care what it is. I don't care how good it is. I don't care how you're trying to convince me. The answer is no, I'll have chicken. The answer is no.

• 1:08:33Drew Afualo?

  Oh my God, if I got something like that too, I'd be on that kind of tip too. That is so scary.

• 1:08:38Speaker 01

  It was horrifying.

• 1:08:39Drew Afualo?

  That sounds like a movie.

• 1:08:40Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:08:41Drew Afualo?

  Oh my God, awful. Well, not a fun fact.

• 1:08:44Speaker 01

  Oh, it was so fun.

• 1:08:44Drew Afualo?

  Just a terrible fact. Okay, last one. It says, when you were living in Chicago, you got a job with a cabaret group and sang Barbra Streisand or Mariah Carey at strip clubs while the dancers were changing.

• 1:08:56Speaker 01

  That is true. I, I wouldn't call it a job as so much as it was a really awful hobby. But yes, every weekend, we would go and we would say, they, this, this child's, uh, community theater program to raise money for that would put on shows. And the only place we could perform these shows, the kids weren't coming, it was adults.

• 1:09:16Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 1:09:16Speaker 01

  Was, we would put on a cabaret show, but it was all at gay strip clubs. And I remember they, they needed singers. So like when everyone's changing, the dancers were changing. You know, they would have me up there and said, pick any songs you want. So just imagine just going to a strip club. There's already six people in the audience.

• 1:09:35Drew Afualo?

  It's cabaret.

• 1:09:36Speaker 01

  It that, yeah. Someone's like, Dick is out, everyone's getting horny. And then I'm up like, until forever. Like imagine the hate. But it was fun. I mean, we'd be in basements.

• 1:09:48Drew Afualo?

  The thought of cabaret and strippers.

• 1:09:51Speaker 01

  And like, you know, in a gay club and it just kind of made sense. I was happy to, yeah, I was happy to do it.

• 1:09:58Drew Afualo?

  Well.

• 1:09:58Speaker 01

  I was, that's why when I started going to open mics, I was like, this is child's play. You guys, you guys don't perform.

• 1:10:04Drew Afualo?

  Know what hard looks like.

• 1:10:06Speaker 01

  You guys go to hydrate where the sign in the bathroom says, no meth. Please.

• 1:10:12Drew Afualo?

  While you're listening to cabaret. You're reading that while you're listening to cabaret. I talk about my first experience in a strip club, my first and last experience in a strip club. Um, nothing short of horrifying. I talk about it being like a haunted house, like just around every corner. Ah, like around every corner. Just horrifying and terrible. And I got a lap dance on a stage to, uh, the song Work From Home by Fifth Harmony.

• 1:10:34Speaker 01

  Work.

• 1:10:35Drew Afualo?

  You familiar?

• 1:10:35Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 1:10:36Drew Afualo?

  Yes, of course.

• 1:10:37Speaker 01

  You think I turned gay yesterday?

• 1:10:39Drew Afualo?

  Right.

• 1:10:40Speaker 01

  But I never know how to react. Like when the lap dance is happening, I'm always like, so go to college?

• 1:10:45Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, like, yeah. It was pretty awful. And there was a lot of talking, like, as he's like grinding on me, he was like asking me questions to get to know me, which was unsettling and for multiple reasons, I'm sure. And he was dressed as a construction worker.

• 1:10:58Speaker 01

  Heck, but also like, for them, it's the same as like them being in the office. So for you, it's this new experience, but for them, it's like working the 4pm shift at Staples.

• 1:11:08Drew Afualo?

  Right.

• 1:11:08Speaker 01

  They're used to it.

• 1:11:09Drew Afualo?

  Just another day.

• 1:11:10Speaker 01

  Yes. It was like, yes. So what do you do? You're like, oh, my, I, you know, like.

• 1:11:16Drew Afualo?

  I know. It was really, it was a really horrifying experience. And then at the end of the, the big finale of it was like, he picked me up like, but upside down.

• 1:11:24Speaker 01

  Work.

• 1:11:24Drew Afualo?

  And then just shook me like, he was shaking the change out of my pockets.

• 1:11:27Speaker 01

  Stripper, go-go boy, exotic dancer. I loved that. I'm not even saying it sarcastically. I think the world of these people. I just think they're like these beautiful people dancing and have so much confidence.

• 1:11:39Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, honestly, they're better than me. And when we left, I was like, I remember he went and gave my mom his number to give to me. Cause he was like, or he asked me if I was single. And I was like, yes. After we did that, it feels like, I can't even look at you, bro.

• 1:11:55Speaker 01

  Years ago, I went to Magic Mike. Me and Nicole Byers.

• 1:11:58Drew Afualo?

  Oh, my gosh.

• 1:11:59Speaker 01

  I went to Vegas because Nicole and her, her exact quote is, I want to get fucked on stage. So we start with the best. We go to Magic Mike. We get the front row, you know, the whole thing and the whole show.

• 1:12:10Drew Afualo?

  Oh, my God. How was it?

• 1:12:11Speaker 01

  I want to get fucked. I want to get fucked. I want to get fucked. So what happens? Um, not only did she not get picked, so she was brought out on stage to the piano number where they lifted her above the entire stage on a piano while everyone danced around her. I have a video of Nicole crying into her goblet vodka soda. Then, uh, one of the strippers came up to me and handed me his number and him and I had sex that night. So.

• 1:12:34Drew Afualo?

  So honestly, it was an awesome fucking night for me.

• 1:12:36Speaker 01

  Well, then Nicole was like, we're going.

• 1:12:37Drew Afualo?

  Someone did get fucked.

• 1:12:38Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 1:12:39Drew Afualo?

  Yes.

• 1:12:40Speaker 01

  Yes. And so then she also got into a fight with a woman at the Cher concert. But, um, we, we, this, the usher was a bitch to me and Nicole.

• 1:12:47Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 1:12:48Speaker 01

  So anyway, then we went to, uh, Thunder Down Under, which really was a downgrade. I mean.

• 1:12:53Drew Afualo?

  I've heard that. I've heard that Magic Mike is better.

• 1:12:55Speaker 01

  Magic Mike's a great show. Thunder Down Under felt a little bit like a quinceañera was gonna happen right after. Like, it was like set up like tables, like.

• 1:13:03Drew Afualo?

  Like if everyone can please move their own chair to the table.

• 1:13:07Speaker 01

  Yeah, that was the feeling. You ever been to like a family party, like a quinceañera, something where it's like, it's like kind of that.

• 1:13:12Drew Afualo?

  You ever been to a wedding like that where you do that? And then they have you move your chair into the tent? Yes. Yes.

• 1:13:18Speaker 01

  And then that happened and they almost ripped off. So she was wig at the time. And then Nicole ended up on stage and she did, they did an orgasm contest. Obviously Nicole won. And then they said, what would you like to say? And she goes, can I get fucked? And instead she took a picture with the cast. That was what they did.

• 1:13:34Drew Afualo?

  Damn. And you're on, then I got another number and got had sex with another guy that night.

• 1:13:40Drew Afualo?

  You're all, so I was really up that weekend. I don't know about her, but I had an awesome weekend.

• 1:13:44Speaker 01

  It just was a ridiculous weekend. I guess Nicole, we should go back to Vegas and get you.

• 1:13:48Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, you gotta, you gotta go relive. Reclaim, reclaim the space. You know what I mean? Me too.

• 1:13:55Drew Afualo?

  Well, I have had a hoot and a holler talking to you.

• 1:13:58Speaker 01

  This was honestly such a treat. I cannot thank you enough for having me on this show.

• 1:14:01Drew Afualo?

  Oh, my God. Thank you for coming on.

• 1:14:02Speaker 01

  We got to do this.

• 1:14:03Drew Afualo?

  Likewise. And I can't wait to hopefully keep doing more things together.

• 1:14:06Speaker 01

  Yes.

• 1:14:07Drew Afualo?

  Uh, but before we sign off for today, like, I would love to know if you have any advice for any aspiring comics or maybe people who have been in it and maybe haven't seen the, the success yet, or what they would measure as success. Like, do you have any words of wisdom for them?

• 1:14:19Speaker 01

  Well, I think the most important thing is you should love your jokes and love the friends that are in your life. I think those two things just keep you on forever. And, you know, it's always changing. Like, the game's always changing, but the thing that doesn't change is work ethic. So get up as much as you possibly can. I think people are always looking for the answer. When I'm on stage, what do I do? It's like, well, that's, that's what stand-up is. There's no class for it. You just have to sign up and go and just go. And don't have the mentality that everybody is against you. When you go into an open mic, comics are gonna try and sniff you out. Once you show up three, four times, you can start to weed out the people that don't matter and find some of your best friends.

• 1:14:58Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 1:14:59Speaker 01

  So I would say just focus on those things and, you know, success shows up in so many different ways. So don't, the goal shouldn't be, I need money. I need this. It should be, you want to be on stage. You want, the goal is to be on stage as much as possible because it doesn't change.

• 1:15:15Drew Afualo?

  And hone your craft, too. It helps you get better, like you said. And I think, I do want to say too, I think it's really amazing what a wonderful supportive friend you've been too, to, cause you're friends with so many other comics, drag queens, or both, or lots of, lots of people who are famous and successful. And I think that's really beautiful that you have so many friends because that's something I think that can be rare in this industry is like finding genuine connection and friendship with people who are not, you could see as competitors, but they're not. Like you, everyone has something, like you said, very unique and amazing to add to the space. And I think when you have that abundance mindset like that, like that's kind of how I move too. Um, and you make friends and you're happy for your friends when they see success

• 1:15:58Drew Afualo?

  and joy and they do all these wonderful things. And then when it happens for you, they're just as happy and supportive of you. I think that's really beautiful. And I, I think that's very obvious about you, which I want to commend you on. I think that's beautiful.

• 1:16:09Speaker 01

  Yeah, we all went through the trenches together. So it's fun that we're all like, we're like.

• 1:16:13Drew Afualo?

  Getting to live in the fun part together.

• 1:16:15Speaker 01

  Yeah.

• 1:16:15Drew Afualo?

  Yeah.

• 1:16:16Speaker 01

  Right.

• 1:16:16Drew Afualo?

  You all moved, you all made it to the other side.

• 1:16:18Speaker 01

  Yes. Oh, that was very nice of you. Thank you.

• 1:16:20Drew Afualo?

  Yeah, of course. I think that's really amazing. And obviously I think you're fucking hilarious.

• 1:16:24Speaker 01

  Oh, well, thank you.

• 1:16:24Drew Afualo?

  So obviously, and that is obvious, obviously. Uh, but thank you so much for coming on the show.

• 1:16:29Speaker 01

  Thank you for having me.

• 1:16:30Drew Afualo?

  I fucking love you. I think you're amazing and so fun. And everyone who maybe hasn't followed Matteo and because maybe you were born yesterday, where can everybody find you?

• 1:16:39Speaker 01

  You can go to Matteo Lane Comedy dot com or just Matteo Lane with two Ts on Instagram or TikTok.

• 1:16:45Drew Afualo?

  Yes. And Matteo is hilarious and you'll see for yourself if you haven't already. And thank you so much for our amazing guests for joining us this week. Thank you all so much for tuning in. Don't forget, new episodes of the comment section drop every Wednesday. You can stream the audio on all streaming platforms, but the video is for free and exclusively on our favorite platform, YouTube. Thank you so much again. Thank you so much for my amazing guest, Matteo Lane, and I'll see you next week. Bye.